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00:00When I met Ari, I was like, mm, she's so tiny.
00:03Like, mm, look at the tiny bitch she has.
00:05I wanted to, like, smash it.
00:13Next up is a bonus scene.
00:15OK, let's see.
00:16No, I definitely remember this.
00:23I didn't kick her out, man.
00:24You got the story wrong, bitch.
00:26Who are you calling bitch?
00:27Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:30That night, she come to my room.
00:32Did you talk to her?
00:33I think Gino regret everything what's
00:36in that lady's glasses, bro.
00:38I think Gino regrets that whole relationship.
00:44It just feels like we aren't really getting anywhere though.
00:47Like, I don't really feel any different towards Rob.
00:50I'd ask Sophie blatantly, do you want to see us work out?
00:53And I could not get a clear answer.
00:55Sophie just played, like, just keep trying, Rob.
00:57If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
00:59And she just never let anything I did be the right thing.
01:05Jasmine, I'll see you when you get back to Michigan.
01:07OK, to work out.
01:09No, to not work out.
01:11To have sex.
01:13I was like, wow, this is a point of no return.
01:17Like, this is actually happening.
01:18I will have to have sex with another man that
01:21is not my husband.
01:23I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this.
01:29We are approaching our 10-year mark.
01:32At times, a part of me feels it's time to let you go.
01:38I was floored.
01:40Like, this was nothing in my mind that would have happened.
01:44Even though who you marry is not your dream man.
01:50Oh my god, that's so sad.
01:51I can't watch this.
01:53You was happy with him.
01:55I'm like, wow, like, I need to treat myself better.
01:59I need to have more love for myself.
02:00I deserve happiness.
02:02It just seems like such a simple thing,
02:03but it was so big to me.
02:16The blonde bombshells are ready for the last episode.
02:20Let's do it.
02:23For the last time.
02:25I'm going to cry.
02:27You're going to cry?
02:27Why?
02:28This is the last film.
02:36Oh god, this.
02:37This.
02:57OK.
03:07You know, of no return.
03:09Like, this is actually happening.
03:11Oh my gosh, I will have to have sex with another man that
03:15is not my husband.
03:16Like, it started to feel more real.
03:21And I was panicking.
03:23I was chicken out.
03:24I was like, I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this.
03:35Matt, can you hear me?
03:37Yeah, can you hear me?
03:39Juno has some questions for you, some concerns.
03:43I had a lot of pressure from Jasmine to choose Matt.
03:46And, you know, I was thinking at that moment,
03:49like, maybe it's better if she's with a person
03:53that she kind of knows.
03:54I wouldn't want Jasmine seeing random people, you know?
03:59Because that's, to me, that's not very safe, you know?
04:02I mean, she can run into the wrong person
04:06and you'll never come back.
04:09Let's say she's, you know, starting to fall in love
04:13or get this really strong bond with you.
04:16Jasmine and I agreed that at that point,
04:18we would have to end this.
04:20But when I don't see that she is taken care of the way
04:24she should be, it's kind of heartbreaking
04:27because she has a good heart.
04:29To have him talk to you that way about your wife, wild.
04:36I mean, that's crazy.
04:39I'd rather just leave that between her and I.
04:46If that guy would have spoken to me about my wife the way
04:50that he spoke to you, I know what Jasmine needs.
04:53I would have slapped the shit out of him.
04:55I'm sorry.
04:56I would have slapped the shit out of him.
04:58Yeah, and I feel bad that I didn't react differently
05:01at the time.
05:02I just had a lot in my mind.
05:05That's something I should have been a red flag to me.
05:08Well, I mean, you're living in a sea of red flags, but yeah.
05:16It's like, dude, you're like, there's an island of red flags
05:20and then there's like this beautiful world
05:23and you're on a sailboat.
05:24And you're like, oh, the one with all the red flags
05:26looks really nice.
05:30Well, I think I got all the information I needed
05:32through this first conversation.
05:35So does it mean that you are OK with Matt
05:38be the person that we are going to bring up
05:40in your open marriage, or you have to think about it?
05:45I just think that Gino will pretty much go along
05:49with anything to keep Jasmine from leaving him.
05:53I don't know Matt that well.
05:55But from this moment, I'm OK with it at this moment.
