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00:00:00This is the morning that has come,
00:00:09I'm going to drink your face.
00:00:11I'm going to drink your face,
00:00:13I'm going to drink your face.
00:00:21I'm going to be regretting the US
00:00:23This morning that has come,
00:00:30A word that has come,
00:00:37I'm going to drink your skin.
00:00:41I'm going to drink your face,
00:00:44All of this music is going.
00:00:50The air is up,
00:00:52Hanging in the hole and living grim.
00:00:57Sharaaraton mein hai guli
00:00:59Subha to
00:01:01Aay hai
00:01:11Good morning
00:01:13Pakistan
00:01:15Assalamualaikum Good morning
00:01:17Good morning Pakistan
00:01:19Yaha intro time khatm ho gaya
00:01:21Meri raste mein itna
00:01:23Pani bharawaati ki traffic bilkul
00:01:25Us ki tarahan turtle ki tarahan chal rahi thi
00:01:27Or is liye ben late ho gai
00:01:29So eek segment nikal gaya
00:01:31Lekin aaj ka ha maara topic
00:01:33Bohat hi zhberdast hai
00:01:35Aap usse bohat relate karengi
00:01:37Kyunki jya minne daya naya morning show shurru kiya tha
00:01:39Or jab loogun ko apnaiyat lagne lagi
00:01:41Tho mujhe meri insta par
00:01:43Meri facebook par private dm's aate thai
00:01:45Or wo
00:01:47Uspe ye hoota tha ki mein doctor hoon
00:01:49Mayne doctor ki degree li
00:01:51Or mein ghar baih gai
00:01:53Meri sustraal mei
00:01:55Hijazat hi hai kam karne ki
00:01:57Or isi tarahan ki bhoat sari dm's
00:01:59Ke hawaalye se loog
00:02:01Apeni dil ki baat shiayar kiya karete te
00:02:03Or haakikat to ye hai
00:02:05Ke jau hamaari parwarish
00:02:07Ho rhi hooti hai
00:02:09Toh amari parents
00:02:11Apeni nidhe haram karke
00:02:13Apeni pait kaatke
00:02:15Ekspecteesn ho jati ki jis tarahan
00:02:17Ami abbu nne
00:02:19Amari liye joh joh kuch kiya hai
00:02:21Woh ane wala joh hum safar hooga
00:02:23Woh bhi kuch aise hi hooga
00:02:25Ami amari parwarish
00:02:27Ho rhi thi
00:02:29Or uske baad
00:02:31Jab ek dem bomb blast hota hai
00:02:33Ami pata chalta hai
00:02:35Nain bhai
00:02:37Yeh tumhara bachche hai
00:02:39Koi bhi taleem haasil ki ho
00:02:41Lekin tumhari priority
00:02:43Toh bas yeh hi honi chahiye
00:02:44So aapke joh dreams
00:02:45Joh bachpant se aapke mabaap
00:02:47Nne aapko dhkhaayain
00:02:48Kis tarahan ooncha urna hai
00:02:49Woh kabhi kabar
00:02:50Chakna chur ho jate hai
00:02:51Kisi kisi ki zindagii me
00:02:52Or
00:02:53Aap in the end
00:02:55Aap kahti hai
00:02:56Aapke toh koji pahchani nini hai
00:02:57Aap bas sari umar
00:02:58Aapne aapne aapne ghar ko dhe di
00:03:00Or uske baad
00:03:01Jab aap eek certain age
00:03:03Pe pahunc tii hai
00:03:04Or aap dhekhti hai
00:03:05Kis aap dhekhti hai
00:03:06Kis aapne aapne aapne jaghaaain
00:03:07Pere nikal gahe
00:03:08Or aap wahi ki wahi hai
00:03:10Toh aap kethi hai
00:03:11Aapne pichi dhekkar
00:03:12Kis aapne aapne zindagii mei kiya kiya
00:03:13In bachcheon ko pala porsa
00:03:15Lekin meeri pahchan kiya hai
00:03:17So aapke dreams
00:03:18Joh aapke maabaap ne
00:03:19Aapke fantasy
00:03:20Joh aapke maabaap ne
00:03:21Aapke dhekhaai
00:03:22Kuch joh aapke pori
00:03:23Nahhi ho sakti
00:03:24Aapke khab ko chal diya jate hai
00:03:26So bade taklief hote
00:03:28So issi liye
00:03:29Pahle se hi aapni bieťi ho ko
00:03:31Yeh bataiye
00:03:32Khi kitni important hai education
00:03:34Kitna important hai
00:03:36Aapne aapke pahchan na
00:03:37Hemaare pahas
00:03:38Tien celebrities
00:03:39Mojood hai
00:03:40Joh ke discuss
00:03:41Kya zindagii mei
00:03:42Unkei khab pori hoi
00:03:43Ya nai
00:03:44Ya ya khab
00:03:45Unhau ne khud pori ki
00:03:47Aapne madad
00:03:48Aapke teher
00:03:49Aayge milti hai
00:03:50Ek taraf hai
00:03:51Vazila kisar
00:03:52Assalamualaikum
00:03:53Assalamualaikum
00:03:54Kaisi hai
00:03:55Merea bhi kuchh thoda sa haal
00:04:19Asa hi hai
00:04:20Gale
00:04:21Aawaz jo hai meri
00:04:22Aapke kuchh la ko chakna churui bhi hai
00:04:24Aatehii menei Fazeela sa hii khaa
00:04:25Menei ka jab rock star rat ke wakt
00:04:27Glases laga sate hai sunglases
00:04:29Tum kya nehi laga sate hai
00:04:30Ahaa
00:04:31Aor kya
00:04:32Aor mere paas here hai
00:04:33Rabia Rizwan
00:04:34Rabia Rizwan
00:04:35Waalikum Assalam
00:04:36Rabia Rizwan
00:04:37Pahli dafa mere show pe hain
00:04:38Welcome to the show
00:04:39Thank you so much
00:04:40Aapke drama dekhti ho mein
00:04:41Aapke drama dekhti ho mein
00:04:42Aar bada mujhe maza aata hai
00:04:43Aapke acting dek
00:04:44Thank you, thank you so much
00:04:45Aapke zahada arsa ni huwa na
00:04:46Fiil join ke we
00:04:47It's been only two years
00:04:48Doh saal loo hai
00:04:49Doh dhai saad
00:04:50Lekin aapke achha kaam kerti hai
00:04:51Thank you so much
00:04:52Thank you so much
00:04:53So aapke aapke daawat deket hai
00:04:54Aapke daawat deket hai
00:04:55Aapke dekhti ho mea hai
00:04:56Khaabon ko chakna chur
00:04:58Hoote huwe
00:05:00Obviously bhoat khaari khawateen
00:05:02Humse aaj jo relate karengi
00:05:04Kyunke ye to hai hi aise cheeze
00:05:06Deki haam jo bhi baat karengi na
00:05:08Ya may jo bhi baat kareungi
00:05:10Mujhe lagtai har tisari aurat
00:05:12Saat
00:05:13Sabe kuch huwa hata
00:05:14Actually huwa
00:05:15Kuch nahi hota
00:05:16Issue ye
00:05:17Que hum jis society
00:05:18Meen rehtet
00:05:19Ya haan ka mindset
00:05:20Hi aise haa
00:05:21Bail karengi
00:05:22Or khabon ko chakna chur
00:05:23Jahan teke karne wali baat
00:05:24Mujhe lagtai na koayi
00:05:25Aapke khabon ko chakna chur
00:05:26Ker sakata hai
00:05:27Or na hi koayi
00:05:28Unneh haa
00:05:29Thoada baut support
00:05:30Ker sakata hai
00:05:31Lekin actually
00:05:32Aap khud hote hai
00:05:33Jho aapna irada
00:05:34Agera apko kuchh karna hai
00:05:35Agera apne iradae
00:05:36May pake hai
00:05:37To aap
00:05:38Woh kaam ker jate
00:05:39and you have to have all those who are related to you
00:05:42in some way, that you know, this is the way I want to be
00:05:45so they have to have all your support
00:05:48but that makes you feel strong for yourself
00:05:51The truth is that
00:05:53There is a difference between everyone
00:05:55There is one difference between everyone
00:05:58It's not a difference between everyone
00:06:00It's not that you can stand in any way
00:06:02In my face there's one example
00:06:03I always want to say here
00:06:05I always want to complete it
00:06:06In my face there's one example
00:06:08Honestly, I haven't seen a dream in my childhood because I am a very practical girl and at a very early age, when you work from 16-17 years old,
00:06:20it doesn't have time to see, it doesn't have time to see, it doesn't have time to see, it doesn't have time to see.
00:06:24But I remember, Nidda told me when she was married, that I have to do something, I want to do something, I can't sit like that.
00:06:30And I have seen it because it is the fact that you have chosen yourself, that's why you are here, if you also, like in many places, I think in my life,
00:06:40I have said, no, I have gone back, I have said, no, because you have a lot of dreams, but you have the four sides of your dreams,
00:06:48so how strong you are in yourself, all the girls are not, but there are many girls, so I just want to complete this.
00:06:55I was not strong-headed, but I have said that you did.
00:06:59Somehow, somehow, you have made a decision?
00:07:01Yes, I have made a decision, because it is obvious that my story is something else,
00:07:07but I will share it with you, I will share it with you, because I will share it with you,
00:07:11because you are guests and I will ask you.
00:07:13Now, the first thing is, what are your dreams?
00:07:15Every age of your dreams are different.
00:07:18When you are small, you will fantasize yourself.
00:07:21And what is it that you will teach your children and children, give them their dreams,
00:07:26to see their dreams, but we don't give them the choice,
00:07:30that they will choose their partner with their own purpose,
00:07:32and see their compatibility with them, and ask them,
00:07:37if they are my dreams, will you help me in my dreams?
00:07:41I will agree with them, but the thing is,
00:07:43I will agree with them, but the thing is,
00:07:44that is why I am saying that you will have two kinds of dreams.
00:07:46After that, I will agree with them.
00:07:48I will agree with them.
00:07:50I will agree with them.
00:07:52I will agree with them, but the thing is,
00:07:54the thing is that never comes to anyh of our society,
00:07:56never comes until you do something.
00:07:58Because your personality is not built.
00:08:00Before you get married to their marriage,
00:08:02you will trust your wife,
00:08:04and their children.
00:08:06And you'll be the same.
00:08:08I will agree with them.
00:08:10But the thing is that in our society,
00:08:12there is not only a change until you see your feelings.
00:08:14Because your personality is not built,
00:08:16before you can decide to donate your family,
00:08:18sustenance, partnership, and then your children.
00:08:20I don't want a man or a girl to reach the same way.
00:08:26Before you discover it, it feels like it's going to get married.
