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00:00Hello.
00:01How are you?
00:02Welcome to Lake Norman, ladies.
00:04So beautiful.
00:05Hi.
00:06Hello, ladies.
00:07Welcome to Mia's Manor.
00:09Oh, Mia's Manor.
00:11Oh, Mia's Manor.
00:14Thank you, Mia.
00:15You're welcome.
00:16For bringing us here.
00:17Yes.
00:18And let me celebrate the last day of my 30s.
00:20Woo!
00:21Woo!
00:22Wow.
00:23Woo!
00:24Woo!
00:25Woo!
00:26Woo!
00:27Tomorrow morning is Angel Nadour's cap and gown
00:29ceremony at this school.
00:31So that's top of the morning.
00:32And then I'm going to catch a flight and come back.
00:34When you came to me the night before my party
00:38for a phone call, you were seeking my advice.
00:41No one was drunk at that phone call.
00:43You're lying.
00:44You're a liar.
00:45First of all.
00:46And that's why I don't fuck with you.
00:47OK, well then don't fuck with me, Karen,
00:48because you're deflecting about a lot of things.
00:50And let's be honest.
00:51So there was a time where Joy and Karen and I went out.
00:57When you left, you butt dialed us.
01:00And you said, those girls think I'm with Ray.
01:05I don't remember.
01:06What?
01:12When the girls are away, it's time for Giselle to play.
01:17I quit grading, but I'm still passing judgments.
01:22Marriage can be temporary, but ink is permanent.
01:27From kiddie pools to the dating pool, I'm ready to dive in.
01:31I know how to host a show and steal one, too.
01:36I own a business, I mind my business,
01:39and I stand on business.
01:41Darling, I am the fence and the gatekeeper.
01:51I did not do that.
01:52Was I drunk?
01:53And I'm only bringing it up.
01:54Wait, did you hear a man's voice with her?
01:56Because you came from my girl.
01:59You called her a liar.
02:00Oh, wait a minute.
02:01She is, though.
02:02But go ahead.
02:04So those girls think I'm with Ray.
02:07I don't know why I would say that.
02:09Was this the night we were having our drink?
02:11I think we were drinking brown liquor that night.
02:14We were, and I pulled over, and I called my driver.
02:18But you did get behind the wheel,
02:20and then you decided to pull over.
02:21Right, I did do that.
02:22Which is very good, Karen.
02:23No, that is what I do.
02:24Not always.
02:25Always.
02:26You know what?
02:27We're supposed to be home.
02:28Always.
02:29We have been drinking a lot.
02:31A whole lot.
02:32She drunk called me the next morning on her way home.
02:38Yeah, I let that out.
02:39Now, come on, Mia, you don't know more than that.
02:41We're shooting shots.
02:43The streets have been alive with some of Karen's forays.
02:48I've heard some things, seen a couple things.
02:51So I believe with every fiber of my being
02:54that Mia and Joy are telling the truth.
02:58Wow.
02:59After defending herself about the drunk driving charge,
03:03now she has to defend herself at the dinner table.
03:06It just won't stop.
03:07With friends like that, who needs enemies?
03:10Mia sat on this for three years.
03:13And thought that this was a time to throw a dagger?
03:16Honey, ping, ping, ping.
03:19Well, I like what kind of friend you are,
03:21but that certainly does not take away
03:22from Jacqueline's lying ass, OK?
03:24No.
03:25I wasn't lying.
03:26I said that.
03:27But Karen.
03:28I know.
03:29She has been vindicated.
03:30She has been vindicated.
03:31No, she has not.
03:32Yes, she has.
03:33No, she has not.
03:34But that was a good try.
03:36Is the pool heated?
03:38The birthday girl is on.
03:40I just have questions that need to be answered.
03:42Mia, why did you have this in your back pocket
03:44for three years?
03:45Because she's never called my friend a liar.
03:48I think it was more or less because you
03:50didn't want to say it and not have anyone else there.
03:55And I was there with you.
03:57And I would continue to hold it.
03:58Just don't mess with me and mine.
04:00Girl, shut up.
04:02Shut up, because you and her have pulled
04:04each other's eyeballs out, OK?
04:06So stop.
04:07Karen, she took this itty bitty conversation that we had
04:10and this itty bitty little thing that I said about how she
04:13sounded like she was drinking.
04:15It's my opinion.
04:16I said she sounded.
04:18I told no lies.
04:20You want to make me the problem when
04:22you clearly have the problems?
04:24Then do your thing, honey.
04:25But I'm not the issue.
04:27I'm just the only one that's addressing
04:29the elephant in the room.
04:30You know, there are going to be experiences
04:32in your life that are good, that are bad.
04:34What makes I think me an OK person is I own the good
04:38and the bad and the indifferent about me.
04:40You have to.
04:41And I've come through a lot.
04:42Has any of the sequence of events
04:45that has transpired affected your marriage?
04:48How's Ray doing?
04:49How's he taking all of this?
04:50Is it?
04:51We were going through before.
