The Never Ever Mets - Season 2 Episode 5 -Breakups and Makeups
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00:00You look awesome.
00:01Okay, okay.
00:02Me and my ex worked together for eight years.
00:05How long ago did you let it go?
00:06About four months.
00:08How long have you been talking to Brandon?
00:10Four years.
00:13I'm supposed to do everything, huh?
00:14You don't do sh**.
00:15On the phone, it was always just like,
00:17I'm gonna cater to you.
00:20I'm gonna wake you up with breakfast.
00:22You didn't cook for me, not one day.
00:25It seems like he's just trying to impress everyone else
00:28instead of focusing on me.
00:33Stop advocating problems.
00:34Don't do it again.
00:35Don't talk to me like that.
00:37She's just a completely different person in person.
00:40I can't dance?
00:41I didn't say anything.
00:42Weird.
00:44Dating online, we have a good vibe.
00:47But now, there's a lot of red flags popping up.
00:50Tomorrow, I wanna see what's what.
00:58Hey, Mom.
00:59Oh, you're wide awake.
01:02Hey, Sarah.
01:03Hi, baby.
01:04You're getting so big.
01:06Oh, I miss her so much.
01:11Okay.
01:13She's doing good.
01:14She'll be fine.
01:16All right, well, I gotta go.
01:17Bye.
01:18Bye.
01:19Bye.
01:20Bye.
01:21Bye.
01:22Bye.
01:23Bye.
01:24Bye.
01:25Bye.
01:26Bye.
01:27All right.
01:28Oh, I appreciate you, Mom.
01:29Thanks.
01:30All right.
01:31I love you guys.
01:32Love you, too.
01:33All right.
01:34Bye, Mommy.
01:35Bye.
01:36I miss my babies.
01:37I miss them more than anything in the world.
01:39But I believe that Jared and I have something special.
01:43Jared?
01:44Come in.
01:45I'm taking everything very, very, very, very seriously.
01:49I came here to start my life with him.
01:52I'm getting, like, homesick a little bit.
01:54You wanna say, f*** this s*** and go home?
01:56No.
01:57I mean, I'm with you.
01:58If you wanna do it, we can do this live.
02:00Shut up.
02:01No.
02:02I'm committed to this.
02:03Okay.
02:04I don't break commitments.
02:05Okay.
02:06But I was like, you better be worth it.
02:09Am I?
02:10How do you feel right now?
02:11You think so?
02:12Yeah, I think so.
02:13I think so, as well.
02:14With Charlie, we vibe very well.
02:16And I'm seeing that the more time goes on, our bond is getting stronger.
02:21I can't wait to get both babies together.
02:23I know.
02:24I can't wait to touch them like infinity stones and see what happens.
02:28We are just as compatible virtually as we are in person.
02:32I'm very happy that I'm here with her.
02:34You good?
02:35I'm good.
02:36I'm happy.
02:37I'm happy I got to see her.
02:38It's like I can't really, like, start my day until I see her.
02:39I agree.
02:40And you.
02:41Of course.
02:42I agree.
02:43I'm with you.
02:48We haven't even had, like, a full-on kiss.
02:50You feel me?
02:52She has this ability to deflect and gaslight a person.
02:55Like, I've never met a person like that before.
02:57You know what I mean?
02:58You weaponize your health against me.
03:00You weaponize any—do you know what I'm saying?
03:02It's all weaponization.
03:13Hey, Alicia?
03:14Yes.
03:15How you doing this morning?
03:16I'm good.
03:17How are you?
03:18I'm good.
03:19I know it's a long day, but I want to apologize for how I came at you yesterday.
03:22I think I was just upset and mad.
03:25Thank you for your sincerity.
03:27Thank you for your apology.
03:30Oh, boy.
03:31I really—yeah, I really did appreciate feeling cornered in the kitchen.
03:35Let me get out of here.
03:37Where's the tea?
03:38You want to take a walk?
03:40Excuse me.
03:46I'm nervous about this conversation.
03:48And I don't know where it's about to lead, where it's about to go.
03:51Is he about to respect me?
03:54But I'll keep it classy.
03:57I just don't want to do this anymore.
03:59Because we don't mesh.
04:02I'm tired.
04:03There's no point.
04:05God's telling me, you know, just to move on.
04:08And it's okay.
04:09Yeah, it is.
04:10I agree.
04:11So, you know what I mean?
04:12Yeah.
04:13I don't really have much to say, you know?
04:15I'm excited about going home.
04:17I think that I tried as well to see if a connection could work.
04:23And I deserve peace and friendship and fun and happiness.
