Love After Lockup - Season 6 Episode 2 -
Free My Man
Free My Man
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00:00:00Previously on Love After Lockup...
00:00:02When I met Bradley, he was my weed dealer.
00:00:04But since then, I've been high on love.
00:00:07Drop the s***.
00:00:08It's okay.
00:00:09Got your makeup on my face. I love it.
00:00:11I think I want to save myself for when we get married.
00:00:13I can't do that.
00:00:14I've been in a relationship now with Michael
00:00:16a little over a year.
00:00:17I'm currently locked up for possession of methamphetamine.
00:00:21I told him he's a racist punk.
00:00:22Here he goes. All context.
00:00:24This is your first time with me sober,
00:00:26so this is gonna be cool.
00:00:27Sober for both of us.
00:00:28Really worried about being in an augmented relationship
00:00:31when I get out.
00:00:33Julius is calling.
00:00:34I can't believe we're about to be out.
00:00:36Ready to come home.
00:00:37We've been dating now for about a year on and off.
00:00:40Like, damn, this motherf***er is sexy.
00:00:43Your mom's coming to get you, right?
00:00:45Uh-huh.
00:00:46Do you plan on me meeting your mom?
00:00:48Take it one step at a time, though.
00:00:49All right. Love you.
00:00:50All right, babe.
00:00:53Hi, babe. I can't wait to see you
00:00:55and just hug you and kiss you.
00:00:58I'm definitely gonna stay positive.
00:00:59I've been waiting for Julius for such a long time,
00:01:02and now it's time for my man to come home.
00:01:05I'm raising two boys by myself.
00:01:08The boys need more of a father figure in their lives,
00:01:10and my boyfriend, JK, really wants to be a dad.
00:01:13He's gonna be paroled into his mom's house.
00:01:15What is he gonna be doing?
00:01:16Alex ain't too far from there.
00:01:17Me and Brooke have been dating on and off
00:01:19for the last three years.
00:01:21Alex I met, like, a year and a half ago.
00:01:23Me and Brooke weren't together.
00:01:24Are you worried that Alex is gonna show up to the release?
00:01:26If she shows up, I'm putting my hands on her.
00:01:29Me and DeMondrick got together when I was in high school,
00:01:33and he was my first real boyfriend.
00:01:35Have you talked to even Mama?
00:01:37No. Joella is still in love with DeMondrick.
00:01:40DeMondrick's cheated on me with her twice.
00:01:42When was the last time you talked to D?
00:01:44Just last night.
00:01:45I'm not the only one.
00:01:46Come on, man. Let's let this boy out of here.
00:01:47Come on.
00:01:49Where? Where?
00:01:51I don't understand.
00:01:53Come on. Is this him?
00:02:07Oh. Oh. That's a drop-off.
00:02:12Come on, man. Let's let this boy out of here.
00:02:13Come on.
00:02:16Hey. Where? Where? Wait.
00:02:24I don't understand.
00:02:30Hello?
00:02:32Good morning.
00:02:33Good morning. Who is this?
00:02:34This is Officer ...
00:02:36You are outside to pick up your family member?
00:02:39Yes, I'm outside.
00:02:40All right. Thank you.
00:02:42Uh-huh. All right.
00:02:43Oh, there's the car. We was waiting on him.
00:02:45I'm getting outside.
00:02:46What? Are you trying to see if I'm outside?
00:02:48I've been standing here. You can't see me?
00:02:50There he is. There that guy is right there.
00:02:52There that boy is.
00:02:55There that boy is right there.
00:02:56Ready? Put it down. Put it down.
00:02:59Put it down.
00:03:00Oh, man. That's all right.
00:03:06Don't cry. Don't cry. Don't cry.
00:03:08Don't cry. Don't cry.
00:03:12It's okay.
00:03:14Don't cry. Don't cry.
00:03:20It's okay. It's okay.
00:03:25Look at that guy.
00:03:28Oh, my God.
00:03:30What's that?
00:03:32Mm. Mm-mm-mm.
00:03:35Oongee papa now.
00:03:37What's that?
00:03:39Oongee, don't cry, little Oongee.
00:03:41Look at him.
00:03:42I'm free
00:03:45It's a great feeling to be able to kiss her again touching feels great to be free
00:03:53I'm surprised to see Keanu step down here, but I'm gonna try to cop a couple feels
00:03:58It's been two years since I've been able to touch and kiss on it. I'm probably not gonna let you go
00:04:03Not today for sure
00:04:05Where's deep?
00:04:07Ain't looking
00:04:12Oh
00:04:23I'm never coming back to this place. I hope I never see Bob wine. None of that again. We're not you know, no, most definitely
00:04:36Welcome home my boy
00:04:39So glad you out that place man appreciate you we gotta get going
00:04:44Five hours got to be there about 145. Okay. I have to go straight to the halfway house
00:04:48They'll be putting a leg monitor on me. And from there I can try to see if I can get a little time to do
00:04:53anything else
00:04:57If I'm late, they'll try to revoke me and say that I'm escaping
00:05:01I'm a little bit nervous to make it on time, but I think we got it
00:05:05I
00:05:08Relaxed yeah, I'm out of there that much time for the bail on probation or whatever
00:05:12I got three years on probation and I'm starting to August 8th or August 9th one or two
00:05:18Why why wait so long to start because that's when I get off of my monitor
00:05:23Cuz that'd be the end date of my sentence. Okay, okay. I
00:05:27Never thought I was going to prison. I didn't see it in my future at all
00:05:31In college, my major was a physical therapy on to be a physical therapist
00:05:36But I started dealing with some of the wrong people having some of the wrong company people who the police eyes were already on
00:05:44Got shot in the shoulder from that moment for I always wanted to keep a gun for a while
00:05:50Maybe like three or four months straight. I got pulled over like at least twice a week
00:05:54I was convicted of having a firearm while under felony indictment and I served two years in prison
00:06:02I
00:06:03Want to make sure that your head's all right or make sure that everything goes well with you and Kiana
00:06:09Cuz y'all both deserve to be happy in good relationship where you don't have to worry about nonsense
00:06:15That's what y'all should be
00:06:17In the past is the past. Yeah, you rule you learn president of future is all I have
00:06:22That's it. I mean I could plan for the future and live the present. That's it. I met Kiana when I was 16
00:06:28She was 12
00:06:30Kiana liked me. I told Kiana when you get older, I mean talk to me. We'll see where we hit
00:06:36Once I got to college, she would check on me make sure I had what I needed
00:06:39So when I came back home from college, we finally decided we would talk and actually make something out of it
00:06:46I don't want no doubts about nothing
00:06:48I don't want no more slips and then like that because that last time was a hurtful one
00:06:52I plan on proposing to Kiana. I've made a promise to her before
00:06:57Definitely that up
00:06:59But uh, I will be faithful this time. I'm trying to do the best I can to show her that uh, this is what I want
00:07:09The magic is not your average felon he's went to college
00:07:13He's had multiple jobs and I see me and the magic, you know
00:07:18Just living the dream being happy being in a house with our kids
00:07:23We're gonna be great
00:07:26Alright, alright, alright, alright
00:07:28See what y'all doing
00:07:31Do I need to separate y'all?
