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Virgin Island - S01E01 HD
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00:0012 virgins are heading towards a paradise island to take part in a unique experiment the word
00:14virgin people see it as a joke it's quite upsetting i'm 23 still a virgin i feel like
00:22there's something wrong with me in a world where sex is everywhere
00:27my god terrified absolutely terrified the truth is surprising there are more adult virgins than ever
00:35being a young adult in this day and age it's difficult social media dating apps influence
00:41with tv shows porn porn porn is everywhere are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each
00:48other now yeah this radical retreat is offering a very hands-on solution
00:55she's a miracle worker oh god yes overseen by a group of experts yeah
01:03like that i like that ready to do anything to help britain's virgins
01:08there's the clitters do you have any questions lose the one thing
01:14they feel is holding them back i would love to have sex with you i do feel like there's a barrier
01:22between me and sex i want to lose my virginity it's now or never but when the moment arrives
01:30would you like to move to bed who will be ready i just don't want anyone to touch me
01:37to go all the way
01:39here they come can you imagine i scared they are
01:57for the next two weeks welcome my friend
02:03this experimental retreat will be home to 12 young people from all over the uk
02:08right when i'm home yeah go on who desperately want help
02:13welcome so good to meet you everyone's so spiritual
02:17i could be a 40 year old virgin i feel like i'm on a really bad
02:22route right now and i need i need something to change
02:25hey damn i'm deva hi nice to meet you do you need a hand yet now uh yes i will
02:29cheers cheers i describe myself as nerd because i feel i look like one the glass is perhaps not
02:35the best physique so if i can lose my virginity that's one less thing for people to ridicule
02:40me over hi they're here to learn
02:44from some of the world's most experienced experts on how to embrace intimacy
02:54oh hello welcome oh thank you
02:56i just can't do touch well i don't know why i've never had a girlfriend
03:01my fear is that i'm always going to be a virgin
03:04i'm like what am i doing wrong
03:06i've never been abroad before so so anything i've popped my blind virginity
03:14yay my social life's non-existent i have got two cats i feed them i look after them
03:21but they attack me but i know they love me in the wrong way but yeah not very social
03:25this is where you'll be staying
03:30for the duration of their stay home sweet home i mean it's not quite my usual color
03:37they'll wear a retreat outfit you know like prisoners who get out on good behavior to go
03:42pick up litter that's sort of the color palette we're working with so they can focus on themselves
03:47not their image basic but comfy i would like to walk away from the island with more self-confidence
03:56because when you see a lot of celebrities on instagram they they just have everything so perfect
04:02comparing myself to people online disrupting my self-esteem and it's something that i've been
04:08struggling with for so long it is so easy to say don't worry about the way you look in the mirror
04:14but then it is so hard to put that into action
04:17i think once i'm more content with myself i will then be able to live life and losing my virginity
04:27would probably be my final goal
04:28this is going to be your hangout zone that looks fantastic it's beautiful
04:41i can't get over how clear the water is
04:44before the cast begins the group have a chance to get to know each other at the hangout
04:50oh hello hey guys you okay i'm taylor nice to meet you nice to meet you i am bisexual i do know what
05:01i'm interested in but with boys and girls the only experience i've had of being negative you kind of feel
05:08like it's just you who's having this issue and nobody else is is that quite isolating yeah it's very
05:15isolating oh hello all right i'm tom i'm zach zach nice to meet you zach how are you okay very good
05:29yeah i went to university for three years but i was depressed in many ways by the fact that i'm a
05:38virgin i didn't get the degree i should have got and ever since i've been stuck doing jobs that i never
05:45really wanted to do i'm tired of the person that i've become it can't go on
05:53the group sessions are where most of the touch stuff is going to be done
06:00the thing i'm dreading is hugging did you not hug at the the start
06:03nope are you handshaving i shook the hands i don't do i don't do hugs yeah shut the hand
06:07oh and i would have been like no i'm in the water
06:09no i don't hug it it's the um therapy itself that scares me now i'm just getting more and more tense
06:17the virgins are clearly nervous about what lies ahead
