Farmer Wants A Wife Season 3 Episode 9
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00:01Previously on Farmer Wants a Wife.
00:05I feel so connected to Keely right now.
00:09Parts were laid bare on the final solo dates.
00:12He made a move on someone.
00:16The more he is himself, the more I like him.
00:18While for others, it was time to part ways as each farmer got down to their final two.
00:24I'm sad to see you go.
00:27I wish I felt that way, but I'm not there.
00:30It was really hard sending her home, but the decision had to be made.
00:37Tonight, it's the first of two family days.
00:40I'm Matt.
00:41And for the first time, the farmers will be welcoming the ladies' families to their farms.
00:46Hi!
00:47It's a pleasure to meet you.
00:49This is for you.
00:51So they can see what their lives would be like there.
00:54My dad's approval of John is the most important to me.
00:56I'm hard to impress.
00:58She has spent her life in music.
01:00Can you deal with that?
01:02I would never be able to be away from her.
01:04What do you guys think of John?
01:06I definitely don't think he's ready to be married anytime soon.
01:09I want to say that she was very pro-dependent.
01:12Yeah.
01:13How do you think that would work?
01:24They say home is where the heart is.
01:27And for these ladies, home may very well be on one of these farms with their farmer.
01:32So this season, we've asked the families of each of the final two ladies to come to the farm.
01:38It's a chance for them to see if they can picture her living this life and to meet the man she's falling in love with.
01:44And our farmers will get a chance to introduce the ladies to his loved ones as well.
01:49So will their families think a life on the farm is best for them?
02:02It feels pretty surreal to be down to the final two.
02:05I do like Claire and Lily both very, very much.
02:09Claire and I are fairly different.
02:11Yeah, I didn't grow up religious at all.
02:14You like hunting.
02:15I grew up vegetarian.
02:17But I like Claire a lot.
02:20With Lily, there has been an attraction from the beginning.
02:22We both agree on all of the fundamentals.
02:25You want kids?
02:26Absolutely.
02:27I want a lot of kids.
02:28And I just think that she would make a solid partner and a good mother.
02:31I feel like we have a lot of similarities.
02:33Yeah.
02:34Today, Lily's family will be the ones coming to John's farm.
02:38Morning, Lily.
02:39Morning.
02:40Good.
02:41You look gorgeous.
02:44Do you need help setting anything up?
02:45No, I think I got it.
02:47Today, I get the opportunity to meet Lily's mom, dad, and two sisters.
02:51You know, if they don't approve of me.
02:53I think that would cause issues in the future.
02:57I'm sure you're really excited to see your family.
02:59I'm so excited to see my family.
03:00Yeah.
03:01Yeah.
03:02What do you think your mom or sister is like?
03:04Have any tough moments?
03:05No.
03:06No.
03:07What do you think your mom or sister is like?
03:09Have any tough questions for me?
03:11I don't think so.
03:12Yeah.
03:13Just my dad.
03:15My dad's a lawyer and super smart.
03:17He analyzes everything.
03:19My dad's approval of John is the most important to me.
03:21Because my dad has not been impressed by any of the guys I've brought home.
03:25Okay.
03:26You ready?
03:28I'm so excited.
03:30Should I call him your owner?
03:31No.
03:33Oh, my gosh.
03:35Nice neighborhood.
03:36Lily's family has driven four hours across the state to be here.
03:40Hello.
03:42Welcome, welcome, welcome.
03:44Hi, Mom.
03:45Hello, honey.
03:46Good to see you.
03:47Good to see you.
03:48This is John.
03:49Hello.
03:50Hi.
03:51It's a pleasure to meet you.
03:53These are for you.
03:55You're welcome.
03:56Hello, Dad.
03:57Hey, Lily.
03:58How are you?
03:59Good.
04:00Hey, John.
04:01I'm Dave.
04:02How are you?
04:03Nice to meet you.
04:04Pleasure to meet you.
04:05I mean, I really like John, so them getting along is definitely important.
04:09Does anyone want a glass of wine?
04:11Yeah.
04:12This one?
04:13That'd be great.
04:14Okay, great.
04:15That'd be great.
04:16Do you guys want?
04:17No, thanks.
04:18You want a tea or a water or anything?
04:19I'm fine.
04:20All righty.
04:21Yeah, so.
04:22Pine cone?
04:23So, how has this been?
04:24How has this journey been for you guys?
04:27Interesting.
04:28Yeah.
04:29Very interesting.
04:30He uses the word interesting as like a good thing, so.
04:31I do.
04:32I had to quickly learn that.
04:33Okay.
04:34I really don't know what I'm saying.
04:35When I say it, I just kind of say it's interesting.
04:38Interesting.
04:39Yeah.
04:40With John's parents away, his five siblings are stepping in to meet Lily and her family.
04:49Nice to meet you.
04:50I'm Lily.
04:51Nice to meet you.
04:52Tim.
04:53Lily.
04:54Nice to meet you.