00:07:33We've been separated too long. I just gonna have to beat you up when I get there
00:07:36Oh my god
00:07:47What do I need in here?
00:07:56Oh
00:08:00Today's a big day
00:08:02Now we know we're not leaving each other and we get to be with each other
00:08:07So yeah, that's exciting
00:08:09The only thing that I'm worried about is the PO maybe like putting my mom with lockdown
00:08:14I'm torn because yeah
00:08:16I want to like hang out with them and be with them and but yet I want to follow the rules and not get him
00:08:21In trouble. I know with Michaels release
00:08:24He's gonna have a lot of rules and restrictions placed on him
00:08:27He's been in and out of prison since he was 24
00:08:30Most people would be scared to go back to prison. He's not scared. You know, I'm not gonna defend him anymore
00:08:35I'm done defending them. Don't worry. Defending him like he's got to do that. That's the thing at this point
00:08:41He's got to build the relationships and he's got to earn the trust of everybody
00:08:45I'm ready to kind of help him jump through those hoops and challenges because I love the guy
00:08:50I'm a little bit nervous the whole like intimacy thing because you know, it's different when you're sober
00:08:55The feelings they're different now than they were
00:08:59So maybe we better even
00:09:03Michael is my soulmate because we get each other. I mean we understand each other me and Michael have used together in the past
00:09:10Yes, but this past year. I just feel like we connected on all levels
00:09:15we're both sober and like we've talked about our plans for the future and
00:09:20So yeah, it's it's really exciting. Oh, yeah, we gotta go
00:09:25I'm absolutely head over heels in love with Joey. I know our chemistry is gonna be there
00:09:30We left off pretty hot and heavy. That's like nothing's really died away. I'm really excited a little bit nervous
00:09:38See what happens
00:09:42We're gonna have some conversations I'm sure that aren't gonna be very comfortable
00:09:47You know, my thing is the monogamy thing. I'm
00:09:50That's my big thing
00:09:52So, I don't know that might be an issue with us
00:09:54I don't know. We haven't really talked about stuff like that because we haven't had the time when Michael gets out of prison
00:09:59He's coming home as my boyfriend
00:10:02Boyfriend to me means, you know, we're together. We're monogamous. I don't know what a boyfriend means to him at this point
00:10:09I can't explain what the hold that he has on and it's not the hold that he has on me
00:10:13But I don't think about the bad stuff. I have hope that Michaels that person. I hope that he's my forever. I
00:10:19Believe he is I have so many plans for a future and I don't want to think if he uses what am I gonna do?
00:10:26You know, am I gonna use with him? Am I gonna cut bait and run?
00:10:31He is the love of my life, I just can't wait to spend time with him
00:10:42Waiting to see him come down this thing and then I don't ever have to wait out here again
00:10:47Yeah, I'm excited it's the first thing I'm gonna do when I see him just give a big fat wet sloppy kiss
00:11:02I've been here. It's been about 30 minutes. I feel like you get to be any minute. He can be coming out. Is that him?
00:11:08Funky chicken is he doing go. Let's go. Let's go. Let me see my man
00:11:19We got places to be I'm definitely looking forward to getting
00:11:27Her body has definitely
00:11:30Changed we're supposed to see each other
00:11:32Her body has definitely
00:11:35Changed we're supposed to see each other a couple hours tonight. Is he out though? I don't even know if he's out yet
00:11:41Oh my goodness. Is that him?
00:11:46Let's say right now mama get the first hug you better run faster than I do
00:11:51I've been waiting on this for three years
00:11:54This is him
00:12:01This may mama June's back our dysfunctionality works for our family
00:12:08Big money, where is my check? The check is right here. This isn't a game big drama. We're getting a divorce
00:12:15What?
00:12:18Big trouble the judge really consented shoot at prison
00:12:22It's gonna be a hot mess summer the all-new season of Mama June coming this May to
00:12:43I'm thinking like the hotel would probably hate me for this this stuff everywhere. Hey, boo
00:12:52I'm excited
00:12:55Julius comes home today
00:12:57So, what's the plans in here? We're getting balloons decorations
00:13:11Okay, today is the day Julius gets out of prison
00:13:15We're supposed to see each other for the first time
00:13:17I know I wasn't like too nervous before but as it's getting there
00:13:22I'm like getting like really I don't know like anxious like anxiety attack anxious
00:13:28Um, do you have handcuffs by chance?
00:13:30Do you I need to see is he gonna show me love? Is he gonna give me kisses?
