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Aalim Aur Aalam | Shan e Iftar | Waseem Badami | 9 March 2025 | #shaneramazan

Guest:
Mufti Muhammad Akmal,
Allama Muhammad Raza Dawoodani.

An informative segment with a Q&A session that features religious scholars from different sects who will share their knowledge with the audience.

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00:00How can I face you? I am falling, please hold me.
00:13Welcome to you.
00:15This is our session with the scholars.
00:17With us is Mr. Qibla Mufti Akmal.
00:20Mr. Qibla Dr. Mohammad Raza Dawood Ali.
00:22Thank you very much.
00:24The telephone number is coming on your screen,
00:26on which you can send your questions.
00:28And obviously, as the days go by,
00:30the nature of the questions is also changing.
00:33Earlier, we used to see that some questions
00:35related to the moon come up in the early days.
00:38Then it is that fasting is broken by doing this.
00:40There are more questions related to Mubtilat-e-Ruza.
00:42Now the nature is changing a little bit.
00:44Anyway, whatever questions you send,
00:46we will keep including them.
00:48We include the first video question.
00:51Sir.
00:52I am Fahmida from Lahore.
00:54I have three daughters.
00:56And the youngest daughter,
00:58I have given to my brother.
01:00He does not have children.
01:02It has been 12 years since his marriage.
01:04So the youngest daughter,
01:06she wants to have her name inscribed.
01:09She wants to have her name inscribed.
01:11Like the name of the father of the child,
01:13will be changed and her name will be inscribed.
01:15So what is it in religion,
01:17I should be told.
01:19Suitable, okay.
01:20Yes, Qibla.
01:21In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
01:23By the way,
01:25it is forbidden to do this
01:27with the intention of changing the lineage.
01:29This? Sorry.
01:30It is forbidden.
01:31It is forbidden.
01:32Okay.
01:33Look at this.
01:34The Prophet said that
01:36whoever attributes himself
01:38to a non-father,
01:39he will go to hell.
01:41And it was done at that time
01:43because some people
01:45in their family,
01:46the elders did not do anything.
01:48And in the Arabs,
01:49there was a gathering,
01:50they used to state the deeds of their elders.
01:52So some people attribute themselves
01:54to other families
01:56and create things for their pride.
01:58This was the basic logic.
02:00Now the situation is like this.
02:02If they intend to change the lineage,
02:04then it will be wrong.
02:06And if it is not so,
02:08but whoever asks that
02:10this is your daughter,
02:11they should say that no,
02:12this is someone else's.
02:13We have adopted her.
02:14We should introduce her,
02:15make her famous.
02:16But under the compulsion of documentation,
02:18they should inscribe their name in it.
02:20Because where the real father
02:22will come again and again in different places,
02:24then there will be no problem in this.
02:26Okay.
02:27In this, tell me the context.
02:29Will there be a problem of Mehram or Na Mehram?
02:31That is, the girl,
02:32that is, the girl's brother's daughter.
02:34Will there be Mehram or Na Mehram?
02:36What will happen?
02:37Yes.
02:38There is a problem of Na Mehram in this.
02:40Yes.
02:41So let's do this.
02:42This woman will give her sister's milk.
02:44If it is a boy,
02:46within two and a half years,
02:48Okay.
02:49If it is a boy,
02:50within two and a half years,
02:51then Rida'at will be proven.
02:52And the relationship of Mehram will be established.
02:54Because she will become his aunt.
02:55Okay.
02:56She will give him his sister's milk.
02:57Otherwise not.
02:58Otherwise not.
02:59And if it is a girl,
03:00then she will become Mehram for her husband.
03:02But if it is not,
03:03then as soon as she becomes famous,
03:05this woman will be a stranger to this boy.
03:07And if it is a girl,
03:08then her husband will be a stranger to her.
03:10Oh.
03:11Qibla,
03:12first tell me in this,
03:13what will happen to Mehram?