04:52That's why I said to you guys, what?
04:54Wait, before you got in an accident?
04:56Oh, yeah.
04:57We were having our moment, you know?
04:59You have moments in your marriage, you know?
05:01Are you in love with Ray?
05:02I'm in love with Ray.
05:03How do you know you're in love with Ray?
05:05Because I can't imagine a day without Ray.
05:08Are you in love with Karen?
05:11I think I am.
05:14But he didn't waver to answer your question.
05:17He's my soldier.
05:18Ray has my back.
05:19And he's always been there for me.
05:21And I love him for that.
05:23But we're human, and we are going through,
05:26and we are working on our marriage.
05:28I'm not really sure how much Karen's problems
05:31with Ray impacted her accident.
05:33I truly believe that Karen was grieving in that moment.
05:37Me and my mom had such a close relationship,
05:39I cannot imagine her not being here.
05:42So in her defense, it was her grieving of her mom.
05:45And you don't know what life throws at you
05:47to have that moment.
05:49I can't think of anything.
05:51There's one more hour left of my 30s.
05:53Yes.
05:54You guys, dinner was so amazing.
05:57It was so, so amazing.
05:59I enjoyed this time.
06:00Thank you so much.
06:01This was beautiful.
06:02You ladies were beautiful.
06:03It was a pleasure to meet you all.
06:05This was everything.
06:06I'm tired, girl.
06:07I'm tired.
06:08I'm trying to thug it out to Wendy's.
06:12Wendy's moment, yeah.
06:14Karen, you need a trophy.
06:16Easily.
06:17They come for you every five minutes.
06:18Easily.
06:19It's another story.
06:20Find someone to own your life.
06:22And you can explain it.
06:23They may not like your explanation,
06:25but as long as it's your truth, you're good to go.
06:27I'm learning from you.
06:33Yes, yes, what did I do?
06:36What did I do?
06:37You were Jaclyn's MVP.
06:39I mean, I had to help my girl out
06:41because she was sinking earlier, OK?
06:44And I can't dare allow for her to, like, drown.
06:48Right.
06:49OK?
06:50I don't ever like for anybody to call anyone close to me a liar.
06:56I don't deserve to be called a liar.
06:57Especially not Karen.
06:58Especially something that's silly and little.
07:00She just admitted that she left a restaurant, you guys.
07:03Drunk.
07:04Drunk and got in the car and drove.
07:05Finally.
07:06She finally admitted that something.
07:08Do you think Karen is going to be pissed, like, tomorrow?
07:10She's going to go to sleep, and she's going to wake up,
07:12and she's probably going to be pissed.
07:13You think so?
07:14I mean, because that's her track record.
07:15When Joy goes home.
07:16Yeah.
07:17She's going home, and she's going in the vault.
07:18She's probably calling her bloggers now, saying,
07:20what do we have on Mia?
07:23Hi, princess.
07:24Hi.
07:25What you doing?
07:26Look at you in the morning.
07:27It's your favorite color.
07:28It is.
07:29It is.
07:30How's it going?
07:31It's going well.
07:32Everyone's asking about you.
07:33Oh, really?
07:34Yeah.
07:35Yeah.
07:36Yeah.
07:37Yeah.
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08:00Yeah.
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08:09Yeah.
08:10Yeah.
08:11Yeah.
08:12Yeah.
08:13Yeah.
08:14You're beautiful.
08:15Oh, really?
08:16Are you sharing more, because we said that,
08:17I want you to lean in for the camaraderie that they offer,
08:18and if they're asking about me, I want you to share.
08:19TJ and I are intimate.
08:20TJ, TJ, this is Wendy.
08:22Hi, TJ.
08:31Glad to finally put a face to a name.
08:34Treat her good, because we love her, OK?
08:38Jessie, say hi.
08:38We've only heard the greatest things about you,
08:40so thank you for taking care of my friend.
08:43Oh, listen, I actually have to say thank
08:46you for taking care of her.
08:48They give me that virgin couple that met
08:50at vacation Bible school.
08:55Like, take me out the group chat.
08:59OK, I'm coming.
09:00I got to go, so I just wanted to say hi.
09:10I miss you, too, and I love you, too.
09:12Bye.
09:18Bye.
09:30My 40th year, I was having a house party.
09:33We were getting down.
09:34Had a full band, dancers, PJs, and yep.
09:40Not sure how this 40th is going to go, Wendy.
09:42I'm rooting for you.
09:43Get it together.
09:44Let's make some noise.
09:47Any last words before you make your way into the 40 Club?
09:50Come on, Dr. Wendy.
09:52Well, I would just like to say, uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh.
09:55Every birthday in adulthood, I have traveled out of the country
09:59and I said to myself, man, this birthday
10:01is going to suck, because I don't
10:03get to do what I normally do.
10:05But this goes down in my books of one
10:09of my greatest birthdays ever.
10:11Aw.
10:12And I mean that.
10:14I feel so overwhelmed, and I feel surrounded by love.
