90 Day: The Last Resort Season 2 Episode 15 Last Time Asking (Mar 10, 2025) Full Episode 720HD
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00:00Who wants to play foosball?
00:02Come on, Trino. Come on.
00:04Boom!
00:06Previously on
00:0890 Day The Last Resort.
00:10I'm going to try to hold it.
00:12Oh!
00:16So I started applying for my parents'
00:18visa two months ago, not telling anybody.
00:20My parents took this so
00:22hard. I'm an immigrant
00:24here. I don't have my family.
00:26I don't have my friends. I don't have anybody here.
00:28It's hard, so you're not alone.
00:30You went out
00:32after hours
00:34with Darcy and Georgie. There was two hot blonde
00:36chicks, okay, that Darcy saw you leave
00:38the club with. Are you
00:40f***ing another woman behind my back?
00:42The clues are looking like he's cheating.
00:44Makeup on the shirt, him walking girls
00:46home late at night. Tired of
00:48giving all my good years to someone who's just
00:50going to, like, f*** me over at the end.
00:52Do you have someone
00:54in mind that you want to have an open
00:56marriage with? Yes.
00:58That's cheating.
01:00I haven't cheated, and that's why I'm here.
01:02No, it's not an excuse for cheating. You are a cheater.
01:04I'm a cheater. You enjoy your life.
01:06Okay, perfect. Have a good one. Bye.
01:08How the heck
01:10proposing ethical,
01:12non-monogamous marriage
01:14is cheating?
01:16I just wanted to save my marriage.
01:18I don't know how, and I...
01:20I don't know what to do. I don't know.
01:26I don't know.
01:56F***.
02:08I know he's mad.
02:10He's very mad at the heart.
02:14And I don't want a heart.
02:16Gina!
02:18I'm here. I have to talk to you.
02:20I want to have a drink. Please.
02:22My heart just
02:24broke in for that situation
02:26because I don't want you call her cheater
02:28because she are not.
02:30She wants an open marriage with this guy
02:32that she already knows which guy to be with.
02:34But she never touch him.
02:36She never kiss him. She never have any
02:38intimacy anymore.
02:40Why is she going out with this guy then?
02:42She don't have anybody here except him.
02:44She have you and some random dude
02:46from gym club.
02:48And I feel her because she don't have anybody
02:50except you and that country.
02:52I don't like how she's put me in a corner.
02:54She not cheating on you.
02:56That's all I want to tell you.
02:58She not cheating on you.
03:00She love you from all her heart.
03:02Here I am thinking,
03:04you know, things have been
03:06pretty good recently with Jasmine and I
03:08so maybe we can turn things around
03:10and we can be happy together as a couple.
03:12And so hearing her
03:14where she says
03:16she wants to have an open marriage
03:18with Matt
03:20already has a guy picked out
03:22means that she was having a relationship
03:24with this guy prior to
03:26coming to therapy behind my back.
03:28To me that already
03:30like a betrayal.
03:32What happened?
03:34Where is he now?
03:36He said that I cheated on him.
03:38Why? You didn't cheat on him.
03:40Because I told him about
03:42the open marriage and everything
03:44and I told him about Matt.
03:46You don't cheat.
03:48No, never.
03:50No, no, no, no.
03:52She's a friend.
03:54Okay.
03:56I'm tired of them.
03:58Have any of us cheated?
04:00No.
04:02I look like a cheater.
04:04You are a queen.
04:06We got you Jazzy.
04:08That's crazy.
04:10It's okay.
04:12We got you my mama.
04:14We got you.
04:22Okay, okay.
04:24It's a crazy night.
04:26Everything's being exposed while we're here.
04:28And you know what, it's for the better because
04:30we need to know the truth.
04:32We need to know the truth and facts.
04:34Yes, that's why we're here.
04:36What a crazy freaking night.
04:38You know, this is
04:40my worst nightmare.
04:42I found out that Florian walked some
04:44hot chick home in Miami.
04:46And I'm supposed to believe that's all that happened?
04:48I deserve something more than just
04:50I didn't do anything wrong.
04:52I hear those words all the time.
04:54Like, I really can't
04:56trust his words right now.
04:58We got you.
05:02Can I sit with you, Florian?
05:04Oh, you can sit wherever you want.
05:06Oh, thank you. Thank you, my friend.
05:08And I thought
05:10this was supposed to be a good night tonight.
05:14Gino, my boy. What happened?
05:18Yeah, so Jasmine pulled me aside
05:20and she wanted to talk to me.