00:08:31Exactly.
00:08:32When it hits the midlife crisis, it will get hit.
00:08:37That's a norm for us.
00:08:39A complaint starts to get started.
00:08:41All your life has been given to children.
00:08:43They have been given to me.
00:08:45I have left my husband behind all my life.
00:08:47that I have waited for.
00:08:48And then in the 40s or in the 50s,
00:08:51it really goes on a gap.
00:08:53So, do not have to change.
00:08:57If that goes on to realisation
00:09:00and the support gets you,
00:09:02then I think your personality is so strong.
00:09:04And you also have to stay clear,
00:09:06stay calm.
00:09:07Also, when someone comes to the family,
00:09:10I don't know how many people have seen him.
00:09:12His parents say,
00:09:13You have a great family.
00:09:14You don't get this.
00:09:15What do you want to do? What do you want to do?
00:09:17You have to sit at home and sit at home and have so much fun.
00:09:21This is also a big dilemma in our society.
00:09:24A girl who thinks that I don't want to get out of my life,
00:09:27that I don't want to get a good relationship after that.
00:09:29There is a little pressure for parents.
00:09:31That is also a difficult question.
00:09:33I don't know many of my interactions with celebrities.
00:09:37There are many hit heroines who have been in their lifetime.
00:09:41They have a good relationship.
00:09:43They have a good relationship.
00:09:45They have a good relationship.
00:09:47They have married their careers.
00:09:51But when they came to my show,
00:09:55I thought that they were not happy.
00:09:57That's why you don't give money.
00:09:59After 40s, you have confidence that you think that
00:10:03I want to complete your dreams.
00:10:05That's when you get rid of your emotions.
00:10:07You think that it's a good relationship.
00:10:09I'm going home.
00:10:11I'm going home.
00:10:13I'm going home.
00:10:14I'm going home.
00:10:15I'm going home.
00:10:16I'm going home.
00:10:17But after 40s,
00:10:18a woman is mature.
00:10:19She reminds me that my children are older.
00:10:21What do I do?
00:10:22She feels good.
00:10:23After 40s,
00:10:24she understands what life is.
00:10:26What is life?
00:10:27What do you think?
00:10:29When you were a teenage girl,
00:10:31what do you think?
00:10:33What do you think?
00:10:35Honestly,
00:10:36I'm telling you that
00:10:37a teenage girl,
00:10:39they are very little dreams.
00:10:41They are very different.
00:10:42The dreams change.
00:10:43I'm telling you.
00:10:44The dreams change.
00:10:45When I was 10-12 years old,
00:10:48then we went to Lahore
00:10:50and we went to the historical places.
00:10:53My dream was that
00:10:54I'm a princess.
00:10:56I'm wandering here.
00:10:58I'm wandering here.
00:10:59I thought that
00:11:00I don't know.
00:11:01Somehow,
00:11:02you are little children.
00:11:03You are different.
00:11:04So,
00:11:05I was telling you,
00:11:06I'm going to the streets
00:11:07100-200 years ago
00:11:08there were a lot of kings
00:11:09and kings.
00:11:10So,
00:11:11I'm also one of them.
00:11:12So,
00:11:13when you were little,
00:11:14these dreams happen.
00:11:15And then,
00:11:16one dream,
00:11:17you have parents
00:11:18in your mind.
00:11:19My father said,
00:11:21I want to see you
00:11:22as a doctor in Fazeela.
00:11:24Fazeela's career,
00:11:27because my dad's doctor
00:11:29was named Fazeela.
00:11:31So,
00:11:32the father said,
00:11:34I want to be a doctor.
00:11:35So,
00:11:36that was a dream.
00:11:37So,
00:11:38our childhood
00:11:39was a dream.
00:11:40That was your dream.
00:11:41Yes.
00:11:42But,
00:11:43when you tell children,
00:11:44the child starts to think
00:11:46in the same way.
00:11:47So,
00:11:48I was also very interested.
00:11:49I studied pre-medical
00:11:52and said,
00:11:54I want to be a doctor.
00:11:55But somehow,
00:11:56in your life,
00:11:57Allah has written something else.
00:11:58So,
00:11:59I became an actor.
00:12:01And,
00:12:02I don't regret it.
00:12:03Because,
00:12:04I feel like,
00:12:05if I'm here today,
00:12:06and if I'm happy,
00:12:08I'm satisfied,
00:12:09I'm very satisfied,
00:12:10I'm satisfied,
00:12:11content,
00:12:12I'm happy.
00:12:13So,
00:12:14I'm happy,
00:12:15I'm happy,
00:12:16I'm happy.
00:12:17I'm happy,
00:12:18I'm happy,
00:12:19I'm happy,
00:12:20I'm happy.
00:12:21But,
00:12:22I'm happy,
00:12:23I'm happy,
00:12:24I'm happy.
00:12:25I'm happy,
00:12:26I'm happy,
00:12:27I'm happy,
00:12:28I'm happy,
00:12:29I'm happy.
00:12:30I'm happy,
00:12:31I'm happy,
00:12:32I'm happy.
00:12:33I'm happy,
00:12:34I'm happy,
00:12:35and I'm happy,
00:12:36and I'm happy,
00:12:37So in Asia overall, our support system is not strong in Asia, parents are saying that they will get married,
00:12:45or you were saying that many people have married, you need stability in life.
00:12:52So it's just not money, you need stability.
00:12:55And that's why you get married and I don't want to regret it.
00:12:59Our two problems are self-love and selfishness.
00:13:04We go to two extremes.
00:13:06So if they had married, I think if it's not done, they say,
00:13:11oh my God, that's why I had to do it.
00:13:14So these are all your choices.
00:13:16When you had that choice, you had to do it.
00:13:19And I think that's the best decision.
00:13:21So when I was young,
00:13:25I regret that I had 10 years of life.
00:13:31When I was young, when I was young, I was the main lead.
00:13:36So I stopped working when I was 24 because I have two boys at that time.
00:13:41So I said, I want to study them.
00:13:43And then how did I say that children are upset?
00:13:44I also do work.
00:13:45So I stopped working at the age of 24.
00:13:48And then I started working at the age of 34.
00:13:52But for that 10 years, I thought that I had to leave.
00:13:55At that time, I had a great job.
00:13:56At that time, there were channels.
00:13:57There were main characters.
00:13:58There were many offers.
00:14:00And I gave them.
00:14:01Because it was my choice.
00:14:02But now I think that it was my choice.
00:14:05Because when I saw my children and their personalities,
00:14:08I saw them very good.
00:14:10So I said, no.
00:14:11That was not regret.
00:14:12That was probably the right decision.
00:14:14So you know,
00:14:15people think different things.
00:14:16After that, I started working again.
00:14:18So now I'm good.
00:14:20So that dream,
00:14:22in my opinion,
00:14:23you need to change the time.
00:14:25You need to change the time.
00:14:26You need to change the time.
00:14:27You need to change the time.
00:14:28Absolutely.
00:14:29I say that dream,
00:14:30you need to change the time.
00:14:31Like I was acting.
00:14:33I was very early.
00:14:36When I was in 23,
00:14:37I was a mother.
00:14:38And my children were in 25,
00:14:40or 23.
00:14:41So after that,
00:14:42I had to come with two children.
00:14:45And you don't understand what to do.
00:14:47So I had to talk to my acting career
00:14:49for 6 years.
00:14:51After that,
00:14:52I thought,
00:14:53that the dreams of them
00:14:55will be molded.
00:14:57That the acting,
00:14:59it takes time from the morning to the night.
00:15:01So when I went to school,
00:15:02I was like,
00:15:03that's what I can do.
00:15:04The teaching?
00:15:05No, no.
00:15:06I'm not a good teacher.
00:15:07I'm a great teacher.
00:15:08I talk a lot.
00:15:09Oh,
00:15:10why did I switch my career?
00:15:11I switched my career.
00:15:12And I switched my career
00:15:13and I switched my career
00:15:14and I took my career
00:15:15and my work took me
00:15:16to balance my family.
00:15:18Good morning.
00:15:48Welcome back. Good morning, Pakistan.
00:15:53No, no.
00:15:55I thought I would turn off and see.
00:15:56I wouldn't look at the camera.
00:15:58No, no.
00:15:59What?
00:16:00You are going to kill me.
00:16:02You are going to kill me.
00:16:03No, no.
00:16:04You are going to kill me.
00:16:05Oh, why are you hiding so much?
00:16:07And it looks perfectly fine.
00:16:09Let's go.
00:16:10Let's go.
00:16:11Let's go.
00:16:12Let's go.
00:16:13Let's go.
00:16:14Okay, let's talk.
00:16:15If anyone has joined in here, let's talk.
00:16:17Let's talk about the people who have joined in their lives.
00:16:19Nobody has joined in their lives.
00:16:21Just tell them to tell them.
00:16:24So that the girls who have joined in their lives,
00:16:29will be informed.
00:16:31And we don't want to join in their lives.
00:16:34Because life is one time.
00:16:36It doesn't get one time.
00:16:39What time does it have to be given?
00:16:43You need to know.
00:16:45Okay, let's start from Canadian Immigration.
00:16:49Before Canadian Immigration, I'd like to tell you a little time.
00:16:52Yes.
00:16:53I don't want to ask any questions.
00:16:55Sorry.
00:16:56I was trying to ask any questions.
00:16:58What happens?
00:16:59I was trying to ask you a bit of a drama.
00:17:02When I started to start a film on the novel,
00:17:05when I was shooting a movie with a fan,
00:17:08I started to ask you a heroine and a hit drama.
00:17:12A hit drama comes from a hit.
00:17:13A hit drama comes from a hit.
00:17:14A hit drama comes from a hit.
00:17:16A hit drama comes from a hit.
00:17:1790% of my proposals were saying that this is the last drama and I don't have to work on it.
00:17:23And I felt very bad. And the other thing is that I also saw a dream because we are seven children.
00:17:28Look at the drama and it is the last drama.
00:17:32Now the perception has changed. It was a lot more.
00:17:35And after that I saw a dream because we are seven children.
00:17:39I didn't want to be a dream because I was the oldest.
00:17:42So I also saw that I will not take a dream in the name of a dream.
00:17:48I will go clearly in that family.
00:17:52The person who is not to show that we need this.
00:17:57We need a bedroom set. We need a car.
00:18:01So I felt very cheap.
00:18:03So I thought that I will live on my terms.
00:18:06I will do my drama.
00:18:08I will leave it on my own.
00:18:10But no one does not do me.
00:18:12So in that moment, I had so-called good relationships in my life.
00:18:16I was very good at all.
00:18:18But luckily, when I had a problem with my husband,
00:18:20My husband had four balls to eat.
