Love After Lockup Season 1 Episode 6
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00:00Yeah, I've been waiting a really long time for you and it's like not even worth it
00:05What happened she's been caught with possession of heroin possession of methamphetamine and a cellular telephone. What's the worst?
00:12Rocks me 12 years
00:15Wouldn't you want to introduce me to your family before you want to have a baby?
00:20Let's end this what are we doing here?
00:23I love you my thing in the world
00:30Garrett just proposed to me and I still haven't told my dad
00:48So what's going on here something actually really exciting happened and I wanted to share it with you. I
00:54Just really can't wait to plan my wedding, but I'm freaking out about what he's gonna say
01:00What are you thinking of in the future for her? I'm sure I'd like to you know marry her
01:05Words are easy to say neither one of you really know each other that much. I don't see this thing going anywhere
01:14Garrett proposed
01:16Okay
01:19So you don't seem excited whoo
01:21I'm not getting married, but I don't I don't understand what that's all about the guy just got released
01:27And you got a ringing on your finger that just me you're engaged. I hope that's as far as this is going right now
01:34No, obviously we're gonna get married
01:37No, you need to let this guy get some room to breathe and you're not used to that you want to do everything in a hurry
01:42You're just being really frickin negative. What do you mean he proposed to you so I'm supposed to think he's Sir Galahad
01:48How's the matter with you? This is real life?
01:51You want to make sure you're gonna be happy down the road instead of being miserable every day
01:56So it takes some time you living together
01:58Then just live and see what happens see if you're compatible down the road
02:03He might be just telling you yes yes yes because he feels bad that you've been to come and visit him for
02:09five years
02:11I'll guarantee you fight now. Well, yeah, of course you fight now. We're going through an adjustment
02:16My dad wanted us to wait a lot longer
02:18but
02:20How much longer does he want me to wait for my wedding? I'm not saying that he's he only gave you the ring to hold you off
02:26I'm just saying maybe he's not sure did you ever ask did you ever have the conversation?
02:30Are you really sure you want to do this? I kind of thought it was implied when someone asked you to marry them, you know, you know
02:35I will have this conversation
02:38It was just really important for me to have my father walk me down the aisle and now I'm just regretting even listen listen to me
02:45Listen to me. I will do that gladly when the time comes
02:48But I'm not gonna walk down the aisle every a year and a half
02:52She don't like to wait for anything. It's got to be now all her life
02:56It's got to be now every time we have some kind of conversation it comes out to the same stuff
03:01You want to do what you want to do? You're gonna do what you want to do anyway, and I'm done with you
03:07That was a little excessive that I'm done with this conversation. I have to go home and change for work
03:11I don't want to see you get hurt that this is plain English. I
03:15Don't want to see you get hurt
03:18I
03:32My name is Laurel come on. Yeah, okay. I'm getting nervous. Are you when is the wedding? It is in about a month
03:39Oh, wow
03:41Well, we better hurry then
03:43Okay
03:45Lamar has been out of prison for a few weeks and it has been an emotional roller coaster
03:50We start arguing all of a sudden bam
03:52All of a sudden bam
03:54He just turned into an inmate
03:56Get away from me
03:58All your whole life is control freak
04:00I'm so punk everything is about you
04:02That's a red flag you don't want any kind of man that's gonna disrespect you in that kind of way
04:06Lamar is
04:08Lamar is not perfect neither am I but this is a decision that I've made to marry him
04:14Let me breathe
04:16Like
04:17Take a deep breath
04:18I like that one
04:19It is 700 miles from Utah to California
04:22Oh I like that one
04:23This is beautiful
04:24So now I'm worried about trying to be together in two different states
04:28So tell me the groom's name
04:30So his name is Lamar
04:32And how did you meet?
04:33He was in prison for over 15 years and we became Pimp House
04:39Yeah, that's pretty
04:41That one has some really great potential
04:43Yeah, we've been dating for six years
04:45Andrea's story of how she met her future husband was unique
04:49That story kind of caught me off guard a little bit
04:51See, I would want this long sleeve
04:53Like that's my favorite so far
04:55Okay
04:56I love that
04:57You go start turning on and see
04:58Yes
04:59Yes
05:00Yes
05:01Hey
05:02I made an appointment with this bridal shop because they catered to Mormons
05:06And they're able to adjust dresses so that I could be modest
05:14Are you guys ready?
05:26We love this dress
05:27I like it
05:28I like it
05:29You like it?
05:30So you're going to have a bit of sleeves right?
