The Never Ever Mets - Season 2 Episode 7 -Sex, Lies...and Everything on Tape
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00:00Rene, here you go, darling.
00:02Oh, that looks great.
00:04I'm definitely into alpha males paying attention to me.
00:08Is it ever OK to keep secrets in a relationship?
00:10Clay Vonsier, Tatiana, no!
00:13Mm-hmm.
00:15Oh!
00:16Cut it out.
00:16She don't even know these secrets that these people have,
00:19and she's making these f***ing signs.
00:21You don't know what other people got going on in the situation.
00:25What happened with Clay?
00:26What was the secret?
00:27Clay also sounds like a baby.
00:29We all know.
00:30Tati doesn't know.
00:32As a symbol of blossom and love, I got this for mine.
00:36You're the best.
00:38Typically, it really does take me a longer time to open up,
00:41but because I know that he cares about me,
00:43I'm going to be open and see where it can go.
00:46I love you, Tatiana.
00:47Hi, baby.
00:48You're getting so big.
00:50I miss my babies, but I believe that Jared
00:53and I have something special.
00:55I came here to start my life with him.
00:58You look peckin' with mine.
01:12It's time for breakfast.
01:13What are you making?
01:15Tacos.
01:15Oh.
01:16You want some?
01:17Yes.
01:20You still sleepy?
01:21Mm-hmm.
01:22Is it cool down here enough for you?
01:24Mm-hmm.
01:26You got a couple of different outfits
01:27that I think are all my favorite.
01:29Which is your favorite?
01:30I think I'm going to have to go with the pink.
01:32The pink?
01:33The pajama set.
01:35The pajamas?
01:36Mm-hmm.
01:40That's crazy, all these feelings I got for you.
01:45The intimacy is sweet.
01:47You just do whatever feels right in that moment
01:50with your person.
01:53What Tatiana and I really wanted and yearned for
01:55was like that real intimate time together.
01:58Like, sexually, we're already vibing,
02:00we're already locked in, we good, we comfortable.
02:02And that's what we wanted.
02:03And I think our biggest thing was just taking our time
02:06and letting things happen and flow naturally.
02:09Y'all taking naps?
02:10I was trying to.
02:11I barely slept.
02:13My bad, big dog.
02:14I told her to wake me up if I snore, that's why.
02:16No, no, hell no.
02:17She made you snore.
02:19I know how that go.
02:22Took y'all long enough.
02:24Welcome to the party.
02:25Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
02:30Creepin' out Paul in his water, bruh.
02:32Hey.
02:32Look at him.
02:33There you go.
02:35Clay best friend coming and Tati mama coming.
02:37You know, he's really been walking around here sweating.
02:41Ever since he made that, he should never
02:42have that drunk ass night talking too much.
02:45Mm-hmm.
02:46Remember at first, he was like, OK, I got the baby.
02:48OK, cool.
02:49When he started talking about the best friend stuff,
02:50and my best friend's coming, then he was quiet.
02:53The night Clay was drunk.
02:54Tati went to sleep early.
02:56And Clay started to breathe hard.
02:57And he was like, my best friend is coming.
02:59What my best friend is?
03:00Y'all be like, yo, that's crazy.
03:02Oh, your best friend's a girl.
03:04Yeah.
03:06And then he said, she's a porn star.
03:08You're like, 5'11", Rose Lim, porn star.
03:12Oh.
03:14So when he said that, I'm like, what was the point
03:16of even saying that?
03:17Like, it was no reason we need to know
03:18what she does for a living.
03:19Like, it was no reason he needed to say that.
03:22That's when I was like, so have you
03:24slept with her?
03:25Yeah, he said he never cracked her.
03:25I don't believe him.
03:27Because why did you start with her being a porn star
03:29and smile?
03:30Tati's, like, one of the sweetest people here.
03:32Yeah.
03:33And now, look, remember yesterday?
03:35They cooked together.
03:35He got the roses.
03:37They went to the boom boom room.
03:38Remember how mad she was about the vegan shit?
03:40Imagine what she's going to do when she's about to have
03:42a baby.
03:43I'm like, this man.
03:44So he got a baby mama that's bad.
03:45And a porn star best friend.
03:46He got a lot of shit going on.
03:47Yeah.
03:48That's a recipe for a dumb ass disaster.
03:52Have you and Brittany slept together yet?
03:54Well, no, we haven't had sex.
03:55Yeah.
03:56Have you and Ty talked about boom booming
03:59and the room rooming?
04:01Here and there.
04:02But I'm not going.
04:04Why not?
04:05Because I'm not there yet with him.
04:08I can understand.
04:08So I'm not interested in going.
04:10In my personal opinion, Ty is kind of out there.
04:13And, you know, he's the funny guy.
04:15And Brittany is more reserved.
04:16And usually opposites attract.
04:18But at this point, he might be going home by himself.
04:22What can he do to make you change your mind?
04:23Nothing.
04:24Really?
04:25There's nothing he can do to change my mind.
04:27Is it like a, trust me, what is it?
04:31Wait, like I'm not trying to be in your business.
04:34It's a few things, actually.
04:36And I want to say it's majority mental.
04:39I can understand that.
04:43I heard she was a stripper or a porn star or some shit.
04:46I did not come like that.
04:48You said you about to win the next round?
04:50Yeah.
04:53My friend that's coming to visit is Jamila.
04:56That's my best friend in the whole wide world.