04:55So nice to meet you.
04:56How's it going?
04:57I'm Dave.
04:58Nice to meet you.
04:59Hey, Dave.
05:00Tim.
05:01Hey, Tim.
05:02Nice to meet you.
05:03Oh, really?
05:04Yeah.
05:05Super fun.
05:06Not too bad.
05:07Great.
05:08You guys Chiefs fans or?
05:09Oh, yeah.
05:10Well, who's not a Chiefs fan?
05:11John.
05:12He's definitely not.
05:13Do any of you guys watch football?
05:14Yeah.
05:15Unlike John?
05:16Yeah, I do.
05:17You do?
05:18A little bit?
05:19A little bit.
05:20Casual fans.
05:21Dane's a big Chiefs fan.
05:22Oh, you are?
05:23Yeah.
05:24Okay.
05:25Did you guys play sports growing up or anything like that?
05:26I was a cheerleader, yeah.
05:27We all cheered, yeah.
05:28She's a big volleyball girl.
05:29Yes.
05:30I just played my last volleyball game yesterday.
05:31Oh, congrats.
05:32We lost, but at least we're good.
05:33I loved his siblings.
05:34They were all super welcoming.
05:35We're all super close.
05:36So seeing them all be close, it's a good thing.
05:37Would you guys like to all go chat?
05:38Sure.
05:39Yeah, sure.
05:40Let's do it.
05:41We'll be back.
05:42All right.
05:43Okay.
05:44See you guys.
05:45See you, John.
05:46See you, John.
05:47Thanks, man.
05:48See you, man.
05:49When I first heard that Lily was going to come here and meet a farmer, it did cause me
05:50some concern, just as Lily's father.
05:51I don't know his intentions.
05:52I don't know what he's thinking.
05:53I don't know.
05:54I don't know.
05:55I don't know.
05:56I don't know.
05:57I don't know.
05:58I don't know.
06:02I don't know his intentions for Lily.
06:04Are you excited for today?
06:06Oh yeah.
06:07What about you?
06:08Yeah.
06:09A little nervous.
06:10Today, I'm going to meet Grace's family and then tomorrow, I'm going to be meeting Karina's
06:19family and, you know, I'm super excited, but I'm still torn between both the ladies.
06:25Karina.
06:26You know, we have a lot in common.
06:28She's also just very genuine in everything she does.
06:31It's a connection there.
06:32I really feel great about her.
06:35And with Grace, you just can brighten up your day,
06:37just because she's such a pure soul.
06:39You know, she definitely rooted in her faith.
06:41I really enjoy that about her.
06:43But I think the biggest question for me now is like, hey,
06:46is she actually ready to come to the farm?
06:49She's always been in Washington with her mom and dad,
06:52you know, moved out maybe a couple hours away to college,
06:55but really hasn't left the state.
06:57So I'm kind of concerned about that.
07:01Jay's sister, mom, and dad are first to arrive.
07:04We got guests.
07:06Hello.
07:06Hi.
07:07Nice to meet you.
07:08Nice to meet you.
07:09Hi, I'm LaTanya.
07:10Nice to meet you.
07:11Hello, how are you doing?
07:12Hello, I'm great.
07:15And they're also here to meet Grace's mom.
07:17Hello.
07:18Hi.
07:19And her best friend, Paige.
07:22I value my mom's opinion a lot, because we are so close.
07:28Same person, different fun.
07:29I don't want to cry.
07:30Did she jump?
07:31Stupid.
07:33I hope my mom approves.
07:35How are you doing?
07:36Hi, I'm good.
07:37How are you?
07:38Good, good to see you.
07:39Nice to see you.
07:40So I'm Grace's mom, Angie, and her dad couldn't be here today,
07:43so I am here representing both of us.
07:46We want her to be happy, and we want her to build her life.
07:50So have you lived here your whole life?
07:52Yeah.
07:53You have, OK.
07:54My husband actually used to live in this house.
07:56Nice.
07:57So I did all the farming when I was growing up, picking peas,
08:00picking corn, feeding the animals.
08:02Yeah.
08:03I still put it on work sometimes.
08:06I think he loves it.
08:07He misses it a little bit.
08:08I do miss it a little bit, but I don't want to do it every day.
08:11Right, you want to do it when you want to do it.
08:13Exactly.
08:15Grace's mom seems so down to earth and talking with us.
08:19It's so funny, because when I initially saw them hug,
08:22it made me think about me and my daughter.
08:24I think that was so pure and so real.
08:27You know, it was very genuine.
08:29I'm using every second I can to get to know these people.
08:39In Missouri, John's family is getting to know more about Lily,
08:43and first impressions mean everything.
08:46I've been waiting to meet you guys.
08:48You're handling it great so far.
08:49Me and my siblings, we're here for John just because our parents
08:52were out of town this time of year,
08:54so it's great to be supportive of John
08:56and helping him along this journey.