05:31Yes, I'm going to have sleeves
05:33Let's try a bell
05:35Oh, yes
05:40Yes
05:41Yeah
05:42I felt weird to watch her mom try on dresses and a wedding store today
05:47Because now I know my mom's going to get married like really soon
05:52Yes, I love it
05:53I love this
05:54Your phone's ringing
05:56Hi
05:57Hi
05:58Hi
05:59Hey, I'm Skyping
06:00Look, how you never did
06:01Yeah, it's my house in prison
06:02I see a little cute
06:03What they call that on your head?
06:04The bell
06:05Can you see my dress?
06:06You can't see it, it's bad luck
06:07I just see your pretty face
06:08Aw
06:09Are you excited?
06:10Yes, I am, baby
06:11Man, I got something to tell you, can you get us some private time?
06:13Uh, okay
06:14What happened?
06:15I can't come out and see the kids, because of my perosis, you know what you mean?
06:34What do you mean?
06:35You mean this week?
06:36I made it for a couple of months
06:38I'm saying they want me to come out here so I can see the kids
06:42I can't unless you have me to go to jail
06:45I'm not going to go to jail
06:46I don't want you to go to jail
06:47I don't want you to go to jail
06:48Why would I want you to go to jail?
06:49They're trying to get me, you know, trying to set me up for a parole violation, man
06:53Are you sure you want to come see me?
06:56And you're just not trying to get me to come out there?
06:58Of course I'm not, you know, I would never lie to you
07:02I have always in the back of my head suspected that he is lying
07:07that his parole officer did approve him to come to Utah
07:11And I've always had that thought a little creep up on me
07:15that maybe he just doesn't want to come to Utah
07:20I want you to come out here this weekend
07:25I mean, it's a lot
07:27You just hit me with a lot
07:29But you know I'm at the road
07:31And these people are, you know, they're playing hardball
07:34You have to come to California
07:35There's no other choice
07:36Unless you can wait
07:38I wasn't trying to disappoint so dang it
07:41Well you did
07:42I'm trying on wedding dresses
07:43And all of a sudden I get this news
07:45I don't know what else to do
07:47All right, love you too
07:51I have waited for six long years for Lamar to get out of prison
08:01And I feel like I'm still waiting, waiting, waiting for us to be a family
08:06You guys go put on your clothes
08:09But the dress is beautiful
08:11I'm gonna get the dress, but you go put on your clothes
08:14And I don't know how much longer I can take it
08:44You haven't been answering your phone
08:52I'm talking to you
08:57Lizzie got caught with drugs
08:59And a cell phone
09:02What's the worst?
09:04Scott in the beginning
09:05I guess you can call him a trick
09:07Um, that she has to do approximately 12 years
09:11So you're out here doing yard work?
09:13Better than drinking
09:15Yeah, because that cost money
09:16Maybe you should send her some more money
09:18Really?
09:19Maybe you didn't send her enough money
09:21And that's the reason why she got caught with that
09:22That's really...
09:24That's really funny right about now
09:27You're right
09:28I...
09:30I probably gave her the money to get it
09:32You probably did
09:34Well, I know I did
09:35Maybe you should try having some kind of a relationship
09:38Without your financials being involved
09:41She seemed okay to me
09:42I mean...
09:45I love her
09:46This is crazy
09:48This is crazy
09:49Come on, we need to have a talk
09:51I'm upset
09:53I'm disappointed
09:55But deep down I feel responsible for this charge
09:58Cause in prison
10:00A lot of times stuff is traded
10:02So I mean my money could have bought something else
10:05Which were traded for the drugs
10:07Well, the situation happened
10:09So you might as well go ahead and get on the phone
10:11You know you're gonna go call our lawyer
10:13You're right
10:14I've called one already
10:15And you know what it is?
10:19$14,000
10:20Well...
10:22You know what they say
10:24You get a public defender
10:26You can get any time
10:27You can get any time
10:28Well, they also say
10:29If you do the crime
10:30You have to do the time
10:31Well...
10:32Up until now
10:34I've been questioning this relationship
10:37And I don't want to lose our friendship over it
10:40Because all I want to do is help and I care
10:42It's not too late for you to just go ahead and just take a few steps back
10:49Slow things down a bit
10:52And try to figure things out
10:54So that you know for yourself
10:56But you can't bail out on somebody for over a problem
11:00That's not bailing out
11:01It's called being smart
11:02No, it's called being loyal
11:04That's ridiculous
11:06I mean...
11:07You don't know her?