00:18:24He was saying,
00:18:25Whatever you want to do in life.
00:18:27Because I believe that an individual has its own personality.
00:18:31In fact, I don't need to ask myself.
00:18:34So whatever you want to do in life, I will support you.
00:18:37I will support you.
00:18:38So one day, he told me,
00:18:39What if, if my life has never happened to us on the road, on the footpath.
00:18:45Then you will give me.
00:18:47And I said, I will give you.
00:18:49And I will do your efforts from the footpath.
00:18:51Because God has given me everything on the footpath.
00:18:53Because God has given me everything on the footpath.
00:18:55I am a talented man.
00:18:57I am a talented man.
00:18:58So, alamdulillah, nothing has happened.
00:19:00But at that time, it is one thing that happens.
00:19:02When it comes to the first situation.
00:19:04Yes.
00:19:05In the beginning of the day,
00:19:06What do you want me to do this time?
00:19:07So, in the beginning of the break,
00:19:08I was saying,
00:19:09There is a perception that,
00:19:10The girls who work on TV,
00:19:11In fact, they don't have to make their own home.
00:19:13So, at that time, it was very interesting.
00:19:15There is a person who is living,
00:19:17In fact, the girls are in the house.
00:19:18And a person who is living under one roof,
00:19:20The people who are living under the roof.
00:19:21A person who is living under the roof.
00:19:22And, he is a person who is living under one roof.
00:19:23So, he is a person who is living under one roof.
00:19:24So, I am a person who is living under the roof.
00:19:25Now, when it comes to immigration,
00:19:26My son was very small.
00:19:27And, my husband,
00:19:28He is a person who is in Oxford University.
00:19:29His husband is a Ph.D.
00:19:30So,
00:19:31He was thinking that,
00:19:32I will give a child from mid-sized.
00:19:34I will teach a child from the age of very good.
00:19:35But,
00:19:36I said to him that,
00:19:37I will not give him to my child from the age of small.
00:19:40a single child in a new marriage.
00:19:42He was on a wrong track or on some wrong things.
00:19:46And so far away from our culture,
00:19:48I wouldn't want to take it with our culture,
00:19:50and take it with our parents' children.
00:19:54So there was no other way,
00:19:55but we had the immigration.
00:19:57We had the entire system started there.
00:20:00And then we had resigned,
00:20:02I was doing a morning show.
00:20:04I resigned there and we moved.
00:20:06So I understood my husband
00:20:08in this situation,
00:20:10that in a new world,
00:20:12I want to take care of my children,
00:20:16and give it to their children.
00:20:18So the immigration system
00:20:20gave me a lot of support.
00:20:22No, I didn't understand this.
00:20:24Canadian immigration,
00:20:26they are sending children alone.
00:20:28Oh!
00:20:30If they go to age.
00:20:32So they wind up here,
00:20:34they moved along with your kid.
00:20:36Okay.
00:20:38Okay.
00:20:39So I was doing for child's transition.
00:20:40For child's transition.
00:20:41And it is my desire,
00:20:42I want to take care of my children,
00:20:44according to their culture,
00:20:45according to their values,
00:20:46according to their culture.
00:20:47According to their culture,
00:20:48according to their values,
00:20:49according to their religion.
00:20:50Okay.
00:20:51I didn't want to send him alone.
00:20:52So their child was young?
00:20:53My child was 11 years old.
00:20:54And she was also sending them in 11 years?
00:20:55Yes.
00:20:56Because there was an elementary school
00:20:57to start her with high school.
00:20:58and high school, so that the child doesn't have a problem in the system.
00:21:03Although my big brothers also live in Canada,
00:21:05so that the mother can do the training,
00:21:07she doesn't do anything.
00:21:09So this is a big issue.
00:21:11So the situation is like,
00:21:13that you have your career and their career,
00:21:15both parents and parents,
00:21:17your children.
00:21:18Okay.
00:21:19You tell me.
00:21:21As they said, for children.
00:21:23So when I joined this industry,
00:21:25I changed my career because I had been teaching for the past 15 years.
00:21:28I am a professional teacher.
00:21:29I be trained.
00:21:30Okay.
00:21:31But two years before,
00:21:33when I decided to change my career,
00:21:36first of all, I support my husband.
00:21:38Because he was the one who diagnosed,
00:21:40that I am not happy with that job.
00:21:43Especially after lockdown,
00:21:44I went into depression.
00:21:46So I didn't have fun at that job.
00:21:48It's just that you have a lot of fun.
00:21:50You have a lot of monotonous life.
00:21:52And the way I am free-spirited,
00:21:55creative.
00:21:56I am not a person to follow the timetable.
00:21:59I need changes.
00:22:00Every day,
00:22:01I change my setting too.
00:22:03I need to change something.
00:22:05So,
00:22:06he realized,
00:22:07actually,
00:22:08he made me realize,
00:22:09that you are not in the job.
00:22:11You are not set.
00:22:12You leave it.
00:22:13You are going into depression.
00:22:15You are getting angry.
00:22:16You are not happy.
00:22:17So summer break came.
00:22:19And,
00:22:20I attended a stand-up comedy workshop.
00:22:24And,
00:22:25that series just started there.
00:22:27And,
00:22:28he supported me a lot.
00:22:29After that,
00:22:30I did a stand-up comedy show.
00:22:31Along with acting.
00:22:33In fact,
00:22:34I am doing stand-up comedy.
00:22:36Wow.
00:22:37I am doing improv comedy.
00:22:38Then,
00:22:39that started.
00:22:40I joined the theater.
00:22:41I joined the theater.
00:22:42I got an office for the theater.
00:22:44So,
00:22:45he supported me.
00:22:46He was.
00:22:47He has always been.
00:22:48The one,
00:22:49the one that's most likely to the audience.
00:22:50In the theater shows.
00:22:51Wow.
00:22:52That is so nice.
00:22:54In my comedy show.
00:22:55Ever,
00:22:56whatever meetings,
00:22:57they do,
00:22:58all might end up.
00:22:59It is like,
00:23:00I will not miss it.
00:23:01So,
00:23:02I don't miss it.
00:23:03There is a very emotional support.
00:23:06That,
00:23:07You see the audience,
00:23:08that you have an platform.
00:23:09There is a pillar.
00:23:10So,
00:23:11it has always,
00:23:12been my confidence.
00:23:13The other thing is that when I joined the industry, many people said that you joined very late.
00:23:18When I joined 10 years ago, I was probably leading.
00:23:21I said that my mind is not my mind. I have to do a good job.
00:23:25In that race, I have to do a lead.
00:23:28I mean, I don't know if I should say this or not,
00:23:31but I have also become a mother of my big actress now in these two years.
00:23:37So I have no regrets.
00:23:38Because my house is not at stake, my children are at stake.
00:23:42My house is on autopilot.
00:23:44The children are almost independent.
00:23:47They have seen themselves.
00:23:49I have done so much training.
00:23:50I have done that.
00:23:51Alhamdulillah, if I sit on them, I know where they are.
00:23:56Exactly.
00:23:57I know where they are, where they are, what they are.
00:23:59Also, there is also a mom guilt.
00:24:01We have said that in certain ages,
00:24:04it was our own mom guilt.
00:24:07When we are in work, we remember the children.
00:24:10And we are all alone.
00:24:11And then what happened?
00:24:12It was that in our lives, there was a fire.
00:24:14One woman told me,
00:24:16look, the children are going to die.
00:24:19That's what they were saying.
00:24:22So we were saying,
00:24:23that's it.
00:24:24We left it.
00:24:25I had a job.
00:24:26Yes.
00:24:27And a new channel was open.
00:24:28And we were all in it.
00:24:30So if I am doing it,
00:24:32I don't know where I am going to go to my career.
00:24:34You want to go to the corporate sector.
00:24:38But three months later,
00:24:40Kaisan said,
00:24:41Kaisan said,
00:24:42yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:24:43Then Kaisan said,
00:24:44Kaisan said,
00:24:45I come home.
00:24:46I feel like my children are a slave.
00:24:48I feel so sad.
00:24:50I feel so sad.
00:24:51And then,
00:24:52if I am,
00:24:53I feel so sad.
00:24:54Yes, I feel like my children.
00:24:55No, no, no.
00:24:56I feel like my children are a slave.
00:24:57So I left that job for three months.
00:24:59But no,
00:25:00the thing is not.
00:25:01The thing is,
00:25:02that we also want like this.
00:25:05And my dream was that,
00:25:07I think,
00:25:08I read Digest and Novels in my 9th metric.
00:25:12So I said,
00:25:13I should be perfect.
00:25:14I should not have a problem in my home.
00:25:16I should be perfect.
00:25:17I should be perfect.
00:25:18You know,
00:25:19I should be happy.
00:25:20I should be happy.
00:25:21I should be home.
00:25:22So I should be in a tray.
00:25:23You know,
00:25:24if you are content in this age,
00:25:25that means that is all,
00:25:26you know,
00:25:27your way to this place.
00:25:28Yes, you are right.
00:25:29Exactly.
00:25:30And I think,
00:25:31it depends on your need.
00:25:32If your need is safe,
00:25:33and your focus is on you,
00:25:34rather than on others,
00:25:35you focus on who is,
00:25:36who is,
00:25:37who is,
00:25:38who is,
00:25:39who is,
00:25:40who is,
00:25:41who is,
00:25:42who is,
00:25:43who is,
00:25:44who is,
00:25:45who is,
00:25:46who is,
00:25:47who is,
00:25:48who is,
00:25:49who is,
00:25:50who is,
00:25:51who is,
00:25:52who is,
00:25:53who is,
00:25:54who is sweet and heavenly.
00:25:55All the way.
00:25:56That's it.
00:25:57To me,
00:25:58what's all life was a daughter in her mind.
00:26:00REID
00:26:23Assalamualaikum.
00:29:52I have beenення �ë.
00:29:54How do I do?
00:29:57Exactly.
00:29:59totally do I think
00:30:10but I have witnessed many women
00:30:12This problem is that if they are talking about something, they are talking about their parents and they are saying something wrong.
00:30:18There is a lot of pressure on their parents' personality that we don't say anything.
00:30:23That they are bad.
00:30:25Yes, that they are bad or they don't see anything.
00:30:27I mean, I mean, the family and baby's relationship is like that there is no problem.
00:30:31So, how do you think and understand about the family?
00:30:35Actually, the relationship is not the real relationship.
00:30:38The relationship is that in any relationship, whether it is a friend or brother,
00:30:43that relationship is so beautiful that you don't have to think about it.
00:30:47The one who is, they are.
00:30:49Exactly.
00:30:50I know that husband and wife is the best relationship between husband and wife.
00:30:55If you have a partner with the right compatibility.