04:58She's literally like the big sister that I've always wanted.
05:01I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
05:03And there's been a lot of times in life
05:05I could just go down a list where I f***ed up.
05:07No matter when, where, how,
05:09my best friend always got me through it.
05:12Hey, how you doing?
05:14I'm Chris.
05:15Chris, hi.
05:16How you doing?
05:16I'm good, how are you?
05:17Who you here for?
05:18Clay.
05:19Oh, wow, nice to meet you.
05:20What's your name?
05:21Jamila.
05:21Okay, I'll take you to him.
05:22Okay.
05:26Clay!
05:26Yes.
05:34How are you?
05:34I'm good.
05:36Clay.
05:37This woman jets right past me,
05:39jumps into the vase on,
05:41and I say, oh s***, let the games begin.
05:47What'd you say ooh for?
05:50She jumped up and like wrapped her leg around and s***.
05:54Tatiana.
05:55Hi.
05:56Nice to meet you.
05:57You're my best friend.
05:58Hey.
06:02This is my best friend, everybody.
06:04Hey.
06:05Hey.
06:06Hi.
06:06I'm Jamila.
06:07Hi, Jamila, nice to meet you.
06:09So what's been happening here?
06:12You feel me?
06:14We've been doing different activities
06:15and games and s*** like that.
06:18Can I go for you in there?
06:19Okay.
06:21She's...
06:22Both?
06:23Oh, both.
06:24Both?
06:25Oh, she's right up the road.
06:25Wait, but did they rap?
06:27Yes.
06:28They didn't.
06:29Like locked in on the...
06:29No, no, no, they didn't lock, they didn't lock.
06:31I feel like she would've if she could.
06:33I didn't see the hug.
06:34If he just picked her up and put her down
06:36on some like little sister type of vibes
06:38or something like that, then cool.
06:40But if it was like a jump in his arms
06:42and wrapped a leg around,
06:44then that is pretty disrespectful.
06:45They said the best friend got the hug
06:47and wrapped her legs.
06:47Peace.
06:48Get out.
06:52How pretty is this?
06:54They was fishing out there earlier too.
06:57Jamila has my back no matter what
06:59and gives me feminine perspective and idea
07:02at the same time.
07:03Super clutch, love her to death.
07:05You got glitter in your mouth, who you been kissing?
07:07No, I'm just kidding.
07:09And she's a godmother to my daughter.
07:12So she knew everything from start to finish.
07:15You know, I have my daughter
07:17that's almost three months now.
07:19Yeah, I know that.
07:20And so I didn't tell Tatiana,
07:24so me and her are officially.
07:26Bro, you didn't tell her still?
07:28No, I know, I know, I know.
07:29I'm meeting her mom tonight.
07:31Shut up.
07:33Yeah.
07:34She picked you up off the ground.
07:36What's up?
07:37What's up?
07:38What's up?
07:39What's up?
07:40What's up?
07:41What's up?
07:41What's up?
07:42What's up?
07:43What's up?
07:44What's up?
07:45You finna get your ass beat.
07:47What they talking about in there?
07:48Apparently when she came in, she jumped on him.
07:51She jumped on him?
07:52Yeah.
07:54With her legs up?
07:54Yeah.
07:55Hold on.
07:56Hold on, wait, wait.
07:58Cause this drink about to be on his shirt.
07:59I know.
08:00But wait, wait, wait.
08:01I was totally planning on just giving them their space,
08:03but this man is a liar.
08:06He does not care about me.
08:08He does not care about my feelings.
08:09No, no, no, Tatiana, no, no, no.
08:11Wait, wait, wait, wait.
08:11Everything in my body just went red.
08:15So after I left, she jumped into your arms?
08:18What are you talking about?
08:19Did you pick her up?
08:20They just said after I walked to the living room,
08:22she jumped on you.
08:23I just hugged him.
08:24Like, we always hug.
08:25That's not a hug.
08:27Okay, if you don't want me to hug him.
08:28I don't want you to.
08:29Okay, then I don't.
08:30That's not a f***ing hug.
08:31Don't jump on him.
08:33Okay, then I don't have to hug him.
08:34No, f*** that.
08:36The f*** would you let somebody jump on your f***ing man
08:38like that?
08:39This drink is supposed to be in your f***ing face.
08:41No, no, wait, wait, no, no, no, no.
08:43Take the f*** off my man, how about that?
08:46It's not some more of your caring.
08:48It's your mouth.
08:49My mouth?
08:50Yeah.
08:52I would like you to call her
08:54and let her know that what she did was wrong.
08:56Like, the f*** that we did yesterday was not cool.
08:58I mean, I've always hugged you.
09:00So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
09:02You have five f***ing seconds to say some f***.
09:07I just hugged him.
09:08That's not a f***ing hug.
09:09Don't jump on him.
09:10Okay, then I don't have to hug him.
09:11No.
09:12No, no, wait, hold on.
09:13The f*** would you let somebody jump on your f***ing man
09:15like that?
09:16I would not.
09:17This drink is supposed to be in your f***ing face.
09:18Okay, so don't assault me.
09:20That's crazy.
09:20Okay, well, take the f*** off my man.
09:22How about that?
09:22Okay.
09:23Respect me.
09:24Okay.
09:25Before it's a f***ing problem.
09:26Stupid hoe.
09:27Who the f*** does s*** like that, you dumb b***h?