00:13:36It's he's gonna hug me. Is he gonna want to be distant and be like one step at a time
00:13:40Is he gonna find me attractive? I don't know. I just gotta feel his vibe
00:13:45I can't really feel his vibe and so I see him. Oh
00:13:49Those are the real ones too, aren't they? It was the key. He might not want to play with those
00:13:56He got out he can arrest me
00:13:58Are you like throwing it back tonight or tonight and tomorrow tomorrow's gonna be an all-day throwing back thing
00:14:05It's a birthday. Yes my birthday. I'm getting pregnant tomorrow. So what about no the ring first?
00:14:11This to be for real first
00:14:16The right way right what time is he getting out? I don't know what time he gets out
00:14:20I don't have to wait for like the call. How do I have to go to get him?
00:14:24Uh, I don't he's his mom's picking him up. Oh, she's gonna be yeah, he won't let me pick him up
00:14:29Oh, well, that's out of control. That's so sick. I feel like he's gonna get out and hurt our feelings and
00:14:35Typical man that's in jail, you know
00:14:38Like I don't feel like it's gonna be anything
00:14:40I hate to say that because I've been in that situation before and you don't want me meet his family
00:14:44He said one step at a time. I
00:14:47Didn't like him since day one
00:14:48They were supposed to get matching tattoos and then she got her tattoo and then the next day he was supposed to get his tattoo
00:14:54He never got his tattoo. I got this on my birthday last year get a tattoo. Did he ever get it?
00:14:59He didn't when she got that tattoo. Like that's something that's permanent
00:15:03That's a big step the tattoo someone's name that really you haven't even met in person
00:15:10I'm just a little nervous for you. He's already given red flags. He's literally
00:15:25I'm excited to see my man. I'm ready to hug my man and kiss my man. I have about one hour
00:15:31this is literally what I've been waiting for for four years now, so this is
00:15:39It feels like the first day of school just waiting anticipating how the day's gonna go I could barely sleep last night I
00:15:48Can't wait to just get him out here. I see him walk out those doors. I'm just gonna run to him
00:15:53Just really being with him in the physical like there's no more like all right inmates time to tell your goodbyes
00:16:00Like there's no goodbye. This is just it like you're free. You're with me like and it's just it's surreal. Honestly
00:16:08Oh my god, I feel like I'm going for a visit I
00:16:13Can't cry I'm cry my last
00:16:16I want to fix my hair
00:16:18I'm most excited about really just having a man in the house
00:16:22I want to just I get the love on and nurture someone to talk to
00:16:30Talk about my long day at work, or you know talk about future plans with
00:16:35You know going on dates and stuff, that's what I'm just most excited about
00:16:41Okay, I'm here last time coming up the road to this prison. I am so excited
00:16:48I'm outside just waiting on my man to come outside and I'm gonna run right to him and
00:16:55Slap him down and give him a big old hug, and I'm just so shook right now
00:17:00What's the plans for tonight we're supposed to see each other a couple hours tonight, it's he out though
00:17:05Um, I don't even know if he's out yet. Oh, so no call. Nothing. Nothing. Not yet
00:17:11When Julius gets out
00:17:12I'm really looking forward to going fishing and going to the creek and going camping and making love in the woods
00:17:18I already know that's gonna be amazing
00:17:21He's tall. He's got big feet. He's gonna be well hung. All right, you know better be
00:17:25He's gonna be well hung I already know better be okay, we're gonna go look at the balloons
00:17:35Who is this
00:17:41Nice to meet you as well. I know you was coming today
00:17:46Surprise
00:17:49I'm just shocked. Like I'm trying not to have an attitude because it's supposed to just be our time
00:17:55me too
00:17:57Tyler is Julius's big sister. Lanae's baby's father. I just know of Tyler, but I've never actually like met him
00:18:07Low-key I am upset that Tyler's here at the release because I just don't like stuff that seems sneaky
00:18:14That's something you could have just simply been like, hey, babe
00:18:16Tyler's gonna come, you know just to see me or whatever the case may be but
00:18:21It's whatever
00:18:24Hi, how are you?
00:18:26It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. I've known Julie is probably over 15 years
00:18:32The last time I seen him was right before he went to prison
00:18:37Mm-hmm. I met Julius when he was like 11 12 years old
00:18:42All I can think about is our last vacation where we was just turnt up
00:18:46I feel like I I see some dreads moving or something. Is that him? Oh look see they opening the gate
00:18:54Oh my goodness. Is that him?
00:18:57Is it here bro, they gotta be no no, no, he wouldn't work out of that
00:19:09Yes, ma'am, I'm sorry what this is just a curveball that I was not expecting the floor tip my hat and the boys want more
00:19:17This is the tattoo that I got done for JK. This says love always Jake
00:19:22It's actually his handwriting and his signature off of a Valentine's Day card country girls crazy VIP no entry, baby
00:19:30Right now I'm headed to the hotel to meet Kathy JK's mom
00:19:34And we're gonna ride together in the morning to go pick him up. I
00:19:41Cannot believe this day is finally here. Like I'm so excited. I'm ready. I'm over the waiting
00:19:47I
00:19:50Are you tired they wouldn't let me check in because the rooms not my name, okay
00:19:59I have not spent a lot of time with JK's mom in the past. Is there gonna be a double bed?
