The Never Ever Mets - Season 2 Episode 4 -Lying for Sport
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00:00I'm down here cooking by myself and I got other couples helping me like my relationship with them
00:05I feel like Brandon. He's judging me and controlling me. How the hell we over the drinking and you drinking again?
00:10I don't know if me and Kiki relationship can continue if the jerking doesn't stop
00:17When we have a disagreement your energy changes into me it feels like aggression
00:22It sounds like that the two things that are challenging for the two of you are communication and conflict so explicit communication
00:28Can you do that? I can okay. Can you do that definitely?
00:34It feels great to win the challenge and then on top of it we get a massage
00:38Yeah, I tried to do these moves on bridge, but she was too receptive
00:42I'm hoping that I can be that alpha male that I need
00:51My ex fiance ended up in my house pregnant
00:54I need to tell Tatiana that I have a daughter. What were you talking to him about because I can hear you say something
00:59I feel like Clay is just lying to me. It's seeming a little fake
01:05We don't act like all this is gonna end tomorrow
01:08I need you to write if you are gonna accept your significant other whether you would leave your partner. Y'all three said no
01:15So four out of the seven men said no. It definitely feels like everyone's over that honeymoon phase
01:24You
01:35Think should be upset if I take a coma is it open?
01:47You don't know this
01:55I got feeling after last night. I
01:59Feel like if ladies would have heard us we all be in a doghouse y'all would be in it
02:07I'm good. I'm chillin if Charlie would have heard me. We'd be being them that them Suburbans right now. He's down that driveway
02:16Last night I presented the group with a game and I said if we were to leave tomorrow
02:23What would be everyone's answer it is very anonymous I
02:29Put F. No on my card F. No, I
02:33Was feeling a shock and awe thinking about damn six kids in the house is crazy
02:37It was definitely interesting seeing everyone else's answers for nose and to undecided
02:43After that, it definitely feels like tensions are high, but it was what it was. I
02:49Was just speaking for the moment and being a little pity but this morning if they asked me there to be like, okay
02:53Maybe Kiki wanted to talk to me about my know and she claims she's seen me write it
02:58But I just told I went in a mental headspace to do it. I was too exhausted
03:01I actually feel bad because I did want to talk that would have let her know why I wrote no
03:07But at the same time I don't feel bad. Y'all know so crazy with all these issues that's been going on
03:14Communication is literally everybody issue people gotta figure out how to communicate to go. It's a new day. Yes
03:21Hey, so we're gonna treat it like it's a new day. Absolutely
03:31Sheridan Charlie, it's cooking tonight. Just so you know, I'm assisting and he's getting the vegan list together, you know
03:38Clay gonna do vegan. Honestly, I don't know whether he's gonna eat vegan or not. Do you care if he eats vegan?
03:45No, I don't care if he eats vegan. I told him that like I never asked him to go vegan for me
03:50So I let him know yesterday like if you want to eat meat you can when clay moved into the house
03:56He told me that he wanted to pursue a vegan diet because I am vegan
04:01I have been trying to support him in that journey
04:06But it's seeming like a facade
04:09Cuz yesterday I see him scarfing down some beef taquitos and then shots a lot to me about it
04:16You eating those taquitos
04:24Just eat what you won't dinner he had the vegan stuff and then when I made the sandwich it was
04:30chicken turkey ham bacon
04:33Swiss cheese mayo
04:35That's crazy. I use the bacon grease to do the bread to toast the bread. Yeah, he went all the way. Yeah, like
04:43He was sweating. It's all making sense. That's why I thought he wasn't vegan no more cuz he's not so you feel like the vegan
04:48Thing is fake now. Yeah
04:51It's definitely fake. It made me feel like oh jokes on me cuz I'm supposed to be the only one who don't know
04:57If you will create this whole
04:59Charades of being vegan it just makes me feel like what else would you pretend to be in my face?