09:31Okay, so that doesn't seem like a good mother figure
09:35for your child.
09:37Like, she has an issue with me hugging you.
09:40I mean, she'd have an issue with a lot of things.
09:44It's a hug.
09:46It's just a hug.
09:48There's countless videos and photos of you picking me up.
09:52We've been doing it since we was kids.
09:54I'm lost.
09:55Like, that was a lot.
09:57I'm still trying to process it.
09:58That's not a f***ing hug.
10:00You don't wrap your legs around somebody.
10:02That's weird, best friend.
10:03Right.
10:04I missed you.
10:05And I miss you too.
10:06Like, I mean, I love my best friend, like, to the end.
10:10To the end forever.
10:11God damn, he's an idiot.
10:12Why the f*** did you pick her up?
10:14No man of mine is gonna do that.
10:16It made me just feel triggered.
10:18I just felt instantly embarrassed.
10:20Like, once again, it felt like another moment
10:23where I'm the last one to find out
10:25that he's acting up, doing something
10:27that he shouldn't be doing.
10:29I've never seen you date anybody that was this,
10:33like, barbaric.
10:36I wouldn't want your daughter to be influenced
10:38by that type of behavior.
10:40I would never act like that knowing that my child can see.
10:43I don't think this is the best way,
10:46or even what I intended to happen
10:48with my girlfriend meeting my best friend.
10:51I think that maybe you should leave,
10:53and then I can try to calm her down.
10:55All right, I'll see you.
10:56All right, love you.
10:58I love you.
10:59Right here, right now, I think it's best to get Jamila out
11:02and de-escalate everything.
11:04All right.
11:05Yeah.
11:06He knows you're upset.
11:07Look who he's outside with.
11:08Exactly, did he come and check on me?
11:10No, not at all.
11:11And not at all, so boom, you made your decision.
11:13Don't try to be in my face later,
11:14because there's a rep for that.
11:16The least this woman could have done
11:18was had some type of respect,
11:20and walked in and gave him a normal hug.
11:22Like, she was just, she was too much.
11:23She was extra.
11:24It was unnecessary.
11:25That whole was funny as.
11:28I ain't gonna lie, bro,
11:29I was with you until she wrapped that leg up.
11:31I was like, like, she was jumped up on you, bro.
11:34Think about how he just explained it to you, man to man,
11:37and then think about how the women explained it to her.
11:40Did you apologize yet?
11:41I didn't get a chance to, I was chasing her around.
11:43That's the first time.
11:44Say what you gotta say.
11:45Go, go, go, go.
11:46Take the asshole to go.
11:47I didn't see anything bad,
11:48but clearly the rest of the house did.
11:51And even though Tatiana didn't see it,
11:53I can imagine having a million people
11:54come up to you saying different things
11:56and what that could be like.
11:59I wanna apologize.
12:01You know the flowers I got you,
12:02my best friend was the one that told me to do that?
12:04I don't give a what she told you to do.
12:06Yeah.
12:07Please just don't talk to me about her.
12:09What do you wanna say?
12:11Okay.
12:12I am concerned with telling Tatiana my secret
12:15about, you know, me having a daughter
12:17because of everything that took place just now.
12:20Just say it.
12:22But you know what, no more procrastinating.
12:24Gotta get right to it.
12:25Something else I wanted to tell you is I have a daughter.
12:29She's now a couple months old.
12:34You're so...
12:35I'm so what?
12:37Stupid.
12:40At this point, I don't even give a about the kid.
12:42You tried to make me look stupid again?
12:45How did I try to make you look stupid?
12:46Why the would you let her jump in your arms
12:48in front of a house full of people
12:49who have been watching us be booed up every day?
12:52They can be the...
12:54They told me.
12:55Who is they?
12:59Hi.
13:00Hey, how are you?
13:01Good, how about you?
13:02I'm Jared, it's nice to meet you.
13:04Hi Jared.
13:05It's nice.
13:05I'm Charlie.
13:07Chit chat, just come find us later.
13:13I wish I wasn't as vulnerable or as open with him
13:16because of all the deception that was happening.
13:19It made me feel like I didn't know the person
13:22that I came here for.
13:24Oh, I'm happy to see you.
13:26Happy to see you.
13:30Oh, it's so nice.
13:32Oh, I'm happy to see you.
13:34Happy to see you.
13:37I love my mom.
13:38My mom is definitely one of my best friends.
13:40I don't wanna be breaking down to people that I don't know.
13:43And like, usually she's my go-to person.
13:46Like if I need to have an ugly cry,
13:48I was just happy that she was there for me.
13:50Oh my goodness, what's going on?
13:52Just now, whatever, the guy that I was talking to,
13:55he brought this girl over, right?
13:57That's supposedly his best friend.
13:59She ran up on him, literally jumped into his arms,
14:03wrapped her legs around him.
14:05I didn't see it.
14:06It just pissed me off,
14:07because I'm just like,
14:08he always is one to be doing all these grand gestures,
14:11like giving me these roses in front of everybody
14:14and being like, oh, I love her, blah, blah, blah.
14:17And then doing stupid shit like this.
14:19And then another thing, he has a kid or whatever.
14:22I guess he had a kid.
14:24I feel like he keeps trying to embarrass me,
14:26but really I feel like it just makes him look like a liar.
14:28Am I gonna get to meet him?
14:30Sure.
14:32Me and my mom, we're both believers
14:33that everything just works out for the good.