11:09I would feel bad like if something happened to her
11:11She's a mess
11:13But everything's fixable
11:15I'm not going to sit around and watch you just hang yourself
11:18Charlene is basically telling me this is your chance to get away and run
11:25But you know...
11:27Liz is the first person I've ever really been attached to
11:30Probably 20 years
11:31That's the rough part
11:32I told Liz I would be here no matter what
11:35And I guess this is no matter what
11:37Why did you ask me to marry you?
11:53Are you ready?
11:55Mila, come meet your dad
11:57Mila ain't gonna get out there before?
11:59I will give you $20
12:02Think about a relapse, what that can do to you
12:04I think you're being kind of a
12:06Hello?
12:08Mila?
12:09So, are you ready?
12:19I don't know
12:20I've never tried on a wedding dress and I feel like I'm gonna look horrible
12:23You'll look beautiful, I'm excited
12:25Trying on a wedding dress should be like the happiest moment of my life
12:29But Dominic just dropped a bombshell on me
12:32So what does this mean then in terms of when we can actually get married with all your restrictions?
12:37At least probably a year
12:40I've been waiting six years for this and right now I don't even know if we're gonna get married
12:45Come on Vanessa
12:46Brittany, nice to meet you
12:47Nice to meet you
12:48Hi, nice to meet you
12:49I made this appointment months ago so I want to try and stay positive today
12:52Well, we're gonna try on one of each style
12:54Just to see what silhouette you're liking and we're gonna have fun from there
12:58Okay
13:00My dream wedding would be, you know, a really high-end, beautiful venue in Toronto
13:07Hundreds of guests and just, you know, a crazy, wild time
13:12I'm nervous
13:14Oh my god
13:16What?
13:17I've never seen myself like this
13:19No, it's beautiful
13:20It's actually really, really pretty
13:23It is really pretty, I like it
13:25What do you call this shape?
13:27So this would be a trumpet
13:28So it just has that nice, like, fluid look
13:30I love that
13:31Okay, ready for the next one?
13:33Yeah, let's try another one
13:34Great first start for sure
13:37I'm coming out
13:38So dress number two
13:40Okay
13:41Totally different than the first one
13:43Yeah, it's pretty too though
13:44Oh my god, I'm gonna freak out
13:46Yeah, that is big
13:48Okay
13:49Okay
13:50I am so cute
13:51It's, now that the veil's on actually, it makes me feel like this is real
13:55Yeah
13:56Like, this is not, we're not joking around
13:58I never would have imagined that I would get sappy over a long white dress but looking in the mirror with this wedding dress and the veil on
14:07I just wanna almost buy the wedding dress and go get married right away
14:11Does he know you're trying dresses on today?
14:14Um, no, I didn't tell him that
14:16No?
14:17We actually got into a fight not too long ago and he actually doesn't wanna get married for like another year
14:26And what do you want?
14:28I was assuming he'd come out and we would just get married right away
14:31I don't think I can wait a year
14:33What if the year comes and he's still not ready?
14:35Like
14:36I know, it's kind of making me feel like I'm an idiot
14:38Like, waiting for someone who doesn't even care about me
14:41Yeah, you guys need to have another serious talk about that
14:45Mhmm, definitely
14:47Like, what if I find the dress of my dreams today and then I buy it and he doesn't even wanna get married
14:52It's like a lot to deal with, like I was excited for him to come home and then now that he's acting this way, it's kind of a let down
15:02Yeah, like you did, you waited so long
15:05I know, I was like so excited to plan our wedding and do everything while he's been gone
15:09And now to hear that, it's like, what was all that for?
15:12Like, why did we look at venues? Why did I, you know, I was picking out songs and things that I liked and it's like, why did I even do that?
15:19He put that ring on your finger and it doesn't just end there, he needs to follow through
15:24There's a lot of things to think about
15:26I know I have a lot of expectations, like I wanted him to go back to the way he used to be
15:31But I know it's probably really overwhelming
15:34With all Dom's parole restrictions, it really limits what we can do together
15:39He's not comfortable in groups and loud noises and a lot of people
15:44Whatever he needs from me, I will be there for him to make sure that he can get back on his feet again
15:51He's still the love of my life
15:53This afternoon, I'm going by my buddy Chris's house
16:04What up, brother?
16:05Hey! What up, brother?
16:06Enjoying it? Good
16:07I have some beers and I just have some guy time and some time away from Allah
16:12So how? How's Allah doing?
16:15Good! Hanging in?