05:22Then she started pushing an open relationship
05:24and I asked her,
05:26do you have a person in mind that you want to have
05:28this open relationship with? And she says
05:30yes.
05:32And who is this person?
05:34Some dude
05:36from her gym.
05:38Now, she's been going to the gym
05:40for several hours a day
05:42lately.
05:48Immediately, oh, you're
05:50cheating, you're cheating. For you to accuse
05:52a person like that, you have to have
05:54evidence.
05:56It really hurt me.
05:58I was being vulnerable to him, letting him
06:00know everything, being honest.
06:02He said, you failed me, you
06:04cheater.
06:08I don't understand Gino.
06:12I like Jasmine. I think she's cool, but
06:14to be honest, I do not think of Gino
06:16like a crazy man.
06:18Because this guy I met
06:20didn't come out of the blue.
06:22I do think it was not accidentally this guy
06:24chosen. She might be cheating.
06:26She might.
06:28What?
06:32You met this guy?
06:34Where?
06:36Yeah.
06:42He looks like another man.
06:44He looks like someone else.
06:46Yes.
06:48Kind of like mine?
06:50No, bigger.
06:52Bigger?
06:54Hey, Gino said he doesn't want to know.
06:56Gino don't want to know.
06:58So why are you guys torturing him with this information?
07:00Just Google the information.
07:02All I need to know is she was with a guy,
07:04which I already know.
07:06To me,
07:08cheating isn't just going and
07:10having sex with someone else.
07:12Building an emotional connection with someone,
07:14that's very bad. If you're doing it behind
07:16your spouse's back,
07:18that's like the worst of the worst.
07:20It's very suspicious to me
07:22that she's introducing Matt to her
07:24that just shows that she has some kind
07:26of emotional connection with him.
07:28That really worries me.
07:38Georgie called Darcy.
07:40There was these two blonde chicks in Miami
07:42that he was hanging out with after hours,
07:44late at night, and she saw
07:46him leave the bar with
07:48these two blonde chicks.
07:50Well, one of the chicks
07:52saw Georgie's night and was like,
07:54oh, by the way, tell Florian
07:56thank you for walking me
07:58home that night.
08:00Yeah!
08:02And it was like 4 or 5 in the morning,
08:04like after hours, you know?
08:06I'm not going to go back to
08:08the room with Florian.
08:10I don't want to be
08:12next to him. I just kind of feel like
08:14I really have a lot to think about.
08:16I don't deserve this.
08:18So I guess I'm sleeping with you tonight, Darcy?
08:20I definitely need
08:22time to process and figure out
08:24what I'm going to do in this marriage
08:26and figure out how I'm going to trust him again.
08:28Do you sleep okay?
08:30I'm tired today.
08:32Yeah, me too.
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09:14Good morning!
09:16Oh, you're so cute!
09:18Come here, Mommy and Daddy.
09:20Mommy and Daddy!
09:22Good morning!
09:24Let me sit near you.
09:26Come on, come on.
09:32Yeah.
09:34I'll give you an example.
09:36After last night,
09:38our relationship is have a big
09:40question mark.
09:42Because Brandon say he are
09:44done with that marriage.
09:46I didn't know what I expect from today.
09:48But I hope he are
09:50sleep is over happy
09:52and we only have conversation.
09:54How was your sleep?
09:56Did you miss me?
09:58Laughter
10:00High energy Julia.
10:02First thing in the morning, boy.
10:04I don't know how you do it, Brandon.
10:08Thank you guys for let me sleep here.
10:10Yeah, for sure.
10:12Have you spoken to Brandon?
10:14No, since yesterday I'm not see him,
10:16not spoke with him at all.
10:18I won't give him space last night.
10:20That's what he want.
10:22I have to talk with him because yesterday
10:24he say he go home today.
10:26So you think he serious about going home?
10:28Yeah.
10:30If he divorces you because like
10:32your parents are coming,
10:34then I'm sure you need to know that he's not
10:36a supportive person for you.
10:38And if he's leaving and he's gonna leave,
10:40then what's your plan?
10:42If Brandon decides to leave and that
10:44is gonna be, we broke up.
10:46That's gonna be our last chance
10:48when we have our relationship
10:50and we will be divorcing.
10:52I'm not gonna be stay in this country.
10:54I will be go home.
10:56I don't have anybody except Brandon here.
10:58So what point I will be in this country
11:00I go home to my family, to my friends
11:02and start my life
11:04from start there.
11:12Thanks for the pajamas.
11:14You're welcome.
11:16Don't fart in my bloomers.
11:18Maybe I did.