08:58You guys definitely seem to have, like, a connection
09:01and seems to be going very easy.
09:03Yeah, we are.
09:04That's good.
09:05Yeah.
09:06We come from a large family,
09:08so obviously, like, having children is very important
09:10and something that we all plan to do once we're married.
09:13Is that something that you're looking forward to
09:15is being a mother and having a lot of kids?
09:17Absolutely.
09:18What are some qualities you want in, like, a father for your kids?
09:23One thing I really appreciated growing up from my parents
09:26was discipline, and I think that's super important.
09:29And so I definitely want somebody that's able to lay down the law.
09:35We'll definitely get a strict father out of John.
09:38Oh, I love that.
09:39Yeah.
09:41How have you enjoyed the farm life so far?
09:43I've enjoyed it.
09:44Have you?
09:45So, yeah, I love anything new and exciting,
09:47so it's been really good.
09:49This is an important one.
09:53Have you asked him to shave his mustache?
09:59I haven't.
10:00Are you fine with keeping it?
10:01I actually like the mustache, yeah.
10:03Okay, all right, good.
10:05I'm really happy I got to meet his siblings.
10:07I see a lot of similarities in his family and mine,
10:10so I'll be curious to see how he interacts with my family
10:13because that's going to be really important to me.
10:15He's a hard worker.
10:16We stacked a lot of hay.
10:17Stacked a lot of hay, good, good.
10:21Have you and Lily had any disagreements?
10:23And if so, how did you resolve those?
10:26Believe it or not, we have not had any disagreements yet.
10:29Are there things that you and Lily have in common?
10:32I think so.
10:34I think we have very common morals and values,
10:37and I think that's what's the most important.
10:40John, what does your future look like?
10:42I think in the near future, obviously, I want to finish law school,
10:45ideally move to a larger farm and have a family.
10:49A law school career is a challenging career,
10:51but also you're a farmer.
10:53I would imagine that taking a lot of time.
10:56So if you and Lily work out and you have children,
11:02do you think you could take care of a large family with Lily?
11:08Um...
11:13Um...
11:15Um...
11:19Um...
11:24If you and Lily work out and you have children,
11:29do you think you could take care of a large family with Lily?
11:39Um...
11:42Absolutely, fully confident in saying I could.
11:47I've always wanted to be a dad.
11:50The way I envision myself as a father is exactly how my dad is.
11:55Selfless and always around and there for us no matter what.
12:00I somewhat can't wait to be that way.
12:03I like that. Do your best.
12:05Exactly.
12:07I can tell that we all definitely share the same outlooks on life
12:11and raising children and family,
12:13that's a solid foundation for a relationship.
12:21In Alabama...
12:23You want to go talk to her?
12:25Oh, sure, yeah. Totally, totally.
12:27Jay is getting to know Grace's mom, Angie.
12:30I'm definitely a little nervous
12:32just because Grace puts all my faith in her mom
12:35and her opinion on things.
12:37Finally good to meet you.
12:39Nice to meet you.
12:41Grace has, you know, really missed you.
12:43I'm glad to be here.
12:45What about Grace brought her this far?
12:49We have a great chemistry and, you know, it's easy to talk to her.
12:52She's big into her faith and that's something that I really value.
12:55Her faith is really strong.
12:57I just tell her she has just the sweetest demeanour.
12:59She's very shy, but we kind of got her out of that box.
13:02Yeah, it takes a minute.
13:04OK, cool.
13:06How do you think Grace would, like, adjust to the farm life?
13:10She's said for a long time that she would want to move.
13:13She just hasn't found the reason why, you know, yet.
13:17So I think she would be fine.
13:22So what do you think about all this?
13:24I love it. It feels very calm and peaceful here.
13:27We're definitely a faith-based family.
13:30We attend church every Sunday.
13:32How do you feel about that?
13:34That makes me feel really good.
13:36I grew up going to church.
13:38If I were to move, I would need people to get me into church
13:42and, like, meet new people and not be a hermit.
13:45Yeah, exactly.
13:47You and your mom are close.
13:49Moving would definitely change that dynamic.
13:52Yeah.
13:53How do you feel about that?
13:55Family is really important to me,
13:57but I think that my mom and I became best friends when I moved out of the house.
14:00I definitely had a codependency problem with my mom, I think.
14:03She did everything for me.
14:05That was really hard for me once I moved out.
14:07It's like, what am I supposed to do?
14:11I really like Grace.
14:13Her energy was good.
14:15The only concern I had is that she was saying, you know,
14:18kind of being codependent on her mom at one time.
14:21Jay likes to take care of people.
14:23I don't want him to feel like he has to raise a grown person.
14:34In Missouri...
14:35Oh, hi.
14:36Welcome back.
14:37Lily is taking a moment to get her family's thoughts on John.
14:41So how did today go? What do you guys think of John?
14:45I really like him.
14:46I think, like, his morals and kind of what he stands for
14:49align well with you.
14:51Yeah.
