First.Dates.Ireland.Season 09 Episode 10
Dublin taxi driver Abi from Blanchardstown meets super-confident car salesman Sean from Palmerstown
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Dublin taxi driver Abi from Blanchardstown meets super-confident car salesman Sean from Palmerstown
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00:00action the first dates restaurant oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god where
00:06the art of matchmaking meets the chemistry of romance do you
00:15fucking like being these hopeful singletons are about to take a brave
00:20step into the unknown it's sparks could fly a bit more spice than I was like
00:29coming for it I'm sorry I can't stop looking at you passions could ignite her eyes are just like
00:37blue or burn to ashes I was gonna ask you who your favorite serial killer is later but I have a list
00:43but if the conditions are just right hearts melt you're sweet enough to be desired like we don't
00:51need this a magic happens on behalf of the team on the team Daniel's not shallow but if he was he
01:17might spend less time rolling in the deep I may identify myself as Adele because every breakup I
01:26have even it was two three days I would write a very sad song why would you say you're single because
01:36I'm colorblind and I can't see the red flags I practice so many times how are you where's the
01:48accent from Mexico you look lovely you have the positive energy in you thank you thank you I'm a
02:00hopeless romantic and I would love to be in love again it's just the most amazing feeling and it's
02:08like crying how are you feeling grand as you say would you like a drink yes please what would you
02:16like kind of Guinness finding it is yes give me one second I love Guinness sometimes they found me out
02:22with an Irish guy there will say like oh my god you're more Irish than me because I'm drinking my
02:27pound of Guinness thank you where are you from yourself I'm from leash oh is that the best I've never
02:45heard that before it doesn't matter how they look the connection is very important bring him in bring him
02:55in but if they are ginger oh my god gingers yes bring them on I want my prince charming don't we all
03:03who needs a ginger prince or even a brunette when you could have a charming combination of the two
03:14like Leon some people have a bit of game I've no game if I like somebody I'll just tell them out straight
03:20and I expect the same I have fairly old-school values I'd like to meet somebody kind committed
03:29trustworthy this is torture hello how are you nice to meet you firm handshake that means a good sign
03:39yeah yeah yeah are you confident in your appearance it depends what day you catch me on there's a lot
03:45of work that goes into the hair you look great come back cheers appreciate it yeah a lot of hairspray
03:50lot of straightening time different lotions and potions to get it going hey how are you I'm Leon nice to meet you
03:59how are you good I'm good in yourself can't complain yeah oh good have a seat you're looking nice thank you so do you
04:06oh my god he's very handsome yeah will you have a drink uh sure I'll join this gentleman and have it again
04:15yeah are you living in Ireland now 10 years 10 years yeah yeah what made you move mainly actually
04:22music one of my friends she was living here for a year and told me all about Ireland and I was like
04:29that's the place I want to be for play and you stuck with it with the weather I love it I love it
04:36where I come from is very hot so I don't mind the rain at all it helps with the songs I wrote my own
04:43songs so it gives me that nostalgia that I need you know like it's raining outside and you're like
04:49depressed and you're like oh my god why he doesn't love me some of Adele's earlier work I like it
04:56right course the crack Dylan likes to meet the world head-on if only the world felt the same way
05:14about him people cross the road sometimes when they see me coming they'll actually look up and go up
05:18and straight across the road and I'm like fair enough so I think it's probably more my personality
05:26that would be attractive to people rather than my looks
05:29nice to meet you guys tattoos tattoos tattoos tattoos yeah yeah boy I feel like I'm nearly an
05:44ambassador for people with tattoos how do you feel you're shitting bricks like for sure that's all
05:49part of it as well I suppose if I have an interaction with someone I'll always try and be overly nice
05:54they might go away and be like oh he wasn't what I thought he was and he was really nice
06:00so what's your usual type my usual time I want to hear this I don't think I've ever dated someone
06:06that had like similar interests to me were like heavily tattooed or anything like that no I never
06:09like I'm here now like so obviously hasn't worked out for me like now I'm kind of looking for someone
06:16that actually has similar interests be it like the art tattoos heavy metal someone just hasn't quite
06:23grown out of the goth is a fairy goth mother love may not always be a fairy tale but that's okay