06:01I don't think Gino has got any control over what's
06:03happening in his relationship.
06:05I mean, the guy didn't want his wife to use sex toys.
06:09If you didn't want her to use toys,
06:10then having sex with an actual person is way worse.
06:14Yeah, right.
06:15He might have the c**saurus.
06:16You don't know.
06:17And not only is she using c**saurus,
06:20but she got somebody who knows how to use his c**saurus.
06:24He's been using his c**saurus, and now he's
06:26going to use it on your girl.
06:27Like, bruh, you should definitely let her have a toy.
06:32Jasmine, I'll see you when you get back to Michigan.
06:36OK.
06:38To work out.
06:40No, to not work out.
06:43Oh.
06:43She feels guilty.
06:44I told you I don't want a friendship.
06:47OK.
06:49OK, to have sex then.
06:52There's feelings there.
06:54That's so bad.
06:56I feel bad for Gia, because it's like, if it is he doesn't
06:59want to lose her so bad that he's willing to do that,
07:02then that's really f**king sad.
07:04I mean, why can't I take these blue pills and just one time
07:07just give her what I want?
07:09This could be true.
07:11Maybe they don't work anymore.
07:12That's so sad.
07:13If the blue pills stop working, and that's the real reason,
07:16then that's really sad, because he can't.
07:20Can I hug you?
07:22I don't know.
07:23Remember what Reva said to reconnect.
07:26Give me a hug.
07:28I am very tense.
07:29It was very uncomfortable for me.
07:36When you're going to open up a relationship or your marriage,
07:39you have to make sure your person and you
07:42are 100% in agreement.
07:45And by listening to that conversation,
07:48there was, they're not on the same page.
07:50It appears that Jasmine not only is emotionally connected,
07:55but already wants to be sexually connected.
07:58And I think they said their rule was you can't
08:01have feelings for this person.
08:03Rule number one was broken before rule number one
08:06was made.
08:07Next up, we're going to watch the last night
08:09when you guys went out before the recommitment ceremony.
08:12And Gino, this is when you and Jasmine arrived at the bar.
08:15I wasn't there.
08:17OK.
08:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
08:22We ended up calling Matt the person
08:26that Jasmine picked for the open relationship.
08:30Oh.
08:30I told him that, hey, we can't, you guys can't
08:33have such a good friendship, OK?
08:35I told him, and it's going to be in the rules.
08:36I do not believe that you will not
08:38have feelings for him if you start a relationship with him.
08:43I hate that face he makes.
08:46He was so sad.
08:47How do you even do that?
08:53She's already known this guy.
08:55She's already talking to this guy.
08:56He knows too much about your relationship,
08:58and he's already telling her what's wrong with you.
09:03I kind of agree with you, Rob.
09:17We're trying to reconnect.
09:19So I was happy.
09:21I go to the bar, and there are all these bitches
09:25with no exception, OK?
09:28Snakes, traitors.
09:30Name some of the bitches.
09:32All of them.
09:33Rob, Sophie, Stacey, the only one I take away,
09:37believe it or not, Florian, and Julia.
09:40Julia was quiet, and Brandon was a lamp, part of the decoration.
09:46I feel like Matt already has feelings for you,
09:53and it's a little too late.
09:57I actually saw a smile and happiness
10:01like I've never seen in you.
10:03I mean, Stacey is normally like Switzerland, like, you know?
10:06Like, she listens to both sides.
10:08But for this time, like, for her to come out and say,
10:11you know what, Jasmine, you actually
10:13do have an emotional connection with this man,
10:15and it's not right.
10:17That was powerful.
10:18At that moment, it clicked in my head.
10:20You know what?
10:22They're right.
10:23That's why I agree with Stacey and Rob,
10:24and I said, it can't be Matt in that moment.
10:27For me, it cannot be a random person.
10:29OK, this guy over the bar, come to the open marriage.
10:33It has to be someone that I trust.
10:37Don't let her play that.
10:38Don't let her play that.
10:42Run, Jasmine.
10:43Jasmine, run, baby girl.
10:45I can build trust with another person,
10:48but I would have to start the process all over again.
10:50And that should happen.
10:54OK, this is why polyamorous people,
10:57ethical non-monogamous people should
10:58have their own friends, right?