11:20You smelt it.
11:22I don't want them to smell like
11:24booty hole.
11:26Oh stop it Darcy.
11:28I gotta give him back.
11:30Yeah you sure do.
11:32Might wanna wash him first.
11:34Darcy being here
11:36has been difficult and
11:38I know we have our ups and downs
11:40but she's a good sister and I feel like
11:42she has my back right now.
11:44You know it's times like this that we need
11:46each other the most.
11:48Alright.
11:50Alright.
11:52I gotta go talk to this ass.
11:54Cheating asshole.
11:56You better wish me luck.
11:58Good luck. Good luck sis.
12:00Thank you for letting me spend the night.
12:02I told you I got your back.
12:06My goal for this
12:08conversation with Florian right now
12:10is to get the truth and nothing but
12:12the truth.
12:16I don't want excuses.
12:18I don't want him arguing
12:20and yelling. I'm hurt.
12:22I'm angry.
12:24And I want the truth.
12:26I want answers.
12:34What are you doing?
12:36Just packing.
12:38You weren't going to home?
12:40Julia's caused me a lot of pain in the last few days
12:42and I'm done. I can't take her
12:44keeping things from me
12:46and I'm just ready to go home.
12:48After everything we've done I don't see this as working.
12:54What's wrong?
13:14This is not a joke Florian.
13:16What joke?
13:18You opened the door like aggressively.
13:20What aggressively?
13:22Chill out. Calm down.
13:24Can we like have a normal conversation
13:26about what happened last night because I really don't
13:28want another fight and argument.
13:30We're here to work our issues
13:32but what I found out last night
13:34that's the last straw Florian.
13:36I'm not dealing with this no more.
13:38I hope
13:40this morning is going to go off and everything
13:42is going to be fine.
13:44But this morning Stacy is very mad at me.
13:46I'm going to talk to her calmly.
13:48I hope she's going to believe in me
13:50Tell me the truth.
13:52Tell me the truth.
13:54One more time.
13:56Everything. I want details and all.
13:58You go to the bed.
14:00I go out with Darcy and Jordi
14:02and basically like two girls come there
14:04and talk in general you know
14:06and that night I left.
14:08One of the girls
14:10is walking some direction you know
14:12it's our neighbor basically.
14:14You didn't leave with two girls. You left with the one.
14:16I'm not left with no one.
14:18I'm walking with her.
14:20Keep the story straight.
14:22And walking like same direction you know
14:24almost like falling down you know
14:26and I open the main door.
14:28I buzz the elevator.
14:30I go to my floor. He's going to his floor.
14:32Shit. This is the story.
14:34So you didn't take her back to her apartment?
14:36No. What the f*** house?
14:38No.
14:40Wham bam thank you ma'am.
14:42No no no thank you ma'am.
14:44I know you like to help people
14:46in distress.
14:48But where are you when I need your help?
14:50I was sick and recovering.
14:52I'm supposed to believe this story
14:54and you're disappearing all the time
14:56and you're gone. Your location's off.
14:58Did you have a last hurrah
15:00before you came here?
15:02What am I supposed to think?
15:04I can't trust you.
15:06I'm really upset
15:08right now because
15:10I feel like he needs to honor our marriage
15:12and our vows
15:14and be respectful to me.
15:16I was healing from surgery. I couldn't go out a lot
15:18so I was like f***
15:20I might be the damsel in distress.
15:22Take care of me
15:24instead of other women
15:26in our building.
15:28I want to believe you. I want to trust you.
15:30It's hard because
15:32I see all these patterns
15:34adding up like the past
15:36and I know
15:38you're chivalrous at times
15:40and that's great
15:42you know? Maybe I would like to see
15:44that a little bit more, that side of you
15:46with just me, not with other women.
15:50I know I did mistakes in the past
15:52like
15:54this time I told Stacey the truth
15:56what happened.
15:58Stacey
16:00not believe to me. It's upset me
16:02so much. Take me a long time
16:04to build this trust and I work for
16:06this trust long time. Right now
16:08basically everything which I work
16:10is going down. This is not trust me anymore.
16:14How would you feel
16:16if I stayed out late after hours and walked
16:18some guy home and wouldn't you
16:20think the worst? Okay I understand.
16:22Now you understand.
16:24In your
16:26mind it's not a big deal but to me it
16:28is. It's hard for me to
16:30let go. Stacey I'm telling you the truth.
16:32I'm not f***ing making up nothing.
16:34Okay well then when I ask you about
16:36these kinds of things stop getting aggressive
16:38and flipping it on me
16:40and defensive. That tells me
16:42that you're guilty. No no I get
16:44aggressive to be honest with you.