05:05But then be different behind my back and I could definitely see myself feeling resentful
05:10Because he already started to break away from my trust
05:14He's really digging himself a hole. He's he ain't gonna be able to get out of right cuz I'm digging it deeper and deeper
05:19Yeah, and it's sad because he is a sweet person
05:21He's like I know that and I know he can't tell but it's like none of that really matters if like I can't trust you
05:30How are you feeling
05:33Um
05:35Not myself today
05:37But mentally, I'm okay. I do feel guilty about last night
05:42I feel like that was a little harsh being that I'm sober now because I do have love for Charlie
05:50Is there anything I can do
05:52No, you've been great
05:55You have like the perfect balance of like giving my space and then being around me. Mm-hmm
06:00That's what I tell people like yeah, we had what we talked about we talked about we had our secrets
06:05But bro, me and Charlie are in so deep. Yeah, I have no idea
06:09I can't even like sometimes I feel like I can't even find a way to explain like
06:14our
06:17Dynamic dynamic. Thank you. See and you finish my
06:21Sentences
06:27But yeah, like I dynamic is so it's so heavy it's like yeah
06:31I mean what you told me was shocking it hurt, but I was like
06:35She's still Charlie. Yeah. Yeah. I'm the same me. Yeah. Yeah, so I know leading up to this
06:40We've been talking about the intimacy suite
06:44Mm-hmm, and I'm waiting on you
06:47Not to make the first move, but to me you're comfortable with it
06:51I've been waiting to see Charlie for four years
06:54I do feel things are progressing in the right way, but I was raised as a gentleman
06:58So I'm gonna let her make the first move
07:00But after she makes the first move, I think I'll be making all the moves after if you know what I mean
07:07Whenever you ready whenever whenever I have your permission
07:10Yeah, you have my consent at any time to put it on me at any time anytime. Okay?
07:17Then we should probably book that suite tonight. All right, let's do it. Okay, I'll call and make a reservation
07:21Do that right my name on the door just go around yelling it to everybody. I hope you ain't got no plans tonight
07:31It was four years of my life waiting to meet Kiki but after being here in person
07:36It's been teaching between us. I feel like I need to have a civilized conversation with her
07:41So let's talk
07:43Brandon, what do we go through last night? You wouldn't even talk
07:47We didn't talk talking over each other. You're talking to other people. You love me to cook along for 14 people
07:53And doing dinner while I was cooking you was drinking instead of helping. She wanted some damn look. We're literally
08:06Alright this is to see if we're going to work
08:09You you acting like I'm some type of alcoholic. I've had the same amount of drinks to everybody else. That's a lie
08:15I definitely think Brandon is controlling and we've never had that problem
08:20Online as an adult I can monitor my own
08:23intake
08:24That's it. All I'm asking if you mind your business
08:28I sure will it starts at the drinking. You don't want me to drink today, but tomorrow
08:34You're not gonna want me to do something else and then you're not gonna want me to do something else
08:37You can't tell me what to do
08:39It starts low, but it's gonna keep progressing and progressing and progressing if I let you get away with it
08:46I'm done with the conversation
08:49It's how I did I'm tired of you
08:53You're not my daddy I
08:58Came here to try to make it work. Yeah, if I do have a problem in the situation we have and Kiki
09:04She want to come back at me. Don't do that. Like for a let's meet. Let's meet for real
09:08I don't want to be an air shot of anybody else's problem. I was literally just drained outside
09:14Hearing the arguing the fighting and now Brandon is talking about it with everybody. That's not cool
09:21Kiki's outside you can talk to her. Why are we making the kitchen the place that all this dissension is?
09:26I don't know what y'all talk about in here, but you need to have a conversation with Kiki. It's draining me
09:31I don't want to be doing that's why I'm shifting and moving. I was appreciating the poolside
09:35Y'all gotta figure out what is the resolution for y'all as a couple?
09:39Because we can't do it like this is my breathing moment. Got you. Okay. Thank you my business. Sorry
09:44So you want to come at me about my relationship? What about yours and where you treat her?
09:48I feel like Alicia is concerned about everybody else relationship being 100% instead of focusing on her own relationship
09:56With her her personality is just like aggressive aggressive aggressive and coming at me. It's not cool
10:01I don't like how you just came in here at me and don't even know what the hell going on with me and Kiki
10:07Gotcha, and your relationship ain't even like that. Okay, how you want to fix somebody else?