00:30:59Now, we are the media.
00:31:01Now, I don't play things like that.
00:31:03But there are also some of them that come out.
00:31:06So, take pictures, take pictures, take selfies.
00:31:08My husband is saying, please take pictures.
00:31:10Please take pictures.
00:31:12I don't know if I have a girl or a girl.
00:31:14So, these people are insecure.
00:31:16They have a problem.
00:31:18The baby will not leave.
00:31:19The baby will not leave.
00:31:20The baby will not lose.
00:31:21What do you do?
00:31:22What do you do?
00:31:23There are more people.
00:31:24Insecure.
00:31:25Insecure.
00:31:26What do you do?
00:31:27You are going to be quiet.
00:31:28You are going to be quiet.
00:31:29The baby will be right.
00:31:30I need to think about it.
00:31:31In the larger picture of your future,
00:31:36when children reach a good place,
00:31:39you have a very good satisfaction.
00:31:41In that chakra, many mothers do their sacrifices.
00:31:45And if they don't do what they do,
00:31:47they will lose.
00:31:50Nothing is losing.
00:31:51Ghazal, there is no exposure to people.
00:31:54There is no awareness to people.
00:31:56And they are absolutely right.
00:31:57Now, things have changed.
00:31:59So, we need to train our children.
00:32:02When your children will be trained,
00:32:05they will be able to make a good home.
00:32:07Only women cannot do it.
00:32:08Both of them will be taken care of.
00:32:09Absolutely.
00:32:10We are taking a short break.
00:32:11We will see you after the break.
00:32:12Good morning, Pakistan.
00:32:15Good morning, Pakistan.
00:32:16So, today we are talking about
00:32:17which I don't always feel worse.
00:32:18Because many women are being hurt.
00:32:19Many women are being hurt.
00:32:20They are being hurt.
00:32:21They are being hurt.
00:32:22We are taking care of it.
00:32:23Many women are being hurt.
00:32:24Many of them are being hurt.
00:32:25Many women are being hurt.
00:32:26They are being hurt.
00:32:27Many women are hurting.
00:32:28Some of them are hurting.
00:32:29They are hurting each other.
00:32:31They are hurting their losses.
00:32:32They are hurting their losses.
00:32:34And so, they are suffering.
00:32:36Now, the youth of women now,
00:32:37some of us don't get them into impact.
00:32:38Today I am not sharing them.
00:32:39Just because we are doing a foolish man.
00:32:40Every woman is in the struggle.
00:32:41every woman's story, every person has a struggle when you are in a life, in a practical life and then you are in a married life,
00:32:50all the struggles have a struggle, but it's better to sit down and sit down and cry, that the time is now,
00:32:57you should think positive about it.
00:32:59It's not a long time.
00:33:00It's not a long time.
00:33:01Many of the people who were a business woman who were a business woman.
00:33:04Look at that.
00:33:05A new leader.
00:33:06And what?
00:33:07So, it's not a long time.
00:33:09You can also study.
00:33:11I studied in the last year.
00:33:13I started the gym.
00:33:14Very good.
00:33:15I started the gym, but it's not a long time.
00:33:17So, I just started.
00:33:19Very good.
00:33:20I studied after my marriage, my bachelor's.
00:33:23After two children, I did my bachelor's, I did my post-graduation.
00:33:28So, it's not a long time.
00:33:30No, it's not a long time.
00:33:31No, it's not a long time.
00:33:32No, no, it's not a long time.
00:33:33And what happens is that there's a big gap.
00:33:35Like, I went out for my child's work.
00:33:37From that scene, when I had a lot of work for me.
00:33:41And I was 12 or 11 years old.
00:33:44But there's no regrets.
00:33:46Because in this field, you can come back again.
00:33:49You can work again.
00:33:51One more thing.
00:33:52Why don't you regret?
00:33:53Why don't you do it?
00:33:54Why don't you do it?
00:33:55Because you didn't force yourself to do it.
00:33:57You don't, you're a lot of love.
00:33:58You don't care.
00:33:59Yeah, you do it.
00:34:00I have no regrets.
00:34:01That has to be a good idea.
00:34:02You have to worry, Your children.
00:34:03You have to be a good idea for this.
00:34:04You have to worry, your children, your children, your children, your children, your children.
00:34:05And even if you want to be a better mother, your children, take care of yourself.
00:34:06And some people, don't be afraid of control.
00:34:07And some men getting our children.
00:34:08Have a good idea of freedom.
00:34:09gender can be removed from this world and if you will give it free to understand it
00:34:16then it will be good to use it.
00:34:18Some of the women's dreams are not going to fall apart, some of the men's dreams are going to fall apart.
00:34:24Sometimes family, mother, daughter, baby, those dreams are going to fall apart.
00:34:30So we need to have a better treatment of our generation.
00:34:35We need to have a better treatment of our generation.
00:34:41We need to have a better treatment of our generation.
00:34:44It's just not that women are not going to fall apart.
00:34:47No, there are many people who need their family, who are the only ones who want their job,
00:34:53they will leave their job.
00:34:54Because they will leave their job.
00:34:56So those who are stable jobs, they will keep their age of 9 to 5.
00:35:00Exactly.
00:35:01So that's why I am saying that every girl says that please complete your degree.
00:35:06Don't think that Mia, I will get married with a man.
00:35:10So you will get the stability of my dad.
00:35:12So complete your degree.
00:35:13Definitely.
00:35:14Do your job.
00:35:15So we will get them.
00:35:16A very famous couple, a very famous singer-composer man.
00:35:20You will get married.
00:35:21She will go to my show.
00:35:22And she will get married to a new show as a new show.
00:35:25When I started the show.
00:35:26She married at her stable jobs.
00:35:27She was an engineer.
00:35:28My, Abbas said, how will it happen?
00:35:31What will happen?
00:35:32Love marriage?
00:35:33She didn't have a relationship.
00:35:34She is not a stable job.
00:35:35I will become a musician.
00:35:36What will it be future?
00:35:38She married on the job.
00:35:40She was 9 to 5.
00:35:41She was 9 to 5 years old and she said, I know your dream is music, you do music, I will eat less, I will eat less, I will eat less, and today she is a number of composer and musician, mashallah, internationally composition.
00:35:57Look, the thing is that you have to give one another.
00:35:59Whether it is a man or a woman, what does it mean?
00:36:02You have to give a partner in your feelings, in your happiness, in your dreams.
00:36:08Who has the next one?
00:36:10Saba.
00:36:12Yes, Saba.
00:36:13Yes, Saba.
00:36:14Assalamu alaikum.
00:36:15Assalamu alaikum Saba.
00:36:16My mother, my husband, my daughter, a little bit.
00:36:19A voice is not heard, Saba, my mic will be close.
00:36:22My mother, my daughter, my husband, my daughter does less, a limited service business, which is a grocery store.
00:36:28It's sitting in their chair, sitting, talking, talking, a lot of nonsense.
00:36:33That doesn't mean that there is no doubt, there is very money, there is a lot of money.
00:36:37But I have to control my life in my life.
00:36:41And now I have given my daughter to graduate.
00:36:45And I thought that she had a good study in the school of school.
00:36:49But my mother has kept me in front of me.
00:36:53I have to say something in front of anyone.
00:36:55That is a very popular thing.
00:36:57And now I have to clean my daughter's daughter's car mechanic.
00:37:03And now I have to understand my daughter's daughter's daughter's daughter.
00:37:08So I have given my mind to me.
00:37:11But I don't understand how to handle it.
00:37:14Now you have to take a stand.
00:37:16When you have to take a stand like this,
00:37:19you have to take a stand for your daughter's daughter's daughter's daughter.
00:37:22But this is a different point.
00:37:24If any work or work is not bad,
00:37:28if she is a car mechanic,
00:37:30when you have to talk about it right due to you,
00:37:34But you can always keep watching the same Hey.
00:37:36My mother didn't write,
00:37:40but I have to study only.
00:37:41But I have studied.
00:37:42And then I took my Experiment.
00:37:43But I didn't't have studied with our kids.
00:37:44So I didn't make my try and einstead a student.
00:37:47But the Legii doesn't make researches.
00:37:49Not with knowledge.
00:37:51foreign
00:38:05foreign
00:38:21But I will support you a little bit because there is no need to be a doctor who is not blind.
00:38:30I am saying that one mechanic is blind.
00:38:34That's what I need to do.
00:38:36Exactly, that's my point.
00:38:37That's what I need to do.
00:38:39That's what I need to do.
00:38:42Different.
00:38:43Different.
00:38:44Different.
00:38:45Different.
00:38:46Different.
00:38:47Different.
00:38:48Different.
00:38:49Different.
00:38:50Different.
00:38:51Different.
00:38:52Different.
00:38:53Different.
00:38:54Different.
00:38:55That's all.
00:38:56Keep your child into this.
00:38:57One of them is more than ever.
00:38:58My child seems good.
00:38:59You can study as well or graduate from two to two years.
00:39:00If it will be interested she will upgrade you.
00:39:01Yes.
00:39:02And you will change also.
00:39:03Do you know that you become a little bit of a cause?
00:39:04That's your husband's child.
00:39:05He is no child.
00:39:06He is not a child.
00:39:07He is also of good faith and the lady.
00:39:10That will be in positive impact.
00:39:11He will keep your child's stability.
00:39:14For some next year or more, for many months.
00:39:15Exactly.
00:39:16That's very easy to do.
00:39:17In that sense, we had to throw out big thoughts on the side.
00:39:19I said, okay, it's easy to fight.
00:39:21But now, I write a poem, poetry, and we all have a little girl.
00:39:31Whether we are 50, 60, 80, we all have a little child.
00:39:35And she is always there.
00:39:37So I have written a poem in that way.
00:39:39So I want to read it.
00:39:40I want to read it.
00:39:41Okay.
00:39:42A little girl who lives inside me,
00:39:46has often beenarti with Japan.
00:39:49She finally readers.
00:39:50Her accompagn Doch.
00:39:53Would I like so get....
00:39:54I'll just have to hear it.
00:39:56There everybody else.
00:39:58She won'tER.
00:40:00She found a poem.
00:40:01And then finally I'll make the poem.
00:40:04That is the one who sees anything.
00:40:06I'll give up.
00:40:08I'll be very grateful.
00:40:10My mom doesn't understand that.
00:40:13But!
00:40:14Then I will give some of the things of the world and give some of the things of the world.
00:40:21Very nice.
00:40:23So, we are all inside.
00:40:25This is a blessing.
00:40:27This girl comes inside of us, it is a blessing.
00:40:30I always like to hear after each other,
00:40:33that there are things inside you.
00:40:35Let go and leave it.
00:40:37It can be removed from the beach, but it doesn't need to be a perfect place.