06:33Lynn has her own version of happy ever after I always say you will never be too much for someone
06:40that can't get enough of you I am who I am weird and wonderful I wouldn't believe it by the look of
06:47me but I love knitting and crocheting oh I sound like I'm about 70 look at you lady in green huh ready
06:58for date in a while I have been single nearly three years I'm kind of fed up with it now I want a bit
07:06of company get me the right man exactly I want someone that will like have their own little style or
07:15quirk or something weird you have a seat over here and your date is gonna slide it soon I like
07:24someone that's like kind of extroverted keep as good as I get so are you from from Dublin yeah
07:39where where are you from Clark oh starts singing to me why does everyone say that like it's just
07:45because when there's from currently yeah it's very like melodic we can't sing anyways I can sing
07:51Kenya go ahead I'd like to make a good impression
07:56your lashes are so cute yeah pretty nice what part of Mexico are we from the north of Mexico near to
08:20Monterrey I'm not sure if you I didn't do well in geography in school yeah yeah I love making jokes
08:29and I think if you're funny in English that's when you're going to realize you're you're bilingual now
08:36do you know that back in the day there was the Irish military who fight against the US Army with the
08:45Mexican army no way they call it st. Patrick's battle where it happened is in my state okay so
08:52they do a huge celebration yeah we have big monuments with all the names of the Irish people that die on
09:01the battle and they put the flags of the Irish military and it has like an Irish saying on the flag
09:09like we grew up with that yeah like and I but I didn't know that was Irish serious yeah it's a rarity
09:15I like someone who is bubbly now you need to have a bit of a laugh for somebody yeah yeah it's me again
09:25why are you so says with us just creepy obsessed you know the primary beef yes oh my god this is a
09:37very tricky question oh it's gonna ask for a well done what you can ask for a well done oh stop it yes
09:43how many Mexicans had you dated
09:47fine Irish beef you're looking right at
09:50are you a dessert person not really I'm more to say if you kind of go
10:04I'm saying I've been out like the last I get desserts and I'll just get a ball of chicken wings again
10:09I'm vegetarian you're vegetarian I am we eat meat then be a problem no I've been vegetarian 14 years so
10:18I'm not as precious about it anymore I went to London with me mom my sister and I ordered a breast of
10:25chicken no they sent me out the whole fucking chicken oh yeah I was 11 I'd never seen it like
10:31that before like you see like little hairs on the end of the legs no no but never eat meat again
10:36are you trying actually not eat pork anymore because I worked in a research facility for pigs
10:41I walked in one day and they were like caked and shit and I was like can I wash them and they're like
10:47what I just wash them to get all the stuff off because that they kept getting sick so I was like
10:51guys if we wash them it'll be grand so I got like hot salty water and like they were terrified as soon
10:56you step into the pen they're running away but I caught them I threw them into the hot water and
11:00I started like rubbing the stuff off them but five minutes they were just like oh my god this is
11:05unreal like why are we afraid of this guy he was like oh lads I can't I can't eat something this
11:10cute exactly so I just try and stay away from pork but everything else then is fair game yeah like I
11:16can't eat it like anything at all no like I don't even like peppers on a pizza because I I think my
11:22palate is just like not developed you've got an immature palate yeah I'm immature myself anyway so it's well
11:28so it's what you know anybody act like a 14-year-old how are the nerves grand yeah I'm excited I'm just
11:46hungry what are you in the mood for cornstere martini how long have you been single since I'm 18 I focused
11:56on myself the last two and a half years working away and traveling so what's your normal type looks
12:03wise I've always gone for like tall brunette nice eyes nice smile but someone who works and drives as
12:10well like I can't be the taxi driver in the relationship do the Prosecco on the side you do
12:16it as a shot say I'm ready for love yeah are you trying to do one with me then or am I doing one with you
12:22okay your early 20s is like a time where you kind of settle down past 25 I feel like it's really
12:29difficult past that age cheers here's to a good date okay Sean approaches romance the same way he
12:41approaches sales with focus and unshakable confidence in the product do you think you'd be a good date
12:48yeah I know I would I'd like to give people a chance what's the crack on the story man yeah I have a
12:57flower man yeah that's to be done bro do you see yourself as a bit different yeah 100% like I
13:04wouldn't say I'm special but like I just do my own thing cheers yeah yeah I think so I don't believe
13:14and hate like if you project hate on to other people you just hate yourself and you're just