11:00They should have friends who are in the lifestyle,
11:02who can support them, who can give them real healthy advice.
11:05This idea of like, oh, well, he can't catch feelings,
11:08they can't catch feelings, they can't have a friendship
11:11is ridiculous.
11:12Absolutely ridiculous.
11:15Most people, women especially, require trust
11:20in order to have sex, in order to have intimacy in that way.
11:23And it takes a long time to build trust.
11:26And it seems like over these past sexless nine months,
11:30Jasmine has been building trust with Matt,
11:33which is a good thing.
11:36But this idea that she just goes out on the street
11:37and finds some random person says a lot about what they
11:41think about Jasmine as well.
11:54Uh-oh.
12:12Yeah.
12:29She can dish it, but she can't take it.
12:31No, she cannot take it.
12:39Oh, shit.
12:40This is the moment everyone turned on Jasmine.
12:43If I can hold on to nine months without needing
12:45to f*** somebody else, I think you could too.
12:47F*** you, f*** everybody.
12:50Watching it back, I can see how everybody kind of came
12:55on a little aggressive at her.
12:56And I can see why she reacted the way she did.
12:58Because if I had just come in to meet the group,
13:01and I had just had a conversation with a therapist
13:04and with Julia, and we agreed we're
13:06going to hold off the parents, we're going to have this baby,
13:09and all of them were like, well, what do you mean?
13:11No, no, no, no.
13:12You need to bring your parents here.
13:14You need to not have this child.
13:15I would freak out too.
13:16I would completely understand where she's coming from,
13:19you know?
13:30Jasmine wasn't with me for Christmas.
13:31You kicked her out for Christmas.
13:33I didn't f***ing kick her out, man.
13:35You got the straight wrong bitch.
13:39What are you telling, bitch?
13:40No.
13:41Tell me.
13:42No, I'm telling you.
13:43Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
13:46Shut the f*** up, you stupid daddy.
13:49I'm not going to take your s***.
13:50You became the Hulk.
13:54Gino wanted to let out his rage, but Florian
13:57was not the right target.
13:58It wasn't anything about me wanting to fight Florian.
14:01It's just hearing, just have sex with Jasmine.
14:03That's what set me off.
14:05I'm not going to f***ing take your s***, man.
14:07I'm not going to take your s***, Florian.
14:10Gino's going through some s*** right now, all right?
14:13Gino was fighting them off.
14:15I didn't know he was fighting them off like that.
14:23Don't leave it to me, Gino.
14:24Good morning?
14:25You're going to think different.
14:26You don't understand the f***ing problem.
14:28That's the problem.
14:29Yes.
14:30That night, he's come to my room,
14:32knocking on my door and calling my phone.
14:34After the fight?
14:35After the fight, yes.
14:36Yeah.
14:37Did you talk to him?
14:38Yeah.
14:39What did he say?
14:40You're my brother.
14:41I love you.
14:42Let's smoke cigarettes together.
14:44But like, I feel sad for him.
14:46And like, he's 55 years old.
14:48And like, I think he's got angry.
14:50And like, he's thinking, I'm doing s***.
14:52Stop what I'm doing.
14:54You know my point?
14:55Yeah, I think he was.
14:56That's what I was telling you.
14:56I think he's really going through s***.
14:58I think Gino regret everything what's
15:02in that last resort.
15:03I think Gino regrets that whole relationship.
15:10This is one chosen for Gino.
15:12This is Gino.
15:13What I'm teaching you, this is so good.
15:25Let's go, Gino.
15:26I got you, my brother.
15:28All right, Sophie.
15:29Now you're going to watch some never-before-seen footage.
15:32This is your therapy session with Heidi.
15:34OK, let's see.
15:45So I wanted to check in with you today about where you're at
15:48and what's going on.
15:50I think since the session we had with just me and Rob,
15:54we haven't really argued and we've been doing well.
15:56But that's also because, like, you said,
15:58like, we shouldn't bring up the past, which is great.
16:00Like, when we don't bring up the past,
16:02we really don't argue and we do get along.
16:05But it just feels kind of like we aren't
16:08really getting anywhere, though.
16:09Like, I don't really feel any different towards Rob.
16:13Rob and I wasn't fighting because I was deliberately
16:16withholding my feelings.