14:52He mentioned how, like, family is really important to him,
14:55and, like, that reminded me a lot of you,
14:57because I feel like we're a very close family.
14:59Like, that's an important thing to look for in a guy.
15:01Nice to meet his siblings, too.
15:03I think they reminded me of you guys, so...
15:05Yeah.
15:06Do you see a future with him?
15:08I definitely see a future with him, for sure.
15:11Dad.
15:14I'm hard to impress.
15:16I was expecting to maybe be more skeptical,
15:20but his discussion of family impressed your father.
15:24Oh, wow.
15:25So...
15:26That's good, yeah.
15:27Surprisingly.
15:28Yeah.
15:29Yeah, he's very mature, and he knows exactly what he wants
15:31and what he's looking for in every situation.
15:34He did impress me.
15:36Because he doesn't say that about a lot of people,
15:39it means a lot that John stood out to my dad.
15:45So, guys, what do you think about Lily?
15:48Seemed very nice.
15:50How she wants to raise a family seemed very similar
15:52to, like, the way we were growing up
15:54and the way that I could see you wanting to raise kids someday.
15:57Definitely.
15:58It just...
15:59What she said rang true to what you're looking for.
16:02My siblings gave me great feedback
16:04on their conversation with Lily,
16:06so that was really cool to see.
16:09Maybe ask Gus what his thoughts are.
16:11Woof!
16:14Cool.
16:19In Alabama, Grace is catching up with her mom and best friend
16:23after they met Jay.
16:25All right.
16:27Thoughts, concerns, red flags, green flags?
16:30On paper?
16:32Yeah.
16:33Checks all the boxes.
16:34Yeah.
16:35He seems, like, genuine.
16:36Like, it's not...
16:38Putting on a front.
16:39Putting on a front.
16:40He seems like a genuine person.
16:42Yeah.
16:43I just don't see a whole lot of red flags.
16:46LAUGHTER
16:48I definitely am really happy that my mom liked Jay a lot.
16:52My mom is definitely my best friend, for sure.
16:55Um...
16:57Yeah.
16:58Yeah.
17:00I'm very grateful for her,
17:02and I think that our friendship is not something
17:05that everybody gets to come by,
17:07so I'm very grateful.
17:10When I saw Grace today, seeing her face light up,
17:13I could definitely see that she's in a good place.
17:20Meeting Grace and her family, what's y'all's thoughts?
17:23Well, I think she's got the right mindset.
17:26OK.
17:27First and foremost, I want to say
17:29that her mom seems very pleasant,
17:31and her spirit just seems very genuine,
17:33just very pure.
17:34Yeah.
17:35I can see her, like, on this farm.
17:37That's good to hear.
17:38But as far as the co-dependency,
17:41and you being more independent...
17:43What do you mean, like, co-dependent?
17:45Well, she was just saying, like, before she moved out,
17:47she kind of depended on her mom.
17:49How do you think that would work?
17:51Um...
17:53That is something that I have to think about for sure,
17:55but I know y'all gonna make her feel like family
17:57if it was something she decided to do, come down here.
18:00Like, we'll support you.
18:01Yeah.
18:02I am kind of worried, you know,
18:03just about that co-dependency thing.
18:06I think if Grace were to move to Alabama,
18:09it would be something that's tough for her,
18:11so I think that might be a deeper conversation we'll have to have.
18:14Oh!
18:15Jay!
18:16I don't want to stop!
18:19That wasn't too bad, was it?
18:20Jay and Grace's families have left,
18:23and the couple is sharing one final moment alone
18:26before Karina's family visits tomorrow.
18:30This is cute.
18:32Thank you, thank you, thank you.
18:34I love you.
18:35I love you.
18:36I love you.
18:37I love you.
18:38I love you.
18:39I love you.
18:40I love you.
18:41I love you.
18:42I love you.
18:43I love you.
18:45I think that Grace might be the one,
18:47but the biggest thing I'm worried about is, you know,
18:49how she was kind of relying on her mom growing up.
18:52So I want to really take this time
18:54to make sure we're on the same page.
18:56I was really happy to see my mom and Paige today.
19:01You can tell that y'all are really best friends.
19:03Yeah.
19:04I think my mom brought up something about how, like,
19:07you know, you might have been, like, co-dependent.
19:12Yeah.
19:13Growing up, my mom did everything for me.
19:19But since moving out, I'm growing in that sense, I think.
19:24Right.
19:25So, yeah, you don't feel like you still have that same,
19:27like, dependency where, like, it's like,
19:29oh, I got to be, you know, around my mama or whatever.
19:32I've learned, like, I can make my own decisions
19:34and be happy with the decisions that I've made.
19:38I think my mom's surprised how well it's going.
19:42Yeah?
19:43Yeah.
19:45She said no red flags that she could see.
19:48Yeah.
19:49Any red flags you can see?
19:52No.
19:54That's why I asked them.
19:57Spending this time with Grace was definitely needed.