10:18They could easily be like, we'll see you in the morning
10:20and celebrate you.
10:21But they stayed up to make sure they ushered
10:25me into this new chapter.
10:26And I'm so grateful.
10:30You guys really came through, and I've always
10:33depended on my family, because growing up,
10:36I felt like those were the only people who
10:38would hold me the way I hold them.
10:405, 4, 3.
10:41And now I have 2, 1.
10:45Happy birthday!
10:47Happy birthday to you!
10:51Happy birthday to you!
10:54Woo!
10:55Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh!
11:03Happy birthday!
11:05Yes!
11:08At first, I was really nervous about turning 40 until my mother told me, people who are
11:16scared about their age are people who feel like they haven't accomplished what they need
11:21to accomplish by that age.
11:23And when she said that, I said, and you're right.
11:27I've accomplished a lot.
11:30First being a professor at one of the most acclaimed universities in the country, becoming
11:35an author, acquiring multiple degrees, a mother to three beautiful children.
11:45I married my soulmate, that fine Nigerian, Idris Alba.
11:50Cheers, baby.
11:51What are we cheersing to?
11:53Living life on our own terms.
11:55You like that, huh?
11:56You're doing a lot.
11:57Come on, Dr. Phil.
11:58And at 40, I have accomplished every single thing I ever wanted to.
12:04Can we talk about something that recently happened?
12:07And that is the whole notion of affirmative action.
12:11And for that, I'm blessed.
12:14Happy birthday, happy birthday, happy birthday, happy birthday.
12:20Coming up.
12:21Gordon is like firing off all these text messages.
12:23You say you're at my side, I'm beginning to believe you're keeping me close to help your
12:27life more easy.
12:29I kind of agree with that.
12:40Are you doing your skincare?
12:41Yeah, I am.
12:44I'm getting my face together, hydrate.
12:47All right.
12:51I feel like today is going to be drama-less, because today is Wenday's, Wenday's birthday.
12:58Wenday, Wenday, Wenday's day.
13:01Today is Wenday's day.
13:04It's my birthday.
13:07I'm here to take care of you.
13:08Thank you, doll.
13:09Okay.
13:10Here you go.
13:11Perfect.
13:16Oh, it's cold.
13:19Woo, it is cold.
13:21Oh, girl.
13:22All right.
13:23How are you feeling?
13:24You good?
13:25Yesterday was a lot for me.
13:27Karen is just like, she's a tough bag at this point.
13:30She's so hard.
13:31She's a bag.
13:32Not a bag, but she's a tough cookie to crack at this point, and it's just what it is.
13:37So tell me what's going on with you, babe.
13:40Sorry.
13:41Yeah, enough with Karen.
13:42I was like, totally.
13:43Ciao.
13:44I don't want to talk about that no more.
13:45You don't want to talk about it no more?
13:46Okay.
13:47I mean, I'm good, except for the fact that I woke up this morning, and Gordon is firing
13:52off all these text messages.
13:54It's always when I leave and go somewhere.
13:58It's a control.
13:59He doesn't know.
14:00He wants to ruin your time here.
14:01Yes.
14:02He doesn't want me to have a good time.
14:04But listen, he's like, he gets upset about an Instagram post from April.
14:11He goes, I can't remember a time when I felt so hurt and felt so used in my life.
14:17I go, aw, Gordon, you know I have not used you.
14:20I love you.
14:22Things just became too challenging, and you know all the reasons why, but I have not left
14:27your side.
14:28I really have not.
14:29You still haven't left his side.
14:30You guys literally live in the same building.
14:33Mia is very, very spoiled, and Mia likes Gordon to wait on her hand and foot, and he has done
14:39that since the first date, and he still does it today.
14:44But if Mia wants to get this relationship going with Ink and make it permanent, I feel
14:49like she needs to kind of cut the umbilical cord and call it quits, because honey, it
14:54was the stupidest decision for them to move in the same vicinity, period.
15:00And he also asked Ink if he was going to be in Charlotte.
15:03Then he goes, I don't know.
15:05I'm having a hard time believing anything you say at this moment in time.
15:09What are you saying to him?
15:10I'm not saying anything.
15:12Are you telling him you love him?
15:14So I do say, so today I did.
15:17I heard you say that.
15:19Yeah, I do love him.
15:20It's okay.
15:21It's like I tell you I love you, and I'm in love with you.
15:22No, but you need to stop saying that, because for somebody who's not over you yet, you need
15:27to tread very lightly with the words that you say, because he wants a second chance.
15:31He wants to get you back.
15:33That's why I'm thinking that him seeing Ink around you, you guys doing things with the
15:37kids with Ink, I think you need to separate a lot of that for now.
15:40So I try.
15:41It's Gordon that goes afix.
15:44He wants to be around, and then when he's around, he decides, oh, that was too much
15:48for me.
15:49Dealing with someone who's in mania, it's like a train that has derailed, but doesn't
15:56stop.
15:57Mania just keeps going and just keeps making more destruction.