03:14And that is,
03:16by making this son,
03:17or adopting him like this,
03:18does it make a difference to Mehram or not?
03:20Tell me Mehram.
03:21In the name of Allah,
03:22Rahman, Rahim.
03:23The basic thing is the same.
03:24It is very good to call someone a son or daughter with affection.
03:27In the same way,
03:28it is very good to remember him in prayer.
03:30In front of someone else.
03:31But,
03:32where it is a matter of foster parenting,
03:34it is good.
03:35It is possible that through him,
03:36there is a shortcoming in his life,
03:38it will be fulfilled.
03:39And those feelings of love,
03:40are also with his full enthusiasm.
03:42There is no doubt about it.
03:43Nothing can be doubted.
03:44Absolutely.
03:45But,
03:46the technicalities in it,
03:47it is necessary to take care of it.
03:48This topic itself,
03:49in the Holy Quran,
03:50Allah has discussed it.
03:51Okay.
03:52In Surah Ahzab,
03:53Chapter 33,
03:54in the very beginning,
03:55Allah has said this,
03:56Call them with respect to their father.
04:01The matter of lineage,
04:02it is a sensitive matter.
04:03So,
04:04there should not be any change in it.
04:05In fact,
04:06we will say here,
04:07if the administrative issue is very complicated,
04:09then it is fine.
04:10But,
04:11Avoid it.
04:12Avoid it.
04:13Along with it,
04:14the other issue,
04:15the issue of Mehram and non-Mehram,
04:16that will remain.
04:17In that,
04:18taking care of the conditions of Rizaat,
04:19if milk is given,
04:20if all that is there,
04:21then it is fine.
04:22Otherwise,
04:23that issue will remain in its place.
04:24So,
04:25practically,
04:26how much is possible?
04:27Living in the same house,
04:28with a girl,
04:29what should we do?
04:30The solution is the same.
04:31Either through Rizaat,
04:32or it should be addressed.
04:33Or,
04:34taking care of Hijab,
04:35the rest,
04:36all other things should be taken care of.
04:37This is possible.
04:38This is it.
04:39This is the Shariah command.
04:40One thing has come out,
04:41so,
04:42there are messages like this.
04:43First, you tell us.
04:44Obviously,
04:45those women,
04:46who have no children,
04:47so,
04:48they ask,
04:49is there any duty?
04:50They also said,
04:51it has been so many years since they got married,
04:52they have no children.
04:53So,
04:54obviously,
04:55the worldly demands are there,
04:56so,
04:57medical,
04:58they keep looking.
04:59But,
05:00is there any such duty,
05:01or any Surah,
05:02or anything like this?
05:03What is the fundamental thing,
05:04Wasim,
05:05in this?
05:06One,
05:07that,
05:08addressing the medical issues,
05:09taking care of them.
05:10Then,
05:11what do you not have?
05:12You do not have children.
05:13Others,
05:14there are many,
05:15who do not have parents.
05:16Right.
05:17In this world,
05:18if you see,
05:19there is no parity.
05:20Right.
05:21Some are less here,
05:22some are less there,
05:23some are more here,
05:24some are more there.
05:25You do not have children,
05:26it is possible,
05:27that you have wealth.
05:28After that,
05:29there,
05:30there is no father,
05:31his father has passed away,
05:32or his mother has passed away.
05:33When this is the situation,
05:34then,
05:35you should try,
05:36that,
05:37how can you get rid of
05:38his deprivation?
05:39Then,
05:40God willing,
05:41God will remove,
05:42your deprivation.
05:43For example,
05:44there,
05:45there is no wealth,
05:46to raise children,
05:47and you do not have children.
05:48So,
05:49shift some wealth,
05:50there.
05:51With this intention,
05:52God says,
05:53I pray to you,
05:54and I believe,
05:55that I will continue this process.
05:56I will not let this process,
05:57end.
05:58I will continue this process,
05:59if you give me status,
06:00if you give me life,
06:01so that,
06:02this child,
06:03can stand on his feet.