00:20:06It's a single bed
00:20:08Looks like we're cuddling tonight
00:20:12I'm
00:20:13Kind of nervous about having a sleep with his mother
00:20:17I've never even slept with him. I'll be the big spoon. You'll be the big spoon. Yeah
00:20:23That's kind of weird, but I guess I can dig it
00:20:26Home sweet home
00:20:30Well, it's a big bed
00:20:32Thank God for that
00:20:35I'm just so excited. He's coming home. Yeah me too. I
00:20:39Think about James so much and I know he has so much potential
00:20:44He doesn't always make the right choices. So I'm praying I don't want him to mess up again
00:20:49I want to stay out of prison stay out of jail
00:20:52So, let me ask you this. Do you want to marry JK? I
00:20:57do
00:20:58He makes me
00:21:00Like he makes me want to be a better person. Like he makes me want to be a better mom
00:21:04He's just always like rooting for me. I guess you could say
00:21:08So I just like I've always wanted something like that that I've never gotten from the others
00:21:13I
00:21:14Don't really have a time frame on
00:21:17When I expect JK to propose to me
00:21:21But we have discussed things that we would like
00:21:25Obviously have more babies and of course get married. I
00:21:30Just don't think he needs to rush into anything right now
00:21:33he needs to
00:21:35Breathe free air and not have somebody telling him when to eat when to go to the bathroom when to go to bed when to
00:21:42Go exercise. Maybe that's what he means. No, he don't need that
00:21:45He needs he needs his freedom a little bit. I just don't want him to be tied down too
00:21:52quickly
00:21:55Since we're talking about like the whole marriage thing like I have a couple of questions
00:22:00What's the situation with JK like was he a whore in the past is he is still a whore like
00:22:07JK has never had a problem having a girlfriend
00:22:10I will say that for a man that's been locked up. He's had more girlfriends that I think you ever had when he was
00:22:16Out in the free JK has always been kind of a ladies man
00:22:20I can tell a story one time when he he had me the phone and he said here talk to my girlfriend
00:22:26They didn't tell me which one it was so I picked one and I picked the wrong one got him in trouble
00:22:30What about this Alex?
00:22:33Alex was very good to JK. She went to see him every weekend. She sent him money. She was there for him
00:22:39I mean, she's kind of part of the family, I guess
00:22:46She still talks to me
00:22:48She doesn't come around a whole lot, but she's always asking Neil house JK doing, you know, I tell the truth
00:22:54I mean, oh, yeah, he's got a girlfriend and right he's doing great
00:22:58Interesting. I'm gonna go get my nightgown on I
00:23:01Mean, yeah, it bothers me
00:23:04What if he gets out and goes back to the same thing? How much am I gonna have to worry about the other females?
00:23:12My nerves are just shocked. I can't sleep
00:23:17Super super excited. I can't wait to just be able to hug him and kiss him and
00:23:23Currently playing next to his mother
00:23:28She's over there Chanda girl, if you don't go to sleep put that phone down
00:23:45Kobe's stop stressing out
00:23:49Seal these hoes
00:23:53I'm telling you
00:23:59Boom
00:24:00I've never been a shy girl. That's just not me get her done get her done
00:24:06I'm loud as hell. I think I'm Beyonce
00:24:12Did you get off that window I work as a cheer slash gymnastics coach I want teased and I need to pick right up
00:24:22I
00:24:29Don't gotta put on no cheer outfit to shake my stuff baby, but
00:24:32I
00:24:49Ready for a dream. I don't mind if I didn't leave do
00:24:52I
00:24:56Thank you, you know, I appreciate y'all coming it's my last little you know, hoo-rah before I'm off the market
00:25:07My dream man is just handsome tall
00:25:11And my goof around you were all talking for you put up and they talk about you and Brian. We're dating for six years
00:25:19I heard him like three months ago
00:25:30Forever all right this six years
00:25:33Yeah, I met Brian in high school. I was intrigued by
00:25:38his quietness
00:25:40Me and Brian didn't date but I used to wear like purple lipstick and I would give him a case
00:25:45He would just have to walk around school with like a kiss on it
00:25:47Even if off like I would walk into his classes and I would put my kids back. I was on him for real
00:25:55What are you going to jail for?
00:25:58We went to jail for robbery
00:26:03After high school, I would see him from time to time and we've always had our flirtatious moments, you know
00:26:09I get a call like he locked up. He bought to do six years
00:26:15I'll try to aggravate a robbery and possession of firearms in a motor vehicle
00:26:20My best friend reach out to Brooklyn. She told me I didn't think you liked me or wanted to talk to me
00:26:25I kind of felt the same way
00:26:29We've been together this whole six years, but we finally made it official this year
00:26:32I just love her face like a little chunky cheek. I love her smile. Like she got a beautiful smile
00:26:37I just I don't know every time she light up. I light up. I'm just ready to be against the world with Brooklyn
00:26:43When you get out like he's gonna live with you, it's a possibility
00:26:47I mean I'll tell him for six years or should have been talking about it
00:26:51Do you eventually want to live with him? Yes. I mean, I want to have children with him and everything
00:26:56I just wait when are you ready to do like tomorrow? Yeah yesterday. No, I don't agree with that
00:27:03Why you gonna get a job?
00:27:06Like are you gonna be a provider even the wife for you? I know he's not gonna make me be no provider
00:27:11I know he about to turn up and he about to make sure me and his kids is straight
00:27:16My brother is very protective of me because when we were really young me and my brother had trust funds set up
00:27:25My mom passed when I was 10 days old she was complaining about a headache and
00:27:31She ended up having an aneurysm
00:27:34So we ended up doing like a wrongful death suit and we did him sue the hospital
00:27:40I don't know like a hundred percent like what the dollar amount was. I just know that it was a great amount of money
00:27:48Is it all about the money?
00:27:51I'm not gonna say that. I haven't sent Brian money, but it's only been like within like the recent past months
00:27:59For a pretty much of his sentence. He has taken care of hisself
00:28:02I
00:28:05Just don't want you to just get out of jail to moving with you and he just sitting there you don't overplay a part
00:28:10I don't see myself doing I see myself as being there for my name and I feel like he's gonna be there for her
00:28:16too, I do too
00:28:19Emotionally, I don't feel that you take me as serious as you need to take it
00:28:23That's like you just I just want to take care of my man. I want to do this for my man
00:28:26I'm like, I don't have kids you it's like it's not a fairy-tale. It's real life. Why can't it?