16:16Good, yeah
16:17You know, it's an adjustment
16:19Yeah
16:21You know, we got into a little tiff
16:22I think we got into like our first fight
16:24And it was pretty heated
16:26You literally just went to take a pregnancy test
16:27I know I did
16:28You can't tell me what the results are?
16:29It says it's negative
16:31Okay
16:32No, it's not okay
16:33Then let's end this
16:34What the f*** are we doing here then?
16:35What's the point?
16:37I set her up with that appointment at the modeling agency
16:40And, um, she didn't even make it
16:43Because she wasn't feeling too hot
16:46For her first gig out, don't you think she should be on time?
16:49Yeah, I mean, obviously she should be, yeah
16:51But I'm not going to fault her for it, you know
16:53She got used to being back in the real world, you know
16:56You know, we thought maybe she was pregnant
16:58What'd she say?
16:59The reason she's acting funny is because she might be knocked up?
17:03That's a little bit of a red flag, don't you think?
17:05I'm going to call it a red flag
17:07I mean, fresh out with her history
17:10I'm just wondering if, like, your main concern was
17:13My girl is an ex-junkie
17:16Could something be going on that caused this?
17:18What are you insinuating?
17:19I'm insinuating maybe picking up a bag and knocking out
17:25I mean, didn't you say she was getting sick?
17:27That didn't even come into my head at all
17:29You didn't think about that at all?
17:31I've never known anybody or experienced addiction up close before
17:36I know some of the tell-tale signs are things like
17:39Falling asleep in the middle of tasks
17:42Mood changes
17:44Allah is a vibrant, bright soul
17:47And I believe that if she was using again that light would dull
17:51And I would know right away
17:53I think you're being kind of a
17:56No, I'm not being a
17:57I'm being realistic
18:01I'm looking out for you
18:02I've been your boy for years
18:03How long have you known this chick?
18:04Well, I'll tell you what
18:05I'm going to go and I'm going to pick up Allah
18:06And you can either be in this and support us in it
18:08Jimmy, you know what?
18:09I'll tell you what's on my mind
18:10Give me a break, dude
18:11Otherwise
18:12I'm not changing my mind or anything
18:13I just think you should know how I'm feeling
18:17She's fresh out
18:18Think about a relapse
18:19What that could do to you?
18:21Chris wants me to think about the possibility that
18:23You know, Allah has relapsed
18:25You know, I don't want to think that that's
18:28A possibility
18:29But I can't
18:32Be ignorant to what's possible either
18:34You cannot give James any advice
18:39Nobody can
18:41If I was like James, slow down
18:43Or are you sure about this?
18:45You know what he'd say?
18:46He'd be like
18:47I'm only going faster
18:50There has to be a zero tolerance policy
18:53As far as drugs and substance abuse
18:55If she uses
18:56I will cut her out of my life
18:58So, you know, maybe
19:00Maybe it's time just to
19:01Have a talk with her
19:02Just figure out what's going on
19:04Hey, babe, it's me
19:05Just calling to check in
19:06Give me a call
19:07When you get this
19:08Bye
19:10I could have predicted this
19:11Do I think she's using?
19:13You ask my opinion?
19:16Absolutely
19:20Why did you ask me to marry you?
19:22I just kind of felt like
19:23Maybe you got the ring to shut me up
19:25Because you knew I wanted one
19:26You didn't gain him
19:27Nyla, what are you going to ask him next?
19:29Was he a drug dealer?
19:30Were you a drug dealer?
19:32Hello?
19:33Hello?
19:34Hello?
19:35Hello?
19:36Hello?
19:37Hello?
19:38James?
19:39I put on a front that I'm this happy party girl, but really I'm just like super sad inside
19:59Dominic sleeps at the halfway house
20:04We really don't have a lot of time to hang out
20:06And any time I mention any wedding plans, he totally shuts down
20:11That's why I did not tell him I was wedding dress shopping
20:14What are you doing here?