10:12I'm not trying to fix anyone's relationship
10:15I felt like it right there what I was trying to encourage you to do
10:19It's to move your conversation into the person who it matters to that's it
10:27They do get hot in this kitchen
10:32Hey, I just need you to know
10:35Your girl came and got into my little situation
10:37Yeah, Debbie, but like you want to be in my relationship with you. You gotta get your right word
10:42What is it? What did she say? She's came in here said something to you. Like yeah
10:46Just came in and everybody talking to each other not talking
10:50I'll talk to her. That's my job
10:54Alicia should have kept her mouth shut mind her business the way that you're acting the whole bossy attitude like you're the problem
11:01This is a firing
11:03Mentally exhausting, bro
11:10Being in the house as opposed to being online
11:12I'm starting to really see a different side of Alicia being in other people's business. It's another red flag
11:21I've seen alcohol
11:24Relationships, I don't need you monitoring me. I don't need you controlling what I drink cuz you scared
11:28I feel like you're judging me. It really just gets under my skin
11:31Cuz I just hate when people be lying, baby, I don't got a lot of you
11:35But you did but you did it feel like about petty. What else will he lie about?
11:43I'll talk to us
11:46What happened when you just went in there
11:51Come on let's go. Oh Jesus
11:53I
11:56Don't know it's like it seems like you're causing issues like just now let me just let me talk
12:04Give me attitude all you want. That's fine. The only thing I've done today is mind my business today, but that's the thing
12:15Okay, okay
12:16I will say this when I came in inside from the pool and I was like
12:20Why don't you just go talk to Kiki?
12:22Cuz they don't you mind your business. You're right. I should have my my business. That was my
12:27This is the thing. That was my bad. Can you not like no
12:31I feel like you gotta like reprimand me almost for myself
12:35Like, you know if I'm gonna be in a relationship with somebody they're basically a representation of me if you're going around being messy
12:42It's not attractive. Just listen. All right
12:45As
12:48Man I want to be able to protect you, right? Yes
12:51But I'm not gonna fight every little battle. Okay, do you understand like stop agitating the problem?
12:57Just chill out. I'm saying I'm not taking accountability for anything else today cuz I didn't do anything
13:03I'm chilling like I'm in my bag. All right, like
13:15I just have to pray for a moment cuz I'm I'm getting overwhelmed
13:19So I didn't do I have to do for my body
13:22Okay, just just chill. You're stressing me out. I look like the wild woman
13:27I'm speaking in tongues called it on the Holy Spirit trying to regulate my emotions because you keep activating me
13:32I'm just saying move forward. Don't do it again. Just don't like don't talk to me like that
13:38I'm not talking just don't like it isn't like just stop. Why can't there be peace?
13:42Maybe he's the spirit of the house. You're flaming hot Cheetos right now and I feel really attacked and misunderstood
13:49I'm being inserted into people suffer people just talking about their stuff in front of me
13:54So I really don't think his anger is warranted towards me in this moment
13:59I'm just I'm so drained by it all like just try not to interject. I don't want to hear nothing else about it
14:05Let's squash it. Yeah, that's all good, please
14:10Mmm, thank you guys for personal peace
14:31You guys been here for a week I noticed some things have come up so I brought in my good friend. Dr. Ali
14:37She's a relationship expert and she's gonna help you navigate through some things. Okay. All right. I'll leave you to it
14:43All right. Thank you
14:47All right, y'all so my name is dr. Ali I have my PhD in clinical psychology I work as a coach
14:53I work as a relationship expert
14:55So can we can we catch me up on what's been happening and why you might think they called me in?
15:00I think that you should speak since you have the issue
15:03Okay
15:04Well, I have dealt with
15:07Like trauma in my life where I've seen
15:11alcohol
15:13warm relationships
15:15Worn homes. My mom it's husband. He always came home drinking
15:20So I just don't want to see us going down the same road and him and my mom got a divorce for that
15:26and I'm trying to
15:27Iterate that to her about me care for and also her care for herself and not letting alcohol control her
15:34Let her control the alcohol
15:36Thank you very much, Brandon
15:38Kiki, yes, you don't look excited. I'm not about this conversation. I'm not cuz I'm so tired of having it
15:45I understand the trauma he expressed to me what was going on
15:48I get that but I don't need you monitoring me
15:50I don't need you controlling what I drink cuz you scared like that. I feel like you're judging me
15:55It's very frustrating because I'm not his stepdad do I have sympathy for him in the situation?
16:01Absolutely, but the fact that he compares to it's like apples and oranges and it really just gets under my skin
16:08We're in the house with a bunch of different couples, you know, it's a high-stress environment
16:11I I'm excited, you know for me. This is kind of like a vacation
16:15I'm having a good time and I'm a social drinker. So I'm having you know, a couple of drinks, right?