00:28:30It feels a bird so he would have been in jail
00:28:33Brooklyn's probably scared to tell him about Brian cuz she was probably like more scared
00:28:37Know what? I was gonna think of her. She didn't know nothing about him
00:28:41You know, I feel she's moving a little bit too fast
00:28:42We're not saying that there ain't men that be in jail and that be talking females ears up
00:28:48They're using them for money all of that. What I'm telling you is my man ain't doing that
00:28:55period
00:29:01Because it's my man is my team
00:29:06Right, so you supposed to be on my team the truth was hurting you that's why you're mad. Bye
00:29:11You see what I was saying though. You gotta add it to you for what?
00:29:19Me and your mom meeting was supposed to be a whole nother event now it's being today
00:29:23I'm a little hesitant meeting Savannah's mom. I'll make it quick. You can just say hi
00:29:31Oh, let's go, let's go. Let's go. I'm gonna see my man
00:29:39That him
00:29:54You gotta get off this stupid
00:30:00Joey's been supportive this entire time. I've been down and well, he stuck by me held it down the whole time
00:30:06That's like unheard of for me. And as a matter of fact, a lot of these guys in here. They don't have that
00:30:11Waiting for me
00:30:14It's crazy crazy here. I know it. Here we go a lot more to go
00:30:19I
00:30:21Was officially sentenced for possession of controlled substance with intent to deliver
00:30:24I
00:30:25Was officially sentenced for possession of controlled substance with intent to deliver
00:30:30It's always in some way been drug related
00:30:32I want to say I've been in and out probably five times to this prison system another three or four in California
00:30:40I've never gotten out
00:30:42in a relationship, so
00:30:45You know, I'm gonna try harder this time to stay out
00:30:48I brought you a ton of clothes, but I didn't I went and bought you some swim trunks. Oh, yeah
00:30:53Maybe they go for me. I'll wear this in this
00:30:59Everything about Michael turns me on his eyes his how he talks his mannerisms everything like just watching him now. I'm like
00:31:07It just makes me goofy. Oh, yeah, they say well
00:31:13I'm way into him. I'm like
00:31:17Good now I feel normal looks good. I was wondering if we're gonna have that sexual chemistry. I still have it
00:31:23Abstained from masturbation for the last week. Oh nice. Yeah
00:31:27It's been longer than a week for me, but I'm not as active as Michael a few people are
00:31:35Growing up. I never wanted to admit that I was almost sexual and I prayed really really really hard
00:31:43For God to make me straight
00:31:46In high school, I was a little effeminate just because you know, I like to play with the video camera
00:31:51I like to sing and I played a lot of music when I was 17 and graduated high school
00:31:56I enlisted in the Navy and after boot camp. I
00:31:59Met the first real love of my life
00:32:01My relationship lasted almost two years
00:32:05But I had never been gay before
00:32:09When we were at a bar, I took off with someone else
00:32:11I loved him and he was so good to me and I broke his heart
00:32:15I
00:32:16Up on him and I met up with my old high school friends and they wanted to use and it was it
00:32:23Once I started using meth it and took all my time. It took all my energy
00:32:28It took all my attention and took me away from my family a lot
00:32:33Yay, we did this
00:32:38I feel like Joey's what I've been missing my whole life. This is a calm to my madness
00:32:43He brings me some sanity when I'm going crazy
00:32:47He's more than I could ever ask for. Well, you got of mine the phone and your charger
00:32:53yeah, let me get that I am and your phone has a
00:32:58Different number
00:33:00Give me a new number
00:33:02Your mom erased. Oh, it's I told her to keep the same number when you turn it on you'll see
00:33:08No, she didn't change it. I see specifically asked me the other day if she should change it and I said no, babe
00:33:14She changed it. I promise but you guys didn't wipe it though, right?
00:33:19Oh
00:33:20You guys factory reset it. Yeah, you guys really me dude. I'm not even kidding
00:33:26It's like for your own good. Well, that's how I'll do that. Don't feel bad. Don't do that
00:33:32Don't feel bad don't do that because no, it's not gonna be good cuz I'm gonna do what I want to do
00:33:37Yeah, you might want to do it, right? So what do you need all your old contacts for?
00:33:47I'm thinking about
00:33:52This is so but probably like the first opportunity I can do it and like not mess anything I have going for me up
00:33:59so
00:34:01First time I'm taking to get away with using
00:34:08But I really don't want to lose Joey cuz he's just perfect for me and I want to be perfect for him
00:34:15It's first start
00:34:17Yeah
00:34:27That's a truck
00:34:31Dream car get that off, baby. Oh
00:34:38I'm prison clothes. I feel like you shouldn't say goodbye to this place. Yeah later
00:34:46Yeah, super hard
00:34:55Holy hell
00:34:57We are out here, oh, yeah
00:35:01Least
00:35:0228 months two days and seven hours. I don't know babe a long time. Thank God we started in the country
00:35:09The colors are pretty though. Mom. What trees life forms? What asphalt?
00:35:16Roads like it hasn't really fully sunk in that I'm free now, you know what I'm saying? I
00:35:22I
00:35:24Was kind of thinking if we switch so then you can sit over here and play with your phone
00:35:29How do you gonna be hyper focused on that right now? It's gonna be too overstimulating one thing at a time
00:35:33I mean, it's all the little things. I have to get straight follow my EBT card to get my Medicaid switched
00:35:39Go get my probation rules. I don't know open up a bank account. I don't want you
00:35:44I only have one week. I literally start work on Monday before I got locked up
00:35:48I started roofing and I'm going back into that in a couple days
00:35:52I'm just slowly trying to get back into the groove of hey, this is real. You know, I'm saying behind me. What's next?
00:35:59What's the next step? What can I get done?
00:36:04Yeah, no, I got pissed I
00:36:08Think right now Bradley's feeling really overwhelmed. There's a lot of anxiety that comes with coming back home
00:36:17However, I'm definitely looking forward to getting
00:36:25Their grandma text you he said I'm really not feeling well
00:36:29Your mom is going to be taking my place at dinner steaks
00:36:32Sprinkle with seasoning and pepper and continue cooking
00:36:37Please cut that off
00:36:39Why did you do that?