20:00I was really looking for that same, you know,
20:03spark and connection that we had our first date.
20:05I definitely think I got that tonight.
20:07But I still have an opportunity with Karina tomorrow,
20:10so I got a lot to think about, got a lot to pray about.
20:13I want you to stay.
20:16I love being in your company.
20:18That's good.
20:19It's my favorite thing.
20:20We're more than a dream.
20:24It's worth it to me.
20:30Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
20:42John and Lily are also finding time to enjoy each other's company
20:46before Claire's family visits tomorrow.
20:49Whoo!
20:50Boom!
20:51All righty.
20:52We shared a lot of romance throughout this whole process,
20:54so I think this is a nice little nightcap.
20:57You and I have come a long way.
21:00I think you're a phenomenal girl.
21:02So let's cheers to that.
21:05Cheers, John.
21:09I had a good feeling, too, that this was
21:11going to be something special.
21:14So my dad said something that, like, almost made me tear up.
21:18Oh, boy.
21:18He was like, it takes a lot to impress me.
21:21And he was like, he was very impressed with you.
21:24So and then, obviously, my sisters and my mom
21:26just, like, think you're awesome.
21:28And that was really special to hear.
21:29Well, you come from a very, very good family.
21:31I think that's very obvious.
21:33I feel like you've definitely, like, met all my standards.
21:37Likewise.
21:38But you've also blown away my expectations, for sure.
21:50I do like Lily a lot.
21:52Her outlook on life is very similar to mine.
21:57Mm.
21:59Of course I can see a future with Lily.
22:02You're welcome.
22:03Fun day.
22:03Yeah, it was great.
22:04I still have yet to meet Claire's family.
22:07But tonight, I like where it's going with Lily.
22:09And we'll see what the future holds.
22:19What do you think your parents are going to think of me?
22:21I think my mom will really like you a lot.
22:23She's a yapper.
22:24You're a yapper.
22:25In Arkansas, Colton and Keely's parents are about to arrive at the farm.
22:30Basically, I've got two girlfriends right now.
22:32And I like both of them a lot.
22:34I'm at a crossroads.
22:36Zoe is super sweet, but also super smart.
22:39I mean, girl's got a head on her shoulders.
22:42I am very, like, passionate about getting into anesthesiology.
22:46That's awesome.
22:47And with Keely, she's drop-dead gorgeous.
22:49She's great on the farm.
22:51She took to it like a fish to water.
22:52It's very natural with her.
22:57But meeting the parents, I am nervous.
23:00I haven't slept in, like, two days because I'm just kind of gun-shy right now.
23:05You know, now that it's getting down to the end,
23:07I'm starting to think that I want to take it slow.
23:09So I want to make sure that we're compatible and that we can actually do this together.
23:15There's my mom and dad.
23:18Colton's parents are meeting Keely for the first time.
23:21This is Keely.
23:22Keely, this is my mom.
23:27I am.
23:28Hi, I'm Keely.
23:29It's nice to meet you.
23:32Is this your parents?
23:33I think it is my parents.
23:35Keely's parents have traveled all the way from Ohio.
23:42Since I'm the only child, my parents and I are very close.
23:45I hope they'll dig down into the deep south with Colton.
23:48If it's my parents, I would take their opinion over everything.
23:51Nice to meet you.
23:52I'm a hugger.
23:54Nice to meet you.
23:54This is my dad, Mike.
23:56There's so much I love about Keely.
23:57She's my rock just as much as I'm hers.
24:01She's like my best friend.
24:02Got some tea and lemonade and stuff if y'all want anything.
24:05She wants to find someone that is going to treat her
24:08the way that she deserves to be treated.
24:10And I just know that she will love someone so hard.
24:13You look just like your mom.
24:14I know.
24:16You guys do look just alike.
24:19We get that a lot.
24:21You're an only child, right?
24:22I am an only child.
24:25That's why we're so close.
24:28Yeah, it's special having a daughter.
24:30It's a pride in my life, I'll be honest.
24:31Well, I've got two boys.
24:33Yep, yeah.
24:34I've got a little boy too.
24:35He's two and a half.
24:37He is like a tornado running around.
24:40For me, I'm not wanting to miss out on a single thing of his life.
24:44I mean, I 100% am picking him over anything.
24:47To hear that he's got a little boy makes things different.
24:50She wants to be with someone fully committed to her.
24:55So we're a little nervous.
25:06For Colton's parents, today is an opportunity
25:09to get to know Keely, their potential daughter-in-law.
25:14So what do you think about Colton?
25:15I think Colton's great.
25:16He's got a great personality.
25:18There's many levels to Colton.
25:19There is many levels.
25:20I feel like I got pretty deep, so it's been really sweet.
25:22Good.
25:23How do you like it here?
25:25I really do love it.
25:26I've been able to experience farm work truly
25:29and what it actually entails.
25:32On our solo date, he taught me how to be on a horse.
25:35Oh, did you ride?