16:21So how many drinks do y'all think is too many drinks for one night?
16:26For me I did three I did a three-drink limit. Okay, so you believe three drinks is like the limit. What about you?
16:33what do you think is a I drink I can handle my
16:37my cause I feel like
16:39Depending on the night maybe two or three drinks and maybe two or three shots
16:44So maybe six seven drinks a night possibly, but it would be during over the span of like, you know the entire night
16:52Well, there are actual
16:54Guidelines as to what is considered binge drinking and it is for drinks
17:01And it is slightly less for women
17:12Are you here with me right here I care about you. Okay. I don't know you yet, but you seem wonderful
17:17Oh, but for drinks is considered a binge
17:21Officially like by the health standards
17:27So have you always drank like this or was there a time when it kind of like started
17:32Maybe about a year or so. I recently lost my mama
17:36It kind of takes me out of my head a little bit when I do have a couple drinks and I get to have
17:40Fun, it takes some of that heaviness away. That's a that's a big loss. Yeah, I lost my dad in 2020
17:47It's I'm still not okay. Hey, that was my best friend. Yeah
17:52Have you ever heard the term self-medicating?
17:54Yes
17:56When we connect an external substance to a desire to avoid an internal state
18:02That is when there is a concern
18:05So it seems like that has become
18:08Potentially a coping skill for you. Alcohol is taking a place that it shouldn't take
18:13Okay
18:15But then you
18:17control so when I hear the word control what it gets me thinking up is anxiety and
18:22Also with a history of trauma and in order to regain a sense of things being okay
18:27People with a history of trauma and anxiety can lean into over control
18:31I can see that and wanting to be a little too controlling
18:35So I'm saying you're not wrong and looking and seeing what's going on with her and being like alarm bells alarm bells something's going on
18:40Okay, but the way you're doing it might be a little bit too aggressive for this phase
18:45And I know the alcohol feels helpful in allowing you to relax
18:50Yeah, see if he can help you relax
18:54So I'm gonna dismiss you sir, you can go back to the house. Can we chat a little longer we can chat?
19:02It's like I'm out the conversation was very great. I feel like it helped us instead of reacting right away
19:07I'm gonna work on taking a break before
19:11reacting with my feelings and
19:14Stop trying to be so patrolling so we can move forward
19:21How are you feeling I haven't had the best couple of days so I'm just trying to just trying to regroup I
19:29Just I don't know. I guess I feel very
19:32It's starting to feel very lonely in the house because we're not we're not mission
19:38I just I get the feeling that there's something else
19:42Like you're holding something back. I
19:45Know how bad my ex made me feel. That's what it feels like. It's happening
19:50Conduct. I refuse to do that again. I refuse to be in a situation where I'm not
19:56chosen
19:57Tell me a little bit more about that relationship. He was my first love. I thought we were locked in
20:01I thought we were getting married, you know the whole dream
20:04He actually was my fiance and then I found out that he cheated on me with multiple people
20:11They were like pregnancy scares and like all of this and I'm like you're doing a lot
20:16Me and my ex worked together for about eight years and I'm still trying to heal from it and grow from it
20:21But it's been difficult to start dating again in person because of that we had to let that go
20:27But I feel like how long ago. Did you let it go?
20:32I'm about four months
20:36How long have you been talking to Brandon four years
20:44The math doesn't add up I know
20:47It was though if there was some overlapping when me and Brendan first started talking
20:53Me and my ex were still living together
20:55Hmm. Do you think you're gonna let him know Brandon? I
20:59I
21:01Don't know what he's gonna say
21:03I don't know what he's gonna think, you know, cuz I mean he already he's already we're already at odds
21:09Like I'm sure he's not gonna love that
21:13But at the same time like
21:16I'm also tired of you know, kind of holding on to that if that makes sense. You want to let it go
21:22I
21:25Nervous to tell him, you know my little secret. I just want to move past it
21:30I want everything to be fine because I really do have really deep feelings for Brandon now
21:35It's not a good time like because I want this all to die down. I think it's something we can wait past. Okay, honestly
21:44All right
21:49Charlie and I have reserved the boom-boom room. He's smelling good looking good. I'm excited for this
22:01You want to make friends or do you want your girl
22:13I'm excited. It's a date night. Miss who?
