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00:00A very best-selling book that around 15-20 years ago,
00:07it really became a global best-seller,
00:10and it is called The Languages of Love.
00:12But this author is obviously not a Muslim,
00:14he's writing, he's a psychologist, a therapist,
00:16he's written from his own experiences
00:17something that is called The Languages of Love.
00:19These are five languages of love.
00:21I have read this book,
00:22and I have summarized and Islamicized,
00:24gone through it,
00:25and I have found Quran and Sunnah.
00:26What he discovered was that
00:28people express and receive love in different ways.
00:34And a lot of times,
00:36one of the spouses is expressing love.
00:39But the other spouse,
00:41the language that they want to receive the love in,
00:44is different than the language the spouse is expressing.
00:47And he gives a simple example.
00:48Imagine if the wife speaks Japanese,
00:51and the husband speaks Swahili.
00:53And the wife is saying,
00:54I love you in Japanese.
00:55And the husband doesn't speak Japanese,
00:57he speaks Swahili.
00:58So she can say a million times,
01:00I love you, I love you, I love you.
01:01And the husband does not understand
01:03that language of love.
01:05And so the husband ends up saying,
01:06my wife never loves me.
01:07Even though she's screaming at the top of her lungs.
01:10But he has not learnt
01:11the language of love in Japanese.
01:14Now we're not talking about human languages,
01:16we're talking about expressions of love.
01:18So he in his therapy,
01:20he said,
01:20these are five languages
01:22that we should all learn to recognize.
01:24Those are four languages of God.
01:39There you go,
01:41and you're saying,
01:42I've been looking for them
01:43at the middle of your life.
01:44I was trying
01:45to identify what you have
01:47that knew what you were doing this.
01:49I've been looking for you,