16:17Because every time me and Rob would argue,
16:19it stems from I voice something about how I feel
16:24and he would take it as I'm attacking him
16:26because he doesn't do enough or he's not good enough.
16:28And yeah, that made me realize, like, oh, OK,
16:30it's like we're getting along because I'm withholding things
16:34that I want and my needs and my feelings.
16:36It shouldn't be like that.
16:37Like, I should be able to speak about how I feel and what I
16:40want and it just be validated rather than it's
16:43a huge argument.
16:45I, it's like I do love him and I care about him so much.
16:47It's like every time I think about, OK, like,
16:49maybe this isn't what I want, it's
16:51like I think about him having a life without me and I just.
16:54He's your person.
16:55I don't, I don't know.
16:57We have good times together and I can be,
17:00there's happy moments there.
17:01And then I think about the happy moments
17:03and it's like I don't want them to go.
17:05I'd ask Sophie blatantly, do you want to see us work out?
17:09And I could not get a clear answer.
17:10All I ever wanted was for Sophie to give me clarity
17:14on what the hell was what.
17:15Sophie never did that.
17:17She never even did that.
17:18Sophie just played like, just keep trying, Rob.
17:21Just keep trying and maybe, maybe we'll get there.
17:24If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
17:26If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
17:27She just never let anything I did be the right thing.
17:29Sophie, I want you to write a letter
17:32to the little younger Sophie and guide her to where you are.
17:37Like, here's what you're going to face.
17:39Stay away from this.
17:40And kind of giving insight to how life is going to be.
17:44I think that Sophie wants to pick herself
17:48but has never picked herself.
17:49One thing is, is that she's had a lot of trauma in her life.
17:53She's dealt with a parent who had an addiction.
17:56And a lot of times there's this feeling
18:00of shame attached to that.
18:02So with Sophie, I knew that she needed to get in touch
18:06with her inner child.
18:07Her writing this letter was imperative.
18:10Like what advice would she give herself
18:13with where she is today?
18:15And I think that starts to put things into perspective.
18:17And I knew that this would give her some clarity.
18:23Brandon, you are now going to get to watch
18:24your picnic with Julia.
18:26Oh.
18:27You and Julia had a picnic?
18:30Yeah, right before the recommitment ceremony.
18:33This is the day of the recommitment ceremony?
18:35Yeah.
18:36Wow.
18:37Damn.
18:38I didn't see Sophie the whole morning of, like, that whole day
18:40until the recommitment ceremony.
18:44The art therapy is all done.
18:46How are you feeling about all of it?
18:48I'm agreed to take a second opinion for baby.
18:51Yeah.
18:53But I didn't hear you agree to compromise about my parents.
18:59Julia's always so much risk, you know?
19:02She doesn't plan things.
19:03She doesn't think things through.
19:04And I have left to be the one to do that, carefully plan.
19:09Molly's my last.
19:10She throws caution to the wind.
19:11And I feel like this was a risky move for our family.
19:16And I was just trying to make the best decision for us.
19:18That's all it was.
19:19She was ready to risk it all.
19:21Exactly, right?
19:22Yeah.
19:24You know, maybe if you had told me when you first filed,
19:28we could have talked about this.
19:29And I could have come up with something.
19:31If you decide you're not going to help me with my parents,
19:35don't show up.
19:38Oh.
19:39Don't come to this ceremony.
19:45Think about that.
19:51I am floored and blown away, to say the least, at the fact
19:55that she gave him an ultimatum.
19:56Because I have watched this couple
19:59from the beginning to the end.
20:00I have worked with them from the beginning to the end.
20:03There was no need for an ultimatum.
20:05And I feel like she could regret that at some point.
20:08Because she might be like, did he
20:10choose to stay with me because I gave an ultimatum?
20:13I'll never know.
20:14All right, guys.
20:15It is game time.
20:17Woo!
20:19This is called, Who Said It?
20:22In that fishbowl, there are quotes that each of you
20:26have said while you're at the retreat.
20:29You will read the quotes and give your best impression of them.
20:34And you have to guess who said it.
20:37And you have to guess who said it.
20:40And you have to guess who said it.
20:43Got it.
20:44Got it.
20:47That's his evil laugh.