20:15I brought you some flowers
20:16I know we've been fighting a lot and it's been stressful and I just wanted to come and apologize
20:29We still have a lot of things to talk about and discuss because we don't seem to be on the same page about a lot of things
20:44Like I know you just got out and you're not used to being out but you used to be really outgoing and we used to have a lot of fun together and now you seem super serious and things are different
20:57I met Dominic working at a bar and I kind of like looked up when he walked in the room and I was like, hey, this guy is, you know, pretty cute and it was literally love at first sight
21:18Jail change is how you do everything. Everything's planned out for you. Like where I can go what I can do
21:30And now everything's different. I don't have all that said anymore. So now I have to do it myself
21:35Plus Valence coming here or spending time with you and doing things
21:39And you don't understand all the that you have to deal with coming through because
21:45You've never gone through any of that
21:47If you don't tell me then I don't know how I'm supposed to help you or
21:51I just want to be able to get our life back together well mine and
21:55Get back to work and start building everything back up and getting everything back to normal
22:01Before I jump in all this other stuff
22:08But I
22:10still love you and
22:12And
22:13I still want to get married and everything and nothing's changed. I just
22:18My priorities aren't to get out of jail and throw a huge wedding
22:21It's just too much right now
22:23That's all that really matters. I
22:25Just thought you didn't even want to get married at all and
22:28No, I just didn't want a huge wedding to deal with right now
22:31Before prison I used to
22:35Go out party have a good time
22:38After being in prison everything's different. You have to analyze things. Maybe I guess a little bit more
22:46Where does that leave us?
22:47Well, we can just do a small wedding if you want
22:54I just want to get married and show her that I love her and that I want to spend my life with her
22:59Looking into Dom's eyes I see a guy who's made a lot of mistakes but
23:04He is the guy I fell in love with and he is my true love
23:08Come here
23:10I'm just happy as long as I get to be with Dom and he wants to be with me that's all I need
23:14That's all I need
23:37Can I have some blue bear please?
23:40Can I have some blue bear please?
23:41Can I have some blue bear please?
23:42Can I have some blue bear please?
23:44Okay, come on. Let me bless the food.
23:46Our kind and gracious Heavenly Father, we thank you for blessing us to have each other as a family
23:51Bless this food to nourish and strengthen our bodies in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
23:56Amen.
23:58This weekend Lamar was supposed to come to Utah, meet my kids and spend family time together
24:03And that is not going to happen.
24:05So y'all know Lamar was supposed to come here this weekend
24:09And he can't.
24:10His probation parole officer didn't approve him to come
24:16The kids have never met Lamar
24:18But I think that they should start building a bond with him now before the wedding
24:24He really wants to meet y'all and spend time with you guys
24:27And we're just gonna pack up and go to California for the weekend
24:31Like now? Like tomorrow?
24:33We're leaving at 3 a.m.
24:35So we're gonna pack up for one hour
24:38You guys get to sleep for five hours
24:40And then I'm gonna get y'all up and put you in the car
24:42You want to meet him, don't you?
24:44Yeah, but what if we wait till next month then?
24:46Mm-hmm
24:47That wouldn't be right
24:49He's been in prison for over 15 years
24:51And you have to meet your stepdad
24:53Do you?
24:54Yes, you do
24:56I'm not too hyped about Lamar
24:58It's not like I hate him or anything
24:59Because I don't quite know him yet
25:01But he was in prison for a long time
25:02So it's gonna be awkward
25:04Do you want to go to California and go to the beach and see Papa this weekend?
25:08Yes, yes, yes
25:10Papa, Papa, Papa, Papa, go to the beach
25:13Priscilla is not Lamar's biological daughter
25:17However, they talk on the phone a lot
25:19He writes her letters, he draws her art
25:22And even though she hasn't met Lamar yet, she calls him Papa and Dad
25:26Papa, Papa, Papa, Papa, go to the beach
25:30Unlike my other two kids, she doesn't know any other father
25:34Are you guys excited?
25:36I don't necessarily want to go all the way to L.A. just to see Lamar
25:39What do you mean just two? Like he's not a human being
25:43But I just can't force myself to be excited
25:45So you're not excited to see him?
25:47I'm not excited to travel to L.A. just to see him
25:50I'm sorry, but we're doing it
25:53Priscilla's gonna have a dad
25:55You guys are gonna have a dad if you accept him
25:57And our family's gonna be complete
25:59The older y'all get, the harder it is to be a single model
26:03So I'm glad that I have some help and support
26:05So how is that support when we have to travel out there?
26:07Well, we're going out there to see him so we can be together as a family
26:11Just meeting him, it's like meeting like an acquaintance
26:14It's not like meeting
26:16An acquaintance?
26:17Yeah, like we don't know him that well
26:19It's not like we're gonna start calling him dad as soon as we get there
26:22I'm not asking for that
26:24Yeah, but like exactly, so our family is just gonna be complete off the bat
26:26Yeah, cause you're saying our family's gonna be complete like as soon as we get there
26:31And we have to like, you know, more get to know him
26:35How do you get to know a person?