00:36:40Because why would you even set that up like that?
00:36:42Because I wanted to hear what she was saying me and your mom meeting was supposed to be a whole nother event now
00:36:47It's being today
00:36:49I'm going into this situation. I'm meeting Shanoa, which is Savannah's mom. I'm a little hesitant
00:36:56especially because we had an argument a couple months back about like
00:36:59Relationship ethics. We didn't really see eye-to-eye on certain things. I need to know what your plans are with my child
00:37:07They all go into counseling or anything
00:37:09What are you talking about you guys are pretty toxic
00:37:13This day was so overwhelming. We're so tired. Like I don't even want to cook the food no more. I just want to go to sleep
00:37:22We can just go in through that door I'm trying to relax sometimes stop doing stuff
00:37:28Well, I'll make it quick you can just say hi
00:37:39a little bit nervous
00:37:49I'm happy to be out, but I'm on a time limit
00:37:52I'm definitely not trying to go back inside that place. So I'm trying to hurry up and get to the halfway house check-in
00:37:59The halfway house they put a monitor on for two to three months
00:38:02So I'm ready to get in my monitor and start home confinement with Keanu
00:38:14I'm very nervous because they were expecting us to get there by 145 like dang. Can he eat?
00:38:19He didn't come out on time and the trip is long his PO
00:38:24Expectations, it's literally insane can't be that hard to put a monitor on they do it all the time
00:38:29So they ain't trying to make it easy
00:38:32Why does this whole process everybody be moving so slow, but they'd be quick to
00:38:38Quickly, okay quick to put you away. We're slow to release. Yeah, like come on now. Mm-hmm
00:38:44Where is he?
00:38:46That's not good. It's taking forever. I told you man. I
00:38:50Can't believe it's been two hours. We've been waiting two and a half hours. What is there to do, right?
00:38:58Maybe don't they think we not here. Let me make sure they know that we here
00:39:02I
00:39:07Miss ma'am, he's gonna stay here. I'm sorry. What are you gonna stay here?
00:39:19He should have been out 30 minutes ago
00:39:24Right, so you're supposed to be on my team the truth was hurting you that's why you're mad. Bye
00:39:30You see what I was there, though
00:39:32You got an attitude for what?
00:39:43Hello
00:39:46Nothing just at the bar chilling
00:39:52Monty Ray
00:39:54ovo
00:39:55and Jeezy
00:39:57Jeezer just he really like grilling me. Like what's he gonna do when he gets out of jail?
00:40:01What's he gonna do? Is he gonna be able to provide for you?
00:40:03Are you gonna be taking care of him and I'm just tired of those questions like I get like his concern
00:40:10That but at the same time like, you know, I'm the older sister. So I know what I got going on. You feel me?
00:40:20It just starts to bother me when I've got to just keep repeat myself and I gotta keep saying this over and over and
00:40:27I don't know but
00:40:30Do you love me
00:40:33And we're gonna be cool when you get released tomorrow and the next day and the next day and
00:40:47That was for nothing
00:40:50Since we've been together. We have been 100% faithful. We are very open
00:40:55So if he has communicated with other women, I am aware of it. Everybody keeps calling it a fairy-tale like I'm
00:41:03scared that this
00:41:07Right before we made it official that's when he was talking to this
00:41:14Who knows who in New Jersey
00:41:16this Jersey, bitch
00:41:19They was cool for a little while. I would say for maybe like a few months
00:41:22Maybe they was going hard and I'm like you like that beach like, okay
00:41:28Simmer down
00:41:30Me and my sister used to be like we gonna go and blow, New Jersey. Yeah, he's gonna be like, oh my god
00:41:36Here we go. So
00:41:38Yeah, that was a time. I don't want you to get out
00:41:53I
00:41:54Know Brian loves me. Just never stops telling me. He loved me
00:41:58He messages me and tells me his feelings all the time
00:42:05Honestly, my intuition is literally always right like if I feel like you're cheating
00:42:12You cheating?
00:42:14What's in the past in the past and move forward and make new memories, okay, babe. I'm gonna go back inside
00:42:20But I just I needed your good energy. I needed to hear your voice. I needed you to give me your wise words
00:42:25I really appreciate that and I just want you to be free. I
00:42:30Love you more. I feel strongly that
00:42:33He wants to spend his freedom with me
00:42:37What took you so long I was just like that talking to my man he was giving me the reassurance that I needed
00:42:45Jeezer I'm just telling you as my little brother like you got to understand
00:42:49I got people coming from here from here from there from there everybody talking about to listen. I
00:42:56Am listening. I do understand but I need y'all you to listen to me as well. I am
00:43:03Okay, so what's your outcome now? What how do you feel now the same right? Yes, right
00:43:08Oh
00:43:10It's just I don't agree with her and stuff
00:43:11but right so why the hell do I need to listen to what you say and
00:43:15Implement it in my life if you not implementing what I'm saying to you
00:43:19I am listening to what you saying then he did he not just say he still got the same opinion at least I got a
00:43:24Little bit of enlightenment on mine because you need to hear it. Well, I'm telling you
00:43:30He's the one
00:43:32My life about to change and is you with me are you not?