20:49Can I have my wine?
20:51If you're going to insult me, at least I'm going to be drunk.
20:57You're just like your Natalija.
21:02Actually, that's a good accent.
21:05I know.
21:07Those pills gave me a great orgasm.
21:10I'll take them by myself if I have to.
21:13I mean, that does sound like Gino.
21:15It's because it is Gino.
21:16That does sound like Gino.
21:18I like that.
21:19I'll take them by myself if I have to.
21:21I'll take them by myself if I have to.
21:27Chihuahua, you want a treat?
21:29You want a treat?
21:32You want a treat, Florian?
21:35Okay.
21:36Oh, that angry mom.
21:38Yeah.
21:40It's not about you right now.
21:43It's about everybody.
21:45Everybody.
21:47Look at me. Look at me.
21:49It's not about you right now.
21:52This is not about you right now.
21:54This is about everybody.
21:58Look at me.
22:00Julia?
22:01Yes.
22:03It's not about you right now.
22:09Ready?
22:10Yeah.
22:11I want to be free.
22:14I want to be free.
22:18I want to be free.
22:22I want to be free.
22:26Oh, my God. That was me.
22:28Really?
22:29Let me see.
22:30I want to be free.
22:34Wow, that one's too easy.
22:36Stacey.
22:37Ah, there you go.
22:38There you go.
22:39Easy.
22:44It kept going.
22:45It just kept going.
22:46Okay.
22:47Yeah, that was definitely Stacey.
22:50All right, Sophie.
22:51Next, we're going to watch your recommitment ceremony with Rob.
22:55Oh.
22:57Okay, yeah.
22:59Okay, I'm ready.
23:00Just go ahead.
23:08Mine is kind of different because I wrote, like, a letter to my younger self.
23:14So I have anxiety, but I'm going to read it, okay?
23:18Dear younger Sophie, you are now more confident.
23:22You finally have friends and even end up getting married.
23:28Oh, my God, that's so sad.
23:29I can't watch this.
23:30Even though I don't want to watch it.
23:34Ah.
23:37Will you marry?
23:40It's not your dream, man.
23:45You was happy with him for a few years
23:52and will always love and care for him.
24:05Can you tell me about how you're feeling?
24:09Watching that moment was definitely difficult because I could, like, feel the emotions I was feeling in that time,
24:15and I just was, like, so anxious and upset and just—
24:20I'm proud of myself, though, because it was the right thing to do.
24:24Like, imagining young me, it's like, you know, a kid.
24:27It's like, oh, like, you know, they deserve love.
24:29They deserve care and kindness and, you know, to have their feelings heard.
24:34And it's like, that's still me.
24:36That's just older me, and it's like, oh, like, I deserve all those things, too.
24:40It just seems like such a simple thing, but it was so big to me because I'm like, wow, like, I need to treat myself better.
24:46I need to have more love for myself.
24:48I need to really, like—I deserve happiness.
24:51And it was like, yeah, just thinking about it from that, it's like, okay, I do love me because younger me is me.
25:03Well, I think that's pretty much it, then, no?
25:06I would like to be still here to help you out.
25:13You know, what I wrote doesn't matter.
25:22Did she come to your room, or did you see her at the resort after the ceremony at all?
25:27I came to her room because I had to pick up some stuff.
25:30I needed to pick up some of my clothes, and she's crying, trying to hug me,
25:33and I'm, like, literally standing in a corner with a chair between me and her because I'm like, don't touch me.
25:37She's like, I didn't mean it. You broke up with me at the end of Happily Ever After.
25:43I felt like she used me.
25:46I felt like my only purpose in Sophie's life was to help her realize that she had childhood trauma,
25:52and then, literally, in her leaving me, she's going to go fix that.
25:59So it made me feel very, like, used up and just like I'm the punching bag.
26:06Like, I'm just here for you to get all that frustration and all that pain and trauma out,
26:11and then you can leave the gym and go be that better version of yourself for somebody else.
26:17What are you doing?
26:20You're just not getting it.
26:23He's not happy.
26:26Neither am I.
26:28I know that, and I wanted both to be happy.
26:32I was cheering up because I was so f***ing happy.
26:35They were getting divorced.
26:37Tell me how you really felt.
26:38I never hated anyone like him.