14:36So regardless of how he was acting in that moment,
14:39we both know he's not the only man on earth.
14:41He better get it together.
14:43Hi.
14:44How you doing?
14:45Good.
14:48You should sit on that couch.
14:51Okay, can I introduce myself to your mom?
14:56I'm Clay Fossey, nice to meet you.
14:57Hey.
14:59I wanna apologize to you and your daughter.
15:03I made her really upset.
15:04She's definitely trying to make me look stupid.
15:06I would never wanna hurt you or make you feel bad.
15:09And I really do care about you.
15:11Have a funny way of doing it.
15:14You've met her, so I would love to continue
15:16talking to my mom before she has to go.
15:18Okay.
15:19Yeah, have a good night.
15:20It was a pleasure meeting you, ma'am.
15:21Nice to meet you, too.
15:25You okay, mom?
15:26Yeah.
15:27You know I just want you to be happy.
15:28Yeah.
15:29We know what you deserve.
15:31Yeah, much better.
15:32No, nothing but the best.
15:34Yes, absolutely.
15:43I'm really okay.
15:44Like, I'm more so just mad that a bitch tried me
15:47in my face.
15:48More than anything, like.
15:51I'm just disappointed because, like,
15:53he does have a lot of good qualities, you know?
15:55Are you up for this?
15:57I mean, I wanna sleep on it.
15:59Emotions are high.
16:00You're right.
16:01What would you do?
16:03I wouldn't do anything but have a good time.
16:05And that's what I'm trying to do.
16:06That's why I'm like, where are the drinks?
16:08Okay?
16:09I'm trying to just
16:13sit with my emotions because, truthfully,
16:17the pride in me wants to just be like I'm dead.
16:20Obviously, I genuinely care about him.
16:26But I'm hurt.
16:27I love you, mom.
16:28I love you.
16:29Take it back.
16:33I knew it was gonna blow up.
16:34I didn't think it was gonna blow up that way.
16:36Me either.
16:37If he can figure out a way to get over that,
16:40the baby thing is nothing now.
16:41Right?
16:42She doesn't even worry about the baby.
16:43The baby thing is nothing now.
16:45But now he can't be with Tossie
16:47and have her as a best friend, though.
16:48So let's s*** that up.
16:50When you get married, your wife goes above all.
16:52Of course.
16:53He's looking for his wife.
16:55I've tried the married life.
16:57I was married for three years.
16:58And I know how to be a great,
17:02a great boyfriend, husband, whatever.
17:05But it's very exhausting keeping that pace
17:08and doing it for a long time.
17:10And it didn't work out for me.
17:12So until I find a person that doesn't give me
17:15that exhausting feeling after a while,
17:16maybe that's my person.
17:17But until then, I'll just keep looking.
17:19Even if he reconciles things with Tossie,
17:22there's always gonna be a clash
17:24between Jamila and Tossie.
17:27You don't wanna live your life like that.
17:29Yeah.
17:32You trying to go to sleep?
17:34Uh-uh.
17:35What you trying to do?
17:37Not be ticklish?
17:38If you tickle me one on one, I'm f***ed up.
17:42Get your ass over there, man.
17:44Brittany, she gets very touchy with everyone but Ty.
17:47And for her to be walking around how she does
17:49and not even care about his feelings,
17:51the way she acts with all the other guys is f***ed up.
17:54You ready?
17:55It's been a long-ass day.
18:02She about to drag him to the dirt.
18:04Oof, oof, oof, oof.
18:06Tati, she has every f***ing reason
18:08to feel the way she feel.
18:09Yeah.
18:10Being embarrassed for days,
18:11then this s*** happened after a great night.
18:13She's like, damn, I done already gave myself to him
18:16and then he do this s***.
18:18Yeah, crazy.
18:19That's crazy.
18:26I'm not gonna lie, I'm not gonna lie.
18:28I'm not gonna lie.
18:29I'm not gonna lie.
18:30I'm not gonna lie.
18:31Oof.
18:38I feel like, f***.
18:41Like, I must've hurt my girl.
18:44Badly.
18:47Yeah, she mad, right?
18:49But also, she's standing right here.
18:52So obviously, there's still a certain level of care there.
18:56Ahem.
19:00I think first and foremost, I do wanna apologize.
19:03If I was to say I love you, but I don't respect you
19:06and I keep doing things to disrespect you,
19:08do you think that's genuine?
19:10Nah, I see your point.
19:12I'm not perfect and I f***ed up.
19:14You can let that girl come in here
19:16and try, attempt to make me look dumb.
19:19You didn't check her when she was here.
19:21You let her prance around
19:22and let her walk out the door without saying anything.
19:26And you chose her and not me
19:28by not coming to check on me and walking around with her
19:30and walking her out the door
19:32and acting like everything was sweet for her.
19:34Actually, you know what I would like you to do?
19:36Talk to me.
19:37I would like you to call her
19:38and let her know that what she did was wrong.
19:40And I wanna hear the conversations.
19:42Because if I can't trust you
19:44with somebody who's supposed to be your best friend
19:46and now you have a baby mom,
19:47how am I supposed to trust you with any other women
19:50and it's supposed to be long distance?
19:51And I wanna see you have a backbone with her.
19:54And I don't think we can move forward.
19:55I mean, you want me to make the call.
19:57I don't have a problem doing it.
20:00Go ahead.
