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00:00The life of Qadina, the soul of Mecca, Medina
00:05This is what makes a man a human
00:30Thank you very much, may Allah bless you
00:33The greatness of parents, this is our topic today
00:36And who does not know the greatness of parents? Everyone knows
00:40But understanding this in the right way
00:43Very few people feel the respect, dignity, rights and responsibilities of their parents
00:49And they fulfill it
00:50In this regard, whatever has happened so far for its advancement
00:54Whether consciously or unconsciously
00:57Or if you have done something unknowingly
01:01Mischief with parents
01:02So watch today's program
01:04Scholars, in the light of their research
01:06In the light of the Qur'an and Hadith
01:08On the greatness of parents, God willing
01:09Will explain
01:10Will provide answers to our questions
01:12Please come to my right
01:14Mumtaz-e-Maruf, scholar of religion
01:15Hazrat Allama Mufti Muhammad Akmal Madani
01:18Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:20Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullah
01:22Mumtaz-e-Maruf, scholar of religion
01:24Allama Liaqat Hussain Azari
01:26Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:28Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:30Allama Mufti Syed Zia Ghamali
01:32Shah Sahib Gardizi
01:33Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:35Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:36And please come to my left
01:37Sana Khan is present
01:38Mashallah
01:39Saqlain Rashid, Danial Sheikh and Tasadduq Rasool
01:41And Ali Shabbir will also be with us
01:43Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:45Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
01:46In light of the greatness of parents
01:48In the light of the Holy Qur'an
01:49If we want to know something
01:50What will Qibla Mufti Sahib say?
02:16This Ayat-e-Karima
02:17This Ayat-e-Karima
02:18Is a very comprehensive Ayat
02:19In which
02:20The greatness of parents has also been mentioned
02:22And some of their rights have also been mentioned
02:25So Allah Almighty says
02:27Allah Almighty commands
02:29O people, it is you
02:31That you worship only Him
02:33And do good to your parents
02:36So you can imagine
02:38That Allah Almighty has mentioned
02:39His worship
02:40That is, to avoid Shirk
02:41It is a very important thing
02:42With that
02:43He pointed out the goodness of parents
02:46That in the court of Allah
02:47Like Shirk and Kufr
02:49Are extremely bad
02:50And only unity and sincerity
02:52Is acceptable in the court of Allah
02:54In the same way
02:55Doing good to parents
02:57Also has a lot of importance in the court of Allah
03:00And then
03:01By the way, the whole life
03:02You should do good to your parents
03:05You should treat them well
03:06Whether it is in the world of youth
03:08In old age
03:09Or in old age
03:11But especially
03:12He mentioned old age
03:13As you also pointed out
03:15That sometimes it happens
03:16When the father is strong
03:18He is young
03:19Or the mother's eyes are working very fast
03:22So at that time the children tolerate and fear
03:24But when they feel a thread in the hands of the parents
03:27And they see that the father is also getting up and taking my support
03:30Or the mother's legs are shaking
03:33And she raises her hand and tells me
03:35Son, give me support
03:37We need that treatment
03:39At that time our mind is a little dizzy
03:42So that's why Allah
03:43Especially
03:44Based on this part of age
03:46He said
03:47One of the two
03:49Or both
03:50If in front of you
03:51If you step on the threshold of old age
03:53Then don't say uff to them
03:55So here the scholars say
03:57Proof of the command
03:59Proves that
04:00Uff or the word uff
04:02There is no objection
04:03But the fact is
04:04When we say the word uff
04:06In front
04:07So it causes pain and torment
04:09So negation is actually
04:10To cause pain and torment
04:12So from this part
04:14Cursing the parents
04:15Being strict
04:16Saying bad things
04:17Beating
04:19Or favoring the wife in such a way
04:21That the mother feels
04:23See that he favors his wife
04:25He is insulting me
04:27All this will be proven by this
04:28All this because
04:29The actions of tormenting
04:30It is necessary to avoid them
04:32And then
04:33Don't scold them
04:34There is a lot of money in old age
04:36Sometimes we want to give medicine
04:38Parents do not eat
04:39We want them to abstain
04:41Children are in sugar
04:42And they are eating
04:43Gulab jamun from the fridge
04:45Then sometimes