26:50I think it was sort of selfish of Rob to deny reading Sophie the letter
26:54because she could have gotten some closure and understanding of where he was at emotionally with her,
26:59if he wasn't going to recommit or if he was, you know.
27:02So I think that was just him, you know, being spiteful and being like,
27:05oh, well, you just laid your emotions out for me, but I'm not doing the same for you.
27:09So, basically, he was a bitch from beginning to end.
27:13That's a closure.
27:15Rob DeNob, your wife rejected you.
27:19She put you where you belong, the trash.
27:22If you were putting all the energy that you were putting into sabotaging my marriage with Gina
27:28and putting stupid ideas in my husband's mind, taking care of your woman,
27:32maybe she had recommitted to you, baby.
27:39I remember, can I tell you something? Can I? Just the last thing.
27:42When I met Ari, I was like, mmm, she's so tiny.
27:46Like, mmm, look at the tiny bitch she has.
27:48I wanted to, like, smash it.
27:50Like, you're so tiny.
27:51And then I was like, wow, these all, these fit on my arm, like.
27:55OK, we are now going to watch the recommitment ceremony,
27:58and we are going to watch Stacey and Florian.
28:01Ah! Uh-oh.
28:03Not that I'd like to see it.
28:09I know right now, I think, to be honest,
28:11just what comes from my heart right now.
28:14I know, like, fan therapist.
28:17Oh, we know that, Florian.
28:20Florian was there.
28:22He tried speaking from the heart as best as he could.
28:26Would it have been nice for Florian to share more?
28:28Yeah, it would have been nice.
28:30But let's go back to the person that has trouble emoting
28:33and being vulnerable and sharing and speaking from that softer place
28:36and connecting with Stacey.
28:38So to me, that's the most important thing,
28:41and I'm going to be honest with you,
28:43that's the most important thing.
28:45Speaking from that softer place and connecting with Stacey.
28:48So to me, this was a baby step.
28:52We are approaching our 10-year mark.
28:56I'm getting older and wiser.
29:00At times, a part of me
29:03feels it's time to let you go.
29:06Oh.
29:15Oh.
29:20Oh.
29:23I'm sorry for all the bad times
29:26and all the negativity.
29:31But I'm not going to leave you.
29:35I really felt she was ending this marriage,
29:38and I was floored.
29:40I was floored.
29:41Like, this was nothing in my mind that would have happened.
29:44But I think she got some things out that she needed to say.
29:47Unfortunately, it probably fell on deaf ears.
29:51Florian's young,
29:53and I don't know right now if he's going to change,
29:57but he has the capabilities of change.
29:59You know, as they grow and develop more and more into their marriage,
30:03he may start to make some different changes.
30:06But right now, I think he's okay with where he's at.
30:09I think he likes how his life is, just the way it is.
30:13If we recommit,
30:15you need to agree to respect boundaries.
30:19Do you still hang out with Darcy as much as you used to?
30:22No, no more.
30:24I don't hang out no more with her.
30:25Oh, word.
30:26No, no, no, no more, no more, no.
30:27But keep calling my phone, that I know.
30:29She's still trying to get you to go out, though?
30:31She's still going to go out.
30:33Like, with some friends one night,
30:35she called me and told me,
30:36where are you?
30:37I tell her, with some friends.
30:38Oh, I can come.
30:39I tell her, no, no, no, stay home, stay home, please.
30:41Later, later.
30:42The table is full.
30:43I can't accept nobody no more.
30:46That's called burning a bridge.
30:48Yep.
30:50And I promise you to listen more,
30:53and talk less.
30:56Now let's go live our best life.
30:59Te Dua.
31:01Love you.
31:02I love you.
31:04I feel like with Florian,
31:06he has it in him to change,
31:07but it's not going to happen overnight.
31:09When I said my speech,
31:10I wanted to let him know,
31:11like, I'm committing to us.
31:13You know, I didn't want to throw everything away.
31:15And I feel like a lot of these other couples,
31:17they were giving each other, like, ultimatums.
31:20You know, and I just felt like
31:23I wasn't going to throw away 10 years together.
31:26I meant every word I said.
31:29And I really felt like he spoke from his heart,
31:32you know, and I felt the love.
31:36So I'm excited for what our future holds.