06:04Right.
06:05But,
06:06with that,
06:07I pray to you,
06:08that,
06:39you keep in mind,
06:40that,
06:41God has distributed,
06:42and,
06:43we are not aware of it.
06:44Right.
06:45So,
06:46there is no need,
06:47to be disappointed.
06:48And,
06:49keep in mind,
06:50that,
06:51if I do a job,
06:52if God has not given me,
06:53children,
06:54then,
06:55I will not get them.
06:56Right.
06:57But,
06:58adopting means and means,
06:59is a Sunnah,
07:00so,
07:01we are doing it.
07:02What is the benefit of this?
07:03After doing big jobs,
07:04when our sisters,
07:05are deprived,
07:06they say,
07:07that,
07:09nothing has happened.
07:10Nothing has happened.
07:11Or,
07:12they start hating Allah.
07:13The problem is,
07:14Allah has made it clear in the Quran,
07:15that,
07:16whoever He wants,
07:17He gives sons.
07:18Whoever He wants,
07:19He gives daughters.
07:20Whoever He wants,
07:21He gives both.
07:22He does not give anything.
07:23Right.
07:24So,
07:25this is the distribution of Allah,
07:26and we have to be content with it.
07:27And,
07:28it is not that,
07:29if we are deprived in this world,
07:30we will be deprived in the hereafter.
07:31If such deprived people,
07:32are content with Allah's will,
07:33then,
07:34they will get so much in the hereafter,
07:35that,
07:36maybe,
07:37our whole family,
07:38would not have children.
07:39They would have been patient.
07:40They would have got this.
07:41There are such rewards.
07:42That is why,
07:43we should have faith in the matter of destiny.
07:44And,
07:45we should get it checked medically.
07:46We have seen,
07:47that,
07:48they went to a Baba,
07:49and he says,
07:50first,
07:51finish the medical treatment.
07:52Yes,
07:53like this.
07:54Baba is present.
07:55Yes,
07:56yes.
07:57That means,
07:58he wants to finish those resources,
07:59and if he gets it,
08:00then,
08:01I should get the total credit.
08:02Baba gave the child.
08:03Yes,
08:04yes,
08:05yes.
08:06So,
08:07first,
08:08you should get a medical test done.
08:09In fact,
08:10in our academy,
08:11we teach our children.
08:12We explain in very careful words,
08:13when we are training them,
08:14about marital life.
08:15That,
08:16all these things,
08:17should be done before marriage.
08:18Yes.
08:19Usually,
08:20there are no tests.
08:21Usually,
08:22religious people are healthy.
08:23But,
08:24marital life,
08:25becomes so complicated,
08:26because,
08:27later,
08:28when these problems come up,
08:29then,
08:30we have seen,
08:31the house breaking.
08:32That is why,
08:33if these channels run properly,
08:34then,
08:35it is like,
08:36the Prophet said,
08:37that,
08:38in some things,
08:39you are deprived.
08:40So,
08:41Allah has given many things.
08:42That is why,
08:43the government said,
08:44always,
08:45in worldly matters,
08:46look at the one below you.
08:47Yes.
08:48When you do this,
08:49then,
08:50there will not be any
08:51disrespect of Allah,
08:52in your sight.
08:53So,
08:54do this process,
08:55and Allah will make it better.
08:56And,
08:57Qibla,
08:58is it better in this?
08:59Because,
09:00obviously,
09:01the topic has come up.
09:02As I have seen,
09:03earlier,
09:04that,
09:05if there is a relationship,
09:06then,
09:07the thalassemia test,
09:08is done,
09:09in such a way,
09:10that,
09:11there is no noise.
09:12It is done,
09:13so that,
09:14later,
09:15both minor thalassemia,
09:16and children,
09:17become major thalassemia.
09:18They check it.
09:19In most cases,
09:20they confirm it later.
09:21First,
09:22they check it.
09:23Is it a good practice?