16:46This is how I am you know.
16:48Different thing, different culture, different things.
16:50This is how I am you know.
16:52When you're yelling at me
16:54it's like it goes in one ear out the other.
16:56Come softer. If you want me to
16:58be soft you have to be soft.
17:04I love you and I'm sorry
17:06I yelled to you but Darcey
17:08make it this more big
17:10than this and explain to
17:12you in a long way.
17:14Can you just say
17:16you're sorry? I'm sorry.
17:20It's hard for me
17:22to trust Lorian
17:24because I still carry a lot of pain
17:26from when he cheated on me in the past.
17:28But we're here at this retreat
17:30to learn and grow so right now
17:32I choose to work on our marriage
17:34and I feel like
17:36we still have a lot of work to do but
17:38I hope that we can figure it out while we're here.
17:40This is it.
17:42This is the last time. I've had it.
17:44I love you. I want us to work.
17:46I love you. But just know if it ever happens
17:48again and there's cold hard proof
17:50it's over.
17:52This is not a joke.
17:54No I'm just letting you know.
17:56Yeah.
18:04Yesterday at the family therapy with James
18:06Julia revealed that she had already
18:08filed for a visa for her parents
18:10to come to the United States without
18:12even my approval.
18:14I'm just so
18:16angry that
18:18I once again
18:20find something else out
18:22and I'm done. I can't
18:24take her keeping things from me
18:26and I'm just ready to go home.
18:28I'm just ready to go home.
18:30I'm just ready to go home.
18:32I'm just ready to go home.
18:40What are you doing?
18:42Just packing.
18:44Why?
18:46After you have time to think
18:48and you decide you want
18:50going to home?
18:54After already what we've
18:56been through? After what we've already
18:58done? After like this
19:00whole time we've been here?
19:02After everything we've done I don't see this
19:04as working. You run after problem
19:06you run away. This is not gonna
19:08help.
19:10If you
19:12gonna run away this will be over.
19:14Do you know that?
19:22I'm tired.
19:24I keep trying to
19:26be positive about everything and work these
19:28steps and do what they're telling us.
19:30But then I'm the one who just keeps
19:32getting hurt.
19:34Julia's caused me a lot of pain in the last
19:36few days and I really feel
19:38like I need to see that she's here
19:40for our relationship. Here to make things
19:42work and not just rip
19:44my heart out over and over again.
19:46And if she can't
19:48that'll be the end of our marriage and
19:50me leaving the retreat.
19:58If you're
20:08going to home now I mean
20:10this will be practice not done
20:12and we can't say we try
20:14we can't say that
20:16it's gonna be another group therapy
20:18so can we give a last chance for
20:20this group therapy?
20:22And if
20:24after group therapy you're not gonna change
20:26your mind I'll let you go.
20:30If I go to this therapy there's not gonna be any more
20:34secrets that are gonna come out?
20:36No.
20:42I've never seen Brenna shut down
20:44like that from me before.
20:46It makes me feel
20:48so scared about our future.
20:50I don't want to be selfish
20:52today but I want to
20:54start fresh and I want to
20:56speak it up and tell everything what I feel
20:58and I'm asking him to do the same.
21:00I love him and I want this marriage
21:02to be working.
21:10I'll put a pause on this for now.
21:14See how things go today.
21:24You know what?
21:38You done with the bathroom yet?
21:40Yeah.
21:46I was shocked last night to hear Jasmine
21:48say that she's been spending time with this guy.
21:50To me this emotional bond that
21:52she has with him
21:54that she doesn't have with me
21:56is like a slap in my face.
21:58Yeah it upsets me because
22:00it just makes me feel
22:02not wanted or not needed.
22:06Do you know there is a therapy session
22:08today. Are we going
22:10or because
22:12according to what you said last night
22:14we should be leaving as
22:16Benny and I already did.
22:18I mean you really broke my heart
22:20yesterday. I mean we've been
22:22together for like four years. And I love you.
22:24And I never expected this from you.
22:26Okay you know I never thought
22:28like I was going to propose
22:30this in my marriage. Okay?
22:32It has turned around this way
22:34but you have to understand that I do love you
22:36that I have no intention
22:38whatsoever to hurt you
22:40and that's the reason why I opened
22:42my heart to you yesterday
22:44and I wanted to be honest. You broke my freaking heart.
22:46I believe Jasmine
22:48could be forcing this on me
22:50because she knows how much
22:52I love her and that
22:54it would be hard for me to walk away.