00:40:44It doesn't need to be a perfect place.
00:40:47It doesn't need to be a perfect place, it doesn't need to be a perfect place.
00:40:52Sometimes we have to compromise some other things.
00:40:56There are many families who facilitate our husbands,
00:41:01so we have to move forward and facilitate them.
00:41:07When I conceived my husband,
00:41:11I felt that my acting was obvious.
00:41:13I couldn't afford it after 2 o'clock.
00:41:15So I started doing voiceovers.
00:41:17I started doing morning shows.
00:41:20Now the morning shows will be agreed.
00:41:23You can call your husband in school.
00:41:27There is no problem.
00:41:29So Alhamdulillah, we have decided that
00:41:32I am going to do a long job in the morning show.
00:41:35I am a mother.
00:41:37I will not do it until I will not get a peace of mind.
00:41:39So my husband is responsible for leaving school in the morning.
00:41:43Because I didn't do my children.
00:41:45I didn't leave my children alone.
00:41:48So he managed to leave me some work.
00:41:50He had to leave me alone.
00:41:52Whether it was something or something,
00:41:54I had to call her at the break.
00:41:55He had a phone from school.
00:41:57He had to leave all these things.
00:41:59This is a support system.
00:42:00It is not necessary that only women can leave.
00:42:03So this is what we are talking about.
00:42:05This is what we are talking about.
00:42:07If you have a partner with you.
00:42:09You have to take responsibility.
00:42:11So you have to take your life together.
00:42:13It will remain harmony.
00:42:14It will be better for your children.
00:42:16What is it?
00:42:18Sending Profile to Canadian Channel.
00:42:20This is a very interesting story.
00:42:21When I went from here,
00:42:22I said to my husband,
00:42:23I have done so much work.
00:42:24I am tired in Pakistan.
00:42:25I am tired.
00:42:26I am doing voiceovers in the day.
00:42:28I am doing a morning show.
00:42:29Now I will go there.
00:42:30I will not do any work.
00:42:31So he said,
00:42:32You will not do any work.
00:42:33I said,
00:42:34I will become a housewife.
00:42:35I will be very happy.
00:42:36He knew this housewife.
00:42:37He will not be happy.
00:42:38One year,
00:42:39I bought a housewife.
00:42:40I bought a housewife.
00:42:41I bought a housewife.
00:42:42I bought a housewife.
00:42:43I bought a housewife.
00:42:44At the end of the day,
00:42:45but the winter is where the winter happens.
00:42:46It will be a night that,
00:42:47and after that the night,
00:42:48I will become a housewife.
00:42:49One year family is like that.
00:42:50The day day,
00:42:51I will not be a housewife.
00:42:53I will not be able to do a housewife.
00:42:54It is important for me.
00:42:55He made my profile.
00:42:56He gave me some Canadian channel.
00:42:57You have done so much work.
00:42:58And,
00:42:59I've done so many works.
00:43:00It started so many purposes.
00:43:01The staff joined me from here.
00:43:02I have worked so many years ago, so I had no job opportunities for the host.
00:43:06They had me directly called from there.
00:43:09When I called, I thought that I was in my house.
00:43:12I called from there.
00:43:14I was very frustrated, why did I call?
00:43:16Then, he told me that I had shared my profile on your behalf.
00:43:19You have offered your job, go.
00:43:21So, I felt so happy that sometimes there are some fears that you can tell.
00:43:26That you have to feel the same.
00:43:28So, I am blessed.
00:43:30I am blessed.
00:43:32Alhamdulillah.
00:43:33Alhamdulillah.
00:43:34Alhamdulillah.
00:43:35Alhamdulillah.
00:43:36Yes.
00:43:37It was a little bit of a reality, but it was a big matter for me.
00:43:39These things are your love and love.
00:43:41Your dream is not only your career.
00:43:43Sometimes your dream is like this.
00:43:45When we were married, Kayser's job was a month before.
00:43:48So, Kayser said, I can't get married.
00:43:51I will finish a month before.
00:43:53No, no.
00:43:54How can I do this?
00:43:55The cards are closed.
00:43:56You can't get married.
00:43:57You can't get married.
00:43:59I will finish a month after December.
00:44:00It is a long time now.
00:44:01I have a lot of friends.
00:44:02Yeah, I've never been married.
00:44:03I have never been married.
00:44:04I've never been married.
00:44:05I've never been married.
00:44:06Yeah.
00:44:07It's not good.
00:44:08You can't do this.
00:44:09Let's do this.
00:44:10Let's do this.
00:44:11But then I have a marriage.
00:44:12I don't do this.
00:44:13After the process of marriage.
00:44:14It was the first time, again, I thought that I will not work, I will do Ayashi, I will do Ash, I will live in my home.
00:44:22So that person said, okay, let's do it, I will only do it and I will give you every facility.
00:44:29That person said, it was a support system that I said, I don't have to work.
00:44:36It happens, you get tired at a certain time, you get tired, you get tired, you get tired.
00:44:42So that person said, okay, let's do it.
00:44:44It was a very supportive thing that I didn't have pressure on my money.
00:44:50I didn't have to work on my own.
00:44:52But I didn't have to work on my own.
00:44:54But I didn't have to work on my own.
00:44:56So this is the support system.
00:44:59And I think that when I was working on that job, I had a production or direction.
00:45:04So I had to leave school at the morning.
00:45:09So I had to do it.
00:45:10So you have to do it.
00:45:11You have to do it.
00:45:12You have to do it.
00:45:13You have to do it.
00:45:14You have to do it.
00:45:15You have to support it.
00:45:17And what is it?
00:45:19I went to a solo trip.
00:45:21Oh, oh.
00:45:22This is also a dream.
00:45:25Wow.
00:45:26So I was very shocked to travel.
00:45:28I was very shocked to explore it.
00:45:30Because my personality, I am very inquisitive.
00:45:33High five.
00:45:34High five.
00:45:35High five.
00:45:36High five, not high five.
00:45:37High ten.
00:45:38I was 15.
00:45:39High twenty.
00:45:40High twenty.
00:45:41Yeah.
00:45:42So, one time I had come to a summer break.
00:45:47And I had to learn how to go out of Karachi.
00:45:51And at that time, my husband had a lot of work load.
00:45:56I was not able to do it.
00:45:57My children were little.
00:45:58So I said, you go.
00:46:00I said, okay.
00:46:01Yes.
00:46:02I mean, she is a very close friend of mine.
00:46:04She is a very close friend of mine.
00:46:06I said, yes, you go there.
00:46:07And make a plan with her.
00:46:08If she can join you, you go.
00:46:11Go to the mountains.
00:46:13Go to the mountains.
00:46:14Go to the mountains.
00:46:15Go to the mountains.
00:46:16Go to the mountains and go.
00:46:17Then I said, okay.
00:46:18And that plan also made a plan.
00:46:19That was also free.
00:46:20I went to Islamabad.
00:46:21And then I met him with him.
00:46:23Wow.
00:46:24I went to the China border alone.
00:46:26We went to the whole country.
00:46:28We went to the whole country.
00:46:29Girls trips are very refreshing.
00:46:30They are very refreshing.
00:46:31But they know that they were saying,
00:46:33You started five, six, seven years ago.
00:46:35I started these solo trips, girls trips.
00:46:37They started very people.
00:46:39So my cousin and I, we were going to meet them.
00:46:42You were very well and I was so happy.
00:46:44Your body would be really clear.
00:46:46Yes.
00:46:47Definitely.
00:46:48Girl trips come very much.
00:46:49I am very well, so...
00:46:51And I have no pressure.
00:46:52I don't know.
00:46:53I want to drink this vegetables.
00:46:55I don't want to drink too much.
00:46:56You don't want to drink.
00:46:57I want to drink about it.
00:46:58You want to think of it.
00:46:59Give us a response.
00:47:00Where is it?
00:47:02What is it?
00:47:03Because because you are there,
00:47:04the mountains, the mountains,
00:47:05the mountains, the mountains and the mountains,
00:47:06there's no connection.
00:47:07I'd always say that the connection is fine and that
00:47:10If you see the connection, it's not closed.
00:47:12I mean, I'm telling you that there wasn't any pressure from my heart or mind.
00:47:17Basically, basically, your me time is so important.
00:47:22Yes, it's very important.
00:47:24In that me time, you can watch some programs.
00:47:28You can think about it.
00:47:30If you want to go to the salon, you want to sleep.
00:47:33You want to think about it.
00:47:35Some people write, some people paste.
00:47:37You don't have to talk to yourself.
00:47:39Every person's me time is different.
00:47:40It's different.
00:47:41So, what you want your heart, that you do.
00:47:44Sugar patients, you don't have to sleep.
00:47:47No, don't do that.
00:47:49Don't do that.
00:47:51You don't have to answer someone.
00:47:53After a certain age, you also think that it's just a lot.
00:47:58And in your conference, you don't justify your actions.
00:48:03If you have a decision for yourself, then it's okay.
00:48:06If you have a decision for yourself, then it's okay.
00:48:09I feel like someone saw us.
00:48:11We've been going to grow our wives.
00:48:13No, I'll tell you something.
00:48:15I'll tell you a little bit.
00:48:16No, I'll tell you something after a break.
00:48:18After a break, we're going to grow our wives.
00:48:22Good morning.
00:48:23Good morning.
00:48:24Good morning.
00:48:29Welcome.
00:48:30Welcome back.
00:48:31Good morning, Pakistan.
00:48:32So, we're back to your wives.
00:48:36I'll tell you quickly.
00:48:37Tell us.
00:48:38Tell us.
00:48:39How many wives are helping their wives.
00:48:40If there's a husband who is working, it's not that.
00:48:41It's not that.
00:48:42It's not that.
00:48:43I'll tell you that some wives are helping their wives.
00:48:45If there's no husband who is working, it's not necessary.
00:48:48It's like that.
00:48:49It's a support system.
00:48:51Absolutely.
00:48:52The family is helping them.
00:48:53My wife, the children, they all are doing.
00:48:55I know a female who migrated here and came out and went to America.
00:49:00Both of them were doctors and the wife.
00:49:02And the wife gave her so much attention to her husband that she didn't have her studies.
00:49:06She studied her studies so that she could go up.
00:49:08She kept her studies and kept her limits to her job.
00:49:11She kept her children.
00:49:12She kept her children.
00:49:13She kept her children.
00:49:14And when one of the time the kids came up and their husband was a very surgeon.
00:49:18and he was a surgeon and sat in the hospital.
00:49:20So he suddenly felt like, oh, life is boring.
00:49:23With his wife, he started uncomfortable with his wife.
00:49:26He was like, let's go and go and do something.
00:49:29So it was strange to him.