04:46The children get hyper
04:48And get angry
04:49Why don't you abstain
04:50Why don't you take medicine
04:51The tone becomes harsh
04:52There are some parents like this
04:54Because one of our age
04:56Childhood
04:57In which we are stubborn
04:58We believe less
04:59Then there is an old age
05:00Childhood comes back in it
05:01Exactly
05:02The nature becomes almost the same
05:04Then those children
05:05Becomes desperate again and again
05:06Although they think
05:07When you were young
05:08Your fifty times
05:10In response to your obstinacy
05:11Parents
05:12With the power of tolerance
05:13So he put it from the chest
05:15You can't tolerate a word
05:17You can't tolerate a situation
05:19So he forbade
05:20Don't be harsh
05:21Don't scold
05:22And say soft things to them
05:24It shouldn't be that
05:25You are playing a game
05:26In sharing
05:27And you are very close to winning
05:28And mom called
05:29And you lost
05:30And you blamed mom
05:32If the wife comes and complains
05:34Your ears are full
05:35Slave son
05:36That your mother did this
05:38So he confirmed with his mother
05:39Without
05:40He started talking on his chest
05:42And misbehaved with his mother
05:44All these things are forbidden
05:46And in the second verse Allah said
05:48Allah said
06:06Maybe my voice is a little disturbed
06:08I get disturbed in the middle
06:10Sorry
06:11So Allah said
06:12Allah advises you about parents
06:14And especially the mother
06:16So what was the advice
06:17It is coming later
06:18In the middle, as an excuse
06:19He mentioned the mother
06:20That your mother kept you in her womb
06:23Suffering pain
06:25And her
06:26That is, it is in two years to give birth to a child
06:28So he showed this favor
06:30Explained
06:31One is that the mother keeps it in the womb
06:33Then the pain of birth is separate
06:35And after that
06:36For two years
06:37Blood is given to the liver
06:38Because of which
06:39Mother's bones weaken
06:40The body weakens
06:41Whatever she eats
06:42More of it
06:43The child takes
06:44Now what is the advice
06:45That mine
06:46And thank your parents
06:47Allah
06:48These children sometimes say
06:50If any parents
06:51Treat well
06:52Then old age
06:53Then parents
06:54Make them feel
06:55Son, we raised you
06:56Made you young
06:57What did you do
06:58All parents do this
06:59It was your duty
07:01Now think
07:02If it was really a duty
07:04There is no denial
07:05But despite being obligatory
07:07What is Allah saying
07:08Remember the favor
07:10Treat your parents well
07:12It means
07:13If all parents are doing
07:14They are doing duty
07:15So what does it mean
07:16Forget their favors
07:17Keeping the word of duty in front
07:20You are not ready to give them
07:22Any additional credit
07:24Allah is saying
07:25Thank your parents
07:27And come back to me
07:28Scholars say
07:29This is a sign
07:30If you do not obey Allah's command
07:32Then wait for the Day of Judgment
07:34You will be given a reward there
07:36Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar
07:38What
07:39How important things are
07:40Okay
07:41If parents say to themselves
07:42This is our right
07:44Treat us this way
07:46This is later
07:47Allah is glorifying them
07:49How important they are
07:51How much we have to take care of them
07:56And how much we have to be kind to them
07:59As Mufsi said in the Qibla
08:01If the parents are their own
08:03But as Muslims
08:05Allah's command is for everyone
08:07And if there is a son
08:08Or a daughter
08:09Then for that too
08:10A blood relation
08:12This is also very important
08:14Okay
08:15First thing
08:16We have taken these commandments from the Holy Quran
08:18Which show the greatness of parents
08:21And Qibla Mufti Sahab gave a very good example
08:23The second source we have
08:25It is the hadith of the Prophet
08:27In its context
08:29In its light
08:30We would like to know
08:32About the importance and greatness of parents
08:34Allama Liaqat Hussain Azhari
08:37Respected brother
08:38In the hadith of the Prophet
08:39The Prophet
08:40In many places
08:43Said this
08:45In Bukhari
08:46In Muslim
08:47In the hadith of the Prophet
08:49In the hadith of the Prophet
08:51A person said
08:52O Prophet of Allah
08:54Who has the most right on me?
08:57As we have discussed the rights of worship
09:00There is an order
09:01I worship Allah
09:02And I do not complain about anything
09:03And I am kind to my parents
09:05He said O Prophet of Allah
09:06Who has the most right?
09:07The Prophet said
09:08Your mother
09:10Your mother
09:11Then he said O Prophet of Allah
09:13Then who has the right?
