KERRA met her partner G (short for 'Gangster') on a three-way FaceTime call. Her first impression of him wasn't positive, "He wasn't my type", she explained. "I was nervous [and] scared a little bit, honestly, because I'm not used to all those tattoos on his face. But his voice is very, very sweet. We had an instant connection." However, Kerra's new love went to prison shortly after they met, and they had to continue their relationship with restrictions. This isn't Kerra's first partnership behind bars, her husband (who she is separated from) is also locked up. Her family have disapproved of her choices in men, "Kerra has definitely been with some interesting people throughout her dating history, that's about as nicely as I can put it", her sister Sam commented. "The first time I saw him I was like hell no. I'm worried she's going to get hurt. I'm just praying that it's not a game to him." In this episode of Love Don't Judge Kerra will reveal a big secret that she has been keeping from her family, her fiance G, who they vehemently dislike is already married...
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00:00This is Kira. She fell in love with G, who is locked up.
00:06This is just a collection of what I've bought him while he's been in the jail system.
00:11But this isn't Kira's first prison relationship.
00:15People judge me because I have a husband and a fiancé in prison.
00:19Many of those around Kira disapprove of her choice of partners, which she doesn't agree with.
00:25F*** off.
00:26At first I did everything in my power to break it off.
00:31I'm worried she's going to get hurt. The first time I seen him I was like, oh hell no.
00:36Kira has been hiding a big secret about G from her family.
00:40So there's something I've been wanting to tell you and I hope you don't get mad.
00:46I get anxious anticipating his call. He's definitely my favorite person to speak to every day.
00:52I speak to G every day, like six, seven times a day.
00:54My name is Kira. This is my partner, G, and he is in prison.
00:59He got six years, five of them, which he already served in the county jail.
01:03G will be released on September 4th of 2025.
01:06So I met G through a mutual friend.
01:09I was nervous. I was scared a little bit, honestly, because I'm not used to all those tattoos on his face.
01:14But his voice is very, very sweet.
01:16So me and G started off talking on FaceTime around 2023, and we just had an instant connection.
01:24G has spent thousands of dollars on my jewelry.
01:27My most special gift that he got me was this chain.
01:29I love it when G spoils me, but I also spoil him too.
01:32This is just a collection of what I've bought him while he's been in the jail system.
01:37I've gotten him teeth, which is diamond cut, a money bag, and I just ordered G a new chain.
01:45He's calling.
01:46I miss all y'all so much, baby.
01:48I know.
01:49What are you most looking forward to?
01:51Coming home to you and the girls, just being free again.
01:55I'm just waking up with your breath in my face.
01:59With my breath in your face.
02:00Me too.
02:03Me too.
02:04G is very romantic when he wants to be.
02:06I bailed him out for $20,000 cash, so he wanted to show his reciprocation of love for me.
02:15Oh my gosh.
02:16I miss you so bad.
02:18I wouldn't choose anybody else in the world to go through with Ben Kira.
02:22I miss her every day.
02:23I look at her pictures all the time.
02:25So the proposal was kind of ghetto, I'm not going to lie.
02:28In November when he was in the county jail, he was flexing, making me laugh and stuff.
02:32And then after I had stopped recording, he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.
02:39I said yes.
02:40I thought it was cute.
02:41I felt excited but nervous because I was already married at the time, you know.
02:46So I seen how one marriage happened and I get scared.
02:51I have a husband who is doing 25 to life in prison and we are separated and no longer involved.
02:55I met G through my husband's ex-girlfriend.
02:59Me and my husband are in the process of a divorce.
03:02Alright baby girl, I'll talk to you later.
03:03I love you so much.
03:04I love you more.
03:05Give me a kiss.
03:07People tend to judge me and G's relationship based off his tattoos and our situation.
03:13I come with two little girls that are not biologically his.
03:17Today I'm finally going to break the news to my mom and sister that G is also married.
03:21Kiera has definitely been with some interesting people throughout her dating history.
03:27Yeah, that's about as nicely as I can put it.
03:30I'm worried she's going to get hurt.
03:32I'm just praying that it's not a game to him.