20:04Okay.
20:05All right.
20:09Hello?
20:10Okay, so right now it's me and Tatiana here right now.
20:14And I wanted to let you know
20:15that the s*** that we did yesterday was not cool, bro.
20:18It was a lot.
20:19I mean, we've been best friends
20:21since I was like seven years old.
20:24You know, I've always hugged you and I, you know.
20:27Can we clarify that that was not a regular hug?
20:30Like, let's not play dumb.
20:31So there's a difference between giving someone a hug
20:35and jumping into his arms and wrapping your legs around him.
20:37That's obviously not gonna be okay
20:39with somebody who has a girlfriend.
20:41I didn't wrap my legs.
20:42Okay.
20:43Did y'all see that?
20:45Everybody in the house saw it.
20:47So I don't know.
20:48Well, I can see that your tax bracket is a lot below mine.
20:52I don't behave this way.
20:53I'm sorry.
20:54I'm not a porn star like you, so.
20:56It's fine.
20:56You don't know a s*** about my f***ing lane, to be clear.
20:59Well, you were drinking wine out of a can.
21:01Yeah, I f***ing was.
21:03I could drink out of the f***ing,
21:04whatever the f*** I want to,
21:05because clearly I was stressed the f*** out
21:07because you coming in disrespecting me.
21:09So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
21:11Do you think it is fine?
21:12No, f*** what she's saying.
21:13Is that fine with you?
21:14For her to jump into your arms
21:16when it's clearly upsetting me?
21:17Is it fine?
21:18No, say it, verbally say it.
21:20So she can hear it.
21:22Let her know, because to her, there's nothing wrong, clearly.
21:25Let her know.
21:27Let her f***ing know.
21:29You have five f***ing seconds to say some s***,
21:31because she's saying stupid s***.
21:33Everybody here knows that was disrespectful.
21:36And you're not saying nothing.
21:37You're just letting her talk.
21:37I'm not going to continue this phone call
21:39because I don't like to let people-
21:41You have five seconds,
21:42before I get the f*** out of here.
21:44Tell her it was wrong.
21:47Okay, I'm talking to her.
21:47Stop talking to me and talk to her.
21:49Tell her that it was wrong.
21:51I think it was wrong.
21:52I don't want to be disrespected.
21:53There's nothing to talk about.
21:55I just said it was wrong.
21:56You're not speaking up for me.
21:57You're not f***ing protecting me right now.
21:59You're not doing anything,
22:01but sitting there looking dumb,
22:02letting her run her stupid ass mouth.
22:04I just hugged him,
22:05and I'm so sorry that I've known him since I was seven.
22:07I don't give a f*** if she was there when you were born.
22:09It was f***ed up, she was disrespectful,
22:11and you needed to f***ing say that.
22:12I just said it was wrong.
22:13So that's why I have to step in,
22:14because I got my back even if you f***ed up.
22:18This b***h is just sitting there.
22:19What did you call me?
22:31So I feel like after all of that,
22:32are you done with him,
22:33or do you want to work it out?
22:35Where are you at?
22:36I'm at a point right now where I want to be petty.
22:40I want to see if I can make him feel how I felt.
22:45I would like to go to therapy.
22:46Yeah.
22:47I feel like the therapy thing is going to be good for you guys.
22:50Maybe she can help him figure out why he has to lie.
22:53Yeah.
22:54And if he works that out,
22:55then he can be for you who we thought he was.
22:57Because he does seem sweet,
22:58and aside from all the shenanigans,
23:02everything is so good.
23:04So.
23:07You're looking lovely.
23:09You too.
23:10We stay wearing black.
23:12First date we was wearing black,
23:13now we're wearing black.
23:14I set up a second date for me and Brittany.
23:17She has no idea I'm going to take her
23:18to my apartment here in LA.
23:20Hopefully she's going to like it.
23:22I'm excited.
23:23Yay.
23:24Where do you think we go?
23:25I don't know, so I didn't know what to put on.
23:27I plan to make her favorite to show her that I'm interested,
23:30that I'm wanting her,
23:31that I plan to please her.
23:33You know, by prioritizing her as she wanted to be.
23:37You know, I'm a humble abode.
23:39Okay.
23:40This is where it goes down at?
23:41I mean, well, it could go down.
23:44I'm just saying, it don't usually go down,
23:46but it could go down if you want it to go down.
23:49Shut up.
23:50Did you see the menu?
23:51Oh, you're making crab legs.
23:53Yay.
23:57I'm excited.
24:10Have a seat.
24:12I know over the last 12 hours,
24:14you guys' relationship has been teetering.
24:17So I brought in my good friend, Dr. Ali.
24:20And she's going to take it from here.
24:21All right, thank you.
24:22My expectations walking into the session with Dr. Ali
24:25are to be optimistic.
24:27I'm hoping to get some tools that, you know,
24:30hopefully me and Tatiana can use,
24:32but let's just leave taking something away.
24:35All right.
24:36Why am I here?
24:37Yesterday we had a family come over.
24:39I brought my best friend.
24:41We grew up together like,
24:42like almost like that's my big sister.
24:44So when she seen me, she ran, she jumped.
24:47And wrapped her legs around him.
24:50And then Tatiana came out,
24:51almost as if it was a different person.
24:54I had not seen the side of Tatiana before.
24:56And in my head, I'm just like, what the?
24:58I feel very like unprotected,
25:01very much like he doesn't care about my feelings.