31:40Okay, the next clip we're going to watch
31:42is Gino and Jasmine's recommitment ceremony.
31:45Of course.
31:54I promise you my unconditional love,
31:57tenderness,
31:59and undying devotion.
32:01And to love you, comfort you,
32:04protect you, and shelter you
32:07all days of my life.
32:10At that moment, just, you know,
32:13standing in front of Gino,
32:15I still had no freaking idea
32:17if he was going to recommit or not.
32:19I was like 50 and 50.
32:21I just wanted to confirm to him,
32:23regardless what his decision was,
32:27recommitting to me or not,
32:29I just wanted him to know that I love him.
32:32And when I made that choice to love him,
32:35that would be forever.
32:37Even if I divorce him,
32:38even if we didn't end up together,
32:40I will always love him.
32:42I love you very much.
32:44I don't want to lose you,
32:46and I'm willing to do, you know,
32:48whatever it takes, you know, to keep you.
32:51So it means that you are committed
32:54to move forward with our open marriage agreement
33:00and our third person to be Matt.
33:09Yes. Yes, I'm open to it.
33:34I'm open to it, but we have to have
33:37in the rules that if you and Matt
33:41grow too much of a friendship
33:43or it's affecting our marriage,
33:46then I want to be able to avoid the contract.
33:52It's really hard to get couples
33:55to examine the power dynamics
33:57at play in their relationship.
33:59And I saw Jasmine and Gino
34:03kind of starting to do that,
34:07but when presented with an alternative solution,
34:13instead of really examining,
34:15what does this look like?
34:17What could this look like?
34:18Does this feel good to us?
34:19And being honest and transparent
34:21with each other about that,
34:22they're like, oh, nope, that's it.
34:24We're doing it. Let's go.
34:26And while I wanted more representation
34:30of what healthy polyamory,
34:32healthy ethical non-monogamy looks like,
34:35this ain't it.
34:36Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy
34:38is not a band-aid for your failing relationship.
34:44Jasmine's face lights up
34:46when she hears I'm agreeing to open marriage.
34:52Hey, I'm home.
34:57After she said all these beautiful words to me
35:00when we were standing there
35:01in recommitment ceremony,
35:03I didn't have too many options.
35:05I just knew that I wanted to still be with her
35:07and I didn't want to end our marriage at this moment.
35:10I want to keep going with her.
35:13Let's recommit to each other
35:16and let's see what happens
35:18and let's hope for the best.
35:20But I didn't really think so much about,
35:23oh, my God, when I get home,
35:25she's going to be going to Matt's house
35:27to have sex with him.
35:29Am I going to be able to handle it?
35:33I don't know.
35:38Whoa, what the...
35:40Okay, gentlemen.
35:42Yes.
35:43In honor of the recommitment ceremony,
35:46we are going to have you two
35:48create your very own last resort wedding cake.
35:52Oh.
35:53That is your cake to decorate.
35:55Okay.
35:56We're going to have icing, decorations,
35:58do what you like.
36:00Maybe some little hearts, what do you think?
36:02Yes, and broken hearts
36:04for the ones that didn't recommit
36:06because they deserve to be honored.
36:08Well, they don't, but we're nice.
36:10I find the donkey good.
36:12Two chicken.
36:14That's just Josh.
36:15Because all of a sudden,
36:16chicken walking like this in front of girls.
36:19You should make something representing Sophie.
36:22Sophie?
36:23I mean, cookies should not be here.
36:25Okay.
36:27Oh, my gosh, what is this?
36:29Oh, sprinkles.
36:33Yay, so cute.
36:35Make it rain, baby, make it rain.
36:38Sprinkle me.
36:44I'm sorry.
36:46As you can see in big bold letters,
36:48good luck.
36:49Good luck to everybody.
36:51Yeah.
36:52Yeah, Solveig.
36:54This is me and Stacy.
36:56Oh, you look so handsome.
36:57Look, you look like a vampire.
36:58You look like Twilight.
37:00So this is our last resort, cake.
37:02All the animals are like all the couples.
37:05And then everyone has these little army guys
37:07because everyone is like attacking each other.
37:09And this is Jasmine and Gina.
37:10Jasmine are T-Rex and Gina are goose.