06:22and that's understandable it's a course like no other
06:25okay good set up by groundbreaking sex therapists celeste and danielle
06:31eyes closed what's gonna happen on this island is mind-blowing breathe one in eight people at age 26
06:40are still virgins in the uk this is happening all over the world even the french are having less sex
06:46with a team of international sex coaches trading different touch therapies
06:54they'll help the group try to overcome their worries around virginity
06:59tucked away on the island are sexy therapy spaces
07:04and bedrooms where they can practice the art of intimacy
07:08you can't really learn how to play guitar from a book and you can't learn how to give and receive
07:15pleasure by just talking about it sometimes the only way to help someone is to get physical
07:23they don't know it yet but each phase of the course will push them to their very limits
07:32as they take their first steps to sexual confidence
07:38it's a process that starts now
07:47they're waiting for us of course with the foundation of all sexual attraction
07:52welcome welcome
07:56desire
08:02we're so excited to start our workshops today
08:05and the first phase of this course is desire and letting shame go
08:11shame is very much attached to desire and turn-ons
08:14and so much of shame melts away when people come together and start to talk about sex
08:20each of you need to have a space and a pillow
08:24the first exercise will give celeste and danielle a clear idea of who in the group is open to desire
08:30wonderful start by closing your eyes
08:33and who may be resistant just listening to my voice
08:37ah i'm gonna start by taking a nice deep breath
08:47i'm gonna make lots of noise too by the way
08:49this may not be most people's idea of sex but for virgins celeste and danielle's research shows
08:57it's a great way to tune into your body breath work is very powerful we use breath to help people
09:05expand on sensations release emotions so breath is key i'm gonna up the speed of the breath
09:13okay who was willing to make sound with me
09:26some are throwing themselves in
09:31wonderful you're doing it i love it good job
09:34ah but others seem more skeptical and for touch phobic jason
09:42it's more than he can handle
09:47it's amazing how much breath we need to take to warm up our body to feel more and experience more
09:54and get it in yeah check your feet yeah i love this dance
09:58i'll be the next one we're gonna raise our hands
10:10wonderful it's great okay celeste and danielle move on to the next exercise start by pairing up
10:17to teach them that before saying yes it's okay to say no all right so this exercise is about
10:24saying no so one of you is going to ask the other person for three things and then the other person
10:31is going to say no
10:39can i borrow 50 pounds oh no we need people to feel safe if people don't feel safe they won't feel safe to
10:48open up and start and try new things can i have to go on your golf cart absolutely not no can i
10:54i don't know what to say when i'm around a member of opposite sex i'm very awkward can i punch you in the face
11:02no i tend to say things without thinking can i throw you in the seat no no i wish it was different
11:09love to be able to speak to a girl keep a conversation and go on a date that's my kind of dream
11:18can i feed you to a lion no why not violent take a seat yeah just sit and relax the level of
11:27inexperience is clear so celeste and danielle decide to test how the group reacts to intense intimacy
11:34i want to give you a little demo of what you might get to tease your appetite a little bit andre we call
11:43it up against the wall
11:57witness in sexual desire for most of this group is clearly unsettling
12:11okay i actually want to get your first sort of like a visceral response it was like watching a
12:31sex scene with your parents but times 100. quite uncomfortable to be honest watching that yeah it's
12:36normal to have so let yourself have any feelings you want to laugh laugh if you want to cry cry it's
12:41all okay this big insecurity that i have when it comes to my looks means i can't imagine that someone
12:49would want to be with me in any way where you're so stuck in this mindset that someone would be
12:55ashamed to walk down the street with you it's like a never-ending cycle like a roundabout that doesn't
13:01stop when i was growing up i would always get labeled as the duff which is designated ugly fat friend
13:10so i would always believe that i was ugly so i think there's a lot that i need to work on
13:18all right we're going to come in a circle big round of applause
13:29thank you all bye bye
13:32whoa i got myself anything i feel like i'm in a cult
13:37i've been lying if i said it wasn't weird it seemed cultish it just seems like they've got
13:42this island where they live in a completely different world the up against the wall was