22:56But I have a lot more questions
22:58for Jasmine before I consider
23:00open marriage.
23:02I want to know more about this guy.
23:04Okay you want to?
23:06Tell me you know who he is
23:08where he's from
23:10you know how did you meet him
23:12give me more information about him
23:14How did you meet him?
23:16Give me more information about who this person is.
23:18Okay his name is Matt. He's my same age.
23:20Does he work out at the gym?
23:22Yes he works out. That's where we met.
23:24Have you been to his house? No I haven't.
23:26You haven't been to his house? No I haven't.
23:28So where do you guys go like after the gym?
23:30Where have you been going with him?
23:32To the cafe that is in front of the gym.
23:34It's literally
23:36across the street.
23:38Sorry are you attracted to this guy?
23:40He's not ugly. He's good looking.
23:44Well I'm not going to lie
23:46because you're going to see him
23:48if you let me eventually show you a picture of him
23:50he's good looking.
23:52Am I attracted to him? Well I see him as a friend.
23:54I'm not in love.
23:56I love you baby.
23:58Jesus I hope you're not in love.
24:00No I'm not in love. I've trusted you.
24:02I want us to be together. I don't want to get divorced.
24:04I want us to grow older together.
24:06I want us to make things work baby please.
24:08I haven't slept with you and it hurts me that you're accusing me
24:10and all I did was to be honest to you
24:12and it hurts me that you think that way
24:14because I swear to God
24:16I have a life, like a promise.
24:18He's a friend.
24:24And how would you feel
24:26if I was with a
24:28gorgeous woman doing this?
24:30This is exactly what we
24:32if you agree on the open marriage
24:34we both are going to negotiate
24:36how this is going to work for us.
24:38This open marriage is not just for me
24:40it is us
24:42us you know. It is us.
24:44We are the bond.
24:46We are the nucleus.
24:48And I hate to talk of people about that
24:50but they are an accessory. They come and go.
24:52It's us. It's always going to be us.
24:54You don't think you're going to build a bond
24:56with someone you're having sex with all the time
24:58and go into the little coffee shop
25:00and all that stuff
25:02and everywhere else that you guys go?
25:06Do I have a bond with him?
25:08Honestly, he's my friend.
25:10You know?
25:12I like the guy. He's cool.
25:14He's a good person.
25:16Am I in love with him? No.
25:20I don't think it's fair for Jasmine
25:22to give me an ultimatum of
25:24either let's have an open marriage
25:26or have sex with me
25:28because she is
25:30avoiding fixing issues
25:32that we have in our relationship.
25:34But at the same time
25:36I don't want our marriage to end.
25:38And I don't know what I'm going to do.
25:48Honestly, I need to think about
25:50all this stuff.
25:52I need to think about it.
25:56I just need to think about it.
26:00Josh and Natalie,
26:02something's going on here.
26:0450 years,
26:06and I have never, ever
26:08seen where he lives.
26:10Although we're taking steps forward,
26:12I'm still in the back of my mind
26:14thinking about how bad I was treated
26:16for the majority of being here.
26:18Yeah, well, we've only been getting along
26:20for two hours.
26:34Hi, guys.
26:36How are you?
26:38Come have a seat.
26:40Come on in.
26:42Pick a table, pick a table.
26:44Hi.
26:46Hello, hello.
26:58Welcome, everyone.
27:00Thanks for being here.
27:02So as you guys probably have noticed,
27:04Ari and Vinny are not here with us today.
27:06This is our first session without them,
27:08and, you know, this is kind of real, right?
27:10It shows you what can really happen
27:12when people aren't on the same page,
27:14aren't able or willing to get there.
27:16You know, with all of that said,
27:18we have a few more days left
27:20to the recommitment ceremony.
27:22We're getting close to the end here.
27:24I've also been thinking and hearing
27:26that we're having some complications.
27:28There's been a few issues
27:30related to several different topics.
27:32So we thought, what a great way
27:34to spend the evening
27:36talking about trust.
27:38Hearing about trust therapy,
27:40I don't know if that means we're doing, like,
27:42a trust fall or what,
27:44but I don't trust Sophie to catch me.
27:46I will catch you.
27:48You try, but you're weak.
27:50I am strong, and I will catch you
27:52because it's like adrenaline kicking
27:54because I'm going to save you,
27:56and I will catch you.
27:58She would let me fall.
28:00She's like, oh, my God, he's sweating.
28:02Get off of me.
28:04We're going to get into a trust-building icebreaker.