26:37Spend time with them, right?
26:39Okay, so we're going out there to spend time with him
26:42But that doesn't immediately make him more dad
26:43As soon as we get married, he's your stepdad
26:46He can help too
26:47But you're not getting married over the weekend is what we're saying
26:49We're not just gonna have an instant family as soon as we get there
26:52Okay, but you spend time with a person
26:54That's how you get to know each other
26:56And he is a good person
26:57What we are doing is we gonna clean up this mess and then pack everything up
27:03Let's put it in the car
27:04That way when I wake y'all up, we go to the car and we drive off
27:07So let's go
27:09Is that too heavy for my baby?
27:11I'm putting on the bad cop act for my kids
27:14Mommy
27:15You ready to get your swimsuit?
27:17But the truth is, I'm scared too
27:20I don't know how things are gonna go in LA
27:23Or if I'm putting too much pressure on my kids
27:27I don't know about having someone else in our life after just being
27:31After just being at the floor of us for a while
27:34And just out of nowhere adding a fit
27:36We don't even really know
27:37Super nerve-wracking though
27:39Because I haven't had a dad in a very long time
27:44Put your bankers in the car
27:45Yeah, I heard you first time, Mom
27:47I feel like she's rushing for us to go to LA
27:51And she didn't really think about it
27:52But she wants to see him so badly
27:54That she just decided we're gonna go
27:56Bring church clothes, bring your pre-church clothes
27:59All these thoughts start running through my head
28:02Are we gonna move? Do we have to relocate?
28:04You need some shoes? Where's your shoes?
28:06And I'm supposed to be getting married
28:08But now I have to rearrange and uproot my kids
28:11And path to go to California for the weekend
28:14It's stressing me out and I already see it creating tension and tearing my family apart
28:29Are you guys really getting married?
28:30Of course we're getting married
28:31Of course we're getting married
28:33It's the gang number
28:36Hello?
28:37Hello?
28:38Hello?
28:39How are you in there?
28:40I feel good
28:42I'm excited to test cake
28:44There's definitely a part of me that is worried that Garrett and I aren't on the same page about getting married
28:50So what we are known for at Soiree are our little minis
28:55They're individually baked and decorated and we have 12 flavors
28:59I don't even know where to start
29:01We have red velvet, funfetti, coconut, carrot cake
29:05Depending on how many minis you want to have your guests have
29:09You limit your selection to that number
29:11How big is your wedding? Are you starting to like 150?
29:13Okay, so we can easily do that
29:15Yeah, but look, if we can limit to like 100 people and we get five flavors
29:18You know what I'm saying?
29:19We're not cutting 50 people out of the wedding so you could have a different flavor cupcake
29:22We can come here and get those for you
29:23I thought getting her the ring would calm her down
29:26But now it's wedding planning
29:28We went from one thing to the next
29:31But listen, okay, even if we have one to one
29:33Then we get it
29:44I'm on my way to confront Garrett at work because I need answers now
29:49The more I think about it, my dad's probably right about why Garrett proposed
29:54I know that I was kind of hassling him about it
29:57Maybe the proposal was a way for him to sneak back into my good graces
30:02I just want to know if we're on the same page
30:05If he really wants to marry me
30:07If he feels the same way about me he did while he was in prison
30:09Hi, babe
30:13And I need to know now
30:15What's up, baby?
30:16Can I talk to you?
30:18I'm super frustrated
30:19You know, Jonna got her big ring
30:21She had her big proposal
30:23Got like five minutes, baby
30:24Okay
30:26And she's not off my back
30:27She's just on to something new
30:29She just showed up at my job
30:31I don't know, I'm probably in trouble
30:34All right, what's going on, babe?
30:36Can't wait out of work
30:37You know, I was talking to my dad about everything
30:44And he was getting a little skeptical
30:47Saying things were rushing into things
30:48Moving too fast
30:50You know, you haven't even been home that long
30:52And he just thinks I need to give you time to breathe
30:54And not just rush you right into marriage
30:57And I don't know
30:59I've just been wondering, like
31:01Why did you ask me to marry you?
31:02I want to marry you
31:11I mean, there's many reasons I don't marry you
31:12I love you very much
31:13You're an amazing woman
31:15Been there for me through everything, you know
31:16A lot of people seem to think that
31:19You know, you're not really ready
31:20That
31:23I'm kind of pressuring you
31:28But, like, are you ready?
31:32Yeah, why wouldn't I be?