13:46interesting by the end i'd love to be able to do that i could not look after he kicked our legs apart
13:54that was too aggressive i think that's actually the most intimate i've ever seen people in front of you
14:02i don't think i was fully ready for that because i'm so shut off to that sort of world i've never felt
14:09that sort of emotion i've walked away feeling really overwhelmed i'm a bit like brain boggled at
14:15the minute the course has just begun and so far they've only had a taste of the unconventional
14:21methods ahead the next workshop may be tougher and i may actually not be ready for that
14:39do you reckon there's any dead bodies in the water do you reckon it's halfway through day one on virgin
14:46island coming out as a version is very difficult because i think in this day and age people see it
14:51as such like a negative for men we we hide it if you're a virgin because mostly because how other
14:59men will see them 100 yeah so i told someone in our office that i'm a virgin and everyone who comes in
15:05they tell everyone i wish i was like smart to just say yeah i've had lots of the sex
15:15people have so much shame about being a virgin i think between rom-coms and porn there's so much
15:21perfectionism that's put out there like it's so much pressure that they're just terrified to try
15:27anything at all that's where we come in each step of the way the experts will share notes with each
15:35other about the group when you did the up against the wall exercise she started crying and after an
15:42emotional reaction during this morning's workshop their first concern is emma i could see her face she
15:49was like really feeling it really intense it was too much for her to see it really she was like
15:54picturing herself in the situation and she got very overwhelmed like that was my sense
16:01every afternoon there are one-on-one sessions across the island
16:06and first the experts want emma to explore her boundaries around intimacy with thomas
16:11going 23 years being single i've never had the experience of someone romantically touching me
16:20if i ever got presented with the situation of sex i would worry that i could have a panic attack
16:29i've never masturbated and i've never experienced an orgasm there's no way that i could experience one
16:37other thing i want to propose you a little game around touch okay um you just ask for the kind of
16:47touch you really like okay yeah what would make you happy to receive it's not something that i'm like
16:57ah i really wish someone would touch me john i don't think like yeah okay um maybe yeah maybe you could
17:05touch my knee the idea is to test how emma reacts to escalating touch yeah thank you do you want to
17:17try somewhere else where you feel that might be more like uh involved maybe if you try upper thigh
17:25when it gets to up this bit it gets a little bit like oh god like what's gonna happen sort of thing
17:38you it feels like you mean you have some fear i feel like if you went around here i probably would have
17:47maybe had a panic attack i did as much as i could and i pushed myself to my limits for the level that
17:56i'm currently at but i don't think i was really ready for it i i feel quite drained i feel a bit upset
18:04well thank you so much and yeah we'll just come with you i feel she's kind of a bit stuck thank you
18:14see you again take care see you later goodbye she was going through it but really one toe at a time
18:20one step at a time emma's struggling hello charlotte do you want a hug no i'm all right thank you
18:30and as some of the others experience their first taste of touch therapy what's coming up for you
18:37i know it's a simple thing but like i feel like i'm doing a bad job
18:41it's clear emma's not the only one finding it difficult if we go right or close yeah
18:48yeah i love 100 how intimate would you describe it yeah probably like
18:5190. i think that's what we call it don't step backwards please
19:00oh come on in i'm so excited as well after throwing himself into the first workshop voila
19:09the experts want to test how far zach is ready to go
19:14i've always wanted to be accepted i've always wanted to be liked by others it's something i
19:18felt i haven't had at many points in my life i know you feel also like a failure around sexuality
19:24right time yeah yeah it's just it's so hard to let go of that of course i don't know if i can
19:32just have a tissue
19:35wipe these away
19:37sex was a taboo my family never even to this day talks about it i grew up seeing my dad only once a week
19:48and he never talked about it so i can't get tips or ask someone hey how do i attract a woman it feels
19:56like i should have figured out all that out a long time ago also i don't feel attractive or handsome
20:05um i assume the way that other people see me it's negative i think generally
20:12i want to play a fantasy with you really