28:06Heidi and I are going to grab
28:08some notebooks, pens,
28:10and we're going to talk about
28:12writing down things that you trust
28:14about your partner.
28:16Now, they could be small or big.
28:18The point of this is just to really see
28:20that we do have trust in our partner.
28:22We may not have trust in the big, huge things
28:24at this moment, but we have trust,
28:26right?
28:30Remember, it can be small.
28:44Okay.
28:46Rob and Sophie.
28:48Sophie, let's start with you.
28:50Um, I put
28:52I trust my partner will look
28:54after our son.
28:56After our son? Our dog.
28:58Oh, I'm like, did I not know that?
29:00I didn't know that.
29:02I love it.
29:04We have a dog,
29:06and he became
29:08our son. The dog one is a waste
29:10of an answer
29:12because it's my dog.
29:14It's my dog. It's our son.
29:16He'll always take care of my dog.
29:18What are you talking about?
29:20I was taking care of him for eight years
29:22before you came along.
29:24Our son. We share a son.
29:28Brandon, what did you write down?
29:30I trust that Julia will do
29:32what it takes to see our family prosper.
29:34You trust that
29:36she wants the best for your family?
29:38Is best for our family. She's always gonna do that.
29:40That's a big one. I see it every day. I love that.
29:42What did you write down, Julia?
29:44I don't know. It's probably not so big,
29:46but I really trust him
29:48driving car
29:50because I can relax and I can go sleep
29:52and I can...
29:54That's actually huge. The big one. Safety.
29:56Safety, yes. I feel safe with him.
29:58He doesn't feel safe with me when I drive.
30:02Florian, what did you put?
30:04Everything, to be honest.
30:06You wrote everything on there?
30:08Yeah. I trust her with everything.
30:10Listen, not many people can say it.
30:12You're saying, I trust her with all my heart,
30:14but if you could give us just one specific,
30:16give us one detail.
30:18It's still come to my mind right now, you know?
30:20One thing? You can think of one thing?
30:22Everything.
30:24Suggest you something,
30:26I trust her, you know?
30:28I'm gonna take that and go with it because I think that puts
30:30Stacey in a place...
30:32Seriously, I trust her with everything.
30:34I love that. Stacey, what did you put?
30:38I trust Florian because
30:40he's a protector at heart
30:42and I really feel like
30:44he would
30:46always protect me and my family.
30:48I love that.
30:50Gino, what did you put?
30:52I trust
30:54that Jasmine
30:56loves me.
31:00I also trust that Jasmine
31:02will brighten a room when she walks into it.
31:04Oh, I love that.
31:06I like that.
31:08Those are big ones, Gino. Thank you.
31:10Natalie?
31:12Well, I trust that Josh
31:14is genius
31:16in some sort of way.
31:20Okay.
31:22And I admire him
31:24for his hard work, he's a self-made man,
31:26which is like, for me,
31:28a big thing.
31:30I do.
31:36I know that Natalie was nuts,
31:38but really, a girl believing that Josh
31:40is a genius?
31:42He's not a genius. He's not.
31:44He's a dumbass.
31:46If Josh
31:48is a genius,
31:50then I'm
31:52Albert Einstein, Mary Curie,
31:54you know, I'm on top of the world,
31:56Nobel Prize Jasmine.
32:00So, I want to talk a little bit about
32:02bandages.
32:04What are bandages? They cover up
32:06wounds. They help us heal.
32:08And that's what this is about.
32:10It's a way to establish trust
32:12within your relationship and to
32:14understand each other more clearly.
32:16So, I would like all you couples
32:18to discuss amongst yourselves
32:20and write down
32:22what that looks like, picking one of your big
32:24issues. If your issue is trust,
32:26what's a bandage that we can do to work
32:28on trust? Don't shy away from
32:30this. Let's dive right in.
32:36Why are you looking at what everybody else
32:38is writing? Focus, focus.
32:52I'm in a hard place right now.
32:54I need a bandage
32:56because my heart is beating.
33:02So, does everybody have their
33:04issue and their bandage
33:06figured out for this exercise?
33:08We do. You do.
33:10Deci and Florian,
33:12what did you guys put
33:14down? What was your big
33:16issue? Yeah, what'd you put? You want to start?
33:18Yeah.
33:20Like, listen. Listening?
33:22Like, no, like, stop. I just keep
33:24talking. I need to finish the full talking, basically.
33:26We don't listen
33:28because I think a lot of it has to stem from
33:30our resentment, our,
33:32you know, anger towards each other.
33:34You know, he talks with aggression.
33:36So, what is the bandage here?