04:28And sometimes you can't find that in somebody that you thought you may be able to.
04:36It's a lot of emotions and feelings that are going through my head.
04:39But honestly, I am relieved.
04:41I'm ready to go home, too.
04:42This feels so toxic.
04:44Just so you know.
04:45Okay.
04:46I could point out multiple reasons how I've come to a decision.
04:49I felt like you made me look like a monster.
04:52I'm sorry.
04:53That wasn't my intention.
04:55I don't even think you like me.
04:57Nothing's reciprocated.
04:58You've never developed those feelings, right?
05:00So, it's weird to me.
05:02I just need to let it all out and, like, let her know.
05:04You're just not the one.
05:06I don't care for her feelings.
05:07I don't care.
05:08I'm good.
05:10I'm gonna be real with you.
05:12Right before I came here, I got a phone call.
05:14It was my ex-girlfriend.
05:16We hadn't spoke in, like, five years.
05:18And for her to call me out of the blue the day before,
05:22I felt like God was talking to me.
05:24Okay.
05:25That's great.
05:26Let me finish.
05:27She's the type of person that has that emotional intelligence that I can connect with.
05:31That's great.
05:32I love that for you.
05:33It looks like you're trying to, like, drive how I'm trying to talk.
05:37That's what you're trying to do.
05:38Stop.
05:39This is the emotional intelligence I'm talking about.
05:41You see how calm I am?
05:43I know who I am.
05:44I know that I'm a catch.
05:45I know that I'm a favor.
05:46So the only way that you can make sense of squandering this beautiful opportunity
05:51is to say I got my ex in the back pocket.
05:54You tried to one-up me.
05:55That's why you told me it was unnecessary, and you did it as a dig to hurt me.
06:00You just don't have the grace for somebody as delicate as I am.
06:03No, I do.
06:04And that's okay.
06:05I know, I do.
06:06You know, that's really okay.
06:07I know, I know.
06:08Again, you're just trying to put something on me because you don't know me.
06:10Because I do have the grace.
06:11I do think you're beautiful.
06:12You know what I mean?
06:13You're pretty.
06:14I think you're smart.
06:15Whatever.
06:16But whatever simile of me liking you is gone.
06:19I think you'd be a great friend, but I don't want to be your friend.
06:23Me either.
06:24Do you get what I'm saying?
06:25Yay.
06:26Relax.
06:27Yay.
06:28Relax.
06:29I don't want to be your friend.
06:30I don't.
06:31I'm done with the conversation.
06:32You're not going to disrespect me.
06:33I'm nobody.
06:34I don't want to be your friend.
06:35It's not that bad.
06:36I don't want to be your friend either.
06:37Okay.
06:38I'm not like.
06:39God bless.
06:41My friends are healthy.
06:42Toxic.
06:43Toxic.
06:44Toxic.
06:45Toxic.
06:46Toxic.
06:47Yep.
06:48Have a good one.
06:49Moving the energy.
06:50Thank you God for peace here.
06:51Here.
06:52I need to get some sort of reaction from her.
06:55And you know, I got what I wanted.
07:01Guys, I'm out.
07:02No.
07:03I'm out.
07:04I don't think I'm getting what I need here.
07:07We can tell you've been checked out.
07:10Honestly, I did not see Herb and Alicia leaving.
07:14I'll never date a diva type again.
07:17Her energy is so toxic.
07:19I called it.
07:20I knew that wasn't going to work.
07:21Neither of them look happy.
07:23Not even a little bit.
07:24So.
07:25Bye.
07:26Take care.
07:27She outwardly says things that are mad rude.
07:30Ain't even no point of you being worked up no more, bro.
07:33She don't like you, bro.
07:34No.
07:35And that's fine.
07:36Because right before I came here, I got a call from somebody
07:41that I really, really cared about.
07:43And I'm like, yo, why the f*** are you calling me?
07:46Like, no, she didn't call me.
07:48She ended up liking a picture of me and my sister
07:51because my sister just got engaged and stuff.
07:53I took that as like, like God is telling me something.
07:57This whole time, I thought she hated me.
08:00The whole story with Herb is kind of weird to me.
08:03Herb's emotional intelligence allowed me to be here.
08:06I did think his timeline was kind of odd,
08:09and I was trying my hardest not to laugh.
08:11She couldn't find anybody that understands her the way that I do.
08:16I feel like Irvin was a good guy,
08:18but I also feel like he was acting like a crybaby.
08:20Our relationship was the best relationship I've ever had.
08:26And I'm like, damn, this man is an emotional wreck.
08:34I was looking for you.
08:36I'm leaving.
08:38What the hell happened?