25:04I've just been having problems with him in general,
25:07just lying a lot.
25:08And it's just like,
25:09I'm always the person on the outside that doesn't know stuff.
25:12I see your text messages.
25:14No.
25:15No, no, no, no, no.
25:17If you're not going to do what I asked, then that's fine.
25:19But just know, I know that it's not
25:20what you're saying that it is.
25:23Okay, so it seems like your primary issue is the friend.
25:27And then that he's like lying a lot
25:28and just not telling full truths from your perspective.
25:31So she has been very succinct.
25:33Is this the same thing you understand?
25:34Yeah.
25:36Where are you emotionally right now?
25:38I'm exhausted.
25:40I'm stressed and overwhelmed.
25:43Your hand was shaking a second ago.
25:45Yeah.
25:46I got bad nerves and anxiety.
25:48Something I didn't tell her is like about the PTSD
25:50and traumas I have from my deployment.
25:52I have no problem owning up to me f***ing up.
25:55But at the end of the day, I just want f***ing peace.
25:58When I hear people say, I just want peace,
26:01it makes me start to think of what we call avoidance coping.
26:04Your response to the trauma is to freeze.
26:06You had all these thoughts going through your head.
26:08You had all these experiences,
26:09but in order to keep the peace,
26:10you didn't want to talk about them.
26:12I'm surprised what comes on the other side
26:13of having the difficult conversation.
26:16And so, where are we now?
26:23You're on drink duty.
26:24Look, I even got a whole thing right there
26:26in case you need to make any garnishment.
26:29I don't like sugar on my rim.
26:30I should be sweet enough.
26:32I need to see. Let me see.
26:37No tongue?
26:38I can't get no tongue?
26:39No.
26:41With Ty wanting, you know, more kisses and this and that.
26:45I would rather prefer him allow me to come to him,
26:49but I don't, I didn't want to, you know, mess with his ego.
26:53You look good, by the way.
26:55I wanted to slap you, but, you know,
26:57I'm trying to exercise consent.
27:00Do I have consent to?
27:01You know what? That is a great idea.
27:03Do I have consent to slap you?
27:05No, you don't.
27:11What are you feeling right now?
27:12I feel hurt.
27:14It made me feel upset.
27:17It made me feel like, um...
27:21I feel like I'm only angry
27:22because I feel like I have to be to protect myself.
27:26But I just feel like if he doesn't really care about me,
27:28I would rather him say that than to keep saying, like,
27:32oh, I love you, I love you,
27:33and know that he's going to keep doing stuff like this.
27:36And I feel like I've been very vulnerable with him.
27:39And giving him, like, a real shot,
27:40and I feel like he just keeps playing in my face.
27:42Yeah.
27:43The anger is understandable.
27:45A boundary's been crossed.
27:46It will be a part of your job
27:50to make sure she feels trust in you.
27:54You get that?
27:55Yes.
27:57I care about you, Tatiana.
27:59I do.
28:01This was one of those pivotal moments in a relationship
28:04where you have that first huge argument.
28:07Huge argument.
28:09And it's just about you figuring out your limits
28:11when you're ready to be done.
28:13I just want there to be respect.
28:15And I just feel like his actions don't match up with his words.
28:18Are you willing to fix this relationship,
28:20or are you done?
28:27Are you willing to fix this relationship,
28:29or are you done?
28:32I don't know.
28:34I just don't know if I could trust him.
28:36How invested are both of you?
28:37Like, zero to ten?
28:38Ten.
28:40I came in on, like, a seven.
28:43But I feel like it's dropped down to, like, a two or a three.
28:48Now it's gonna be about,
28:50is this actually a relationship-ending situation?
28:53Mm-hmm.
28:54Or is this something that's teaching me a little bit more
28:56about my own wounds right now, too?
29:00Yeah.
29:01It's hard to bring new people into your life, right?
29:03Period.
29:04Can we still talk this out?
29:06Is it worth that?
29:07And that's a test of a relationship.
29:09Mm-hmm.
29:10Yeah.
29:12Ugh.
29:14What?
29:15What?
29:16Okay.
29:17Okay.
29:22That's amazing.
29:23This is just for us.
29:24That's so good.
29:25Since we've been together,
29:27we had a little hiccup.
29:29But we're over that now.
29:30But...
29:31That's in the past.
29:32This is everything right now.
29:33Ty and I had had such a vibe online.
29:36You looking fly.
29:37Lord, I need to keep up.
29:39Can't wait to see it.
29:40And now I'm just trying to find the chemistry
29:42that we have over the phone here in real life.
29:45Let's cheers to an amazing meal.
29:48Yes.
29:49Thank you for my favorite drink.
29:51Yes, ma'am.
29:52Favorite drink, favorite food.
29:55What's up?
29:56What's up?
29:57Who you here for?
29:58Chris.
29:59Chris.
30:00My cousin.
30:01He's coming to the house.
30:02I feel really good.
30:04We grew up in a sandbox together.
30:06This man know everything about me.
30:08This is the lovely lady.
30:09Alexis.
30:10How you doing?
30:11I'm good.
30:12How are you?
30:13Good, good.
30:14Sean, too.
30:15Nice to meet you.
30:16Nice to meet you, as well.
30:17That's right.
30:18That's right.
30:19Yes, sir.
30:20It's so good to see you.
30:21You, too, man.
30:22Oh, man.