33:38I feel like
33:40it needs to start with
33:42baby steps like tone,
33:44you know, simple things like let's have
33:46eye contact. I think we need to
33:48go back to how we were
33:50when we first met.
33:52I'm working on the trust with him.
33:54You know, he's cheated
33:56in the past, and now I have
33:58new information, and I just feel like the bandage
34:00ripped off me again, so
34:02it's not easy.
34:04Yeah, well, and I'm hearing you came up with several
34:06bandages, right? With the listening, with
34:08the watching the tone, with the eye
34:10contact. So, that was amazing. Yeah.
34:12I feel like if we both implement
34:14that, I feel like
34:16we'll get a lot further. It's a good start.
34:18Definitely a good start. I like that.
34:20Okay. So, Josh and
34:22Natalie, how about you guys? What'd you write
34:24down? Uh, don't
34:26disrespect each other.
34:28Okay, so
34:30what's the bandage to
34:32that? Coming up
34:34with, like, a stopping point, like a word
34:36where, you know, both of us
34:38kind of take a moment
34:40and
34:42for ourselves and, like, gather our thoughts, like,
34:44where are we going with this?
34:46Am I hurting her? Is she hurting me?
34:48What's the word?
34:50It's
34:52infinity.
34:56I know that she likes the
34:58word infinity, so
35:00if she likes it, she's more
35:02inclined to use it, so I come up with
35:04the word infinity. I believe
35:06that, um,
35:08Josh and I, we share more than
35:10physical connection. We have
35:12spiritual connection. Infinity,
35:14it's a sign of
35:16death and reborn.
35:18It's a reborn, actually. It's naked
35:20in itself. Uh, it's a very
35:22ancient sign, and
35:24wizards use the sign
35:26in their magic books.
35:28We need a safe word because
35:30things can get very
35:32intense to a point
35:34that, like, we won't be able to
35:36recover from. That's why we need a safe
35:38word.
35:40Is that what you
35:42both wrote down? Yes.
35:46Oh, what's that face?
35:48What did you write down? You know, like, um,
35:50I am totally into
35:52our statement right now.
35:54Never disrespect each other.
35:56Um...
36:00What's going through your mind?
36:02Something's going on here.
36:04For me to build the trust and, um,
36:06respect to him
36:08would be, uh, just to see how
36:10he lives. It's been three
36:12years, uh, and I have
36:14never, ever seen
36:16where he lives, so for me, it's
36:18disrespect. What's keeping
36:20us from just saying, Natalie,
36:22come on over and see my place.
36:24Yeah, well, we've only
36:26been getting along for two hours.
36:34Gino, Jasmine,
36:36where are you guys with things?
36:38Most recently, she's spending
36:40nights out, and I don't know where she's at.
36:42Gino, if she was to
36:44share location services,
36:46would it be more likely that you would be in this
36:48open relationship if she was to give you that?
36:50Uh...
36:52Yes or no?
37:08What's keeping us from just saying,
37:10Natalie, come on over
37:12and see my place. Yeah, well, we've only
37:14been getting along for two hours.
37:16Before that, like, it was tough.
37:18Mm-hmm.
37:20I made a commitment to Natalie, if we make it
37:22through this, you know,
37:24uh, retreat,
37:26that I would take her to my house,
37:28and I stand by that, but although
37:30we're taking steps forward, you know,
37:32I'm still in the back of my mind
37:34thinking about, you know, how bad
37:36I was treated for the majority of being
37:38here. You know, I still have that worry that,
37:40you know, tomorrow could be a bad day,
37:42and all of this progress could be lost.
37:44You're saying, I need a little more time.
37:46I need to kind of trust in the process.
37:48Maybe four hours?
37:50Yeah, maybe.
37:52I wonder, Josh,
37:54and I don't want to speak for you,
37:56but I'm wondering if she's more respectful
37:58and you guys feel like you're respecting each other
38:00better, that that would open
38:02the door to access? Absolutely.
38:04Okay. Yeah. So one leads into the other.
38:06For sure. Okay. So we can revisit this one.
38:08Brandon and Julia,
38:10how about you guys? What did you come up with
38:12as your big issue, and what's the bandage
38:14for you to help, you know,
38:16soothe that wound?
38:20I feel lied to,
38:22and I feel like that's where we're
38:24at a loss, because I feel like
38:26I need to see something, but I don't.
38:28I don't know.
38:30Something that shows me that she's
38:32good enough for me,
38:34and I'm not.
38:36Something that shows me that she's
38:38gonna do something to make me feel better.