09:14The Prophet said
09:15Your mother
09:16Your mother
09:17The third time he asked
09:18The Prophet of Allah said
09:19Your mother
09:21The reason for this
09:22Is the verse of the Holy Quran
09:23Which Qibla Mufti Sahab has read
09:24That the mother who endures so much pain
09:27On and on
09:29After and after
09:30The pain after pain
09:32She keeps it in her stomach
09:33After that
09:34The blood of the liver
09:35Three times
09:37The Prophet of Allah
09:38Said the mother
09:40And the fourth time
09:41He said the father
09:42So this is a very high level
09:44Of the parents
09:46Similarly
09:47A person said
09:48O Prophet of Allah
09:49I want to pledge allegiance to you
09:51Of migration and Jihad
09:54The Prophet of Allah said
09:56Do Jihad
09:57But tell me
09:58That your parents are alive
10:00In a hadith of the Prophet
10:01Two hadiths
10:02One was of the parents
10:03And the other was of the mother
10:04The Prophet of Allah said
10:05Your parents are alive
10:06He said
10:07Serve them
10:08In the second hadith
10:09The Prophet of Allah said
10:10He was asked
10:11I want to go for Jihad
10:13The Prophet of Allah said
10:14Do Jihad
10:15But tell me
10:16Your mother
10:17Is alive
10:18He said
10:19Serve them
10:20Because
10:21Paradise is under the feet of the mothers
10:24Paradise
10:25Is under the feet of the mothers
10:27The Prophet of Allah
10:28This is what
10:29He is saying
10:30In the same way, it is said about the father that the father is the middle door of the doors of paradise.
10:36If you want, you can waste it. If you want, you can keep it.
10:40So, the parents have a lot of rights, a lot of status, a lot of status.
10:44In fact, the Prophet said, he asked, O Messenger of Allah, what is the status of the parents?
10:48He said,
10:51He said, either it is your paradise or it is your hell.
10:56That is, by serving them, you will attain paradise, and by displeasing them, you will attain hell.
11:01He said, the person who wakes up in the morning and sees his parents' faces with love,
11:07Allah the Almighty rewards him with the reward of Hajj Mabroor.
11:11Allah the Almighty opens the doors of paradise for him.
11:15He said, O Messenger of Allah, if a person sees it a hundred times,
11:19He said, as many times as he sees, Allah the Almighty is with him.
11:23That is, he just has to see it.
11:25Then his service, his love for him,
11:28Allah the Almighty says,
11:35He said, spread the wings of mercy.
11:37And O Master and Master, as they have nurtured us in our childhood.
11:41Look, there is a Lord of the worlds, and the Quran is calling the parents Lord.
11:46He said, they are the ones who nurture.
11:48He said, now look, there is a child.
11:51The child is small, he suddenly starts crying.
11:54It is not known whether there is pain in the ear or in the stomach.
11:57There is no one to tell.
11:58There is no such thermometer or parameter to tell.
12:00But sacrifice yourself for the greatness of that mother,
12:03that she finds out from somewhere that my son has pain here.
12:08And these parents, when they get old,
12:11They get old, the temperament becomes irritable, memory weakens,
12:15The forehead becomes weak.
12:17As Mustafa said, you used to ask again and again,
12:20He used to answer again and again.
12:22And today you are not able to answer even once.
12:25He said, what are you doing?
12:27And then you want Allah the Almighty to be pleased.
12:31Big nights come, people come to Mufti sahib, to us.
12:34Say a prayer.
12:36He said, prayers will not be accepted.
12:38He said, if there is a center of prayer,
12:42If there is a true teacher, then your parents are in the house.
12:53He said, their raised hands and their prayers,
12:56Which come from the heart.
12:58Don't say, mother, pray.
13:00Do something, do something.
13:02Pray with your heart.
13:06Subhanallah, Allama sahib.
13:09What to say, what to say.
13:11Really, those who have parents,
13:13Consider them as heaven, Allah has given them in this world.
13:16The biggest blessing.
13:17Those who do not have,
13:18For them also there is one thing,
13:19That they can do Ishaal-e-Sawab,
13:20For them they can pray for forgiveness.
13:22We will be back after a short break.
13:24Stay with us.
13:35This is a program on the greatness of parents.
13:47The topic is also of greatness.
13:50Obviously, the greatness of which is being stated,
13:53The greatness of which is stated by the Quran.
13:55It is necessary for every child to keep these things in mind.
14:00With parents,
14:02These are the commandments of the Quran and Hadith.
14:04The Hadith-e-Karima.
14:06How should be the treatment with parents,
14:08From the side of the children.
14:10He will say, whatever is happening socially,
14:12It is in front of you.