20:19danielle believes her methods can give zach the confidence he needs
20:24how close that's all right yeah but it's not like any therapy he may have seen before
20:33i'm just gonna kiss you gently and i wanted to like see if you can really take it in okay
20:42how does that feel
21:02oh now i start to feel your arousal oh my god this is so sexy her hands-on technique works
21:18by giving zach a physical experience i just love how you bite your lip you're doing a form of somatic
21:25or touch therapy
21:33somatic therapy believes that just talking with someone is not going to be sufficient
21:38and we really need to help people through the body in order to really create some sort of change
21:44thank you thank you thank you
21:51no one's ever said that i'm sexy no one i'm feeling fuzzy all over in that session alone i've done things
22:01that i've been craving for a long time you go conquer the world i'm making tons of progress
22:07back in the hangout the others are keen to find out more
22:15where have you been the one-to-one session was it good it's pretty intense oh neck kissing
22:21just need a minute
22:28the first day at the retreat has shown just how many issues the group has around sex shame and intimacy
22:35and as the sun sets on the island
22:40how about i see them standing at us
22:42oh i can just sense dread celeste and danielle have one last exercise hello
22:51so you each brought an item that is about letting go of some piece of shame that you're ready to be
22:56done with and we can't wait to hear your stories they'll each share a story that represents a past
23:04failure in the hope that they can move on okay
23:08my items about my first year uni um have ended up feelings for my flatmate um so i decided to get her a necklace
23:21um but before i could give it to her she made it very clear we were never going to be anything um
23:28i didn't handle the rejection too well and i just beat myself up every day about it in terms of how i ended
23:34things with her it's my first ever rubik's cube and the way i treat a lot of relationships as a puzzle
23:47i think that gets in the way
23:51this is a gift that one of my well my only ex got me i didn't really think it meant that much and i
23:57should have thrown it out a while ago this is a hoodie from a time in my life when i i just felt
24:09like really worthless and i didn't see a future for myself
24:16this is actually a dive from one of my only kind of dating relationships that i felt was too much for
24:23me at the time and um it's something i really need to let go of that one's a bit more literal
24:36i have expired condoms my mate gave these to me before a house party and he said you're definitely
24:44going to need these um i didn't i think if anything signifies sexual failure it's having condoms go out
24:49a date so mine is a childhood photo i felt quite difficult to express emotions while i was this
25:00age i was more of a people pleaser into the point where i'd end up really damaging myself because i was
25:07more worried about their feelings rather than my own but i want to let go of the people pleasing
25:13aspects if you don't love yourself how the hell are you going to love anyone else thank you so much
25:21you're amazing okay well you made us cry this was really deep and really meaningful
25:28and we're just so proud of you amazed actually amazed yeah
25:32how did you feel i wanted to you know say goodbye to it it's like pulling a band-aid off
25:46i've walked into it a bit skeptical on how i was going to feel i'm trying to open myself up to
25:52learning new things but i don't know whether i've achieved a lot but i'm not looking forward to what
25:59tomorrow may hold geez louise this is an intense day a long day tensions are only going to get higher
26:18stormy night last night stormy weather i think means upheaval change
26:24it's day two at the retreat smoothie it's strawberry milk get one the morning after last night's shame
26:37exercise how are you guys feeling about the presentation last night i wasn't expecting
26:42to be quite as emotional yeah i didn't really enjoy it now the experts hope the next exercise
26:51will move from shame back to desire we want to see what motivates them around sex and there's
26:59nothing more explicit than writing your erotic story the storm clouds are circling but it's not just
27:07the weather the group embracing themselves for hello hello are you all right okay your next exercise
27:18right your hottest sexual fantasy okay oh my it's a fantasy so let yourself go with it don't hold back
27:30okay okay ciao ciao wonderful to see you oh my god did she say hottest or hardest hottest oh blime
27:40crass i want to go inside is anyone feeling a bit sick about writing this i certainly expect 12 virgins to
27:49struggle with writing an erotic story i don't think they will have much of a clue about what they want in