22:17We're all going to Topgolf after being in the house with all these people. Oh my god, what a much-needed break
22:23Saki, it's like an Asian wine just one shot
22:26And I got a little kiki. No, I took a shot. So that's communication. Let's get out of here
22:32Hope we can have a few drinks. Have a good time and just on some good energy
22:40Hopefully I get to hit my little victory dance tonight
22:44And report to it with Jared. You see how fine that man is, you know, he's smelling good looking good
22:50He's looking at me. We're laughing and I'm excited for this date
22:55You've been golfing before not all I did was miniature golf when I turned seven for my birthday. That was it
23:01I'm still annoyed with clay about this whole
23:05Shenanigan or charades of being vegan
23:09It just makes me feel like embarrassed like in front of everyone and also I'm thinking what else are you lying about?
23:19Sorry, did you feel about today you think it was progress I think that
23:25Having a mediator that
23:28That's not biased that actually kind of helped
23:31I was able to see, you know your point of view without feeling judged. I
23:37Did take communication is key
23:40Yeah, same me and Kiki communication have been bad, but tonight I think we're gonna work on our communication
23:47So that's something that we can do together
23:49I did take a shot with the fellas and I even told the fellas like hey
23:53I got to communicate this with Kiki because I know I made such a big deal of it
23:57Yeah, I'm kind of glad they got you to take a shot
24:01Oh
24:11Let's toast to good vibes and good energy and a good time
24:19Here we go
24:22All right, that was that was the warm-up that was the warm-up I just making sure all the joints are working right there
24:28All right, we got it baby, I'm gonna put it on the thing for me it's so sweet so I had to bend down
24:34Tonight. I'm hoping that Irvin and I can just let all the tensions and the heat go from the day. I just really
24:41want to reconnect with him and
24:45Bring our focus back to why we're here
24:52Hey, that's the same thing I was doing Alicia I'm with you I wish
24:58I
25:02Think you all the trouble what's up?
25:04Man, Kiki, it's been teaching between us. I feel like we needed something that was gonna really just relax us
25:11Yes, we're drinking together tonight. So right now I feel like we both agree that you know, we both can drink tonight
25:19I'm with it
25:22I feel like Brandon is being actually nice like another shot
25:28I would say we're on a uphill slope. So I really hope that we can start at a clean place
25:38So focus
25:45Where we go
25:52Name of the game is only the strong survive
25:54Me and J stick to ourselves do our thing and stay out the drama
25:58We got things going good. And at the end of the day, we're not trying to leave with everybody we trying to leave with each other
26:05There you go
26:07You just like me
26:16You are
26:18I
26:24Can't
26:40Don't want to be with anybody that's gonna call me weird. I am being my authentic self. I
26:46Am dealing with your emotional dysregulation every day
26:50I never know what I'm gonna get every day from you emotionally and you're calling me. We're on our second date
27:03Let it rip J let it rip my brother
27:07I
27:12Is not paying attention to me, it's okay
27:14we know what you capable of that could also be a reason why we've never met and he's so busy because
27:21He focuses on other things. Oh
27:24Yeah, I'm gonna get the hang of it J improvement. All right
27:28Whose turn is
27:30Do we get our drinks here in my opinion people
27:34Prioritize things that they want. Do you want to make friends or do you want your girl?
27:39Play don't be don't be coming over here saying is it cool after you know already started go
27:58I
28:00Just told me yesterday that you was asking her to make you food and they had me in it
28:04But you specifically told me that you were eating vegan today. You're like, oh, baby. You seen everything that I ate
28:08I just feel like you'd be lying. I can't eat what I want
28:12You can't eat what you want to eat, but you were lying about it. Stop trying to make me look stupid
28:17I'm pissed just because I felt embarrassed
28:20Oh, yeah, I'm not trying to argue tonight listen
28:24Yeah, a picture and she just want you to apologize for lying about even if it's sure cuz he was being a fake ass
28:30That's all she want to hear you say listen. Listen, remember we was talking earlier
28:34I swear to God all she want to hear you say is I'm sorry for lying about the food
28:38I was eating say that drink your drink and leave it alone
28:40You need to look at these like intentions in the reason why no, you may not do it. No, I
28:47Said two words and you've cut me off as you'd be lying. Okay, so you want to just go home and I did it so much
28:53You can do what you want to do
28:55Really?