00:49:31Adventure, it was thrill.
00:49:33It was strange to him.
00:49:35They got divorced, separated.
00:49:37And his wife also got married.
00:49:39Although he left such a beautiful wife and he had such a good life.
00:49:42You know, why we kept this content?
00:49:45I had a DM on my personal Insta.
00:49:49I read a whole paragraph so that I had a connection with my fans and my audience.
00:49:57That woman was in America.
00:50:00She was also career oriented.
00:50:02We both go to America.
00:50:05Because I was not going to be able to do all the work at her,
00:50:08you have to be able to do all the work at her.
00:50:12So everyone is in her life.
00:50:14She was able to try to manage all the care that's the growth of its development.
00:50:18She was just a bit of a problem.
00:50:20So she was the girl version of her.
00:50:22She was able to start of a certain time.
00:50:25So she was a fighter.
00:50:28I would say to her, she killed her.
00:50:29She is also able to get a role in her life.
00:50:31That you don't have lifespers of my audience.
00:50:32When you are working, you keep thinking about wearing, wearing, wearing, grooming, your hair,
00:50:38cutting, your hair, your hair, your hair, your hair, your hair.
00:50:41When you are a career oriented, you keep thinking about it, you don't even give it to yourself.
00:50:46But when you are at home, you are lazy.
00:50:48And after that, when you have both growth, Mia and Bibi's growth didn't happen,
00:50:53and the woman stayed back, Mia didn't even think that she stayed back.
00:50:58She stayed back, she stayed back.
00:51:00Thankless people.
00:51:02And Mia got married, and now she says that my hands are empty, I can't do anything.
00:51:13So I'm not staying here, I'm not staying there.
00:51:15After that DM, I decided this program, that we will create content.
00:51:22So the solution is that, that both growth should be together.
00:51:25We need to be together.
00:51:26Sometimes, sometimes, we need to sacrifice our children, our family stability, our children's development, but we don't want to leave you completely.
00:51:39So you should always stay active in your heart, you should also share your partner with your heart.
00:51:45Like, Kayser has supported me, I was shocked when I was eating, I was shocked.
00:51:50I had a lot of support that my YouTube channel established me.
00:52:01I have done a lot of work with him, he has done a lot of work with him, he has done a lot of work with him, he has done a lot of work with him.
00:52:08He makes a lot of vlogs very good, Fazeela.
00:52:11And the thing is that if someone is supporting in a house, someone doesn't stop going to the gym, someone doesn't stop exercising, someone doesn't stop giving time on your own.
00:52:24It doesn't matter if the husband is supporting in a career. Emotionally, support is very important.
00:52:32If your baby is a housewife, for instance, only at home, the kids are watching, just give it a boost,
00:52:41that you are managing everything well, sometimes you have a good gesture, a gift, a surprise.
00:52:48So that's what happens.
00:52:50But it doesn't happen that only after the gifts and surprises, you have a big surprise.
00:52:55For emotional support, you have confidence.
00:52:59If you don't have a career, you can make your own choice.
00:53:02You can live your own home.
00:53:04I think the end is that we need to be strong for ourselves.
00:53:08We need to take our rights.
00:53:10We need to communicate ourselves.
00:53:13We need to communicate ourselves.
00:53:15If we think ourselves, we need to tell ourselves,
00:53:17that I have a problem, I don't think this, I want to do this.
00:53:20So there is no communication.
00:53:22And the people feel that everything is right.
00:53:24I feel that women are scared of us.
00:53:27We have done this, we will have to do this, we will have to do this, we will have to do this, we will have to do this.
00:53:32We will have to do this, we will have to do this.
00:53:34We will have to do this.
00:53:35If you need to do this, you will have to do this.
00:53:36I will have to do it.
00:53:37So how do you do this?
00:53:38Why do you have to do this?
00:53:39Why do you have to do this?
00:53:40This is for four days.
00:53:41Why do you have to do this?
00:53:42Why do you have to do this?
00:53:43And why do you have to go on the next day?
00:53:44If you are to be alone with your husband, the wife is fine, you made a mistake, whatever.
00:53:49If you can do anything,
00:53:51and any kind of being a mother has the power in your hands,
00:53:53you have to save yourself to your parents' lives,
00:53:55and also activate your children's like to do this,
00:53:57and then尾 ног's like to reject you.
00:53:58And also take care of your children's like to respect.
00:53:59Your children's like to have to respect.
00:54:00They respect the new girls who come to their dreams and support their dreams.
00:54:06As you said, they read them and tell them.
00:54:09What happens is that the girls' dreams are limited.
00:54:12Some of the girls' dreams are just going to become their dreams.
00:54:17Whose dreams are created?
00:54:19Their parents and their relatives.
00:54:22You can build their dreams.
00:54:25Give them a canvas.
00:54:27It's a world.
00:54:28Where is it?
00:54:29Where is it?
00:54:30Where is it?
00:54:31In addition, Nidha, practically,
00:54:33there is no trauma in any girl's life.
00:54:37At least, she is standing on her shoulders,
00:54:39she can go through her life.
00:54:40She doesn't exploit it for anyone.
00:54:42Exactly.
00:54:43Pushing me to complete.
00:54:45Your always coming to.
00:54:48Okay, that's what you told me.
00:54:50What was the card?
00:54:52You changed the card.
00:54:54They told me.
00:54:55Pushing me to complete my studies.
00:54:57Actually, we got married very early.
00:54:58I was 19, he was 20.
00:55:00So, I want to mention that my father-in-law had a great hand.
00:55:05When we were married,
00:55:06they told me that you will also be able to do your work.
00:55:09If you are married,
00:55:10it doesn't mean that you will leave it.
00:55:12So, they did not complete my bachelor's,
00:55:14but they did a Montessori course.
00:55:17Oh great.
00:55:18After that, they told me that you will not sit in the house.
00:55:22That's why you will not be able to do your work.
00:55:25Your husband is like that,
00:55:26he will be able to do his wife.
00:55:28Absolutely.
00:55:29Exactly.
00:55:30Exactly.
00:55:31So, they told me that sitting at home is not a good thing,
00:55:33because you are capable,
00:55:35you are talented,
00:55:36you are a confident person.
00:55:37Exactly.
00:55:38So, you sit in the house and why do you have to do it?
00:55:40Yes.
00:55:41When the child comes to the responsibility,
00:55:42it is your choice.
00:55:43Yes.
00:55:44How do you balance it?
00:55:45But you both are now young,
00:55:47you are married,
00:55:48you also get married,
00:55:49do study.
00:55:50Yes.
00:55:51That is your choice.
00:55:52Exactly.
00:55:53That is your choice.
00:55:54That is your choice.
00:55:55If you are progressive people in your life,
00:55:57you are very lucky.
00:55:59Absolutely.
00:56:00Because,
00:56:01the only progressive person,
00:56:02or the son,
00:56:03or the son,
00:56:04or your parents,
00:56:05can make your life better.
00:56:07Absolutely.
00:56:08As you said in the break,
00:56:10that a confident mother,
00:56:12she gives a confident child,
00:56:14so,
00:56:15you will think that
00:56:16if you have confined a child
00:56:19the people,
00:56:20your children,
00:56:21their own career,
00:56:22or the children,
00:56:23you will have to do their own hands.
00:56:25We say that,
00:56:26if the people are blind,
00:56:27then keep those blind,
00:56:28then keep those blind.
00:56:29And,
00:56:30our concept,
00:56:31where have you come from,
00:56:32that if you are married and king,
00:56:35then,
00:56:36if you are married,
00:56:37then,
00:56:38it is my property,
00:56:39my property,
00:56:40I will treat it,
00:56:42I will order it,
00:56:43and,
00:56:44and,
00:56:45such as the insecurities.
00:56:46I am talking to you,
00:56:47if we are blessed,
00:56:48But the people who are watching, they are in the problem.
00:56:53And I think Nida's story is okay that they have to stand themselves.
00:56:57Because they can't change their husbands.
00:57:01We can change them.
00:57:03We can change them.
00:57:05So we will say that people can change their love and love.
00:57:10They need to understand their partner's psychology.
00:57:14So they say, basically, in the old days, Naniya Daadiyan,
00:57:18they say that they are going to study,
00:57:22or they are going to understand.
00:57:24Seriously, if you understand a woman,
00:57:27who is the wise woman,
00:57:29who is the spouse of the woman,
00:57:32who is the spouse.
00:57:34If she understands her,
00:57:36she can change her life.
00:57:38Yes.
00:57:39With patience.
00:57:40With patience.
00:57:41With patience.
00:57:42And again, the thing is that if you want,
00:57:44you can also learn to give and take.
00:57:46Give and take.
00:57:47It is important.
00:57:48Absolutely.
00:57:49Absolutely.
00:57:50Okay, loving my long hair.
00:57:53Everybody loves it.
00:57:54My husband, before my marriage,
00:57:56I had a statement.
00:57:57Yes.
00:57:58He said,
00:57:59that your hair is love.
00:58:00You don't cut your hair.
00:58:01Please, you do everything in the world.
00:58:03Oh my God.
00:58:04And I did that.
00:58:05I cut my hair too.
00:58:06I cut my hair too.
00:58:07You remember me.
00:58:08because I was so short.
00:58:09I was convinced her to look at that.
00:58:11Look, the child is little.
00:58:12I need to manage my hair too.
00:58:14Just manage.
00:58:15I need time,
00:58:17I need to go to the washroom.
00:58:18And the girl says,
00:58:19Mom, Mom.
00:58:20I need everything.
00:58:21So I need everything.
00:58:23So,
00:58:24until I'm small,
00:58:25I keep my tendency to live with my convenience.
00:58:27And after that,
00:58:28she told me,
00:58:29She told me to boycott whatever you do, it will be easy.
00:58:33Cute!
00:58:34I convinced her that I am not able to manage.
00:58:40So you need to help one another.
00:58:44And now it's been a long time.
00:58:46It's been a long time.
00:58:48It's been a long time.
00:58:49It's been a long time.
00:58:50MashaAllah!
00:58:51Now I can manage, I'll keep it long.
00:58:54Yes, what is next?
00:58:57Okay.
00:58:58Mariam, our year.
00:58:59Assalamu alaykum, Mariam.
00:59:01Yes, alaykum as-salam.
00:59:03My wife has been 4 years old.
00:59:05And I am the second wife of my husband.
00:59:08The first wife is three children.
00:59:10Two daughters and one daughter.
00:59:13So we were working together.
00:59:15So we had a good chemistry and bonding together.
00:59:18So they always said that their first wife,
00:59:21their parents were very important.
00:59:23Their cousin was very important.
00:59:25And my mother was very important.
00:59:27And because we loved each other.