27:54terms of sexuality but you know we shall see this needs to have backing music over and it's like
28:04celeste and danielle want to test how in touch they are with their desires
28:11so far i've got a couple of uh openings it was a dark and stormy night obviously a classic
28:17confident after his one-on-one session with danielle yesterday zach is quick off the mark never
28:23before has he been so surprised is my other one i think i'll try that yeah
28:32oh but for others revealing their innermost desires doesn't come easy 50 shades of grind stuff
28:39i've never never read that i'm not erotic i have no idea how to write like right now i'm writing
28:44i've bought a lottery ticket it's hard to say what my dream would be in a sexual manner when
28:51i haven't really been open to having a sexual manner that makes sense i'm trying to open myself up to
29:00learning new things but it's difficult to do that when you're not happy with yourself
29:05i haven't read anything i am a senior parliamentary researcher for an mp in parliament i deal with
29:16the public and i'm actually in a public speakers club i'm perfectly comfortable doing that but
29:21i thought having sex with just one person for whatever reason that just really is is quite
29:25frightening god you've written a novel once you get started it's a lot easier right once you got an
29:30idea i don't even know how i'd write more on the page like just you just pick a subject and just
29:35start from there yeah and then just make it real sexy right oh that's not me whatever floats your
29:42boat you know you're way more confident i am yeah i just this yeah it's quite scary
29:47oh god we're in the amphitheater stories written the experts will watch to see who's embracing
30:00welcome back everyone morning and who's hiding their true desires
30:09so we're gonna invite you to share your fantasy with us i'm not ready for this
30:16anyone want to volunteer to go first take the leap it can be so empowering
30:27i'll go first yeah
30:32so my fantasy it starts with me walking toward my castle
30:37as i entered i am greeted by sofia vergara the latino lady from modern family
30:42she would say how great my castle is and how my wife is a lucky lady
30:46i would then proceed to my master bedroom due to hearing my name being called by an almost angelic
30:51voice my wife brackets not married as i don't want to lose the castle in a divorce
30:57the sex is unbelievable and the best way to describe it is for you to imagine your very own
31:01fantasy and multiply the pleasure by 10. as more of the group step up we reach a bit of land covered
31:11in rocks fuck there's our luggage hope you don't find my cum socks some are struggling to reveal their
31:18desires instead they're hiding behind humor i didn't even get a chance to write anything because
31:25i'd write this block but you know i thought about it and i'd say i'd be with either angelia jolie or
31:29anne hathaway watching villa in the champions league you know she'd be just wearing a villa top and that'd be
31:33that
31:34others a sigh a kiss hot air against skin fingers dancing across one another the both of us would
31:42enjoy the experience fully seem happier to share their real fantasies and feelings aphrodite requires
31:50tributes made to her an act of physical love by a devoted and naive nymph
31:55we'd head back to my house and she'd sort of lead me upstairs you know i pick her up take her down
32:03on the bed and i'd probably do something with oral sex i don't know what i'm doing we just naturally
32:10start kissing and she'd bite my lip pull down on it um yeah that's that's what it would be like
32:17let's go but it's zach who has the most explicit story of all the shadow descended from the top of
32:29the hill upon which stood a towering warrior he removed his helmet to expose his fiery hair a maiden
32:37stood forth remove your sandals she commanded obligingly he knelt down in that moment she lifted
32:43her skirt and forced his head between her knees she let out a moan of pure ecstasy she removed her
32:48dress exposing her breasts and naked body the warrior entered her many times the body's becoming one
32:58that's just the first chapter anyone else feeling brave okay yesterday's session with thomas reveal
33:06the extent of emma's issues around intimacy but her erotic story could offer more insight
33:13that's just the first chapter anyone else feel free to offer more insight
33:15that's just the first chapter anyone else feel free to offer more insight
33:20my ideal fantasy would be a person coming into my life unexpected
33:30a genuine honest supportive and kind male with no expectation of me who has a genuine big heart a love for
33:39the world to treat others how we wish to be treated and to be happy i have the opportunity to grow together
33:49you're fantastic really amazing right that was phenomenal phenomenal