28:57You're an adult so you make your own choices. Okay, I
29:01Understand that she may look at this as I lied and hid something
29:06But I also feel like Tatiana disrespected me. I was talking that she just walked away
29:11So I want to respect her and appreciate her but I need respect too. Can I finish talking?
29:15I don't care
29:18You keep cutting me off every time I talk because I just hate when people be lying and they just want to
29:24But you did but you did
29:26My face and say, oh, baby, everything I ate knowing that you was asking Jay to make you other
29:31Oh, so you feel the type of way cuz he was eating my name was lying
29:34If you if you'll lie about petty what else will he lie about?
29:37Cuz I never asked him to be vegan. I never did that. He created all this
29:41I
29:43Did not care none of the men I dated have been vegan you ready, so I don't give up about that
29:47He did that and then he was lucky. I'm sorry. You want to swing or you want to yeah
29:52At the end of day bro. I just want to be right there
29:55You created the whole situation
29:58I
30:00Don't I just don't want to argue you know what I'm saying? Okay. Well, that's it
30:05whatever
30:06You got to talk with your hands like that. I can't talk. I want to talk
30:09Active do you have to talk with your hands like that? I want to talk. Okay. I hope it helps
30:19Is everybody having good time
30:39So
30:46Go quicker I wasn't doing it. I can go quicker. I'm yawning. Is it bothering you need some earplugs?
31:09I
31:25Don't know
31:27But this time to be together is very important in a relationship
31:34Jared and I have been doing amazing. He supported me 1,000% and we're getting very close
31:52As excited as we were to get into the intimacy suite
31:58We
32:00Noticed the camera on the wall
32:03Initial intentions after that were to just cuddle. However, we were whispering sweet nothings in each other's ear
32:10this is what we needed I think to kind of bring us closer together and
32:15It was phenomenal
32:17I
32:26Not doing that
32:28That's toxic. That's toxic. That's toxic being called weird and someone being upset with me because I smiled. I
32:37was initially attracted to Irvin because he was very enthusiastic and funny and
32:45Supportive and tender-hearted. I was able to see his heart come through. He should look to see his mom
32:51Yo, I only want to smile
32:53So I'm really disappointed in him because Irvin is a different man in person. Some people are really more comfortable with
33:02chaos
33:04Like they don't know what it feels like to have a healthy
33:09Relationship
33:10Yeah, that's what I think. I don't know. I don't even know what to think at this point
33:14So I'm miss Ronnie to call in a preacher something is wrong with these men
33:19Something's wrong. I don't live a life for all this bickering and fighting. I'm really trying to understand what he needs
33:26I want to be happy
33:30I've had enough bad relationships. I'm done with bad relationships. So how was the ride home?
33:35Um, he was sleep would y'all go in another day with somebody who on the second date
33:41They sleep on a car home. The energy is off
33:46Real bad. I'm just gonna sleep on it and tomorrow I
33:50Want to see what's what?
33:52Yeah, I'm just I'm not settling
33:55I can't
33:57I
34:09Was everything
34:14Maybe like five more minutes and then I can watch it. This is when we done. Okay, let me drop these
34:22Okay, you ready the only thing I didn't do with the toast, but are you gonna put butter on it?