25:36I did ride, yeah.
25:37I rode a little bit beforehand, but that was my dream.
25:40It's like, I love horses.
25:42Keely, she's just a great girl.
25:44And I really feel like she would be a great fit for Colton.
25:48Y'all drove all this way out here.
25:49I know y'all got some good questions.
25:51We do have some good questions for you, for sure.
25:53Gather them in our head.
25:54Your son has a mom.
25:56Mm-hmm.
25:57So how does Keely kind of fit in that?
26:00Souther does have a great mom.
26:02He doesn't need another mama.
26:06He needs someone that treats his dad right.
26:08That's the difference.
26:10For me, I was worried a little bit,
26:12For me, I was worried a little bit.
26:14Like, he's only two, right?
26:16Two and a half, yeah.
26:17So I guess, is your heart ready?
26:19Like, that's hard in general because that's so fresh.
26:24It is very fresh.
26:26That's my thing.
26:27The whole thing through this is,
26:30am I ready to be in a different relationship?
26:33I don't know.
26:35But if I didn't see a future with her,
26:39you know, I wouldn't have asked her to stay.
26:43You know, I just, for me, it's like,
26:45this is really fast and a lot.
26:49But I'm trying to get to something positive.
26:53So the honesty, I think, is something that we value.
26:56I think it was actually good to hear him be honest in his reality
26:59because, you know, family could become family.
27:03And I think it was really important for us to see the real Colton.
27:09We just want her to be happy.
27:10If she's happy, we're happy.
27:12Just so you know, like, I would never be able to be away from her.
27:16So if she was here, you might have some new neighbors.
27:21Oh, man.
27:25In California, Matt and Jordan are getting ready for their family's arrival.
27:30I've got two great girls.
27:32I feel like Chelsea and I, we started off kind of slow.
27:34But we've gotten to really, you know, get closer over these few weeks.
27:39It's well worth it.
27:40And Jordan's like, just an awesome time.
27:42She's really outgoing.
27:44The chemistry is just there.
27:45And we've had a connection since the beginning.
27:47This has been really amazing.
27:49You just wait.
27:50It's going to get better.
27:51I think meeting Jordan's family will definitely help with my, you know,
27:54clarity on the decision.
27:56Oh, look who it is.
27:58Matt's parents are first to arrive.
28:01Hi.
28:02It's so great to meet you.
28:05I'm Jordan.
28:06I'm Chelsea.
28:07I'm Chelsea.
28:08I'm Jordan.
28:09Hi.
28:09I'm Terri.
28:10You guys are like the same size.
28:12I know, right?
28:13Perfect.
28:14Hi.
28:15Good to meet you.
28:15It's so good to meet you.
28:18Well, welcome to Morro Bay.
28:20Jordan's parents have traveled all the way from Mississippi to be here today.
28:24Oh, here's my family.
28:26My family is super, super close.
28:29So I could see my dad asking Matt some important questions.
28:34I'm so ready to see what he thinks.
28:37I'm Matt.
28:37I'll give you a hug.
28:38Yeah.
28:40Thanks for coming.
28:40Matt.
28:41Good to meet you, man.
28:42Yeah.
28:42How are you?
28:43I'm doing pretty good.
28:43This is my mom, Terri, my dad, Dana.
28:46Terri.
28:47Terri.
28:47Johnny.
28:47Hey, daddy.
28:48Nice to meet you.
28:49Hello, baby girl.
28:50You guys have a good trip out here?
28:54What do you think Jordan needs in a partner?
28:58Someone that's loyal.
28:59Somebody she can trust.
29:01I'm old school.
29:02I believe marriage is a one-time deal.
29:05And it's not a fad.
29:07I want to hear about it all, you know?
29:09It's been a crazy ride.
29:12The girls took over my house.
29:13Oh, yeah.
29:14We took over the house for sure.
29:16It's not even mine anymore.
29:19You guys have any avocado orchards where you're from or?
29:22No.
29:25Have you ever seen an avocado on a tree?
29:27I have not on a tree.
29:29I've seen lots of them in the bowl that we...
29:32Guacamole.
29:33Oh, guacamole.
29:35Yeah, thanks for coming, really, though.
29:37I know it's a long way, so I appreciate that.
29:39Used to be that we would have to travel
29:41to meet the parents of the girl.
29:43Now the parents have to come here, which is pretty nice.
29:47You know, this family seems to me like it has a lot of love.
29:51That's important.
29:51You don't want to go to somebody's family get-together
29:54and they're fist-biting, so...
29:57I know my parents are dying to talk to you, so...
29:59I know.
30:00I would love to pull you guys aside.
30:02Let's do it.
30:03Take it easy.
30:04I think Matt's ready to settle down and marry and have children.
30:08He's going to make a really good dad, and he's already 30,
30:11and I'd love for him to find somebody that would be good for him.
30:16How do you like it here?
30:17I have loved it.
30:18I've been feeling such a tug on my heart to get back out in the country.