30:23This is great.
30:24Nice to meet you.
30:25Nice to meet you.
30:26Hey, how you doing?
30:27Hey.
30:28Nice to meet you.
30:29Dr. Maya?
30:30Hey, yes.
30:31Hey, I'm Jared.
30:32This is Alexis right here.
30:33Look at you.
30:34We've been friends for about six years.
30:39We're really cool, really close.
30:41She was interested in meeting Christopher because he's a little bit younger, and she
30:46wants to see that dynamic between us.
30:49Was she better online than in person?
30:52It's crazy you ask that question because, you know, with me and her, it's a 10-year-age
30:56gap.
30:57When I seen her, I thought she was a little, uh, you got your little cougar.
31:00A little tiger, yeah.
31:03But, no, man, she's 45.
31:06I made a date with, like, two older women, but they weren't the controlling type.
31:11You see what I'm saying?
31:12She's so aggressive, too.
31:13Kind of aggressive, and that's what I want her to come down.
31:15I got some condoms for you.
31:19She was pushing the sex agenda hard, and, you know, that's fine, but if I do give her
31:26an honest chance for us to move forward and be together, she's not going to be on that
31:29type of planet.
31:30So, if she's so more submissive, you'll take her to that boom-boom room?
31:32You're damn right.
31:33What'd it say?
31:34It's got all of our sex.
31:35Oh, is that what it said?
31:36I'm like, I ain't never worked this hard for a young boy.
31:41Hey, how you doing?
31:42Hello.
31:43I'm Chris.
31:44Hello, Chris.
31:45Nice to meet you.
31:46You look amazing.
31:47Manya.
31:48Hey, how you doing?
31:49So, Manya wants to talk to you by herself, and we're going to go and talk.
31:53Come on, let's talk.
31:54We can do some talking.
31:55So, how is it being here with all these people?
31:58It's been a lot, but I feel like me and Alexis both been managing it pretty well.
32:03So, talk to me.
32:05How can I maneuver around Christopher?
32:08Now, he need a strong woman, but I think it's not so much your caring, it's your mouth.
32:16My mouth?
32:18Yeah.
32:19Okay.
32:20But he really likes you.
32:21I know he really want to grow and continue and build with you.
32:24So, when you first laid eyes on her face to face, what was going through your mind?
32:29Well, I mean, she was a pretty beautiful woman, but I want her to get more fitness.
32:33And I understand fitness can be a journey for people.
32:35We ain't got to start out fast.
32:37I'm willing to go slow.
32:38And she reciprocated that with me.
32:40Just continue to be that feminine power energy that you are, and you got my blessings.
32:48Come on, let's go join now.
32:51She got my vote.
32:52What makes you say that?
32:53I feel like she listens.
32:54It was very, very straightforward.
32:56I could appreciate that.
32:58I'm so glad you guys could make it.
33:00Yeah.
33:01The friend and family visit was awesome.
33:03It's nice to see Maya, because she has a nice insight on people.
33:07So, I'm glad she got to look in.
33:09It was definitely needed.
33:11You got this.
33:12All right.
33:14All right.
33:15That was fun.
33:19You go first.
33:20And I can teach you if you want, or we can just play.
33:22You can learn that way.
33:31Can I try to teach you something?
33:33Don't explain nothing to me.
33:42Shorty.
33:45Yeah.
33:46I really appreciate you saying that you'll still give me a chance and work with me.
33:53Nobody's perfect, and no relationship is perfect.
34:04That was good.
34:05Can you get me some juice?
34:07Sure, honey.
34:08I'll be right back.
34:09Is it okay?
34:10I don't want to.
34:11Don't touch me.
34:12Okay.
34:13We had a session, and at our session, I felt like we was making some progress, and we're
34:21starting to mend and pull back together.
34:23But every time she jerked away and snatched away, it was just like, damn.
34:28It hurt.
34:29You don't get full granted access just because you say sorry.
34:32I handed you everything, and you **** on it.
34:36I felt like we were in a better space than we were earlier.
34:40I was really trying to challenge myself and try to move forward.
34:44If you want to move forward, give it your all.
34:47I'm not going to give it my all.
34:49If we're not doing **** with our all, then what are we doing?
34:52I feel like I need more time to fill it out, because I don't want to prematurely be like,
34:57I'm over this situation.
34:59Your actions change our dynamic.
35:03We're back.
35:05Hey.
35:06Y'all look so good.
35:08How was it?
35:11Tell me about it.
35:12It was great.
35:15Did you get some in his bed?
35:17I don't know.
35:19It's not happening.
35:22The least compatible people in the house would be Brittany and Todd.
35:27They had a date, and they didn't give physical or kiss or anything at their intimate setting
35:33at his house.
35:34He should have just dropped her off at the door and went the **** home.
35:40Y'all are crazy.
35:41How was everybody's day?
35:43Amazing.
35:44Y'all had a good day, Tante?
35:45Mm-hmm.
35:46How did it go?
35:47It was good.
35:51Classy.
35:53Straight shorty?
35:54Yeah.
35:55I'm not going to give it my all.
35:58It's been a long-ass day.
35:59I got up early.
36:02You ready to go to bed?
36:04That was you?
36:08I'm wasting my **** time here.
36:12Keep it real with me.
36:13I'll keep it real with you, baby.
36:14Like, if you're not going to be all in, like, I don't got to be all in either.
36:17Yo!