08:40He said his ex-person from five years ago called him about coming here.
08:44Maybe he came up with it, I don't know.
08:46I guess he's gonna go be with her or whatever, I don't know.
08:48I'm sorry, Alicia.
08:50He's probably still talking about it.
08:52So, I went into this thinking, you know, let's see what's good.
08:57Maybe we could have a little fun.
08:59But I should have deaded it instead of wasting my time.
09:03Go home, dog.
09:05Yeah, she's a horrible person in my eyes.
09:07You know, I don't care.
09:09You know, you guys might have seen some good sides.
09:11I haven't.
09:13Hey, y'all.
09:19Hi.
09:21I'm excited that my mom is coming to visit.
09:24Why haven't you been giving her all of your attention?
09:27Are you ready to call this a quit?
09:29Hmm.
09:30Which couple has the most secrets?
09:32Tati and Clay?
09:33Clay has a child that Tati doesn't know about.
09:36Everyone in the house has to keep it from Tati.
09:39Why do you think that?
09:41That's crazy.
09:44She's a horrible person in my eyes.
09:46You guys might have seen some good sides.
09:48I haven't.
09:49Hey, y'all.
09:51I'm going home.
09:53I value my peace.
09:55I value y'all.
09:57I will not allow myself to be in a toxic relationship.
10:01I'm sad y'all leaving.
10:03I'm not.
10:05Pack it up. Pack it up.
10:08As soon as I start seeing that you're trying to stop me from talking to other people,
10:11that's weird to me.
10:13Like, don't try to make me seem like a bad guy when I'm with you.
10:17Oh, my goodness.
10:19Oh, my God.
10:21Yo, I couldn't lock eyes with none of y'all.
10:25Because Tati said, I'm sad to see y'all go.
10:28He said, I'm not.
10:32That's how I'm not trying to be.
10:34That's crazy.
10:36They probably took too long to figure it out.
10:38Because I seen it.
10:39I think that's the case with a couple people, man.
10:44Sorry for making you cry, bro.
10:46No, it's okay, man. I'll be all right.
10:50Don't cry. You're going to make me cry.
10:55I miss you, too.
10:56But I choose myself.
10:58I didn't know that it was that bad.
11:00I want to laugh. I want to be happy.
11:02I want to have a good dating experience.
11:05I'm glad you chose what was for you.
11:09We got a friend in each other, bro.
11:11I appreciate it.
11:14I feel like I've grown a lot more mature.
11:17More of an emotional intelligence.
11:20I'm hoping that everything with my ex, the bulbs,
11:23I'm pretty sure it will.
11:25As far as Alicia, I really do wish her the best.
11:28I'm moving on with my life.
11:30Hopefully, she does with hers.
11:33I just cleansed myself with energy.
11:36I feel so much better.
11:38Well, I am grateful for the experience.
11:41I'm moving forward in a new direction.
11:44I'm not going to be with anybody who doesn't trust me.
11:46I'm not going to be with anybody who doesn't solve conflict like an adult.
11:50I deserve that.
11:52I'm going to get that.
11:55But it's going to take a little bit of time
11:57before I virtually date again.
12:00I like to go out and meet someone
12:02so I can feel their energy immediately.
12:05Thank you for peace.
12:13Oh my goodness.
12:15That was quick.
12:16You think anybody else is going to be gone?
12:18I'm sure.
12:20I'm sure.
12:22Who?
12:23Possibly Kiki and Brandon.
12:25If they don't start getting along,
12:27then I don't know how my conversation is going to go with Ty.
12:31I'm going to be great.
12:32Oh my God!
12:35You haven't had it yet?
12:36No.
12:37Have you all talked at all?
12:38No.
12:39I think he's trying to make everyone happy.
12:42Good shot. Thank you.
12:43He's so busy trying to do this and do that and do this and do that
12:46that he's getting lost in the sauce
12:48and he's forgotten about me.
12:50He's supposed to be here for me.
12:52On the phone, Ty was so sweet to me.
12:55Like I literally can be on the phone with Ty for hours.
12:58You look like how you smell, but I need confirmation.
13:01You feel me?
13:02We could just be on a FaceTime.
13:03I feel like I'm blushing just because of the way he's speaking and looking at me.
13:08But we have to make sure that we have a strong connection
13:12and we match our vibes in person.
13:15Do you think he likes you?
13:18I think he might want to sleep with me.
13:21I don't know if he likes me.
13:23Are you all having a sit down talk today?
13:25I don't know.
13:26Well, then I think we should know.
13:29If you're having that conversation today, you should make it so that y'all do
13:32or y'all just going to keep wasting time.