30:22I'm 32, so I'm a little older.
30:25Oh, yeah, okay.
30:25I'm a little older than Matt.
30:27Right.
30:27And I'm really ready to get married and have a family.
30:32So you want children?
30:33I do.
30:34I'm so ready.
30:35Do you think that Matt's a good fit for you?
30:37We have an amazing friendship.
30:39I just need to know, is it a friendship, or are we going in?
30:43It's more than that, yeah.
30:45He's slow to make a move.
30:46He is, and that's really who he is.
30:49Yeah.
30:51Something that I need to know is, you know, the name of this show.
30:56Warmer Wants a Wife.
30:58What are your intentions?
31:01It's my baby girl.
31:02We got to get into that.
31:03We got to know.
31:17Yeah, you know the name of this show, Warmer Wants a Wife.
31:22What are your intentions?
31:25It's my baby girl.
31:27We got to get into that.
31:28We got to know.
31:31You know, I do have three siblings that are married with kids,
31:34so I'm looking forward to that, you know,
31:36kind of getting to that next part of my life.
31:38The next phase of life.
31:40I want her to be happy.
31:42She has tried so hard, you know, to spend her life in music.
31:47Yeah.
31:47Mm-hmm.
31:48Can you deal with that?
31:51I sure hope so.
31:52I know it's hard, though, because it is a whole different lifestyle.
31:58She obviously loves it.
31:59Mm-hmm.
32:00Yeah.
32:01Just, you know, is it worth it?
32:05Listening to them have concerns with Jordan, like, you know,
32:07country music is her thing.
32:09I'm really happy for her that she has that life and she's built it.
32:13I don't want her to stop singing for one second,
32:15so I think we do have to figure that out.
32:18In Arkansas, Colton is taking a moment to catch up with his parents.
32:23What'd y'all think of Keely?
32:25I think she's great.
32:26She would want to be part of this kind of life.
32:30That's important.
32:31And she really likes the horses, so.
32:34Yeah.
32:34Really enjoy your parents, too.
32:37You know, she's got a lot of friends,
32:38and she's got a lot of family,
32:39and she's got a lot of friends that she wants to be a part of.
32:42Yeah.
32:43And she's got a lot of friends that she wants to be a part of.
32:44Yeah.
32:45And she's got a lot of friends that she wants to be a part of.
32:46You know, she's got a lot going for her.
32:48She does.
32:49Yeah.
32:51I got a lot of things I got to think about.
32:57So what'd you guys think about Colton?
33:00First of all, so cute.
33:04His personality is very much a personality of somebody I would see with.
33:08Me, too.
33:08Absolutely.
33:09Yeah.
33:11But I definitely don't think he's ready to,
33:15you know, be married anytime soon.
33:19I mean, when you think about it, like,
33:23I said there's only two.
33:24Right.
33:25Just think that maybe time.
33:29Yeah.
33:29Might be the factor.
33:31But how do you feel about...
33:35Yeah, what do you think?
33:36Yeah, yeah.
33:37Turn the tables.
33:37Be fair.
33:39I feel very confident.
33:40You know, I really think we have a great connection.
33:43And like you said, we just, like, get each other.
33:45Yeah.
33:46I know God has a plan.
33:48And if that is to be with him, it'll be.
33:50I think I'd be happy with him.
33:51And, like, yeah.
33:52That's called self-confidence.
33:54That's what that is.
33:55But just know that we're here to support you.
33:56And I would say just remember that whatever happens, it happens for a reason.
34:00I just can't.
34:01I can't say enough how proud of a dad I am.
34:05And a mama.
34:13I feel like he and Keeley have a lot in common.
34:18Seeing her out here with the horses and his family was just such a bonus.
34:22Because she hasn't had feelings for anyone in such a long time either.
34:26But if this doesn't work out with them, and to see Keeley heartbroken will be,
34:29it'll hurt a lot.
34:31Because, you know, that's your baby.
34:33And you don't want anything bad to ever happen to your baby.
34:43What do you think about Jordan?
34:46I think she's adorable.
34:48Yeah, she's very cute.
34:48But along with that, he's definitely ready to get married.
34:51She wants children.
34:53Yeah.
34:53Is there anything you've picked up that maybe, yeah, you're a little bit questioning or?
34:57You know, the whole country music thing could be a concern.
35:02Because that's such a big part of her life.
35:04But I think she likes it here.
35:06Oh, yeah.
35:07I think she loves it here.
35:09I think the thing is, and Jordan kind of made light of this,
35:12is it's been hard for her to get a better read on you.
35:15She said you're quiet.
35:17You have to be more open with your feelings.
35:21Yeah.
35:26All right, so what did you guys think?
35:28They seem really nice.
35:29Yeah.
35:30And Wes seems like a really nice guy.
35:32And I did like that he said that he wants a family.
35:36He's sweet.
35:37Isn't he sweet?
35:37Seemed like a good guy.