14:14In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
14:15Allahumma salli ala Muhammadin wa ala ala Muhammadin.
14:17Congratulations.
14:18Thank you, Mr. Rais.
14:20The respect of parents,
14:21Their greatness, their value and status,
14:23In the Quran and in the Hadith of the Prophet,
14:25Where it was stated,
14:27In addition to this,
14:28How should be our attitude and behavior with parents,
14:30How should be the treatment.
14:31This is also in the Quran and in the Hadith of the Prophet,
14:33It was described in detail.
14:35If the Prophet had seen such matters,
14:38The Prophet himself would have rectified them.
14:40And the beauty of treatment related to parents is emphasized.
14:44First of all,
14:45Whenever you are present in the court of your parents,
14:47With extreme respect,
14:48With respect,
14:49Treat your parents with respect.
14:52The verse of the Holy Quran,
14:54The Mufti has just recited,
14:57The method mentioned in this,
14:59Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas,
15:01Related to this verse,
15:02When you are present in the court of your parents,
15:04The condition should be that,
15:06As a slave stands in front of his master,
15:09There should be more respect and etiquette than that.
15:12Because,
15:13If the master is angry,
15:15If the master has an inappropriate attitude,
15:18He will be strict for a few days.
15:20For a few days,
15:22The duty will be stopped,
15:24He will be stopped,
15:25He will be harassed,
15:26Or any such problem may arise.
15:28This is temporary,
15:29Allah will create more reasons for it.
15:31But,
15:32God forbid,
15:33If due to someone's behavior,
15:34The matters of the parents are affected,
15:36Anger comes,
15:38The parents' heart is hurt,
15:39Then it is not a matter for a few days.
15:41It is a matter of the destruction of the world and the hereafter.
15:44If it is not compensated,
15:46Then Allah is strict in the court of the Lord of the worlds.
15:48So,
15:49As a slave stands in front of his master,
15:51He lives with respect and etiquette,
15:53More than that,
15:54There should be a matter of respect with the parents.
15:56And,
15:57There should be a matter of good treatment.
15:59Along with that,
16:00Whenever the parents visit,
16:02Just now,
16:03Qibla Allama Sahib has read Hadith Mubarak,
16:05Whenever they visit,
16:07There should be respect in that visit too.
16:09That is,
16:10They should not see from the point of view of being eaten.
16:12That there is a problem,
16:13There is a problem,
16:14And,
16:15It is a matter of restraint.
16:16With extreme respect,
16:18That is,
16:19With respect,
16:20He will look at their faces,
16:21So,
16:22According to that,
16:23He will show mercy.
16:24So,
16:25Whenever the parents visit,
16:26And,
16:27This is a great reward from Allah,
16:28In whose house,
16:29Allah has given safety and health to the parents.
16:32That,
16:33He cools his eyes in the morning and evening,
16:35From seeing them.
16:36And,
16:37He gets the blessings of seeing them.
16:39For that,
16:40Allah has kept the best means to get the reward of Hajj-e-Makbool in his house.
16:44So,
16:45Whenever the parents visit,
16:46With extreme respect,
16:47With respect,
16:48And,
16:49Along with that,
16:50We,
16:51Should assess our affairs,
16:52That,
16:53In our budget,
16:54All the members of the family,
16:55We have allocated a share related to all of them.
16:57For the wife's jewelry,
16:59And,
17:00There are regular expenses,
17:01And,
17:02A share of the budget is allocated.
17:04For every child,
17:05We give pocket money separately.
17:06So,
17:07Even in the service of the parents,
17:08Whenever we have the ability,
17:09We present something or the other as our own.
17:11That is,
17:12We imagine that,
17:13The parents are in this old age,
17:14When,
17:15They are not able to make a living.
17:16And,
17:17They,
17:18In this condition,
17:19They are in need of us.
17:20They are in need of us,
17:21To fulfill their needs.
17:22Just like,
17:23We were in need of them,
17:24In their childhood.
17:25So,
17:26If,
17:27The parents are in need of something,
17:28Then,
17:29It will be a burden on their souls,
17:30That,
17:31They spread their hands in front of their children,
17:32And,
17:33Ask from their children.
17:34So,
17:35We have to realize this thing,
17:36That,
17:37Whenever Allah,
17:38Gives us,
17:39Salary,
17:40And,
17:41Wazifa,
17:42Then,
17:43In that,
17:44For the service of the parents,
17:45Especially,
17:46We should go,
17:47And,
17:48With respect,
17:49To the wife,
17:50In her married life,
17:51To the wife,
17:52To take,
17:53Something of her choice,
17:54And,
17:55Something of her liking,
17:56Is a very,
17:57Difficult matter.