36:19Play!
36:21Ain't enough attention on her.
36:22I'm not falling for it.
36:25Wow, what's up?
36:26Yeah, I'm trying to leave, bro.
36:27I'm going home.
36:28I said, like, are you all the way in?
36:29She's like, no, I'm not.
36:30I'm just kind of here.
36:31You should be happy.
36:32Because she's mad.
36:33You got to understand, she's a woman that's hurt, that's embarrassed in front of all these people.
36:38She really loves you.
36:39I don't want to waste my time here right now.
36:41If you leave, you're wasting time.
36:43We're closer to the finish line than we is to the beginning.
36:45That's true.
36:47You can't make no good decisions off of emotion.
36:51I'm ready to slide, bro.
36:53I have no more fight.
36:55Listen.
36:56Listen to me, bros.
36:58No more gas in the tank.
37:00Oh, my God.
37:01What is it now?
37:03I'm done.
37:12He hasn't grasped the concept of women behavior with an attitude yet.
37:17He hasn't grasped it.
37:20None of it.
37:21Top Down, can you come here?
37:26What the hell is going on?
37:27He's ready to go.
37:28What the f*** is wrong with him?
37:30I done had four different 45-minute conversations today.
37:33I'm done.
37:35I don't think this is working.
37:37You said that you don't want to give it your all.
37:40I really don't want to waste my time.
37:42So, I feel like you're being a big man baby right now.
37:45You just need to accept the fact that it's going to take me time.
37:48He got a way to go.
37:49He can't.
37:50His mind is not mature.
37:52But if you want to go home, just let me know and stop playing with me.
37:55If you want to make this work, then I'm here.
37:59I started packing.
38:00He can't get past his pride of feeling like he hurt because she's saying stupid s***.
38:04Okay.
38:05So, is that your decision?
38:07My whole thing.
38:08What's your decision?
38:09I started f***ing packing.
38:11So, do you want to go?
38:12It's yes or no.
38:15No.
38:16I don't.
38:17Seeing that look in her eyes again, like it gave me kind of hope.
38:20I felt love.
38:23Okay.
38:24Then what are we talking about?
38:26I need you to like not waste my time.
38:28I'm not wasting your time.
38:29I literally have shown you progress.
38:30Where are you going?
38:31I'm not doing...
38:32I'm going back downstairs so I can have a good night.
38:34So, what was your purpose of coming here?
38:36Was it for them or was it f***ing with me?
38:38So, I can leave right now.
38:39Do you want to go?
38:40No, f*** if I said I f***ing packed with the f***ing thing.
38:42Oh, f***.
38:43Don't stop saying that.
38:44You literally keep flip-flopping.
38:45Okay, whatever.
38:46If you want to go, then...
38:47Alright, now you straight.
38:48You got it.
38:49Okay, bet.
38:50Let's tell everybody.
38:51I already did.
38:52No, you didn't.
38:53Hey, I'm sad for Tati.
38:54That's kind of f***ed up.
38:55Yeah, f*** her.
38:57He decides that he wants to go home because he feels like I'm not giving it 100%.
39:01That's f***ed up.
39:07Darling, this would have never even surfaced if it weren't for that hug at that front door.
39:12Somebody was messy.
39:13Yeah.
39:14Other folks.
39:15Did you see how she jumped up in his lap?
39:17Did you see how she put that leg up on his arm?
39:19Then you're going to turn around and take a bite from these folks?
39:22F***.
39:23Yeah, they f***ed.
39:26I'm not going to beg him to stay.
39:28Yo, he ain't begging.
39:29Because if he stays, then it'll be tomorrow.
39:34You're going to be alright, man.
39:35If you guys were going to go through all that counseling just for him to make a decision
39:41that he wants to go home, you also want to go home to get the attention back on you.
39:45It was a bitch move.
39:47Take care, Clay.
39:48He's a sweet guy.
39:49He's very sweet.
39:50But he got a lot of s*** to learn.
39:56Zero out of ten.
39:58Girl, negative ten out of ten.
40:00Okay, I'm about to block him on everything because this is just too much.
40:04But this was a cool experience, though.
40:06Honestly, I met y'all.
40:07Yeah.
40:08And that was the best part.
40:09And I felt like I was ready to move forward and try to see, like, can we make this work?
40:15But I feel like he made a rash decision because he just needed to have a little bit of faith
40:19and patience that if you could just make it through the night, it's going to be better tomorrow.
40:24Aww.
40:25That's crazy.
40:26Bye.
40:27So nice.
40:28Bye.
40:29I guess my tolerance for bulls*** was a little high.
40:32Because I wasn't ready.
40:37I'll fight both of y'all if y'all decide to leave.
40:39I mean, no, no, no.
40:40Don't stay here.
40:41You think I'm going to leave this man?
40:45Charlie's one of the most lovely women I've ever met.
40:48But that honeymoon phase is over.
40:53She needs to know about my true feelings.
41:03Nice, nice.
41:04Great form.
41:05Good work.
41:06This date really has me in a good mood.
41:08I say me and this woman is really making steps.
41:12People who seem like the perfect couples, right?
41:15Gone.
41:16We know who's next.
41:18So you're just going to drag me along?
41:20Yeah, that was the plan.
41:21That was the plan.
41:22You're going to be a f***ing asshole.
41:24Don't put your feelings in my face.
41:25Don't do that.
41:26Get the f*** out of here.