00:59:29And when they proposed me for a marriage,
00:59:31I was not very strong enough.
00:59:35My mother was very sick.
00:59:36And my mother was very sick.
00:59:38And my mother was very sick.
00:59:40And my mother was very sick.
00:59:42So we married our family.
00:59:44And then, after that,
00:59:45that when I knew their first wife,
00:59:46that I was very sick.
00:59:47And I was very sick.
00:59:48And after that,
00:59:49the matter was very important.
00:59:50And that there was a little change.
00:59:52And that was the only reason.
00:59:53So that they were just giving them.
00:59:55And that they would give them a divorce.
00:59:56Or they would not be their children.
00:59:57And my husband was angry.
00:59:59Now, in the beginning, I didn't realize that at the beginning, I didn't realize that at the beginning of my marriage,
01:00:05but the way that my marriage has been passed through a day, and only for 4 years,
01:00:09that my marriage was the best decision that I married to them.
01:00:13Now, in the beginning, it was very good, like I did, like I did, like I did, like I did, like I did,
01:00:18I will bring in a different house.
01:00:20I have everything I have.
01:00:21I have a different house.
01:00:23I have made, a driver, go to a shop, go to a shop, go to a shop.
01:00:26But these are all jewelry, and the clothes, and all of them, I feel like it's a bad person.
01:00:30Because it's a common woman.
01:00:32There's a lot of women who have been married to a woman.
01:00:35Now, my heart is so strong.
01:00:37One time, I had conceived myself, and they took me to the hospital, forcefully.
01:00:42And then, I was able to report them.
01:00:44Now, I'll tell them with love.
01:00:45Or, I'll tell them with a fight.
01:00:47Or, in any way, I'll explain them.
01:00:49They don't understand them.
01:00:51And they say, don't talk to me about this.
01:00:54It's not possible.
01:00:55Because a common woman is married.
01:00:56She is married, and she is married.
01:00:58She is married.
01:00:59And she has become a dream for me.
01:01:00It means that, in my life,
01:01:02that this dream will never be complete.
01:01:04Because I don't understand.
01:01:06And I don't understand it.
01:01:07It means that, within the inner mind,
01:01:08that I have a dream,
01:01:09the desire to become a mother will grow.
01:01:12If someone is pregnant in my family,
01:01:13or friends,
01:01:14I'm pregnant.
01:01:15I'm also becoming more self-awareness.
01:01:16And I don't understand it.
01:01:17And I don't understand it.
01:01:18I can't leave them.
01:01:19Because my mother is sitting there.
01:01:20And there is no other support.
01:01:22And that means that,
01:01:23they have kept me very easily.
01:01:25But I don't understand it.
01:01:26I don't understand it.
01:01:27And it seems that,
01:01:28I feel,
01:01:29I'm living to the heart.
01:01:30But what I'm sowing for my dreams.
01:01:31And how do I get my dream?
01:01:32That means I get a mother's mother.
01:01:33That's not my life.
01:01:34I don't understand it.
01:01:35I don't understand.
01:01:36Maybe they will ever understand this or not.
01:01:38I think this is a very important thing in the question.
01:01:42They have said that I have a necessity,
01:01:44because my mother is sick,
01:01:46she has married from a wrong person.
01:01:48She has supported her mother,
01:01:50and she has also supported her mother.
01:01:52If she is standing on her shoulders,
01:01:54if she has a little training,
01:01:56or any skill,
01:01:58she doesn't need it.
01:02:00It doesn't need it.
01:02:02The girls are trapped.
01:02:04Especially,
01:02:06if she doesn't love,
01:02:08there are many married men,
01:02:10who already have children.
01:02:12The girls,
01:02:14I say to myself,
01:02:16make them so strong,
01:02:18that they don't want to be trapped.
01:02:20I understand.
01:02:22Three children, five children,
01:02:24there is no real love.
01:02:26What is this?
01:02:28I judge ladies for this,
01:02:32how do they get stuck in the story?
01:02:34I have seen,
01:02:36every person who has married,
01:02:38who says,
01:02:40that my first daughter is not good.
01:02:42And,
01:02:44the other people who have married,
01:02:46have so much love.
01:02:48I don't know.
01:02:50No, I don't know.
01:02:52I don't know.
01:02:54She had her own choice.
01:02:56And,
01:02:57there is a human desire.
01:02:58You don't have anything for it.
01:03:00You don't have anything for it.
01:03:02You don't have anything for it.
01:03:04You don't have anything for it.
01:03:06You don't have anything for it.
01:03:08You don't have anything for it.
01:03:10But,
01:03:11now,
01:03:12you have to deal with it.
01:03:14Because,
01:03:15this is your choice.
01:03:16Because,
01:03:17it's a commitment.
01:03:18You have committed to it.
01:03:19You don't have anything for it.
01:03:20But,
01:03:21you have to deal with this.
01:03:22Because,
01:03:23this is your choice.
01:03:24Because,
01:03:25it's a commitment.
01:03:26You have committed to it.
01:03:27You don't have anything for it.
01:03:28But,
01:03:29you can say,
01:03:30you don't have anything for it.
01:03:31Exactly.
01:03:32You don't have anything for it.
01:03:33You want to deal with it.
01:03:34You can only say,
01:03:35they are open for it.
01:03:36Yes,
01:03:37that,
01:03:38that,
01:03:39that,
01:03:40that,
01:03:41though,
01:03:42and,
01:03:43that,
01:03:44that's not going to be good.
01:03:45And,
01:03:46that's,
01:03:47that's a reality.
01:03:48I don't have the truth.
01:03:50I don't have the truth.
01:03:51Talk to me about it.
01:03:52It's an important decision.
01:03:53Yeah,
01:03:54I think in our society, it's high time now that you have to make money for money.
01:04:24They are married.
01:04:26They are not paying money.
01:04:27You are so brave that you have to make money.
01:04:30They are crying that there is no love, that I have done it.
01:04:34People are crying that you are not used to as well.
01:04:37Exactly, that's my point.
01:04:39You should cry.
01:04:41Exactly.
01:04:42When they are so independent, they need to be financially independent.
01:04:47They need to be emotionally strong.
01:04:49So, children are emotionally weak, they are often talking about their issues.
01:04:53Sometimes they are talking about money.
01:04:55Ghazal, many children are angry.
01:04:57Love, love, whatever happens, they don't get to love with love.
01:05:02So, they are watching the girls.
01:05:05Many girls are not stable in the sense that they do not get married.
01:05:10They get married with a girl and say, let's go, my house will get better.
01:05:13This is also getting married and I am also getting married.
01:05:16Many girls are the same.
01:05:18So, that's the point you raised, Anidha.
01:05:20If you don't get anything from home, you will find them.
01:05:23If you don't listen to the children, they will do something wrong.
01:05:27They will be afraid of telling the mother.
01:05:29So, they will find another way.
01:05:31So, the girls also do this.
01:05:33Yes, the girls are the same.
01:05:35The girls are the same.
01:05:37They understand.
01:05:39They hear what they want.
01:05:41So, when they give them a message, they give them a message.
01:05:44So, there are many couples who work the whole life of their parents and their baby.
01:05:51They are the same.
01:05:52They are the same.
01:05:53So, they are the same.
01:05:54So, they are the same.
01:05:55So, they have the same.
01:05:56So, they are the same.
01:05:57So, they are the same.
01:05:58And I am told they they were not even a normal person.
01:06:00They were a single person.
01:06:01And I didn't know their life.
01:06:02They were the same.
01:06:03They were the same.
01:06:04And I have to speak for their whole life.
01:06:06It was just the love that they did.
01:06:07It was just the love of the woman who worked with her and worked with her.
01:06:11In this case, I remember one of my friends who is the first wife and son.
01:06:19She has an affair with someone else.
01:06:22She knows, she knows, she has written books.
01:06:25But no, she will come back.
01:06:28How do you think she will come back?
01:06:30She will be right.
01:06:31These are hopeless cases.
01:06:33This is not only the second wife, but the first wife also has mistakes.
01:06:38She says, you take a job, you take a job, you take a job, you take a child.
01:06:43Some people are so weak, they give up.
01:06:46Emotionally weak, they give up.
01:06:48But so much you have to give up your worth.
01:06:51I don't think so.
01:06:52I don't think so.
01:06:53She says that she will come back.
01:06:56We don't have to take care of girls.
01:06:59Emotionally strong.
01:07:02Exactly.
01:07:03That you don't have to be emotionally dependent on anyone.
01:07:05This woman is emotionally dependent on your spouse.
01:07:08Maybe she can do anything with her.
01:07:10She can't leave her.
01:07:11She can't leave her.
01:07:12Look, there is no option in our marriage.
01:07:14There is no option.
01:07:15A girl says, I don't want to get married.
01:07:16I want to live for her.
01:07:18I don't want to live for her.
01:07:19I don't want to live for her.
01:07:20After a break, I will continue.
01:07:22Good morning.
01:07:24Hello.
01:07:29Welcome back.
01:07:30Good morning, Pakistan.
01:07:31Yes, so today we are talking about the people who have seen their dreams.
01:07:36They don't have to worry about their husbands.
01:07:40Sometimes they do the mother-in-law and sometimes they do the children.
01:07:44Because when children grow up and then their mother is doing something,
01:07:48I've seen a lot of children say,
01:07:51What are you doing? It's our business.
01:07:53You don't do the work of cooking.
01:07:56We start cooking business.
01:07:59We start cooking business.
01:08:01We are doing a job in the post, we are doing an executive job.
01:08:05We are doing this, we are doing this, we are doing this, we are doing this.
01:08:08What will we keep our pride?
01:08:09Many children are doing this at that time.
01:08:14So it's not only for the spouse.
01:08:16But those who stand at your husband,
01:08:20Our mother will not do acting.
01:08:23Our mother will not do the work.
01:08:25Our mother will not do the work.
01:08:27Our mother will not do the work.
01:08:29Our mother will not do the work.
01:08:31Our society has pressures and peer pressures.
01:08:33Many of our mothers don't do the work.
01:08:34But our parents do the work.
01:08:35Yes.
01:08:36It's like that.
01:08:37When I started to travel,
01:08:39This was a problem with me.
01:08:41But in that sense,
01:08:43I explained to him and supported him.
01:08:45Because there are no rules for people here.
01:08:48If you are alone traveling,
01:08:52My mother and my mother both said,
01:08:56What is it?
01:08:57You are alone traveling.
01:08:58You gave such an honor to be alone.
01:09:00It's going to be alone.
01:09:01It's going to be alone.
01:09:02It's going to be alone.
01:09:03And then they are going to be alone.
01:09:04So I said,
01:09:05You don't want to tell anyone.
01:09:06I know that you are so excited to be going to be.
01:09:09But then you go.