13:34I'm nervous to have this conversation with Ty.
13:38I do try to sweep things under the rug sometimes
13:41and just think that it's going to go away.
13:43But I need to say something.
13:52I don't know what we're doing.
13:54Whatever it is, we got to win.
14:06So we pull up at this small building on the corner.
14:09I'm totally confused at this point.
14:11Like damn, are we about to go to a little tiny strip club?
14:19Hello.
14:21You guys finally made it through the first week.
14:24Give yourselves a round of applause.
14:27Unfortunately, we had to say goodbye to one of our couples,
14:30which means honeymoon phase is officially over.
14:36I was just going to start it.
14:37This week we're going to focus on trust.
14:42Can you and your partner really work well together when it counts
14:45or will the cracks start to show?
14:48I brought my good friend in, Jordan Black,
14:50who is here to teach us all about improv while building trust.
14:56I've never done improv before,
14:58but Christopher is actually really good at that stuff.
15:01You can't have good improv without communication and especially trust.
15:05We have to listen to each other in order to be able to let the other person know
15:09where we are in this scene, just like in relationships,
15:11so that we know where we are in the moment.
15:13All right. I think it's time to bring everybody up. Right.
15:16So let's have fun and see how it goes.
15:19This is a trust circle.
15:21One person is going to close their eyes and they're just going to walk to the edge.
15:24And the point is, you're going to trust that these people are not going to let you fall off stage.
15:27Right. All right. So who wants to go first?
15:29OK. Oh, yes. What's up? All right. What's your name, brother?
15:32Brandon. Brandon. Brandon. Start walking with purpose.
15:35Just keep walking. Walk all the way to the edge.
15:41I think Alicia and Irv, it was good for their energy to get out of the house
15:45because I think it was affecting everybody else's energy.
15:48Well, there you go. And I don't want this experience to do the same thing to me and Kiki.
15:52All right, Clay, close your eyes and let's go.
15:55Don't walk your big head too fast.
15:58Just trust. Just walk. They're not going to let you fall. I promise.
16:02Watch your head. Don't slow down.
16:04I swear if y'all don't catch me, I swear they're going to catch you.
16:07Turn around. Turn around. Turn in the right direction.
16:09All right. Last but not least. Keep going. Keep going.
16:12All right. Good, good, good, good, good. All right.
16:15Alexis didn't go. Oh, OK. Thank you.
16:18Come on, Alexis. I got trust issues.
16:21Alexis talking about she have damn trust issues.
16:24That rubbed me the wrong way. That's not right. They ain't going to let you fall.
16:28It shows me another thing about her character traits.
16:31You're not even given this new opportunity to learn something or try.
16:34Walk. Walk with purpose. Very nice.
16:39You always know who's got trust issues when you play this exercise. So we know we got to work on.
16:43I kind of had a little trust issue, but I didn't fall and we were good.
16:48OK, so now what I want to do is I want to bring you guys up six people at a time.
16:52You guys are going to tell this story. Three couples.
16:55Three couples. One, two, three. It's all about agreeing to what the facts are and then adding some more information.
17:01Just like in relationships, we have to be in some kind of agreement in order to move forward.
17:05What genre is this novel? Thriller. Start.
17:11John got murdered. I still got to keep going.
17:17I seen a bullet wound in his head. I don't know how it happened.
17:20I walked in. Nobody was home.
17:25Who killed him? I might have killed him.
17:28I made some poison last night. It was in a wine bottle.
17:32And I've been drinking wine since I got here. Check the cameras and everybody died.
17:38Meet the big fella at the Heavenly Gates. Guys, listen up.
17:43This goes with listening. The game to it is this is called Last Letter, because if I say to Rhonda, oh, good morning, you're looking real nice.
17:49Then she her next sentence has to start with the letter E. That's a lot of thinking right there.
17:55Right. It's called listening. Oh, I'm married and I know that's hard.
17:59The improv situation, we have to focus on listening to our partner.
18:04I'm about to paint a big ass picture. Every time we do anything, you like to do it big.
18:10That's the only way to do it. It's tough. Surprisingly, I'm having a great day.
18:17Surprised me. Why? So why?
18:22Why is it so surprising? It was pretty cool.
18:28A lot of good laughs. It's called eyewitness. Obviously, you're not going to believe it.
18:33What we see. Overall, the energy was pretty good.
18:38Look at the wings on that one. I mean, the game was cool.
18:43So we can use that as a building tool for us to get a stronger bond and understand each other more.
18:49So we can walk away with that. All right. Thank you, Jordan, for coming.