13:18putting that energy out into the world all right it's a lonely now hi how's it going what's the story
13:25nice to meet you Sean nice to meet you thank you no worries at all how are you not too bad yourself
13:32lovely yeah ah did you get flowers flowers how nice is that keep it if we ain't dead I don't know
13:38they go wherever you want with the outfit too they really do I think so we're kind of so yeah we're
13:43looking a match already I think yeah I think so yeah I always like the really dark scratchy kind of
14:03etching kind of stuff okay I actually say you actually might have more coverage than me dragon
14:08how many tattoos do you have 70 or thereabouts you want some water please thank you I got my first
14:16tattoo when I was 14 and I was only allowed because it was yeah a month after me now in the past I got
14:21something written in her handwriting what's your name my name is Paul Paul nice to meet you I'm Lynn
14:27which is a lovely name thank you easy now let's do a day with me not you okay do you think like
14:34people can be quick to kind of make judgments when you have so many tattoos absolutely your tattoos are
14:41very cool thank you I had a woman sit down beside me on the Lewis and go I don't like your tattoos
14:49like I got that not for everybody but also I'm like the audacity of someone to feel that entitled to
14:56like comment on your appearance when it has absolutely nothing to do with them yeah like
15:00my left leg now is nearly fully covered like with over 50 tattoos my uncle has a full body suit and I
15:08thought his tattoos were class he actually brought me for my first tattoo when I turned 18 this is
15:14my fridge magnet sleeve like so it's just random shit yeah after that it was the case of every three
15:19months I'd get a tattoo sometimes there's only days between tattoos other times there's weeks oh
15:25that's brilliant I'm just impulsive I get an idea I'll just be like oh yeah I'll do that I don't know
15:32if you can work it out there's plenty more fish in the sea and it's me in the fishbowl then going off
15:36fuck because I'm obviously not in the fucking sea I always swore I'd never get a portrait of anybody
15:42but my favourite film is the snapper I got Colin Meany sitting on the sofa suppose the rides out of the
15:52question that's fucking gas
15:56so what do you do like what you work as a sales exec I only actually started there past week so I'm
16:10selling cars now so very nice it's about the kind of person you're hoping to be someone who treats
16:16like a CEO and they're clean are the exact same what you do yourself and I have two jobs I work with
16:23horses on a stud farm horses yeah and uh sorry I get a bit embarrassed telling people my second job
16:30why don't be embarrassed about anything it'd be easier to say like work in a restaurant or something
16:35I'm a taxi driver no yeah you should definitely be embarrassed for that not my business but who cares
16:40you know what I mean boys they don't believe that like I am a taxi woman they do ask for like my
16:46number and they're like oh come out for drinks with us when you're doing your shift a boy asked me
16:51before if I had an OnlyFans so yeah that was a bit weird I have to say like I love it like it's
16:57great I love driving I love talking to people as well I think I could talk all day with people do you
17:03like horses it's funny enough you say that I actually had a horse like when I was a young player it was
17:08like a half donkey half horse type of thing oh like a mule yeah I called a mountain as well yeah I think
17:13someone that's passionate about something like shows a lot to go on a horse like why are you trying
17:18to propel something I know it's just like I have a horse like like if you're not passionate about
17:23something well then there's not gonna be any passion there in the relationship how are we I'm sweet
17:29how are you extra sweet I couldn't be any better I like it how are you guys doing do you work from
17:41home yeah maybe like three days in the office two days at home kind of thing so I look after my
17:46grandmother I actually live out the back of her house so I built my own house at the back of her
17:52house because it's like an old business your own house I didn't build it hey somebody oh my god are
17:58we like in in a movie or something we've great crack together you know she goes to the pub every
18:05Wednesday night and has a couple of drinks so I'll drop her down and collect her and her friends so
18:09they go to one o'clock in the morning we're really close and she's always have my back she's actually a
18:14great read on people so remember dating anybody and I bring them into her she'll know if they're
18:18decent or not that's very nice is family important to you very important yes I'm really close to my
18:26mom if they have a good relationship with their family that shows love my aunties and uncles we
18:32all lived in the same house so I was kind of like one of them and if your family shows you love you
18:39will have also love to give have you got many siblings actually brothers sisters have two sisters and I