33:56gather yourself thank you so much thank you thank you thank you thank you
34:00i really like john when i'm all good i'm trying to make jokes my story wasn't very sexual it's how i
34:09deal with awkward situations the things that i don't really know what to do just a defense mechanism for
34:14me yeah everyone seemed to laugh at it unlikely so it went better than i thought i felt really good
34:20actually the story i was telling showed a lot about myself and you know i can see what experiences i want to
34:26have now it was actually a little bit of a confidence boost pushing myself and having the courage to go up
34:35there and do that sort of thing it made me feel a lot better afterwards
34:43a lot of people say to me oh you look young i think i'm like 18 19 20 but then i always say oh it's
34:48because i never had a boyfriend so i haven't been stressed out you've never had a boyfriend no no
34:53after a successful workshop the dynamics between the girls and boys seem to be shifting
35:02you definitely seem like one of the most confident of all of us i'd say thank you i've worked very
35:07hard to be this confident i uh i think you're really pretty thank you
35:14it's um i don't i don't want to be in the in the sun for too long okay it's nice having that chat with
35:21you do you think ben likes me i don't i've not noticed it'd be enough of you or anyone else
35:27no it's just i think he likes me likes me oh like that way oh okay i don't know
35:32you know while sparks fly between ben and charlotte
35:39not everyone is finding island life quite so easy
35:46i think jason needs a lot of like basic this is how you do this this is how you do this it just it's
35:51going to take time for him to to feel the empowerment around touching other people i think
35:56weirdly enough my sex education because i've moved to school i've missed the sex ed week
36:02so basically safe parks my sex education i've never touched a condom the only thing i could know
36:08about a woman's and that i mean stuff would be on from tv and the internet that kind of thing if it
36:13was a game i'm level one that's interesting i'd love to be able to level up in a way sound like a
36:20virgin explaining that oh god so the experts have planned a session on the basics of touch with
36:27celeste i've never really been able to be a touchy feely person yeah my family's like that though like
36:34my mom she's ever been a touchy huggy person but i know she loves me i love her but we can't do hugs
36:39it's just not in our nature i want to try putting my hand on top of your hand and see how that feels
36:45more more intimate exactly so i could scooch to you after this morning's workshop celeste wants to
36:53learn more about the real jason behind the humor let's take some steps you know yeah and we can
36:58see like do you like putting your hand on mine do you like me putting my hand on yours for example
37:03so you want to start with like just yeah just put it in there yeah is it okay like is the sensation
37:09feel good it's okay yeah yeah all right okay so can we try where i put my hand on your hand okay yeah
37:20okay i feel like because it's happening to me it's like a little overwhelming yeah yeah
37:29feeling uncomfortable receiving touch when i work in like offices and stuff i'm a bit worried i'm a
37:33bit too firm with handshakes jason takes matters into his own hands all right like that that feels
37:44good is that okay i would even like let our palms touch a little bit more okay like that do you feel
37:53like yeah yeah on safer territory i feel so limp you can give a little bit more pressure one more yeah
38:01let's do it jason's flying like that that was beautiful success i'll show myself because i had
38:09no idea what i was in for all right all right well i think it's just getting more intimate with touch
38:15i want to be improved i want to be cured
38:27who wants a butt plug i don't want to touch it i don't think this has been inside
38:31i don't know if it's been inside anyone to encourage the group to broaden their sexual horizons
38:37a couple more butt plugs i'd be like wolverine just like the experts have handed over a box of sex toys
38:44oh these are fun if i took your butt and you fart enough
38:48hey right could you actually like blow it out and left them to explore who wants to be tired
38:56you know you'd be in a bed and this would be tight to like a thingy it just helped reinforce for me
39:01when i have sex it's gonna be vanilla it's vanilla sex for me i'm gonna leave you like that now
39:07it's all right
39:12who wants the feather yeah how does it feel this makes you feel like me struck by chicken chicken
39:21i want to lose my virginity on the retreat absolutely all of the shame and the self-criticisms
39:29that come being a virgin my hope would be that afterwards they that would be gone because you're
39:33not anymore you don't have to put this label on yourself anymore