18:53Of course. Great job, you guys. Good job. You're free to go. Thank you guys.
18:57That was so awesome.
19:04Do you think the improv brought us closer? That was really fun.
19:09I think it was fun. That showed a level of trust I have in you because you could have let me hit the wall.
19:14I could have. But do you trust me?
19:19I don't know what I do wish I was a little more affectionate.
19:23I don't come from a very affectionate family. In my last relationship, that was one issue that we had.
19:30Brandon expected us to be a little more lovey dovey, a little more affectionate with each other.
19:35But I feel horrible because I haven't been honest with Brandon about my ex.
19:40That kind of made me, you know, not be able to be myself. And I don't know what to do about it.
19:46I don't understand how you can be so soft, but don't want affection.
19:50That is something that I'm also working through within myself.
19:53It seems like every date that we have, we get closer.
20:02Kiki, her behavior, it kind of makes me upset because it makes me wonder if she even likes me.
20:13I'm sorry.
20:26You had to come out here for a minute. What's wrong?
20:29Maybe to take a second, I need to come out here. Sometimes I just, you know, I'm just heightened and I just need to take a break.
20:37So I've got to find a way to tell you when I'm overwhelmed or when I don't like it.
20:41Because even with the going first thing, like I could tell that she was excited to go first.
20:46But that was overwhelming me. Always need to be us, us, us. Me, me, me, me, me.
20:52I want everybody to be like, Kiki, Kiki, that was far, far, far.
20:56And I think that's cute. That's right.
20:58But I'm saying, hear me out. That was kind of overwhelming me.
21:03And I had to try to step back and be like, OK, how can you let him know without ruining your fun?
21:09Do you get what I'm saying? Give me a hand. I'm gonna end this combo like this.
21:14Well, guess what? All right. Look, look, look, look, look, look.
21:17You don't even want to kiss me. So that's why I'm leaving.
21:20Get out of my way. All right.
21:31We're going to play a game, but it's light hearted.
21:34So what we're going to do is I got a list of questions here, right?
21:38When I ask a question, y'all are going to write down the names that come into mind.
21:42And it's couple based. We got blank cards here, right?
21:46Pass it down. Everybody get a sharpie. Here you go.
21:49The last time we played a game in here, it didn't go too well. Listen, we're going to be all right.
21:53We're going to be all right. Every time a game come out at the dinner table, I feel like it put everybody on the edge of their seat.
21:59At this moment, I know they're about to stir the pot up because the previous game didn't go too well.
22:04First question, which couple do you think will make it to the end?
22:09Oh, that's easy. Only one couple.
22:13I think I would say Dallas and Jared.
22:17Playin' Tati, playin' Tati. OK, y'all like that.
22:21OK. All right. Question two, which couple is in the most need of the intimacy suite?
22:30Can I hold up? Can I hold up all of them? No, you only get to pick one.
22:34No, wait, wait. You only get to pick one. Who's in need? Who's in need?
22:39OK, who wants to go? Wait, no, which couple is in most need?
22:44Like they need to go. Tati, what's yours? Tati, I can't see. What you got?
22:48Chris and Alexis. Chris and Alexis. OK.
22:51Alexis always bringing up saying I'm scared of the boom, boom, rum.
22:54Alexis know I'm a man that stands on business and I'm not easily persuaded.
22:58I told her what was my intentions and I told her no one is going to change my mind.
23:03When it's time for us to take that step, we will.
23:07Chris and Alexis won that one. OK, cool. Next question.
23:10Which couple is the least compatible?
23:14Everybody got something different. OK, let me see. You can just face it this way.
23:18Yeah, Brandon and Kiki, Brandon and Kiki, Kiki and Brandon, Kiki, Brandon, Lex and Chris.
23:24I feel like me and Kiki got some things to work on.
23:27I feel like we could still be compatible. But as of right now, no.
23:32Kiki, you don't have an answer. You gotta answer, baby. Let's go. You gotta answer, baby.
23:35You need to answer. I'll just pick one up. I don't know.
23:38Whatever. What's that say? Britain tie. Britain tie. OK.
23:41So Brandon and Kiki win that round. I thought it was a cute game.
23:45It's not that cute. Which couple is the most dramatic?
23:50Easy answer. I ain't going to lie to y'all. I'm sorry. It's easy.
23:53It's easy. If y'all think about this, if y'all got to think about this, y'all don't pay attention.
24:02Brandon, Brandon and Kiki.
24:05Finding out that people think that we're the least compatible, I don't blame them.
24:08In this moment right now, all we've done is bicker for a week.
24:12Imagine how I feel. I'm exhausted.
24:16Which couple has the most secrets?