16:00I am following guidelines from a professional, and the number one guideline when you're dealing
16:06with a close loved one that has bipolar is to support them and to make them know that
16:11they're not alone.
16:13And if he wants to be close, allow him to be close.
16:16You just can't be with me.
16:18And then I didn't say anything, and then he goes, you say you're at my side.
16:22I'm beginning to believe you're keeping me close to help your life more easy.
16:26I kind of agree with that.
16:27Well, he's my kid's father.
16:29What do you mean?
16:30He's, I know, but he's feeling.
16:32It's not about making my life more easy.
16:33I can hire a nanny.
16:34Right.
16:35I think you should.
16:36Like on the moment.
16:37Yeah.
16:38Then he goes, your post makes me question a lot of things regarding our life.
16:40Like, dude.
16:42It's seven o'clock in the morning.
16:43But there's three issues.
16:44He's not over you.
16:45Very clearly.
16:46Yeah.
16:47He's having a hard time.
16:48No, I get that.
16:49He's feeling like you're using him.
16:50But I don't, I don't get that part because he has, he has even said, and I have messages
16:54where he's like, thank you so much for being there for me.
16:58Thank you so much for taking care of me.
17:01How am I using him?
17:02And I'm helping him.
17:03He's, I feel like, dude, because you're financially taking care of him.
17:08I am financially supportive.
17:09He should be watching the kids when you need him because technically he is the nanny at
17:12this point.
17:13He's on the payroll.
17:14He's the daddy and the nanny, honey.
17:15You are the payroll dog.
17:16Okay.
17:17Let's get it straight.
17:18Please welcome our graduating class of 2024.
17:43I'm here at the twins cap and gown ceremony.
17:46This is so good.
17:48This is so bittersweet to know that this is the last cap and gown ceremony that I'll
17:53ever see.
17:55This is just the last of the last for me.
17:57So it's, it's hit me kind of different for sure.
18:0418 years that, uh, nobody snuck out of the house, at least that we know of them.
18:12They did.
18:13Okay.
18:14I wasn't told about this.
18:17You all are better than my wildest dreams.
18:23I've raised some smart, funny, respectable young ladies.
18:29Rule number one.
18:31Work on your book report.
18:32I'm not listening to that one.
18:34Sorry.
18:35If you guys could have like an improved mom, what would be different?
18:38How much time do we have left?
18:41Angels.
18:42I want to take a moment, uh, just to honor, uh, Mr. Graves, um, pops, pops who made an
18:50incredible, uh, impact into, uh, your growth, your maturation.
18:56My dad would be so proud.
18:57Clearly.
18:58He's not here to like hear these moments, but he's with us for sure.
19:03Now, just so I don't make a mistake, angel and a door.
19:09Okay.
19:10I got it now.
19:11I'm getting ready too.
19:12Getting ready for high school.
19:13Yeah.
19:14They about to leave me.
19:15Well, they'll be around a while.
19:16I did the damn thing, y'all.
19:17I did it.
19:18My kids are amazing.
19:19Ting.
19:20Can I get a ting?
19:21I hit the lottery with not only you two, but the three of you, and I am beyond grateful.
19:22So thank you for all that you are.
19:23I love you guys.
19:24We're cheering for you.
19:25Great thing.
19:40How was your break, sis?
19:41It was fine.
19:42Because I'll only get better with time.
19:43I'm not worried if I got it right.
19:44Come on, I'm having fun
19:45But it never gets old.
19:46Likewalk.com.
19:59Coming up...
20:00I think Karen needs a goddamn break this morning, because after last night's episode
20:04It's so over.
20:05What the hell was that, family?
20:06You wanna talk about your drug dealer boyfriend, maybe?
20:07Oh, the drug dealer.
20:08Oh no.
20:09Hey, what are we doing?
20:16How are you?
20:18You look amazing.
20:20Go go go!
20:23Go Whitney!
20:25All day long!
20:30Good morning!
20:32Happy birthday!
20:34Happy birthday!
20:36The birthday girl is burping.
20:38Yes, yes, yes!
20:40Thank you!
20:42Honey, it is your day.
20:44I hope I'm not cutting anyone.
20:46Where did you guys get these utensils from?
20:48Yeah, this is good.
20:50I'll be right back, let me grab some water.
20:52I just want some coffee, that's the last thing.
20:54Wendy, did you already get the phone calls and stuff?
20:56I did!
20:58My phone has been buzzing since midnight,
21:00and I'm just like, I feel so loved.
21:02I feel so good.
21:04Mimosas?
21:06Yes, please.
21:08You're talking my language.
21:10Any bucket list things you want to do in your 40th year?
21:12Jump out of a plane.
21:14Really? You want to skydive?
21:16Wow.
21:18I want to.
21:20Has anybody done it? You've done it, right?
21:22It's not near death.
21:24You literally fall at terminal velocity,
21:26so you feel like you're suspended in midair.
21:28You don't feel like you're falling?
21:30I started skydiving quite a few years ago.
21:32It was actually Michael
21:34and my second date.