31:33John's dad has a way always butting into our lives
31:36And, you know, always giving an opinion
31:38Or, you know, commenting on what we have going on
31:41She's definitely a daddy's girl
31:42And cares way too much about his opinion
31:45I just kind of felt like
31:47Maybe you got the ring to shut me up
31:48Because you knew I wanted one
31:51I got the ring because I love you very much
31:53And I do want to marry you
31:54And I want to make you happy
31:56How do you feel about your dad?
31:57What about you?
31:59I want to marry you, but I
32:02Want my dad's support
32:05Is that more important than marrying me?
32:07No
32:08I mean, I don't care about
32:10You know, the big wedding for me
32:11It's just about me and me being, you know, with you
32:14If you got your ring, I mean, we could do
32:16How do we want to do?
32:17A lope, I mean
32:19A lope?
32:21I just feel like I waited so long for you to come home
32:23That I feel like we deserve more than just running off with nobody there
32:28You just want to, like, put on a show
32:30Yeah, that's what women want
32:32I'm not okay with marrying Garrett without my family and friends
32:36But I guess I've done a lot of things that I never thought I'd be okay with when it comes to our relationship
32:43I just have to think about it
32:46I told you what I think
32:49I'm terrified that my dad's going to be really upset if I marry Garrett
33:02How do y'all feel about being in L.A.?
33:06Because of Lamar's parole, he can't leave L.A. and come to Utah
33:10So, we're driving to California
33:13You see the palm trees, those tall trees?
33:15I'm excited because my family is finally going to be together and be whole for the first time
33:23Really ugly out here, to be honest
33:25It's not ugly out here, Tennyson
33:26Okay, well
33:27It's just not the Utah suburb
33:29Yeah, I guess I gotta get used to just stuff everywhere
33:31But it looks so ugly out
33:33Trust me, this is a nicer area of California
33:37Let's show Lamar how well-behaved y'all can be, okay?
33:42Tennyson, don't be cynical
33:44Nyla, don't be facetious and sarcastic
33:46I won't because I'm not going to talk to him
33:49I'm nervous for the kids to meet Lamar because this is the man I love and he's going to be their stepdad
33:57I want this day to go well
33:58We're staying here for like the whole weekend
34:01Don't be rude to him
34:07I'm very nervous to meet Lamar for the first time because I've never met him before and I've only talked to him like once
34:13I'm not sure how it's going to go or how I'm going to talk to him really
34:20I don't know where I'm going, I feel like I'm going in circles
34:23Nyla, can you call Lamar please?
34:26I don't want to talk to him
34:27Nyla, call him
34:28I don't want his number on my phone, mama
34:30Tennyson, y'all, I'm lost
34:32Do y'all want to get there or not?
34:33Tell Tennyson to call him
34:35Tennyson, please, call Lamar for your phone
34:38Hello?
34:40Hey babe, we're lost, we don't know where we're going
34:44We are on Laurel Lane
34:47What's up, how you going to Laurel Canyon?
34:49Just keep going straight up Laurel Canyon
34:50I'm going to be standing outside waiting on you
34:53Babe, like for real, I'm lost out here
34:55I've been driving all day to get here
34:58I want to go to me
35:00I want to go to me
35:01I want to go to me
35:02I want to go to me
35:03I want to go to me
35:04I want to go to me
35:05Because you didn't get approved to come to Utah
35:07I'm standing here waiting on you
35:08All right, love you, see you soon
35:09Oh, I love you
35:20There he is, Priscilla, there's your podcast
35:23Yes
35:28I'm looking forward to seeing the kids for the first time
35:31Like any man, you know what I'm saying
35:33It's nervous, it's also nervous
35:35Because I don't know if they're going to accept me or not
35:38We've made it, finally
35:40Hey little musky, you the one I talk to on the phone all the time
35:44What's up Tennyson?
35:45I'm fairly nervous about my mom's safety around Lamar
35:49I mean, he was in prison for a very long time
35:53So, I, of course, have to worry about what's going on
35:57You Nyla?
35:59Oh, you don't want to say hi?
36:01Nyla, huh? Don't do that
36:02Don't do that
36:04Hi, babe
36:06Oh, my gosh
36:08I miss you
36:10I gotta talk to her, she acting funny
36:12Priscilla, come meet your dad
36:15Hi, Papa
36:17Nyla, come
36:19Please don't do that to me
36:21Don't
36:22I will give you $20
36:24I'm not kidding
36:25I'll give you $40
36:26You gonna bribe me to talk to Lamar?