18:47used to have a brother who passed away he died when he was 25 in a motorcycle accident it was devastating
18:59because he was so short his time here my brother did a lot of things that he wanted to do so I took
19:09that courage and I said leave abroad you know do more things so it's part of him in me so my my my dad
19:19who would call my dad passed away in April this year I'm sorry to hear that well he's actually my
19:25stepdad I was only maybe one and a half two when they got together they had a great time together yeah
19:32I'm so be to watch you know near yourself and it's pretty tough but life goes on kind of gave me a
19:40new lease on life you know just to live like don't sweat the small stuff man have a good time he would
19:46want to be to find somebody do I even my mom you know what I mean proper love
19:51is Damien more Irish than the Irish themselves maybe not but how French does a French family
20:16have to be who to Ireland but eight years ago just came with my backpack and I love it hello
20:26Matthew oh good afternoon what's your name mr. Damien no I just know the rules you know what brings you
20:35here love are you romantic and not really do people assume you will be because you're French yeah I think so
20:45how has your dating success been so far I was dating like a girl for a couple of months and she was
20:54really addicted to first date and then we kind of woke up in good terms and she told me you should
20:59apply for it that's why I'm here today you open for an Irish girl well open-minded you open-minded okay I
21:05know exactly what I'm looking for do you have a gin and tonic gin and tonic absolutely life is short so
21:11let's just enjoy the moment enjoy thank you Helen is not defined by her age she doesn't act it and she
21:25rarely dates it people think well you know you have your 43 and you have a little girl and you just be
21:31like stay at home that's not me at all nobody my own age comes up to me and it's always lads in
21:38their 20s my last boyfriend was 10 years younger than me he would have been actually in school with my
21:44nephew hi bonjour madame where's the lads my own age I like the outfit yeah ready for dating yeah
21:55oh no but yeah I'd love to meet someone who understands that my child comes first regardless
22:02all right am you hi how are you lovely to meet you how are you I'm Helen how's it going
22:10are you French yeah yeah yeah great how are you from Whitlow a lot closer yeah okay yeah
22:19oh this is lovely I'm outgoing and everything but when it comes to dates or my own kind of love life I'm a bit
22:29like nervous so I hope on the date I'll just relax a little bit you know would you like a drink
22:35I'd love a drink I could have a vodka die cook yeah please no lemon no lemon thank you no no fruit at all
22:42no probably you know what you want yeah I do definitely like one of my worst date experiences
22:57this is like I was actually crossing the Lewis track and I caught the toe of my shoe underneath the lip
23:03of the track yeah face planted the ground but I was in a skirt I flashed my knickers to the whole Lewis
23:11and said date so went out for a work night out got absolutely language and this girl I say was the
23:23first and last time I've ever been cracked on top she cracked on to me like I was like what is going on
23:27here so one thing led to another and I brought her home and went into the the sitting room and lo and
23:36behold they couldn't perform I was like stuffing a marshmallow on a keyhole and I was like there's
23:39nothing happening here girl let's go to bed like so we went upstairs we got into bed then like it was
23:46only like five minutes in the difference we got into bed then I was like look at that so we started
23:51started getting down to or whatever then all of a sudden then there was a lot more emotion in the bed
23:56than I was causing and I was like what is that I was like Dylan we live at home with your parents
24:02you share a room with your little brother and you have fucking bunk beds my little brother was in
24:08the bunk bed above me but he was like you fucking dirty bastard he went downstairs and slept on the
24:15couch when I woke up the next morning I was just kind of like that was a mad dream and I turned
24:21off and I was like oh no I had to wake her up and I was like here you need to go she was like watch
24:26me you need to go I was like if my parents get up and they see you here I'm getting kicked out of
24:29home you need to leave like if someone brought me into fucking bunk beds I'm bringing myself back
24:35I wouldn't know she thought he assumed that he wasn't there like put the command in a bunk bed
24:40you know what I mean than your bunk beds they're great crack way more room for activities in the room
24:45are you getting a starter in a main or a main in the sky a starter in a main you're sweet enough to be
25:00dessert like we don't need dessert you thought about that pick up mine no that was freestyle that was a freestyle
25:06so I love a pretty fella like they have to have to have a little bit of spark to them I think well
25:12I'll be getting a dessert will I give you a moment and I'll come back in like two minutes please yeah