09:24It is a very good practice.
09:25Absolutely,
09:26there is no harm in it.
09:27Right.
09:28If someone is afraid,
09:29that,
09:30it will not come out.
09:31Yes.
09:32They are afraid,
09:33that,
09:34it will not come out.
09:35Absolutely.
09:36Neither,
09:37your life will be ruined.
09:38Now,
09:39we had a child,
09:40who died.
09:41His name was Allama Zubair.
09:42Really?
09:43His parents,
09:44had minor thalassemia.
09:45Yes,
09:46he became major.
09:47Yes,
09:48he became major.
09:49His life was like that.
09:50Every month,
09:51there was a blood change,
09:52and other things.
09:53But,
09:54MashaAllah,
09:55he was a very courageous child.
09:56But,
09:57recently,
09:58he died in his youth.
09:59There were other problems.
10:00So,
10:01it should be checked.
10:02Yes.
10:03Instead of doing this,
10:04use your life,
10:05for religion.
10:06You have time,
10:07and you have to take a lot of time for your children,
10:09do some charity.
10:10Work for the progress of your country,
10:12do not waste time.
10:13Otherwise,
10:14these sisters,
10:15sisters,
10:16and aunts,
10:17and this,
10:18this,
10:19this.
10:20Oh,
10:21you did not have a child yet?
10:22This,
10:23this.
10:24Oh,
10:25when will it be?
10:26How many marriages,
10:27it has been six years?
10:28Yes.
10:29What is your sorrow,
10:30what is your trouble?
10:31If you have a child,
10:32then do the second marriage.
10:33Yes.
10:34She is listening to someone,
10:35and she is in trouble.
10:36So,
10:37use yourself,
10:38do your work,
10:39InshaAllah,
10:40this matter will also end.
10:41If you are deprived of children,
10:42at least the country and religion will benefit you.
10:44So,
10:45Mr. Zafar,
10:46when you talk about tests,
10:47you also understand that this is a good thing.
10:48And,
10:49we have also talked about the childless.
10:50What we are talking about is,
10:51the rest of the children,
10:52or the society,
10:53they do not have any responsibility.
10:54That is,
10:55if a mother is childless,
10:56then it is not,
10:57that is,
10:58it is that hard for you to judge,
10:59that I am asking this mother,
11:00in a full gathering,
11:0134 times,
11:02that is,
11:03any good news?
11:04I am hurting her emotions.
11:05You mean,
11:06a little,
11:07I do not say harshly,
11:08I do not say,
11:09be ashamed,
11:10be kind,
11:11that why,
11:12every,
11:13that poor woman,
11:14is seen from a different angle,
11:15that every person comes from her,
11:16this is the question asked.
11:17You do not know,
11:18when it happens,
11:19you will know,
11:20brother,
11:21be kind,
11:22this is not the responsibility of others.
11:23O Lord,
11:24I am very pleased with you,
11:25O Lord,
11:26that you have decided my share,
11:27that I have the opportunity,
11:28to be pleased with it.
11:29In Dua-e-Kulmah,
11:30these are the sentences,
11:31of Maula-e-Kainat,
11:32that he has narrated.
11:33In the same way,
11:34if you notice,
11:35that the other people,
11:36they too,
11:37should be pleased with the will of God.
11:38That is,
11:39they should be pleased with the will of God,
11:40but the other people,
11:41should be pleased with the will of God,
11:42according to their fate,
11:43then life will be better.
11:44Troubles,
11:45difficulties,
11:46problems,
11:47are there,
11:48those problems,
11:49are there,
11:50but they are not there,
11:51but they are there,
11:52but the difficulties,
11:53are there,
11:54but they are not there.
11:55To mention those problems,
11:56in such a way,
11:57in front of others,
11:58is like,
11:59as if a wound is being healed.
12:00If you try,
12:01to dig it,
12:02and make it into a scar,
12:03then don't do that.