36:28That's funny
36:29I'll give you $40
36:30Just leave her in there, she wanna act like that
36:33That's where she can sleep
36:35Of course, I'm not allowed to accept me as a stepfather
36:38Somebody that she can come to
36:40When she has a problem, you know
36:42Just be comfortable with me and her world
36:46But hopefully, she start warming up
36:48This is nice, this is a nice little room
36:50Where's Dulo?
36:52Where's Demetri?
36:53Brother Dulo, you know
36:55He was nice enough, kind enough to
36:57Allow me to have a room
36:58And that's all I need
36:59Is just somewhere to stay
37:00Lay my head for now
37:01Until we can get on our feet
37:02Ain't no better place
37:03Than when my brother Dulo
37:05After bribe Nyla
37:07And buy her a swimsuit in order to go
37:09I don't know what I'm gonna do with her
37:12Tennyson, go talk to her
37:14I was reading
37:15And they say kids do this sometimes
37:18You know, when there's change
37:20Or a new person in their life
37:21You know, Mom really wants you to come down, man
37:25I don't wanna be around Mom when she's always talking about Lamar and this and that, so
37:30You don't really have to talk, you just gotta be there for a minute and go on your own room for a minute
37:36I'm not talking to you, Mom
37:38Well, there isn't a problem with that, you just gotta be there
37:41Myla
37:47What, Myla?
37:49Can you sit down? Because you're making everybody uncomfortable
37:52Okay
37:53I'm happy to see you
37:54And it meets you for the first time
37:56Nice to meet you too
37:58I don't know, dude
38:00What is this, Mission Hate Lamar?
38:02Yeah
38:04Be considerate, okay?
38:06What do you even go to prison for?
38:09A robbery
38:10I'm getting some robberies
38:12Are you a gang member?
38:14Nyla, don't do that
38:16It's a thing, it's a few things I ain't proud of at all, but you know, I haven't passed over
38:19What are you gonna ask him next?
38:21Is he, was he a drug dealer?
38:23I mean, was he like
38:24Were you a drug dealer?
38:26I don't know if I'm supposed to answer these questions
38:29My mom really wants to force this thing with Lamar
38:33And just make an instant family
38:35It's not like I hate him or anything, because I don't quite know him yet
38:38I am on parole
38:40When you get out of prison, you're basically still in prison
38:44Because you have an officer that watches you now
38:48When Lamar comes home, I am concerned because he's not Mormon
38:54And I don't want that to influence my kids
38:59Are you guys really getting married?
39:04Yeah, of course
39:07Not for fake, for real, of course we're getting married
39:10Let's get ready and go to the beach
39:12I wanna go to the beach, I wanna go to the beach
39:15Let me talk to Lamar real quick
39:17My kids are very upset, but the kids and Lamar are kinda working things out slowly
39:32I feel like Lamar and I need to get married ASAP, mainly so we can be a family
39:37A horla, Hella
39:41olo, Hella
39:45It's love
39:46Hella
39:47Hella
39:48Hella, sweetheart, you in there?
39:52Don't talk
39:53Hey, babe, it's me again.
40:08After talking with Chris, it made me think that, you know, in a relationship, you should
40:11never be afraid of confrontation.
40:14Give me a buzz when you get this.
40:16Bye.
40:17There's something contentious in the relationship.
40:20You can't let it fester.
40:21You gotta address it.
40:23I'm so sorry.
40:29It's time to sit down and ask Alice some of the tough questions.
40:34Have you thought about using again?
40:36Have you used again?
40:39Addicts lie.
40:40You know, they're very good at it, but I hope she would be completely honest with me.
40:45That's what I would expect from her.
40:53Hello?
40:56Hello?
41:01Hello?
41:05Alice?
41:06James?
41:08Alice, sweetheart.
41:09You in there?
41:10Oh, my.
41:11Open.
41:11I don't feel good.
41:16No.
41:17No.
41:19James?
41:19Shh.
41:22What's wrong?
41:25I don't feel good.
41:29Alice is, um, on the ground.
41:32Oh, you're freaking me out.
41:36What's wrong?
41:41I don't know what to think.
41:44Like, bam, the whole situation just changes.
41:46Like, what the f*** is going on?
41:48I'm freaked out.
41:49And then I realized it's a relapse.
41:53Do you want me to go on her, please?
41:57It was pretty scary to see the woman that you love in pain in front of you.
42:02And you're helpless.
42:03There's nothing that you can do about it.
42:05Good counts.