21:36And we
21:38had a great time.
21:40Both in the air
21:42and when he landed.
21:44We had a great time.
21:46Karen, would you like a mimosa?
21:48He's like, oh no, you're messing me with that.
21:50No, I'm good, thank you.
21:52So Mia, what do we have in store for the rest of the day?
21:54You guys have a little bit of time to just chill,
21:56relax by the pool, then be ready to go around
21:58like 1.30, kind of take you guys
22:00to one of my very first doctor offices
22:02that I opened here in Charlotte.
22:06Dr. McDaddy is actually
22:08a doctor that first worked for me
22:10as a physician.
22:12Dr. McWho?
22:14His name is Dr. McDaddy.
22:16McDaddy.
22:18That is a treat.
22:20McDaddy.
22:22McDaddy got McHo with him?
22:24I don't know.
22:28It's my new
22:30best friend.
22:32It's Giselle.
22:42Really, go for it, it's your birthday?
22:44That's what you got, Giselle?
22:46Where are you, Giselle?
22:48I'm at the airport.
22:50I'm about to get on a plane.
22:52I'm celebrating.
22:54How are the girls?
22:56Are you having fun, cap and gal?
22:58Amazing.
23:00Congrats.
23:02We're waiting for you.
23:04We're just eating breakfast,
23:06but I can't wait for you to come
23:08and sing to me in person and dance.
23:10Oh, God, she's dancing.
23:12Giselle, please stop.
23:14Have a safe flight.
23:16Bye.
23:18Y'all have come a long way, Wendy.
23:20We have come a long way.
23:22Jesus.
23:24This is a symbol of how I want my
23:2640th to be.
23:28Zen, forgiving,
23:30and just moving forward and being open.
23:32Being able to forgive and move forward
23:34because when you hold grudges and you don't
23:36let go of things, that's only
23:38going to keep you bitter and nasty and mean.
23:40Oh, you got to let things go.
23:42When you hold grudges, it's going to make you
23:44a bitter old bitch.
23:46Are you talking about Karen?
23:48Jacqueline, are you alluding
23:50to anything else?
23:52No, I'm not talking about Karen. I'm just saying in general.
23:54I am not having
23:56fun. First, I had to fight off Jacqueline.
23:58And then Mia came up
24:00with a three-year haunting story.
24:02She thought she had it.
24:04And then on top of that, my alleged
24:06situation. But I'm going to make the best
24:08of it. I'm going to meditation
24:10and make it through.
24:12And I'm going home.
24:14I think Karen needs a goddamn
24:16break this morning because after last night's
24:18episode, what the hell was that?
24:20Not a three-year throwback.
24:22Honey, I'm still
24:24gagged this morning.
24:26No, no, no.
24:28Three years, Mia?
24:30I was proud of you, Karen, because that was
24:32a little low to me.
24:34Remember, this is boot camp.
24:36This is how you get girlfriends in boot camp.
24:38When you own who you are and walk in your truth,
24:40you're good to go. I'm good
24:42to go. I think Karen was just proud,
24:44actually. She's like, I taught you well.
24:46Definitely, I taught you
24:48all too well, honey. Yeah, she sent me through boot camp
24:50and I passed. I got my flute, but we're working on yours.
24:52You wanted a flute. You needed a flute. I don't.
24:54I'm happy. Let's be clear. Are you sure?
24:56Are you sure? Are you sure?
24:58Because that triangle is very interesting.
25:00It's colorful. I can tell you that much.
25:02I can tell you that much. You want to talk about your
25:04drug dealer boyfriend, maybe? Ooh, which one?
25:06Which one?
25:08Which one?
25:10I mean, that rumor has gone around.
25:12People have said that you're someone
25:14you dated. I don't know if it's now or in the past you dated
25:16a drug dealer. Well, the man I'm dating now is a
25:18licensed clinical social worker. But the one in the past.
25:20Okay, yeah. What's your past?
25:22Oh, I'm a stripper. I was an ex-stripper,
25:24turned entrepreneur, self-made millionaire.
25:26I love all entrepreneurs. Yes.
25:28Always have. I didn't have to go to the streets.
25:30Ooh! Okay.
25:32What's the streets? That's about as streets as you can get, baby.
25:34I just don't know
25:36what is going on.
25:38I think the only reason
25:40Kay called Mia a stripper was
25:42because she called her man a drug dealer.
25:44Who knows what's true?
25:46Well, I mean,
25:48it is true that Mia was a stripper, right?
25:50She was a stripper.
25:52Okay.
25:56Oh, okay. Well, I don't know
25:58why...
26:00We're nothing
26:02but the streets.
26:04Oh!
26:06Baby, you already that far when you was talking to Wendy.
26:08Keep it cute.
26:10The face.
26:12Okay.
26:14To call someone
26:16stitches who went through a traumatic
26:18experience last year
26:20at the GNA event
26:22and then to use that name
26:24in a mocking type of way?
26:26Yeah, that's low.
26:28Elevator.