24:20Still. Still. Oh.
24:27Clay, he has a whole child that Tati doesn't know about.
24:31My ex fiance ended up in my house pregnant.
24:34Clay's keeping the secret from her. Everyone in the house is slowly learning the secret.
24:39But we have to keep it from Tati. It's hard. It's difficult. It's weird.
24:42And I don't understand why he doesn't just tell her now. Tati and Clay, Tati and Clay, Tati and Clay.
24:47Clay, what you got? Clay, what you got, baby? I don't know.
24:51We need an answer. Give us something. It'll go, it'll go, it'll go.
24:55It's just speculation. Don't worry about it.
24:57But it's unanimous, apparently. That's crazy.
25:03So I am a little concerned with telling Tatiana my secret about me having a daughter.
25:09It can be a lot still.
25:16I want to I want to time it out correctly.
25:20Would you like to get your banana plant and go talk?
25:23OK, we can talk. Let's talk.
25:29I wanted to really talk to you so we could just start fresh, like literally start fresh, connect and have fun.
25:35Today was eye opening for me.
25:38Yeah, I just I'm tired of being in this funk.
25:41I'm tired of being in the funk and I feel like everybody can see it.
25:46And it's not just affecting you. It's not just affecting me.
25:49It's affecting like interactions with everybody.
25:53I'm really trying. I'm trying everything I can to make you happy best way possible.
25:58I can see an effort. I will say that I won't take that from you.
26:02So, like, no, I'm not at the point to where I want to leave. I want to stop.
26:06I'm not there. Like, I still see hope for us to get it together.
26:10We're going to have to find somewhere to meet in the middle.
26:13Let's work on that this week. Let's work on trying to meet in the middle.
26:17See where we go from there.
26:35I really love the way the light light up the night.
26:38Light up the night sky.
26:45Shakespeare. So you want to talk here?
26:49You don't want to sit here. Not really. Where you want to go on a patio.
26:53OK, I know that this is a conversation that we need to have and I'm nervous about it.
27:01I just don't like confrontation.
27:04I try to avoid it at all costs, but I need to have this conversation with Todd.
27:10I know we haven't really had a chance to catch up since our first argument and then we had a blow up.
27:17I'm supposed to put everything down, serve you. I'm supposed to do everything, huh?
27:21You don't do. You don't ask me what I want to eat.
27:24You ain't been doing nothing that you said that you were going to do.
27:27I want to tell you, I apologize. I shouldn't have took the tone that I took with you.
27:32It just seems like when I do cook or when I do do something, it's not enough for you.
27:40And over time, that starts to play in my mind.
27:46OK, so you apologize for saying what you said to me across the pool, but not for what you said.
27:54I don't apologize for not fixing your drink when you want it.
28:00I'm doing something for you. I expect my partner to do something for me as well.
28:04And what I've been seeing more so is you wanting me to cater to you hand in foot.
28:13But you put me at the bottom once everyone else is like, oh, yeah, we need this time.
28:19Oh, yeah. And Todd, we need this. We need that.
28:21Now, what I asked you to do is at the bottom of your priority list.
28:25You're not here for that. You're here for me.
28:28Well, I thought you were, but you decided to be a jerk in front of all of those people.
28:32And you embarrassed me. I did feel safe with you.
28:36I did feel like you're a protector. But at that moment, you did not protect my feelings.
28:39You did not protect my character. That's not protecting me.
28:43So I no longer feel safe with you. I don't trust you.
28:48I'm trying. But the thing that I'm bothered by is the fact that although I'm trying,
28:56it seems like it's not enough for you. I'm the first one to apologize.
29:02You know, I'm doing a lot and she's not taking any accountability for any of it.
29:06And I'm trying to be patient enough to find the moment.
29:10Is this just who she is or is it the circumstances that we're in?
29:16We both have things we need to work on. It's not just tie.
29:21You've got to work on this. You've got to do this. You've got to do that.
29:23I want someone that I can work through things. I want to partner.
29:27I don't want to be the person as you don't want to partner.
29:30You want to be a class clown. Why did you just make jokes?
29:33Because now I'm getting tired of this conversation. See, that's what I'm saying.
29:36I really am getting tired. That's what you want to play and joke and cook.
29:40And that's what you want to do and be condescending.
29:44That's not going to work with me. It's not going to work with me. I'm talking.
29:47No, you're slow. Is that OK with you?
29:51Don't be condescending. You just can't help it. I just want to be in your makeup.
29:56You just can't help it. I don't want to leave everything up. You can't help it.
30:00OK, OK. Sounds good. All right.