17:58So,
17:59While,
18:00Serving the parents,
18:01While serving them,
18:02Wherever,
18:03The people,
18:04Related to our house,
18:05The wife,
18:06The children,
18:07They,
18:08Fulfill their wishes,
18:09Take things of their choice,
18:10Then,
18:11Ask from the parents,
18:12What do they need?
18:13In this old age,
18:14What does their heart do?
18:15What to eat?
18:16What to wear?
18:17What to use?
18:18All these things,
18:19As,
18:20The words have been said,
18:21Their,
18:22Their temperament,
18:23Their condition,
18:24Is like that of a child.
18:25So,
18:26We should go to them,
18:27And ask their temperament,
18:28And,
18:29Take care of their likes and dislikes,
18:30And,
18:31According to their likes,
18:32We should go,
18:33And present them something,
18:34And,
18:35Consider it to be a blessing for us.
18:36And,
18:37Along with that,
18:38When,
18:39In the matters of the house,
18:40When,
18:41If our parents are alive,
18:42Then,
18:43Their opinion should always be given priority.
18:44That is,
18:45There was a time,
18:46When,
18:47When,
18:48When the children grow up,
18:49Then,
18:50Their opinion,
18:51Is given priority,
18:52In their own decisions.
18:53Their opinion is not given importance.
18:54So,
18:55That feeling of deprivation,
18:56Which,
18:57Allah has,
18:58Given to the house,
18:59For a long time.
19:00Now,
19:01All those conditions,
19:02See that,
19:03The importance of our opinion,
19:04Is not given to it.
19:05So,
19:06It is,
19:07A feeling of inferiority,
19:08Or,
19:09A matter of deprivation,
19:10So,
19:11If any opinion is taken,
19:12From the parents,
19:13Or if any,
19:14Such matter is taken to be taken into,
19:15Considerance of
19:16Allah has given blessings in his advice as well, where he has given, he has seen the world
19:22So if we give precedence to his opinion in our matters, the matter that was presented in the presence of the Prophet was that
19:28who preferred his wife more than his parents
19:31So the Prophet had expressed extreme anger and it was a matter of strictness
19:35So if we, God forbid, degrade the opinion of the parents
19:40If the opinion of the parents is not given any importance, then it is certainly a cause of torture for the parents
19:44So that is why, with our attitudes and our actions, we should try to somehow
19:50become a means of comfort for the parents, a means of happiness for the parents
19:54We will try that Allah will give blessings in this world as well
19:58And in the hereafter, Allah will surely give its reward
20:01Very good, you have said it. And from the beginning till now, the discussion that has taken place is that
20:05the parents should become elders and their food, drink, medicine, comfort, everything should be taken care of
20:12There is only one situation where the children are young and the parents are not old
20:16Now there, it is a big problem for them to listen to their father, the children become a team
20:22That no, that is our decision, you people are out of date
20:25You do not know where the world is going, you are telling your decisions
20:28We will tell you what the decisions of the new world are
20:31In this way, the matters have come to be seen, in fact, the misbehavior with the parents increases to such an extent
20:37As we see some incidents on social media, it is very sad to see
20:41And all this is the result of distance from the religion
20:42In any case, in this regard, we are being educated today
20:45We will continue this further, Inshallah
20:47Today is Friday night and we are moving towards the praise of the Lord of Glory
20:52In the name of the Lord of Glory, we will present the gift of praise
20:55Our four Sanahs, In the name of Allah
21:11Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
21:17Kehtiye yeh phoolon ki rida
21:21Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
21:26Allah, Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
21:34Ashjaar ke baddo ne bada
21:38Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
21:52Badal ne asma pe likha
21:55Allah Hu Allah
21:59Badal ne asma pe likha
22:02Allah Hu Allah
22:05Badal ne asma pe likha
22:09Allah Hu Allah
22:12Parbat ki kataaron ki rida
22:16Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
22:33Hu surah-e-Yaseen ke hu surah-e-Rahman
23:00Quran ke lafzu ki sada
23:04Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
23:21Karta gaye Sanah teri barasta hua paani
23:41Dariya bhi hai masroof-e-Sanah
23:45Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
24:02Shabnam giri jo phoolon par padhti hui Sanah
24:28Bulbul ne dekhkar yeh kaha
24:32Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah
24:56Allah Hu Allah, Allah Hu Allah