37:13And then Matt is the cockroach.
37:17The couples that make it here,
37:20you can see the heart.
37:21The couples that didn't make it
37:23continue fighting, rest in peace.
37:26This was for fireworks because there was good fireworks,
37:28bad fireworks.
37:30Yes, exactly, they rekindled their sparks.
37:33Why are they laying down?
37:35Because Natalie turned into an alien
37:38and she just starts taking out all the therapists.
37:42Boom, that one didn't work.
37:43Boom, that one didn't work.
37:44Boom, that one didn't work.
37:46And then I finally surrender.
37:48And then I die.
37:51Wow.
37:53Should we eat some cake now?
37:54Yes.
37:55Ready?
37:56One, two, three.
38:01Okay, let's watch the after party
38:03after the recommitment ceremony.
38:05No, I definitely remember this.
38:10Open the champagne.
38:11Open, Gina, open.
38:12Come on, Gina, do the honors.
38:18I feel like at the end of the day,
38:20this experience is worth it.
38:22I regret nothing from it.
38:25I would do it over again.
38:26The only thing I might change,
38:27I probably wouldn't call Julia a whore.
38:29That might have been a little far,
38:31so there's that.
38:33But all in all,
38:36I don't regret the experience in any way, you know?
38:39Got me some, baby.
38:41Your wife first.
38:42Build this glass up.
38:44Let's party.
38:45Let's cheer for Natalie Pinkfinger.
38:48Natalie, go get it, girl.
38:52I regret one thing.
38:57We didn't have a party at Josh's house.
39:00I really wanted to have a party at his house.
39:02I think it would be a nice ending.
39:04And throw a syrup on him.
39:12No more therapy!
39:17I'm really glad we're going to this retreat
39:19because it's really helped another opinion of people
39:22who doesn't have part of your life.
39:25And especially Brandon started opening up more,
39:28and I'm so happy to see.
39:30And after the resort, I talk still with Sarah.
39:33I like her.
39:34Yeah, I do the same thing with James.
39:37Really?
39:38All the therapists.
39:39Yeah, that's what I said.
39:40They're all so good.
39:41And they probably need a therapist after us.
39:44The therapists need a therapist.
39:46Aww.
39:47Yeah.
39:48You guys are the best.
39:50Yes, I'm so happy to be here with you guys.
39:52Well, Jasmine seems very happy.
39:54Cheers.
39:56I feel hopeful and very happy because we recommitted.
40:01This is very difficult to do, but I'll do whatever it takes
40:04to have a beautiful relationship like we've never had before.
40:09Woo! Yeah!
40:14My ultimate goal for all of this
40:16is that we build our emotional connection back
40:19and, you know, that we can be intimate.
40:24Sorry.
40:28Baby.
40:40Are you okay?
40:41Yeah.
40:42Yeah, it's like...
40:44We're just watching it back, you know?
40:46I don't know, like...
40:51That was so dumb.
40:53Anyway...
40:55It has been such a hard process.
41:00But we don't want to lose each other,
41:03and we're going to try our best.
41:07That night, I felt, you know, like,
41:09okay, we finished the retreat.
41:11It was genuinely like a new beginning.
41:14We are just getting started.
41:17Now it's when it comes the most important part
41:20of all the therapy.
41:22It was not the therapy itself.
41:25It was to actually put into action what we learned.
41:30I wanted to save my marriage, and, well,
41:32it was not the idea, but let's try the open marriage.
41:36It's a new beginning, guys.
41:38New beginning!
41:39Woo!
41:40Adios, amigos!
41:52Oh, my gosh. Thank you, everyone.
41:54Goodbye. Farewell.
41:56I don't want to say goodbye.
42:00Well, that's a wrap on Rob.
42:02Goodbye, see you never.
42:07Should we meet again?
42:08Yeah, we should meet again.
42:09We should meet again.
42:10Stay tuned.
42:11Thank you for listening our bull****.
42:14Yeah.
42:17And there's those in need of sex.
42:21Let me show you videos of us naked.
42:23Yeah, let's go and have sex in the public.
42:25What?
42:26What?
42:27Do you want to have sex in the bathroom?
42:28No.
42:29Let's go.
42:30And that's a wrap.
42:31Yes!
42:33And everyone, we can cut.