00:43:36Hopefully hopefully then it's done. We'll see when we see it
00:43:46And we can go to bed now, yeah her body has definitely changed
00:43:54Trying to relax sometimes stop doing stuff
00:43:58I'll make it quick. We can just say hi
00:44:06Oh
00:44:11We can set it next to the stairs
00:44:29In the beginning when Bradley went to prison he was off the chain and
00:44:33The relationship in my opinion was very toxic excited to be home
00:44:39Hasn't fully set in yet. I'm running on no sleep
00:44:41I haven't heard anybody that I know of sleep the night before the advocacy work that I do is for prison. I
00:44:49advocate for
00:44:51men and women coming home, you know, I'm such a support for a lot of other people who return home and
00:44:58I want to be the same thing for him
00:44:59I know because all the guys that you know
00:45:02I'm there when they come walking out and there's nobody there and they're put on a van and taken
00:45:07to wherever they're gonna go and
00:45:10It's really sad and to know that they have no family and there's nowhere for them to go and it just reminded me
00:45:17I was like I have to be here when he walks on the door
00:45:22Well, it's true well, I appreciate you I love you and I'm here
00:45:29I think my mom's always cared about Bradley. She just let her worries
00:45:34overpower that for a little bit a
00:45:37Few years ago. I was using drugs in my grandma's house
00:45:41I'm pretty sure at the time. She was just thinking that
00:45:45He was probably doing the same considering he was still being supportive and remaining a part of my life despite my clear drug addiction
00:45:52Who is that
00:45:55Told you I was gonna wing him back for you. I experienced a lot of trauma and unfortunately she did too
00:46:03This is going upstairs
00:46:05Yeah, all of it. I mean we don't have to go out tonight, but I mean, it's right here
00:46:15Here I go relaxed. Yeah
00:46:19I
00:46:22Have a million and one insecurities about my body I
00:46:26lived
00:46:27My life being almost 300 pounds for a long time
00:46:30so when I was 21, I had gastric bypass and then
00:46:36Six months ago. I had a tummy tuck
00:46:39But there's still work to be done
00:46:43We can go to bed now, yeah, please
00:46:47You're just so easy
00:46:49I'm just trying to go to sleep. Well, I thought I was gonna have more convincing. No
00:46:55Sex isn't really like on my mind right now. I'm being quite honest with y'all
00:46:59Her body has definitely changed dramatically
00:47:03since we started
00:47:05talking
00:47:08She's not doing drugs, so I mean she's not
00:47:12130 pounds anymore. So I mean she's definitely
00:47:15She's like
00:47:17150 1, you know, I'm saying that 150 on 5-4 is kind of kind of healthy a little healthy weight
00:47:41I
00:47:53Been up since four
00:48:05The anxiety
00:48:07But you can sleep tonight
00:48:09I sure am you're not ready yet. No, your son keeps calling me together. Come on
00:48:20We gotta get ready I'm super excited my man's getting out today today's the day we're gonna be there shortly, okay
00:48:29I'm so ready. Like I've been looking forward to the for years now
00:48:39Let's go I can honestly say other than you know, the times when I had my kids I've never been so excited for something in
00:48:45my life
00:48:47I'm nervous. I don't know if I need a follow-up. I don't know if I need
00:48:55Well, I'm gonna tell you right now mama get the first hug you better run faster than I do I just hope he can stay
00:49:02on the straight and narrow
00:49:05Well, she's like wanted to ever go back no, I know I know I get it I
00:49:11Do feel like JK is gonna be tempted a lot
00:49:15He's been in and out of prison and you know on and off drugs since he was 17 years old
00:49:20He's now 31 like spending most of your life
00:49:23Duggin doing these these things that you know, you're not supposed to do. I
00:49:27Hope he's able to fight that
00:49:30You know something he doesn't realize is yeah, it's hard on him because he's locked up
00:49:38But it's hard on us it's hard on the family, yeah
00:49:43Throughout the whole time. He's been gone this time. Like I think he's probably realized that a lot more now
00:49:53The hardest thing about being in prison for me is
00:49:56time missed
00:49:58Missing out on your family. I've lost both my grandfather's down here. My grandfather Jones when he passed away. He was in a coma and
00:50:06They call me down there and I got on the phone and I could hear him breathing. So I got to tell him by and
00:50:15It was hard it's tough
00:50:21I'm a better man. I'm a changed man. So I'm a different man today than I used to be
00:50:29Do you think Alex is gonna try to oh
00:50:35I'll take this exit. Yeah, take this take this exit and then go and then you'll move. Okay
00:50:41Miss X Alex better not be at this release
00:50:44The last thing I'm trying to do is have this great moment turn sideways because that's what would happen real fast
00:50:54Made it
00:50:58I
00:51:00Think I need to throw up now
00:51:05Look look where we're at
00:51:10It's time
00:51:14Last time we have to be at the place
00:51:29So it's a truck
00:51:33And every time I see movement my heart stops my
00:51:37What time is it?
00:51:398 30
00:51:408 30. Okay, so he should have been out like 30 minutes ago. They told me eight o'clock. Yeah
00:51:47Think they're coming
00:51:49Don't get my hopes up. No, for real for real not this car but back there
00:51:54You just lied to me
00:51:58No, I really swear it was we're lying to me
00:52:01It's too good to be true. Like I've been waiting on this for
00:52:04three years and it just like
00:52:07My heart literally just can't handle it. Oh
00:52:23This is this is wrong, it's always something
00:52:28You
00:52:35Yes, ma'am he is gonna stay here I'm sorry what he is gonna stay here
00:52:44This was a shock to me I was gonna get him ready to go home and they said no he stayed
00:52:48He wasn't aware of that. Yeah, but again now that he's entered another division with the Bureau of Prisons. There was a lot of misunderstanding
00:52:55Misunderstanding right now the decision is no until we can clear this off. When will you get an answer?
00:53:06I gotta find it
00:53:09It's really frustrating because I wish they would have voiced
00:53:13Potentially holding to modric. This is just a curveball that I was not expecting and I can't even breathe right now
00:53:19I can't even think I can't even I just I just can't
00:53:26What's up
00:53:28What
00:53:30What I said, I said he has to stay here yes stay here. Yes. Yes. I stay here. How long they don't know
00:53:40Calm down
00:53:42She's coming to the car
00:53:45You guys are doing you fuckers I'm not a movie
00:53:49That tears me up man. It's just it makes me want to cry and that's just this is just wrong
00:53:56I
00:53:59Have got to be
00:54:01You put a woman through all that hell and don't realize everything that she has to do to get herself back together
00:54:10The despair on her face because now she's like I do all this to make sure my man can come home to me
00:54:17We went through all this as teenagers
00:54:19We went through all this as young adults
00:54:21And now we get to a point where we can actually become a family become something more and this happens
00:54:26It's a slap in the face to her. I know this is rough. I'm very sorry that this happened because this should not have happened
00:54:34Yeah, I'm just so sorry, baby. You have to go through that mama. They do not care at all
00:54:39All right, mom. Let me jump out here then
00:54:43It's gonna be okay, I promise you thank you
00:54:46Oh
00:54:48What happened he paid his debt let him go like why are y'all withholding him?