30:21So Ty and I met through his brother, actually. I've been known his brother for about 15 years.
30:27His name is DeMond, but I call him Smooth.
30:29I also want to tell Smooth about my grievances with his brother so that he can, like, talk to Ty for me.
30:36Why didn't you tell me about your brother? I don't know how wonderful he is.
30:40I don't know. What do you mean? Let me see. I think he's back here still.
30:45Hey, man, you know, I just see a big ball and it's my hobby.
30:48Yeah, you know, we're proud to say you look good, feel good, you play good.
30:52All that. Look, with me being here, you know, you got to start me off. I need a drink.
30:55Hey, man, come on. Let's get something real. Can I get something real?
30:59Hey, how you doing? Hi. Who are you here for? Brittany.
31:03OK, OK. Y'all kind of resemble each other.
31:08I talk to my mom every day, so I always tell her if I'm having like an issue.
31:13So my mom, she'll give it to me straight. What do you want to drink?
31:17So break it down. Man, me and Brittany been having some issues, bro.
31:22Me and Tyler got into it like bad in front of everybody at the pool since we've been in the house.
31:32Like he's just been running around and like leaving me to fend for myself.
31:37But when we were talking, he's like, no, I'm going to be cooking for you.
31:40We're going to be doing this together. We're going to do that together.
31:43It's been a miscommunication on both our parts. Why?
31:46I'm starting to feel like, you know, I have to live up to a certain level to please her.
31:53It's been like I'm not enough.
31:55But every time I wake up and look for him, I can never find him.
31:58And then when I do find him, he's just playing, you know, spades with the guys or working out with the guys or.
32:04Supposed to be about you and him. Exactly.
32:07He acts like he's on a vacation at a boys camp. Yeah, exactly.
32:10And so the other day, you know, me and the fellas, we decided to grill for the ladies.
32:15And while I'm on the grill, you know, Britt and some of the other ladies are in the swimming pool.
32:19And, you know, she tells me to go fix her a drink.
32:23I said, when you go back in the house, can you grab me a drink?
32:27He was just like, oh, well, no one brought out the pasta.
32:30So now I got to go get it. So you're going to get your drink later.
32:33She told me I need to get my priorities together. What?
32:36And I'm like, where did that come from? That was disrespectful.
32:38That was very disrespectful. Oh, yeah. You know me.
32:41I'm big on respect. I give respect. But when I get disrespected, I feel played.
32:45I hear him saying she won't let me get a drink.
32:48I'm the one doing all the food and doing it like talk about me.
32:52So I start to feel like you're right. And I've been mad like that.
32:55And I mean, you know, a nice thing to say was that when you get a chance, come talk to me.
33:00Just leave it like that. You're right. That's why I hear you say, yeah, I hear you.
33:03Hey, come talk to me. You get a chance. Yeah, I could have said that.
33:07I don't want to say you should just hang it up. I don't want to say that.
33:10OK, I think that maybe you do need to have that talk.
33:15Another one. No, you need to have the talk. He needs to listen this time.
33:21Yeah, he does do more talking than listening. Yeah, that's for sure.
33:23So let me ask you a question. Yes. Are you ready to call this a quit?
33:27Not at all. You know, I don't got no quit in me. I want to continue to work on our relationship.
33:32This is our first argument. We haven't been in the argument.
33:35I want to actually talk about it and get to work through it.
33:39You know what I'm saying? I would like to have resolution to this, to the conflict.
33:44I'm not sure what it is, but I would at least like to step outside of myself to see.
33:49OK, what could I have done better or what could you have done better?
33:57Hello, hello, hello. This is my mom. Hi, nice to meet you. I'm Tyler. Nice to meet you.
34:02And that's Smooth. Hi, it's a pleasure meeting you.
34:06I do not believe that Ty has his priorities in order. I really just don't know if it's fixable.
34:12Like if we can't figure out a way to just move on, then I will not be leaving with Ty.
34:20So I'd like to ask you a question. Absolutely.
34:24Why haven't you been giving her all of your attention?
34:30Personally, I feel a lot of pressure from her to keep outdoing.
34:36And at some point you plateau. Right.
34:39I can't just every day outdo what I did the previous day, every day outdo what I did the previous day.
34:44Why not? Why not? You're doing that for them.
34:48No, no, I don't. Yeah you are.
34:51You're cooking and you're asking them, are they happy with this? Are they comfortable?
34:56My husband impresses me every day, every single day.
35:01I feel like I'm trying to listen to her. I'm trying to listen to you, but you're not hearing what I'm saying as well.
35:08And I think that's where we're having a blockage problem.