38:42I want Julia to get a second opinion
38:44on her fertility issue.
38:48I have been
38:50blindsided by all the secrets
38:52and
38:54truths that are coming forward,
38:56and it's been way too much.
38:58And since I've
39:00gotten here, I've said
39:02I want a family, and this is
39:04the first step that we need to take
39:06in order to start that family.
39:08So that's what I want for my bandage.
39:16If you won't do this,
39:18I will be agreed to the second opinion.
39:20When we come back,
39:22we absolutely will go and do this.
39:24If this is very important
39:26for you, I'm agreed.
39:28You're tearing up.
39:30What's going through your brain?
39:32What are you feeling?
39:34That's the bandage we needed.
39:36Just something
39:38I really dearly want, you know?
39:40So yeah, it's...
39:42Is this a good step?
39:44It's a fantastic step.
39:46Can you look at her and share that?
39:48What do you say to her?
39:50I don't care. Look at her.
39:52Oh, you're so cute, guys.
39:54You guys, this is a major...
39:56This is a huge breakthrough for you guys.
39:58I'm happy for you.
40:02Wow.
40:06I was extremely close
40:08to leaving the resort.
40:10I thought I was leaving the resort.
40:12The fact that Julia could agree
40:14and get the second opinion
40:16and give me something that I've been fighting for
40:18that I really, really wanted,
40:20it just absolutely meant the world to me
40:22and shows me that Julia
40:24is willing to do what it takes
40:26maybe to make this relationship work.
40:28I'm going to the middle
40:30for trying to do everything within my power
40:32to save this relationship.
40:34We both have to know
40:36we are working hard
40:38and trying to save that marriage.
40:40You guys, this is huge.
40:42Good job.
40:44I hope you will be with me in these steps
40:46because I'm trying to do this two years
40:48and I can't.
40:50All the way.
40:52This is exactly
40:54what the bandage tools
40:56are for.
40:58This is how you mend things that feel broken
41:00or are chaotic.
41:02Whatever the case may be,
41:04it's giving in
41:06to the vulnerability of the situation
41:08and that's what you just did.
41:10I'm so proud of you guys.
41:12Sophie and Rob,
41:14what was your issue
41:16and what's your bandage?
41:18I think our biggest issue
41:20that has been our biggest issue
41:22and has stayed our biggest issue
41:24is communication.
41:26Talking to each other in a healthy way
41:28and addressing things in a healthy way.
41:30So,
41:32the band-aid is
41:34time and dated regular
41:36sit-down talks.
41:38Basically to create a calm situation of communication
41:40before issues grow.
41:42Allowing us to have check-ins every three days,
41:44once a week.
41:46I think that's beautiful in general.
41:48Where are we? Where's this relationship?
41:50Let's check in.
41:52I think that's amazing for building trust.
41:54Gino, Jasmine,
41:56where are you guys with things?
41:58For me,
42:00it's right now and recently,
42:02most recently,
42:04she's spending nights out
42:06and I don't know where she's at.
42:08She's at the gym
42:10for many more hours than I expect.
42:12And so,
42:14the band-aid would be I'd like to know Jasmine's location
42:16because
42:18I didn't agree to
42:20the open marriage yet. It's something I'm considering
42:22right now.
42:28It's so crazy that Gino
42:30is considering this.
42:32The concept of an open
42:34marriage can work for some people.
42:36It bothers me though with these two
42:38because they're not those people.
42:40Jasmine is
42:42so jealous and Gino
42:44is very insecure because of Jasmine
42:46but Gino is insecure.
42:48Gino is not going to be okay with
42:50other guys sleeping with his wife.
42:52Gino, if you're
42:54saying I'm getting where you are,
42:56I'm just thinking about this. If she was to
42:58share location services,
43:00would you be more likely that you would be in this
43:02open relationship if she was to give you that?
43:04Yes or no?
43:12Hello, hello.
43:14Oh!
43:16Next time on
43:1890 Day The Last Resort.
43:24Hey guys. Hey.
43:26Hello, hello.
43:28This is our
43:30final group therapy session.
43:32If you guys could,
43:34each of you come up with one word
43:36to describe where you're at at this moment
43:38in your relationship and in your marriage.
43:40I think my word is confusion.
43:42It doesn't make me feel very good that
43:44Sophie's this confused at this point.
43:46I'm only confused about what the hell
43:48does she want.
43:52Josh, where are you with things?
43:54I'm scared of commitment with her.
43:58Why?
44:00I don't know for him.
44:02If he loves me.
44:04Natalie.
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