26:30Right.
26:32We don't bark on people's paths.
26:34We don't bark on people's paths.
26:36Say that to your friends.
26:38Mia is the one that brought up
26:40the name she used today.
26:44Talk about your drug dealer boyfriend, maybe?
26:46Ooh, what drug dealer?
26:48Oh!
26:50You understand what I'm saying?
26:52No!
26:54I sure did.
26:56Well, you guys, I've heard that you ruined enough
26:58birthdays already.
27:00So we are redoing the birthdays
27:02as far as I'm concerned, and today is Wendy's
27:04birthday. We want her to have a great 40th
27:06from start to finish.
27:08Did you have a scar on your forehead?
27:10I do, and I still have one.
27:12And you, of all people,
27:14ask me about it.
27:16I'm asking because I want to know what do you use?
27:18That's not right.
27:20You have a skin care line.
27:22I'm asking what did you do about my scar?
27:24Don't ask me anything about my scar.
27:26You just said you have a skin care line.
27:28Don't ask me anything about my scar.
27:30Why am I...
27:32Don't ask me about my scar!
27:34Don't ask me about it!
27:38Okay, you could say that.
27:40Okay, girl.
27:42Don't ditch me if you can't take it, girl.
27:44What she used to get rid of it.
27:46That's all.
27:48I thought that the very innocent question
27:50that I asked
27:52would have been taken as such.
27:54I wasn't meaning any harm by my question.
27:56I was just asking
27:58what did you do about my scar?
28:00You just said you have a skin care line.
28:02Don't ask me anything about my scar.
28:04Why am I...
28:06I wasn't meaning any harm by my question.
28:08I'm looking at Kay.
28:10I'm like, wow, come to think of it,
28:12like, I really don't see anything.
28:14So I just had to ask,
28:16Kay, like, did your skin care line
28:18that you talked about,
28:20did it help you with your scar?
28:22Because I don't see one.
28:24I'm doing the skin care line,
28:26so I'm launching that.
28:28I'm going to show you all the pictures
28:30you introduced to an emailing desk this morning.
28:32And I think it's more telling of the fact
28:34than revealing to me.
28:36Ashley, do you wear glasses?
28:38No. I didn't see anything.
28:40Well, if you actually look at her head,
28:42you would see the scar.
28:44I do look at her head. I didn't see it.
28:46I don't give a f*** about Mia and her little antics.
28:48Ashley shouldn't be asking me anything
28:50about my face.
28:52She just shouldn't be.
28:54It's okay. It's okay.
28:56Ashley, why are you talking to me about my scar?
28:58Like, you clearly know
29:00that the cause of my scar are your ex-friends.
29:02You shouldn't even be mentioning anything about my face.
29:04You should actually just shut the f*** up.
29:06It was a very serious situation
29:08that happened to me.
29:10I live with a form of a scar every single day.
29:12Okay?
29:14Mia, we were just
29:16in your company with your friends
29:18last night, and they were elevating you,
29:20and it was so beautiful.
29:22Can we please try to keep that spirit this morning?
29:24Can we just keep the spirit
29:26positive and light this morning?
29:28You guys, seriously, it's a lot.
29:30I planned on having fun,
29:32and I still plan on having fun.
29:34However, Ashley, as far as
29:36you asking me anything
29:38about my face and any scar
29:40that I have or any other personal thing,
29:42that is totally f***ing off limits
29:44for you and I.
29:46But how did it even come up? I'm confused.
29:48Okay.
29:50Are you okay?
29:52You're not okay.
29:54Okay.
29:56Okay. All right.
29:58Oh.
30:02Can I be a little messy?
30:04Bring it, Karen.
30:08How do I say this?
30:10Aren't you trying to work it out
30:12with Mr. Pee-Pee?
30:14Well, Pee-Pee
30:16means parental partner.
30:18We're separated at the moment, and we're co-parenting,
30:20and so I created that name because
30:22we're working on parenting in a peaceful manner,
30:24and that's why I call him Pee-Pee, and also because
30:26he's a big pee-pee.
30:28At this very moment, we are moving
30:30in a positive direction
30:32in terms of co-parenting
30:34and with our...
30:36co-parenting with our children and as well as
30:38our relationship collectively.
30:40So was that after the
30:4225 convictions that he had?
30:44Did you stand by him?
30:46Oh my gosh!
30:56Aren't you trying to work it out
30:58with Mr. Pee-Pee?
31:02At this very moment,
31:04we are moving in a positive direction
31:06in terms of co-parenting
31:08and with our...
31:10co-parenting with our children
31:12and as well as our relationship collectively.
31:14So was that after the
31:1625 convictions that he had?
31:18Did you stand by him?
31:20Oh my gosh!
31:22What?
31:24Uh, he was charged and fired.
31:26It was an internal investigation
31:28within the police department.
31:30They were not, like, public
31:32criminal offenses or anything like that.
31:34He ended up losing his position.
31:36He's moved past it, and he now has
31:38a new position now as a police officer.