35:12If you want something, let me know and just be patient enough for me to do it because I'm going to do it.
35:18It's not like I didn't want to bring you a drink. I was going to bring you a drink.
35:21You have to have more patience, Brittany. I know, but everything can't just.
35:26I'm going to say this one more time. I'm going to leave it. I just feel like I'm at the bottom of his priorities.
35:32You got to get her back up. And that's what irritated me. But I'm going to leave it.
35:36I just want to be happy in this house and figure out if we're going to continue this or not.
35:43Me, too. All right. All right. I will do my best to not be cold.
35:49I think I've been being cold to you. I appreciate that. Thank you.
35:52And I will try to be more present and to check on you more and be more perceptive of what you feel.
35:58OK. All right. That sounds good. Absolutely. Yes, please.
36:05That was cute. This situation is definitely fixable. I just need Ty to step it up.
36:12I need Ty to do all those things that he said he was going to do when we were on the phone.
36:18I might want to ask him something. I think he understands now.
36:26Bye. Bye. Thank you for coming. Bye, baby.
36:32Hi, brother. Hi, brother. All right. Bye.
36:39All right, baby. You want me to get you another drink? Another drink? What is this? This cranberry juice?
36:43Yeah. All right. We're going to put some vodka in this.
36:50I don't know who packed that up for the dishes. I feel like every day I'm doing at least an hour or two of dishes.
36:55I'm about to go shower. Me, too. If I don't see y'all, see you in the morning.
37:01Yes, sir. Have a good night. Put these dogs up. My toes? Yes.
37:06Them dogs. How does it feel so far? Good. Really good.
37:12Being that I am a heavy on physical touch and that she loves foot massages, I'm just trying to lay it on thick.
37:20Let her know, you know, that I'm listening to her. So here's a car in the car.
37:25You ask me a question and I'll ask you either the same question or I can ask you a different question.
37:33So this is the first question. What about me is most strange or unfamiliar to you?
37:41The relationship you have with your son. I know it's very, very important to you.
37:48But I don't know it in the way that you know it. You know, I'm saying it's unfamiliar.
37:54It's unfamiliar. My son means more to me than anything in the world.
37:59You know, when you feel like you've been in love before, like, oh, I've been in love, yada yada.
38:03Now that I think about it, I'm not sure if I've ever been just head over heels in love with anything other than my son.
38:12Like, it's crazy. It's been really difficult being away from my son.
38:18I come with a three year old, so I come with a lot. It may be overwhelming for a time.
38:25I need you to understand how much my son means to me.
38:31What was your first impression of me? That you're crazy. What kind of crazy? Funny, crazy. OK.
38:41Do I have loose screws or I don't have loose screws? You might have a few. Yeah, I'll say I'll say two.
38:46OK, which one? Where do I need them tightened? I'll figure it out.
38:54You're going to tighten them? Yes, I'm going to tighten them. OK, you're going to do the maintenance and the upkeep? Yes, yes.
39:00No, I ain't got my glasses on. What is my body language telling you right now?
39:05It's telling me. You better get it right, too. You better get it right.
39:11That you like me and want me. That's it. And trying to keep me. OK.
39:17How's this massage? It feels amazing. That's all I wanted to know. OK. OK. OK.
39:26I'm going to be honest, this is a growing process. We did not expect this to be easy.
39:32My expectations were different. Like I felt like, you know, who's going to meet, come in the house.
39:38Everything's going to be great. Sunshines and rainbows. And then when it wasn't, I was like, oh, my fantasy.
39:49Honestly, if it was going to be easy, we wouldn't be here right now.
39:57Even though we've known each other for four years, I'm struggling to open up to Brandon in person and let him be intimate.
40:03But I really feel like because I've gone through the situation with my ex, we were together for about eight years.
40:10We've ended because of some infidelity and it really broke my heart.
40:16I think that that's kind of why I haven't been completely honest with Brandon.
40:20Today was the day I was able to process everything, even though you might seem like it was a bad day.
40:25I don't think it was.
40:26I don't think it was.
40:30See what I mean? Like, oh, I'm happy to be able to laugh and stuff over this whole week.
40:37Are you still in love with your ex?
40:50Where you going?
40:51I'm going to sit down.
40:53Why would you ask me if I'm still in love with my ex?
40:57I don't want to talk about it.
41:00I'm sorry.
41:05What's better? Online dating or in real life?
41:09Chris?
41:10Online!
41:13Never have I ever slept with more than one person in a day.
41:18I'm out.
41:19You so damn extra.
41:21I really came here for my love right here.
41:23Clay is making Thai tea look like a food.
41:26So apparently you have a secret.