34:27I didn't think I could there's vegan butter in there. Oh
34:30Okay
34:32So I have been saying that I wanted to go vegan because Tatiana's vegan
34:38But I was sneaking and cheating on the side. I thought it was funny
34:43But she's not taking it as a joke and she thinks I was playing her and and I wasn't my intentions not at all
34:51what I really want to apologize for is
34:54Like I was eating things that were not vegan and
34:59It wasn't in front of you, so it's like I was doing it behind your back exactly which is
35:04Right. It's like I just don't want you to feel like you have to do stuff like that
35:08I don't want you to feel like you have to hide stuff from me. I felt betrayed
35:11honestly, it made me look at you a lot different and I
35:15Don't want to look at you different because I really you know
35:17Like you and I don't want to like lose the trust that we're building because once the trust is gone
35:22It's like what else is there? I mean, I can't even apologize enough because it's like
35:27As I'm sitting here, I'm putting myself on the other side of it and I feel bad
35:31I
35:32Need a forgiveness clay after the vegan stuff because I felt like it takes a while for him to really like grasp what the real
35:39issue was
35:41Thank you, I know that he cares about me
35:43So I just want him to be honest about like who he is
35:47What he wants and honestly know that he doesn't have to be anything other than himself
35:52Like I'd rather you tell me when you're struggling with something and try to come off like oh
35:57Everything's together. Like you don't have to be that for me, you know, okay. I'd rather you be honest
36:03That makes sense. It's open and honest as we've been and as much as we do communicate
36:09I still haven't been able to tell Tatiana. I have a daughter
36:13My daughter is two months old
36:14So I'm gonna have to really be strategic and careful with relaying this new piece of information to her
36:20My main thing is just making sure that you're not a liar like a compulsive liar or somebody who just lies for sport
36:27Because that would definitely be something that would make me not want to like be with you girl
36:39Yeah, man, we put some salmon on the grill first, there you go always running
36:50Appreciate this compound you let us go to my dog. I
36:57Won't see you swimming you just walk and strolling through the water
37:02I don't want to get my hair all wet everything cuz we got plans later. Oh, yeah, not those types of
37:08But no, yes we do
37:11Take us to the ball ball
37:18At all no
37:20in life
37:25I know he likes to joke and play a lot, you know, and I like to laugh so be funny
37:29But sometimes I'm like, no, we're not going to build a room and stop making everything seem like something sexual is happening
37:36Oh, you know, that's what they do
37:39With Ty as we were talking on the phone, it was always just like I'm gonna cater to you
37:45I'm a very selective eater
37:48Yeah, that's why I'm up for the challenge you feel me we talked about our love language
37:53I want to go ahead and get in that kitchen and do a little stop stop
37:58The whole time he was just like talking about how he's gonna cook for me and he's gonna make me breakfast
38:03I'm gonna make you this and make it he ain't cook for me. Not one day like that was all talk
38:13I'll take these ends
38:16Squeeze them on top as a finisher
38:20I know Tyler's the cook. I get it. I know he does but it seems like he's just trying to
38:26Impress everyone else like look what I can do
38:30Instead of focusing on me
38:33Like we've waited all this time to see each other and I'm noticing that I am not a priority
38:40I'm gonna do the drinks after I come back with the pasta so everybody can start eating
38:51I
38:53Want my man to make me feel like I'm the only woman in the room and Ty is just not
39:00Paying enough attention to me. Honestly, he just hasn't done enough
39:05You heard what we're talking about earlier
39:07Did you hear mm-hmm, I'm grilling, you know and
39:13Old girl over there just sitting in the pool and say well, can you bring me a drink when you go in?
39:17That's all right
39:18Well, I'm gonna grab the pasta first and then you know after that after I bring that out
39:23You know, I'll go in and make you a drink
39:26You can hear me all you want. You can hear me all you want. You don't want to start
39:32I'm cooking for everybody and here you are in the pool telling me about bringing a drink
39:37I'm supposed to put everything down
39:39Go fix you a drink serve you they go run back inside get the pasta salad serve everybody while I'm on the grill
39:47I'm supposed to do everything, huh?
39:49I'm supposed to do everything you finish I can are you finished do it you don't
39:56First of all, you pretend like you supposed to be this gentleman. You're not a gentleman the whole time
40:01We've been here you go on a house. Don't say hey, baby. I'm going to house. Do you need anything?
40:04You just move and do your own I asked you plenty of times. Can you pick me breakfast?
40:08Can you cook me lunch? You don't do you don't ask me what I want to eat
40:12You ain't been doing nothing that you said that you were gonna do. I can't do nothing right around it
40:17Don't look like it
40:21Tanya Brittany at first I thought they were messing very well, but as we're seeing, you know
40:27Personalities are starting to clash. They're really starting to get over the honeymoon phase
40:31And I felt like I was caught in the crossfire, he's just immature
40:49I'm feeling slighted. I'm feeling a bit underappreciated
40:53I'm trying to be patient, but I'm starting to lean towards this is just who she is
41:01I got a phone call. It was my ex-girlfriend. I'm done toxic toxic toxic toxic toxic
41:09So that's how I'm not trying to be
41:12Which couple is the most dramatic Brandon and Kiki? All we've done is bicker for a week
41:19My fantasy, where you going?
41:21So break it down to Brittany told me I need to get my priorities together
41:25What that was very disrespectful. Are you ready to call this a quick?