31:40So it's quite funny
31:42to me that Karen had to
31:44dig up some old information
31:46when she has current
31:48allegations and claims
31:50that she's been charged
31:52with current allegations
31:54and convictions currently going on with her life.
31:56Jacqueline has been
31:58nothing but an enemy
32:00to me this year.
32:02To spew things that are not factual about my life
32:04and I respond
32:06by spewing facts
32:08about your life.
32:10Did you stand by him when he was going through?
32:12I did.
32:14I was told that you left him because of those 25 charges.
32:16Jacqueline,
32:18she's still by that man.
32:20And
32:22she got hurt by that man.
32:24And that man hurt her again.
32:26And she's still by that man.
32:28So she's loyal.
32:30Wait, wait, wait.
32:32You were here trying to point out how my friend
32:34dated a drug dealer, but your best friend
32:36has 25 convictions?
32:38No.
32:40Let me go get some more.
32:44You need to talk to me.
32:46That was a miraculous recovery last night
32:48when you saved her ass supposedly
32:50by throwing me under the bus.
32:52A tactic that I've seen Karen use quite a few times,
32:54even against me,
32:56to take the attention off of her.
32:58She will come out.
33:00She has her boxing gloves out.
33:02But so many times
33:04you're going to put me up against the ropes.
33:06I'm going to swing, and I'm going to swing again
33:08and swing again.
33:10Don't f*** with me.
33:12Because he was a police officer
33:14and because he had
33:16different accounts that happened to him
33:18in a very racist police department.
33:20It literally happened like
33:22damn near six or seven years ago.
33:24Everybody has a past.
33:26Oh, now everybody has a past.
33:28Now everybody has a past.
33:30Now everybody has a past.
33:32Okay, y'all, y'all can come.
33:34I can't believe you would bring up
33:36somebody that's not even here at this table.
33:38You came for the father of my children.
33:40You're a horrible person
33:42to bring up something that a person
33:44would say to them in the white and pure snow.
33:46Get the f*** out of here.
33:50I'm sorry.
33:52I literally said one thing to you, Karen,
33:54and you took it to a whole nother level.
33:56You have not said anything. You haven't said anything to me.
33:58You went around this group defaming me
34:00and you thought it wouldn't get back to me,
34:02but I'm well respected in this group
34:04and I have heard everything you have said.
34:06Very well respected.
34:08Yes, I am.
34:10I don't have two DUIs.
34:12Clearly Jacqueline pushed Karen to the edge
34:14because now she's talking about
34:16other people's court cases.
34:18And right now,
34:20I feel like it's kind of justified
34:22accusing someone
34:24of being drunk
34:26when they are literally
34:28fighting for their life
34:30and their reputation and their freedom
34:32about a court case that involves drunk driving.
34:34You're poking the bear.
34:36Come on, Jacqueline.
34:38You started it.
34:40You are low-down,
34:42dirty shame, honey.
34:44Oh, no, I'm God's baby, and I don't start it.
34:46I finish it.
34:48There's nothing Godly. It's defamation of character
34:50to talk about s*** about people you don't know s*** about.
34:52It's defamation of character about a man that's not sitting
34:54at this table that did not...
34:56But y'all were talking about her ex-boyfriend.
34:58Now it's defamation?
35:00Now it's defamation?
35:02It's the worst that way for you are.
35:04Okay, to be fair,
35:06we didn't say anyone's name.
35:08What are you talking about?
35:10Shut up!
35:12Shut up!
35:14Shut your ass up!
35:16Shut up!
35:18Shut up!
35:20It is her birthday!
35:22It is her birthday!
35:24Show some respect!
35:26It's my birthday.
35:28Show some respect.
35:30I'm done.
35:32You're done with who can?
35:34Absolutely.
35:36Because one thing I'm going to do
35:38is I'm going to fight for the people I love.
35:40I love Patrick, and he didn't deserve that.
35:42You just thought that because I'm a nice person
35:44you could f*** with me.
35:46Don't do it.
35:48Leave Karen alone. I love Karen.
35:50Oh, sure. Patrick talks to you.
35:54Can we do a toast?
35:56To what?
35:58I'm good.
36:00Let us toast to this being a good day.
36:02Let us toast to this being
36:04the low of the day,
36:06and we're only going to go up from here.
36:08And let us toast to happiness
36:10and the World Wide Web.
36:12So I'm very happy.
36:14World Wide Web.
36:20Y'all is something.
36:24Ah! I'm stuck!
36:26I'm stuck!
36:28Okay, thank you.
36:30Hey, what's the tea, girl?
36:32The tea is for me.
36:34You know how I feel about my face?
36:36Then I got a bitch who look like rocks
36:38been thrown at her face talking about my goddamn scarf.
36:40Are you okay?
36:42Rocks thrown at her face.
36:44That's what I mean.
36:48The fact that she keeps throwing salt
36:50about something that she's having issues with
36:52is really sad.
36:54I agree.
36:56Are you really that angry at me,
36:58or are you just angry with yourself?