25:17yeah super all right so what made you get the eyebrow slit we're going there already okay I just like
25:27him do you wax it I got them threaded earlier just because like do you know I mean I don't wouldn't
25:31usually but I'm literally Cleopatra if not yeah do you like somebody to take the piss out of you yeah
25:37definitely yeah yeah and then take it as well as they can give it you know right or not it's like
25:42when you look at something and you don't know if you like it or not but then it grows on you but
25:47that's the Irish way it like flaring I think of sarcasm and just ripping the piss out of each other I
25:51can't tell do you have green or blue eyes like hazel I think you've brown shirts yeah nah they're blue
25:58no yours are like brown green I think I think so yeah very nice how will I know that you fancy
26:10your date I think I'm a bit of a wrestling bitch face in terms of like showing how I feel if I can't
26:16take my eyes off for like that's a good indicator I'm back I didn't even I hadn't even took my eyes
26:26off for like I didn't even check the menu did I have you found like Dublin dating scene then it has been
26:37quite a chit show yeah oh yeah I agree with you there absolutely once I was so like oh yeah I don't
26:46think we have a connection because you were talking the whole date you didn't let me say anything and I
26:53was like oh I'm so sorry I don't take it personally everybody is going to something there's no point yeah
26:59kind of learned out the hard way though don't you like what's wrong with me nothing's wrong with you
27:04you're fine oh no I'm perfectly fine I know Irish guys there are very close and they don't say much
27:13but that's not who I am my ex oh my god we're talking about ex already oh my god I was with him
27:21for six years seven years and his best friend could marry with my cousin no yeah good for them and it
27:30worked out for them yeah worked out for six or seven years that's a long time to be in your
27:34relationship as well yeah and well like are you still kind of friends or yeah yeah yeah yeah what
27:40about yourself you know yourself like you like a guy you go on a couple of dates and then sorry I'm
27:46not ready to commit you're like well you could have told me that start so you're more like long-term
27:50relationship kind of pipe ideally yeah I'd like to be a copilot with somebody basically you know
27:58someone to share a life with I was in two kind of long-term relationships when I was in my 20s
28:03mm-hmm and nothing happened or anything it just you know didn't work out a really small group of
28:10friends that I'm really close to so I'm fairly fulfilled in that regard you know but you know
28:16some days something would happen you'd be like it'd be really nice to share this experience with
28:19somebody you know just someone a little bit closer than a friend I'll come back in a few minutes for
28:28you okay brilliant thank you make sure my phone is yeah it's on silent yeah what do you do and I'm a
28:36sales rep so I work just driving driving around to health stores and pharmacies and they're all like
28:41lovely how long have you been in Ireland it's been a couple of years nine years yeah yeah do you like
28:47it yeah I love it yeah I love it what do you do I'm in a recruiter so I help people get jobs to do my
28:54job you really need to be convinced by the location and yes coming back home for me it's kind of an
29:00easy sell because I think it's quite life for me and my kids I have kids one boy one girl you have twins oh
29:08my god twins are great my twins like they're really important obviously that's part of my
29:14life I really want someone long term would be happy to raise kids with me so they're young like six so
29:20oh that's such a nice age I've got a two-year-old I have to yeah she started walking yourself yeah
29:26she was very early she's only 10 months when she was walking I know how lucky I am we were trying for a
29:31child for years and years I had three rounds of IVF and I had her when I was 41 so I'd be very very
29:39protective of her but two is a good edge you know you did like the it's a big milestone it's lovely or
29:45it's like I thought I'd love the baby stage and I was just like oh god this is really hard you know
29:50whereas now when she's a bit older I'm just like oh yeah no this is great now I have to say I miss
29:54kind of music maybe stage really to carry your you know in your hands how's your food lovely boy
30:17yeah yeah struggling to need to know myself talking so much it's a good sign it's a good
30:22sign like yeah you reckon that she would feel the same vibe
30:46I think so yeah it's hard to say but I think so like yeah like we're getting on well a lot of
30:51like a lot of stuff in common that I really wasn't expecting like oh cool like we have things in
30:57common but all of our main characteristics are totally opposite to be honest though I think it's a mutual thing
31:06I never asked you actually what's your dating issue like my dating issue today much no you don't have