00:54:54He did what he needed to do like why are y'all keeping him? I'm just so frustrated free my man
00:55:02It's always something always
00:55:17Oh
00:55:26I gotta stay strong
00:55:28For him, which is hard because I don't deal with emotions very well
00:55:32Especially when I'm pissed off like it just gets to be too much my anger gets to be too much
00:55:40They can the fat one for all I care right now and choke on it cuz I'm about done
00:55:47I
00:55:55Some people just know they could save hundreds on car insurance by checking all-state first like, you know to check the game is actually over
00:56:06Before
00:56:09Oh
00:56:14Yeah checking first is smart
00:56:17So check all-state first for a quote that could save you hundreds
00:56:21You're in good hands with all state
00:56:23We're in a volcano to test finish ultimate against tough burnt on stage finish ultimate breaks them down
00:56:31Oh
00:56:35My goodness is that him? Oh
00:56:45I feel like I can see his dreads. Oh he coming
00:57:01Oh my god
00:57:04Feels good, it was great. I'm free. This is overwhelming for you
00:57:11It's a lot to take in. Oh my goodness
00:57:16It's the first time we don't met outside of prison
00:57:18I just love that he's a real man and he puts the effort in and
00:57:23He wants to be the leader and take charge and I just love that. So
00:57:27real man
00:57:31Oh
00:57:35You can tell me Tyler and it was coming
00:57:37Yeah, I know to last minute
00:57:53Take it all in
00:57:56Super excited that Julius is finally home and we can finally turn up. It's just good to have you home, bro
00:58:02We ain't never coming back here. We never got to see this place again. Knock on wood
00:58:07I'm coming back to you. Never. I'm about to go. You better go live it up though
00:58:13Yeah, there's a lot of things he missed out on you know, I'm saying he came in with what he's 18
00:58:17So he missed out on a lot of clubbing a lot of girls a lot of family experience
00:58:24I'm about to put this on right now. I'm about to turn it up
00:58:30Little bit of Patron, you know
00:58:38First time drinking legally, but let me get my cell phone
00:58:47Activated
00:58:50In prison they call me links basically, I'm just tall lanky
00:58:57Yeah, lanky lanky yeah
00:59:01You ready to go
00:59:04It's a me
00:59:07Growing up. It was hard my mama. She had it hard. So we ain't grow up with a lot of money and none of that
00:59:13So that's kind of how I fell into my ways
00:59:16Getting to dealing with drugs and trying to make quick cash
00:59:19When I was about 15 or 16, I started selling fitna and then the police was on me
00:59:27They sent one of their confidential informants at me
00:59:30Basically, I served a confidential informant and then
00:59:34They came right at my house found some fitna some money
00:59:39Yeah, that was it. I spent six years in prison
00:59:45All right, so let's go
00:59:49When you're in prison the people that you think gonna be there for you don't really be there for you
00:59:55When somebody you barely know show you more loyalty than the people that you actually
01:00:00Love that means I was Alexis. She more than my girl. Like she my best friend my energy be good when I'm around
01:00:11I mean
01:00:25It makes me mad I'm the one that's sacrificing so much to make sure you even get to this point
01:00:31I've probably spent around 11 $1,200 on Julius. Where were your boys all these six years? Where were they at?
01:00:38Why weren't they funding you? Why weren't they trying to come see you or at least put money on your books?
01:00:43You know making sure you're straight like you got to focus on who really focused on you
01:00:48Let's drink
01:00:50Exotics life crazy name six years. No tears. No bicker. No bickering
01:00:59Having a cell phone. It's like freedom to be able to communicate and connect with everybody that I ain't had in a long time
01:01:06You know I'm saying I got access to the world
01:01:11I'm calling as
01:01:13I feel like I'm a firm believer in like there's a jail talk. There's real talking. There's home talk right? I mean, so there's three different
01:01:21Hell yeah, you're gonna tell somebody what you want to hear while you're in prison
01:01:24No for sure and then you gonna be with him when you come home
01:01:27Are you not and then when they come home home and after everything see they're gonna rock with you or they're not
01:01:33I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie
01:01:37I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie
01:01:42I'm not gonna let a couple of doubts scare me
01:01:45I can't just not be with him and then wonder what it could have been I have to realize myself
01:01:50If it's not gonna work out, but I know when Julius gets out
01:01:54We're gonna be together 24-7 and no one else is gonna be able to get hands on him
01:02:00Make sure you stop right here to go right at the corner right at the very corner
01:02:05That's the autumn in the hole. That's the hole
01:02:08I like when my girl is life of the party unpredictable and that's Ashley
01:02:19Right now I'm feeling great, you know, I just got out of prison
01:02:22I finally get to see Alexis for the first time get there kick it with Ashley
01:02:26I don't like sneaking around because it's too much but you know, I'm saying like it got to be done
01:02:38No, I don't like to be able to predict everything you can do because it keeps me on my toes, you know, it's exciting
01:02:47Love you too, brother. Keep your head
01:03:00Oh my god, I think this is Julia's
01:03:04Next Friday on an all-new love after lockup if the bitch that's picking you up. Don't let me see you. I'm a fighter
01:03:11Y'all do not need to have any children. It would be at least nine months. Drop me the same
01:03:16Feel like I got betrayed you bitch. Why is you attacking me as far as drama goes anything's possible. It's time
01:03:22If you don't someone else see you tomorrow, he's gonna be busted
01:03:28Don't miss an all-new love after lockup next