37:00I did what I had to do,
37:02but I had to do what I had to do.
37:04And my thing is this.
37:06I don't start it. I finish it.
37:08She couldn't handle it.
37:10She was squirming.
37:12She got up.
37:14But we are better than Jacqueline
37:16and her behavior toward me in this circle.
37:18And I don't throw rumors up.
37:20I throw facts up.
37:22All this is black and white.
37:24It's internal. It's issues with herself
37:26that she's deflecting against everybody else
37:28because they are.
37:30Karen said he has 25 accounts.
37:32No, there's no 25 accounts.
37:34She has eight.
37:36And we can read it.
37:38Negligent driving vehicle
37:40in perilous and imprudent manner
37:42endangering property, life, and person.
37:44Reckless driving vehicle
37:46and walking in willful disregard
37:48safety in persons and property.
37:50Driving vehicle on highway
37:52with suspended registration.
37:54But yeah, I'm the dingbat.
37:56It's on the internet.
37:58I'm always scared here, y'all.
38:00With her case coming up.
38:02Clearly Karen is getting really upset with Jacqueline
38:04because Jacqueline is being
38:06an investigative journalist and is trying to get
38:08to the bottom of what happened on that fateful night.
38:10And Karen just doesn't want
38:12to answer any questions. And whereas the rest
38:14of us have sort of eased up a little bit, right?
38:16Because we've all had something
38:18where we wanted the group to ease up.
38:20Jacqueline, she didn't get that memo.
38:22No, honestly I am too, but at the same time
38:24let's just say you were drinking and driving, okay?
38:26And just say you need help.
38:28Every year I go through this
38:30because I miss my mom because it was around the anniversary
38:32of her mom. But guess what?
38:34You can't sit here and run from it.
38:36And then you damn sure shouldn't be bringing up
38:38anybody else's s*** when your s*** stinks.
38:40Okay?
38:42Don't throw a glass at glass houses.
38:44What is it?
38:46Don't throw stones at glass houses.
38:48Unless you're home and together
38:50and it's perfect.
38:52We can read, okay?
38:54But you're out here in danger
38:56and her court date is coming up.
39:02Girls, just say you were f***ing drunk
39:04and drinking and driving, okay?
39:06And just say you need help.
39:08You damn sure shouldn't be bringing up
39:10anybody else's s*** when your s*** stinks.
39:12We can read, okay?
39:14But you're out here in danger
39:16and her court date is coming up.
39:18Two weeks?
39:20I don't want you guys taking a page out of my book.
39:22Honestly, I really don't.
39:24But if you ever have to defend yourself, fight fire with fire.
39:26Okay?
39:28Welcome to the Bra Dump School, ladies!
39:30Okay, noted.
39:32Lesson learned.
39:34I just want to enjoy my birthday.
39:36I feel like I'm gonna have to
39:38carry her cape for the day.
39:40Can I come in?
39:42So...
39:44Why does everybody have a hard-on for Karen?
39:46No, we don't.
39:48She's hers.
39:50We need Karen to own up to her s*** all day.
39:52Gotta be careful what you're defending.
39:54Driving with a suspended registration, illegal.
39:56And then driving while impaired by alcohol.
39:58This is what you're defending.
40:00Is that what you stand for?
40:02I didn't know anything about this.
40:04Wow.
40:06I mean...
40:08Charge after
40:10charge after
40:12charge.
40:14We're talking not only about
40:16injuring yourself, but
40:18being on the road and
40:20perhaps hurting or
40:22killing other people.
40:24Is this drinking issue
40:26really an issue?
40:28I don't know.
40:30You're bringing it up to say that you are concerned about her.
40:32Because that is the difference.
40:34I don't want to tear Karen down.
40:36We think that we need to take her to rehab.
40:38Rehab?
40:40Yeah, we think she needs help.
40:44Oh my god, okay.
40:46I don't know how I feel about this.
40:48Karen, can I please talk to you?
40:50Uh, we're meeting by the pool.
40:52Can I go take a shower now?
40:54What's going on?
40:56What happened?
40:58What's wrong? What happened?
41:00I'm so disturbed by the conversation
41:02that I just had with Mia and Jacqueline.
41:04Oh.
41:06I defended you
41:08and they brought up
41:10screenshots
41:12case after case
41:14about you.
41:16What the f***?
41:18This is the allegation, which I can't talk about.
41:20They were saying that
41:22I need to be concerned about
41:24who I defend.
41:26Let me be clear, I will always defend you
41:28because I know who you are, but they're basically
41:30telling me not to stand up
41:32for you.
41:34First of all, let me say, put you at ease.
41:36Those are allegations.
41:38Okay?
41:40I agree that they did that, that it's public information
41:42and the court will have its day.
41:44But Karen, it's deeper
41:46than that.
41:48Jacqueline and Mia are saying
41:50that we need to take you to rehab
41:54and that you admitted
41:56that you wanted to go to rehab
41:58for alcoholism.
42:00Should I be worried about you?