31:26no time do you be honest no I like I don't try if that makes sense like I don't wake up in the morning
31:32and be like I'm gonna go out yeah you're so Dublin like everything you say you're Dublin as well you
31:38imagine I know I am but you're like Dublin Dublin I don't know if I'm Dublin Dublin you are because
31:43you're like you're mad thing yeah I'm real into a Dublin accent I don't know why like a strong Dublin
31:48accent like a Romanian blood in me okay I was born here and like rared here both my mom and dad are
31:55Romanian so like see you when you have that car job would you do taxi I think you'll be a great
32:03taxi man sauce talking people yeah I'm not just saying that I think you'd be a really good taxi driver
32:08yeah I'm gonna drop this baby here yeah darling how was your food it was lovely thank you
32:22I was good no yeah I didn't think about well and everything like yeah as it went down I was more
32:38amazed that like the similar kind of interest and everything like get an end head with this like I
32:44I'll get this anyway yeah yeah no no no no sure yeah positive you equalist would you say that you
32:55fancied her yeah definitely yeah do you think she fancied you I don't know like when I offered to pay
33:02for the whole thing she was like no and I was like oh I don't know if that's a good sign you know
33:06I saw wait and see any man find out thank you it's the moment of truth would you like to see each
33:19other again romantically I would anyway yeah no fair enough it's not there for me no it's fair enough
33:27is that any if it's not there it's not there like you can't force it like nah thank you
33:33I'm hungry a handsome looking man I like the way dress I like the tattoos like everything that I
33:41would want on paper but for me it just didn't connect
33:50you still had laughs like even sitting down talking to someone with the same mindset and
33:54everything like that is really nice like saw it was an experience in and of itself
34:03I was like oh my god thank you kindly oh cheers enjoy it I don't normally have a sweet tooth but if
34:27it's put in front of me I'll devour it well I'm very sweet so what instance do you play do you
34:36sing or I played a little bit of guitar piano yeah I know violin I sang for the president of Ireland no
34:45way in a choir that's pretty impressive not good but I like to sing your speaking voice is like deep
34:57nice so I don't know how you're singing voices tenor I've been told yeah I know pretty high which is
35:05surprising it is because I'm a I'm on the base really yeah so in my voice is like very high when
35:12I speak but when I sing it would be good for a harmony or something I love a bit of old skill Disney
35:18absolutely mad for Disney Beauty and the Beast the soundtrack was incredible I like to sing musicals too
35:25yeah no way we went to see um wicked in the west end was so good yeah my friend was crazy it was in the west end in London
35:33um sorry yeah I thought it was part of the name on the music yeah yeah yeah yeah it's like a cheaper
35:40version of it yeah wicked west end yeah yeah it's in the west of Ireland somewhere like yeah yeah
35:45oh great oh nice thank you thank you wow thanks a million so you say you don't really go on date
35:59too much no no why not I don't know it's kind of like I was with my ex for seven years and then I just went
36:06no I don't have kind of enough of it after my last relationship I for a good year was like no I'm done
36:13I don't want you know things to fall apart all over again the easier option is to actually just go
36:20I don't want to be with anyone anymore she was only four months old when we broke up so it's kind of
36:26yeah very old so yeah it was really hard at the start but we figured it out kind of it's only now
36:32in the last in the last year I'm kind of like you know what it is lovely and you see people and the
36:37way they look at each other and you're like god maybe I would like that again why do you think you
36:41broke up so quickly a four months old I don't you know what I think it's easier to just go along with
36:48things because some people stay together oh we have kids now we can't break up and the kids are
36:53growing up in a really unhappy house I don't want my child growing up in a really unhappy house
36:59my parents are together till I was like 17 18 but they were always fighting always fighting they
37:08stayed together for me and my sister so I didn't really get a good vision of what couple is or what
37:15love is there so I think I got it only for my kids it's all about her you know yeah we make it as
37:22easy on her as possible which is great yeah good yeah so many people like they separate and then
37:27they they cannot communicate anymore I know it's he's really really good so it's just it's all very
37:34nice and you know unfortunately it didn't work out but he actually couldn't find a better father
37:39like he's amazing I think it was it was definitely for the better but it was it was a hard time like
37:44yeah so what age were your kids then when you broke up that's really hard when we had the babies it
37:55was so hard to manage twins and for some reason some people they say