39:41hello hello so far zach is adapting quickly to the cars comfortable with hugs absolutely yeah yeah
39:48yeah zach is starting to stand taller he's more confident please have a seat and after our last
39:57session i think he's ready for most advanced therapy working with a surrogate partner a highly
40:05trained therapist able to have sex with a client today i'm here to give you the introduction into
40:11surrogate partner therapy what my role is what cat's role is and you know a little bit about how
40:18this process works surrogate partner therapy has been around for quite a while and it involved a
40:25therapist a client and a surrogate partner it starts pretty slow with close-on embodiment exercises
40:32just while we're kind of like getting used to each other and i can learn what you like and vice versa
40:37the surrogate is helping them explore what it feels like to take your clothes off with someone
40:43what it feels like to touch someone in an erotic way and can go all the way to a full sexual experience
40:52as you're comfortable with we'll move to more organic encounters kissing oral intercourse it will
40:59eventually feel like just practicing different sexual skills that's the gist yeah cool yeah got it
41:06this is a container for you to practice a relationship and so i am a licensed mental
41:13health clinician you will be working with me with regards to like any emotions that come up and that's
41:19like my side of the street got it i'm gonna let the two of you have the remainder of the session
41:23all right i will see you guys soon take care bye is there anything you want to talk about before
41:31we move to some body work i don't think so no okay i'm gonna have you lie down
41:39so i'm gonna touch you first and i'm only gonna touch your arm and i'm gonna use my hands my
41:45arms my face and my hair if that's okay yeah
41:55i think it's really important to teach people how to have sex teaching like really basic relationship
42:01skills when clothes come off things get more erotic helping people be human again it makes me want to do my job
42:10while sex is the ultimate aim zach must build a connection with cat before getting to that level
42:26how was that it was good it was tingly very good way yeah are you ready to switch yeah let's go
42:43i think we're done we're done you're done yeah yeah
43:08what came up just then that made you feel like stopping
43:16i think you know touching your arm is great it feels amazing it's just obviously i want more
43:22okay but it's a process you know like that i wouldn't do more than that on a first session
43:27with anybody yeah the speed of the surrogate program doesn't seem to be moving fast enough for zach
43:33so how far are you wanting to go with surrogate partner therapy i would like to go all the way i would
43:38love to have sex with you you know that's why i came here really yeah it's hard to connect with
43:43someone you just met telling you hey i'm your surrogate you will be eventually maybe if you want
43:48having sex with me so let's stand up let's just shake it off but do you think i'll be able to lose my
43:57virginity you know have sex with cat eventually i would like to
44:02how was it yeah so we were doing arm touching like it was intense like i didn't realize like i
44:12would have that strong of reaction to be honest you know maybe i'll lose my virginity very soon
44:18but yeah very positive experience i think
44:25ready guys oh we're down here with the big fire after two days at the retreat the first phase of
44:32the course is drawing to a close shame bonfire is a culmination of everything that we've done
44:39in the first phase it's a chance for them to get rid of their shame items from yesterday and move on
44:51we're going to call you up one at a time to let these old stories about yourself
44:55and these old ways of being and thinking go and i am so delighted for you okay
45:01okay are you ready to let it go yes let it go let it go the act of burning something is the act of
45:16letting go and saying i can change now ready let it go it felt really good to be able to release all
45:25my feelings into the fire i feel a lot more confident it's like a whole refresh of emotions
45:38i was stuck in a rut i was stuck in the way of thinking and i think this is my opportunity now
45:43to really change that i'm keen to fill in more of the gaps
45:49next time you're quite attractive so i mean you know things heat up on the touch phase of the cars
46:01there's another animal here with you on this rug
46:07it was like watching a corner as emotions bubble over i just don't want anyone to touch me
46:13let's just have one minute when things turn physical okay
46:30so that's tomorrow at nine or if you just can't wait get immediate satisfaction by streaming it now
46:36although it's a marathon not a sprint turning their hand to whatever comes up next we're back on the
46:41beats with the night coppers