12:04If you can do,
12:05something with it,
12:06that can heal,
12:07the wound in his heart,
12:08then that is good.
12:09Otherwise,
12:10it is not good to heal the wound,
12:11and make it a scar.
12:12And in the communities,
12:13that you have said,
12:14in fact,
12:15in some organized communities,
12:16this process was started.
12:17What was the benefit of that?
12:18In those communities,
12:19the thalassemia,
12:20is finished.
12:21Overall,
12:22the data collected,
12:23is that,
12:24this is the same disease.
12:25It is finished.
12:26As a result,
12:27the families,
12:28live a happy life.
12:29So,
12:30it is very good,
12:31by seeing these samples,
12:32the whole other communities,
12:33are also getting cured.
12:34So,
12:35there is a lot of support,
12:36from both sides.
12:37A lot of support.
12:38One last question,
12:39please ask.
12:40We will take the answer.
12:41Video.
12:42My name is Anif Ibrahim.
12:43I am 10.
12:44March,
12:45I am going to Saudi Arabia,
12:46for Umrah.
12:47At that time,
12:48there will be 9 fasts in Pakistan,
12:49and 10 in Saudi Arabia.
12:50So,
12:51in the last 10 days,
12:52the people who will come,
12:53we will be one fast,
12:54behind.
12:55In that case,
12:56what will I have to do,
12:57to join the people?
12:58In this regard,
12:59please guide me.
13:00It will be a great favour.
13:01Firstly,
13:02congratulations to you.
13:03You are going to Saudi Arabia.
13:04MashaAllah.
13:05May Allah bless you.
13:06Allah Allah.
13:07Remember us in your prayers.
13:08Tell us,
13:09you heard the question,
13:10right?
13:11Assume,
13:12we do this,
13:13that here,
13:14the system of Rooh-e-Tehilal,
13:15is also fine.
13:16There,
13:17the system of Rooh-e-Tehilal,
13:18is also fine.
13:19Now,
13:20if a person is going there,
13:21after going there,
13:22whatever date is there,
13:23he should assume,
13:24that it is correct,
13:25and according to that date,
13:26he should celebrate Eid.
13:27So,
13:28according to the 27th,
13:2923rd,
13:30he should celebrate Eid.
13:31And,
13:32how will be the number of fasts,
13:33according to that?
13:34When he is there,
13:35and his total fasts are 29,
13:36and after that,
13:37the moon is there,
13:38then he should celebrate Eid.
13:39And,
13:40if 28 fasts are there,
13:41and this happens,
13:42then at least,
13:4329 or 30,
13:44one out of two,
13:45which he has to take,
13:46then later,
13:47he has to celebrate Eid.
13:48So,
13:49after this,
13:50he should celebrate Eid.
13:51And,
13:52after that,
13:53he should complete the number.
13:54Yes,
13:55absolutely.
13:56There is no room for improvement.
13:57Wow,
13:58wow,
13:59wow,
14:00wow.
14:01In the last question,
14:02just one sentence,
14:03maybe,
14:04some sisters can do it.
14:05Look at this heart-wrenching situation,
14:06Mr. Badami.
14:07Yes,
14:08Yes.
14:09If there is a woman,
14:10who has no children,
14:11Yes.
14:12If someone's child,
14:13is coming to her,
14:14then,
14:15first,
14:16they give her a sign,
14:17that,
14:18there is no room for superstition,
14:19in our religion.
14:20The Prophet said,
14:21If you are involved in adultery,
14:22then do it.
14:23So,
14:24don't do this.
14:25This is very heart-wrenching,
14:26for girls.
14:27I wish,
14:28women leave this.
14:29In fact,
14:30in this,
14:31if you,
14:32Mr. Mukhti,
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15:15Let's go to the break. We have arranged a package, a translation of a Surah of the Holy Qur'an and a brief explanation of it, of two minutes.
15:21You can see the package. We will go to the break with it and then we will be back with our Qur'an Science segment, Inshallah.

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