01:09:10I said,
01:09:11No, why not tell you.
01:09:12They are coming to the bill.
01:09:13I said,
01:09:14You will give me money.
01:09:15Or I will earn money.
01:09:16I will earn money.
01:09:17So I said,
01:09:18You should support your mother's mother.
01:09:19That she has done everything.
01:09:21She is so excited to be doing.
01:09:22She is doing it.
01:09:23And then Kaisar said,
01:09:24No, you are right.
01:09:25I said,
01:09:26Don't be afraid of anyone.
01:09:27Especially when a girl is small in the family.
01:09:29Yes.
01:09:30Then she is a big deal.
01:09:31Kaisar is the biggest thing.
01:09:32My mother also said,
01:09:33What do you say to others?
01:09:34It was the fire of the house.
01:09:36My mother also said,
01:09:38You are alone.
01:09:39What will they eat?
01:09:40What will they do?
01:09:41So I said,
01:09:42No, we will not do it.
01:09:43I have been very independent.
01:09:44My children eat themselves.
01:09:45They eat Kaisar's problem.
01:09:46You have to eat Kaisar's problem.
01:09:48Then Kaisar said,
01:09:49I will not do it.
01:09:50My society is very patriarchal.
01:09:52So, the woman says,
01:09:54In the end,
01:09:55The decision will be a woman.
01:09:56In every home.
01:09:57So, the woman says,
01:09:58Like you are saying,
01:09:59If someone else will say,
01:10:01If someone else will say,
01:10:02If someone else will say,
01:10:03Then someone else will say,
01:10:04Then someone else will say,
01:10:05Then someone else will say,
01:10:06If your husband is strong-willed,
01:10:09Then the woman will reach the same way.
01:10:11And the woman will cancel it.
01:10:13Then someone else will cancel it.
01:10:14That I have given you.
01:10:15That I have given you.
01:10:16Exactly.
01:10:17You are saying it.
01:10:18That I have given you.
01:10:19That I have given you.
01:10:20So, when you are married,
01:10:21You will also have to see this.
01:10:22When you are married,
01:10:23You will also have to see this.
01:10:25Yes.
01:10:26And then you will be married.
01:10:27You will be married.
01:10:28Yes.
01:10:29And you will be married.
01:10:30Yes.
01:10:31I will be married.
01:10:32Yes.
01:10:33Yes.
01:10:34And the woman is married.
01:10:35Yes.
01:10:36Exactly.
01:10:37And the woman is married.
01:10:38Yes.
01:10:39That's why children are always trying to get into the eyes of the eyes.
01:10:44This is a small pool in which you have to get married, honestly.
01:10:48But in the pool, there is a lot of water, a lot of water, a sweet water,
01:10:52then check it out.
01:10:54One thing is that a girl is growing up and she needs to be married.
01:10:57She doesn't get married.
01:10:58There are many people who are surprised that she will get married,
01:11:01she will get married, she will get married.
01:11:03This is the same thing.
01:11:05What about her?
01:11:06This is the grand thing.
01:11:08Yes, that is the grand.
01:11:10When the practicality hits you,
01:11:13what is it?
01:11:14What is it?
01:11:15There is nothing in my life.
01:11:16That is also a decline.
01:11:17That's why they say that they don't tell you that they will get married.
01:11:21The other thing is that you don't want to get married.
01:11:24This is a lot.
01:11:25Like I told you, when I was a teenager, I was shocked.
01:11:29After that, I didn't know anything about it.
01:11:32I was shocked.
01:11:33I was shocked.
01:11:34Wow!
01:11:35The clothes.
01:11:36It was glamour.
01:11:37I was such a teenager.
01:11:38But my daughter is not such a teenager.
01:11:41Yes.
01:11:42Yes.
01:11:43I was shocked.
01:11:44At that time, I lived in fantasy world.
01:11:48I thought that she will be married.
01:11:50She will be married.
01:11:51She will be married.
01:11:52She will be married.
01:11:53We didn't have any exposure.
01:11:54You can see that my daughter is studying outside.
01:11:55The world is watching.
01:11:56So, she knows that my daughter is studying outside.
01:12:00They are watching outside.
01:12:01They are watching the world.
01:12:02They know that they are all very petty things.
01:12:04I didn't know that you have a lot of people in mobile.
01:12:05But the people who live here, they are also doing good and make their children better.
01:12:11They are not required to go back.
01:12:13They are not required to go back.
01:12:15They are not required to go back.
01:12:16They are not required to go back.
01:12:17They are not required to go back.
01:12:18They are not required to go back.
01:12:19What are you teaching your children?
01:12:20My daughter is shocked.
01:12:21If someone has married, I will be married.
01:12:23That's right.
01:12:24Yes, he is interested in you.
01:12:25He is the one who lives.
01:12:26And he is the one who lives in the world.
01:12:27He has so much trouble and myths as a hen.
01:12:28Yes, he is the one who lives for marketing.
01:12:29He is the other that means that you don't live.
01:12:30He is the one who lives to be married.
01:12:31But can we go back?
01:12:32You can see that your husband has a PhD from Oxford.
01:12:33So, your husband makes a PhD different than their experience.
01:12:34He is the other way.
01:12:35He is a different mindset.
01:12:36It depends on Family and not a PhD.
01:12:37He is a different mindset.
01:12:38Only in family, he is a PhD.
01:12:39He is the other PhD.
01:12:40But all my neighbors have done everything.
01:12:41They have done everything with their wives, more or less.
01:12:45But, look, for example, their sister's mindset.
01:12:47they had their sister's mindset, it was my husband and my sister's mindset.
01:12:52So, learning, feeling, everything was very important.
01:12:55They were in the village.
01:12:57Then they had this feeling.
01:12:59Ghazal, people often think that the house is a bit conservative, narrow-minded.
01:13:05The girl is good.
01:13:06No.
01:13:07The whole family is getting married.
01:13:09And this is not the same.
01:13:11The whole family is getting married.
01:13:13When people were married, they saw how the house is.
01:13:16I was told a lot of years ago, and my mother was telling me why the house is seen.
01:13:21Because the house is the dream of the human being, the house that travels, the house is seen.
01:13:25The house is not today, the house will come.
01:13:27You can take a degree, the house will get you.
01:13:30But the house that you are running the family tree, the house is the house.
01:13:35My Jait told me about a story about my son.
01:13:39And she had told me about my mother.
01:13:41She told me about my mother.
01:13:43She told me about her husband and her husband.
01:13:46How much money they are giving him, some families.
01:13:50But my wife told me that I'm a crazy.
01:13:52I'm getting tired of my children.
01:13:53I'm getting tired of my children.
01:13:55I'm getting tired of my childhood.
01:13:56I'm getting tired of my time.
01:13:57I mean, why do I put my brain on the negative things?
01:13:59So, the result came.
01:14:01If she gets tired of my children, what did I give him?
01:14:04Then, you don't get into understanding.
01:14:08I'm getting tired of my children.
01:14:09No.
01:14:10I didn't get tired of my children.
01:14:11But it doesn't get tired of my children.
01:14:12Yes.
01:14:13That's what I'm saying.
01:14:14I'm getting tired of my children.
01:14:15Absolutely.
01:14:16Who is with me at that time?
01:14:17Okay.
01:14:18Okay.
01:14:19Okay.
01:14:20Okay.
01:14:21Okay.
01:14:22Now, our program is finished.
01:14:23We have only two minutes left.
01:14:24And she said, now, nothing can happen.
01:14:26So, you said, supportive co-parent.
01:14:29Supportive co-parent.
01:14:30Supportive co-parent.
01:14:31Co-parent.
01:14:32I mean, as in, I've seen many couples like that,
01:14:35when it comes to children.
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:39How do they study?
01:14:40How do they study?
01:14:41How do they study?
01:14:42How do they study?
01:14:43How do they study?
01:14:44How do they study?
01:14:45How do they study?
01:14:46How do they study?
01:14:47How do they study?
01:14:48How do they study?
01:14:49How do they study?
01:14:50How do they study?
01:14:51How do they study?
01:14:52What do they study?
01:14:53Who are their children?
01:14:54Yes.
01:14:55In which class?
01:14:56Who is the teacher?
01:14:57Who is the teacher?
01:14:58In that matter, there is support.
01:15:00Because they could also be when the mother became the father,
01:15:02so they will also be in the first time.
01:15:04So what do they still meet?
01:15:05If someone broke the door,
01:15:07they all look back to the mother's side,
01:15:10as the father was no good.
01:15:11Because the mother didn't really be a child.
01:15:12Their child themselves came in.
01:15:14Exactly.
01:15:15Exactly.
01:15:16I feel very pathetic.
01:15:17This is your child.
01:15:18Let me tell you what your child has done.
01:15:21Or if something is wrong, then you are wrong.
01:15:24And if something is wrong, then you can see.
01:15:27Vera, my daughter.
01:15:30I have been blessed.
01:15:32Alhamdulillah, he has supported us.
01:15:35As a parent, we have to play a good cop, bad cop game.
01:15:40If my husband is lenient, then I have to be very strict.
01:15:44One more thing to tell the audience is that men have to be able to control them.
01:15:50Men are the species that do not match them.
01:15:54You have to tell yourself a little bit about what is going on.
01:15:58What is going on in the school, what is going on in the section.
01:16:01If you didn't have taught them, you have to teach them.
01:16:02Exactly.
01:16:03You have to be able to tweet themselves.
01:16:06Look at this, this is the result.
01:16:08This is bad, it is good.
01:16:10If any child has a problem, then I will show him that you don't have a child.
01:16:14Your writing is wrong.
01:16:15At the end, men should also give credit because when they go home,
01:16:20they have a lot of pressure.
01:16:22It's a lot of pressure to go home.
01:16:24If a woman is sitting, she can't do anything else, she can do hobbies,
01:16:29she is also a very blessed woman.
01:16:30Absolutely.
01:16:31These are both of the efforts.
01:16:33That's why women should explain to them,
01:16:35if they get to meet and get to meet,
01:16:36if they get to meet and get to meet and get to meet,
01:16:42then they don't have a lot of pressure.
01:16:46Exactly.
01:16:47This is what I will do in a program with women.
01:16:49They will take care of the people.
01:16:51They will take care of the money.
01:16:53They will take care of the money.
01:16:55Exactly.
01:16:56The next one.
01:16:57Good morning Pakistan.
01:16:59Good afternoon.
01:17:00Good afternoon.
01:17:06Good afternoon.
01:17:07Good evening.
01:17:08Good afternoon.
01:17:09Good afternoon.
01:17:25dime.
01:17:27Good afternoon,
01:17:28good afternoon.
01:17:30Good evening,
01:17:31good evening.
01:17:34しばらく