35:38He's a really nice guy, right?
35:40How have y'all felt during this time?
35:43Yeah, you know, one thing that's been really tough is that Matt has been so reserved.
35:50You both have taught me that the man pursues the woman.
35:55Definitely.
35:56So I'm not going to make the first move.
35:59But I'm ready to know what's up.
36:03Yeah.
36:03My parents had only great things to say about Matt.
36:06And Matt's a great guy.
36:07So I mean, I'm really not surprised.
36:10But I'm ready to see if this can get to the next level.
36:24Oh my gosh, this tree is gorgeous.
36:27In California, after spending the day with their families,
36:31Matt and Jordan are taking some time together alone.
36:35Not bad, huh?
36:37This is so cute.
36:39From day one, Jordan has been both a friend and someone I connected with.
36:44She's super cute.
36:45She's definitely my type.
36:48But she sings country music.
36:51If she wants to move here, you know, is she going to be able to continue that?
36:56I'm so glad our parents got to meet today.
36:58Yeah, your parents are awesome.
37:00I'm very, very happy to still be here.
37:03I'm happier here.
37:07Where's your head at with everything?
37:12Music is such a big part of your life.
37:13And you've worked really hard to get to where you're at.
37:15And I have no idea how that works out.
37:18There's different things that I can do with music.
37:20And I'm not so connected to Nashville.
37:25I could see myself here.
37:27I could be like a music teacher.
37:30This is the type of place where I would want to raise a family.
37:37I'm very happy to have been here.
37:46But one thing that I've really struggled with is feeling like you see me as a friend.
37:58I don't think that's the case.
38:00No?
38:00No.
38:01I mean, I do in some ways, which I love about you, you know?
38:04Yeah.
38:05I've felt comfortable with you from like day one.
38:07Yeah?
38:08But much more than friends.
38:10Really?
38:11Yeah.
38:11Were you surprised?
38:13To be honest, like, because I had opportunities to go on dates.
38:17And I already knew how I felt about you.
38:19So I felt like I needed to use that time to make other decisions, which I did.
38:24I wish I had known that.
38:25Well, I figured you knew.
38:29You don't catch me staring at you all the time.
38:31Yeah?
38:32Yeah, so would you?
38:33I don't know.
38:35Now that we got that established.
38:37Let the world know we're not friends.
38:40I couldn't be friends with you.
38:43I was very wrong.
38:45And honestly, I'm just a little shocked that I was so wrong.
38:51Well, I brought my guitar.
38:54Well, lucky guy.
38:55I've been writing a lot of breakup songs.
38:58But I got another one I've been working on.
39:00All right.
39:01I was always picking up pieces.
39:04Seemed like somebody was always leaving.
39:09Then you came along.
39:14You're the prayer I prayed that I never thought would ever get answered.
39:19God answered.
39:20I like Jordan a lot.
39:22And it means a lot that she's even willing to have a life here.
39:26Tomorrow I'm meeting Chelsea's family.
39:28But right now it's our last date.
39:29So I just really want to enjoy it.
39:31I gave up dreaming each night.
39:34The song I thought I'd never write.
39:46One of my mom's main concerns is that Colton wasn't ready for anything serious.
39:50See this cute little picnic area?
39:52Yeah, did you set it up yourself?
39:53Yeah.
39:53So tonight I really just want to see where Colton's head's at.
39:57And just to see where our future could potentially be.
40:00If it is there or not.
40:02To our time together.
40:03To our time together.
40:07What did you think of my parents?
40:09I thought they were great.
40:11I can see that your parents love you.
40:13Like they are team Keely all the way.
40:17They want what's best for me.
40:18Yeah.
40:19So with this whole thing.
40:22My mom, she said like, that you're not ready.
40:31So I don't know.
40:33I am.
40:35I get it.
40:36But I genuinely do not have a single concern about you.
40:43It's just like for me, what am I wanting?
40:48And you know, I've been thinking about it, wanting to take it slow.
40:51You know, like right now, what do you think about that?
40:57I think I can do that.
40:59But it makes me nervous because I want to be a wife.
41:03But I also know I'm supposed to be a mom.
41:06I would say that's the, that's something about you that I'm just, I really, really love.
41:14When I have a child, I want to be a mom.
41:17When I have a child, I want to give everything that I can to my kid.
41:23I am so freaking, I got crap going on in my head.
41:29And it's like, you know, plus tomorrow I'm meeting Zoe's family.
41:34And I have no earthly idea what I'm going to do.
41:39But for right now, I'm just going to live in this moment with Keely.
41:42I really do think she's awesome.
41:44And I could definitely see myself with her.
41:47We could have a great life.
41:50I could see you here.
41:53I really do like you.
41:55And I've really enjoyed our time together.
42:00I really like you too.
42:04I've had a great time getting to know you.
42:14You always do what you gotta do, baby, cause you're one of a kind.
42:24One more kiss.
42:30It's finally safe to stay.