03:34What was your first impression of G?
03:37The first time I seen him I was like, oh hell no.
03:42Tattoos all over his body, face.
03:44Just me mugging.
03:45But on the other hand, when I watch him interact with you, it's different.
03:50So, and at the end of the day, like I said, he's not for me, he's for you.
03:53He wasn't my type at first either.
03:55But mine and his, like, connection level was completely different.
04:00Like, we clicked.
04:01How do you feel as far as, like, me going from one situation to the other and them both having to do time?
04:08If it was me personally, I would rather see you with somebody who is able to be with you every day.
04:13Not have you sitting here by yourself, lonely.
04:16I know, sometimes I wish that too, I'm not going to lie.
04:18I know G will be home soon, you know, so I don't really trip about that anymore.
04:22As long as he stays home.
04:24I think he will.
04:25I think this time in jail has really showed him this is not what he wants to do.
04:29As far as, like, being away from the girls and stuff, so.
04:34That is one thing I'll give him too.
04:36He don't ever treat your girls no different.
04:38Like, in that aspect, I am glad that he's a part of my niece's life.
04:41Because, ultimately, their father isn't going to be able to be here for quite a while.
04:47So you really think, like, once you and your husband get the divorce, like, you and G are going to get married?
04:53I think not right away.
04:55Like, it's not, you know, no girls that's going to pop up or no, like, hitting stuff.
05:00I don't.
05:00This actually leads to, like, what I wanted to talk to you about as to why I called you over.
05:08Can you sit up?
05:09Just tell me what it is.
05:11So, um, G's married.
05:15I thought you were going to say a girlfriend, not a wife.
05:20Yeah, he's definitely married.
05:22I found out G was married when we were arguing, actually.
05:25One day, I just seen his phone ringing, and it said a wifey.
05:29And I asked him, are you married, like, for real?
05:32And he was like, yeah.
05:32I'm like, what?
05:33Why didn't I know?
05:34But I didn't care, because I'm married.
05:37I'm going to cry.
05:37I hope, like, she's not with him.
05:40Oh, no, no, no.
05:40She's in a whole relationship, and I'm in a relationship with him.
05:45He's definitely married, though.
05:46He'll be all right.
05:47I mean, if that's how it is, oh, I'm going to cry.
05:52Please don't.
05:53I don't want to see you hurt again.
05:55No, I, trust me, I don't allow certain things to hurt.
05:58You're invincible, baby girl.
06:00Thanks.
06:01Should we call mom?
06:04My mom was not happy.
06:06She did not like him.
06:07You couldn't make her budge for nothing at all.
06:10Oh, you look so beautiful.
06:11Hello, mom.
06:13How do you feel about me and G's relationship?
06:17At first, I did everything in my power to break it off.
06:23It wasn't good at first.
06:25Do you think he's a bad influence on me?
06:27No.
06:29Okay.
06:30Yes, yes.
06:31In the beginning, I'm not going to lie,
06:33but when you talk to him, when I see him around you,
06:37I see that you're very happy.
06:40So there's something I've been wanting to tell you.
06:42So can you sit down so you don't fall over?
06:45Sure.
06:46I hope you don't get mad,
06:47but how would you feel if I told you that G was married?
06:52It's none of my business what you guys do.
06:58As long as it's a good outcome,
07:02that's all that matters.
07:04Sorry I've kept the secret from you for a little bit.
07:07Love you.
07:08Love you too.
07:10If you guys are both willing to work through it
07:12and get there,
07:14I think you guys will make it.
07:17I appreciate you proof.
07:18I'm always going to have my little worry about you.
07:22You approve of this message.
07:24I approve of this message.
07:26I feel like everybody in your life
07:28isn't going to like or love your significant other,
07:31but again, it's not for them to like.
07:34It's about what makes you happy.
07:36What would you say to people who judge your relationship?
07:39Can I swear?
07:41off.
07:42It's not your relationship to love or like.
07:45He gets me, my mood swings,
07:46I get him, his mood swings.
07:48He's really my best friend.
07:49He's nuts.
07:50I'm nuts.
07:51We understand each other.