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00:00Hey, my love, thank you for support, okay
00:13You are gonna get to watch never-before-seen footage. Oh, yeah, that's what we love
00:25I have no problem
00:27Oh
00:31At that moment it was like really scary for me I really thought that fight was gonna be like
00:38the fight that ends everything I
00:43Was scared because it's okay. They're not the same as my family. They're they're a nightmare and it comes a nightmare for me
00:50I was gone. Some men deal with things differently
00:57I
01:04Am a person who practices ethical non-monogamy I am married what yes, do you know is
01:11Very analytical person from giving him like a strong
01:15Evidence that it had worked for Reba our sex therapist, you know
01:20He is gonna feel comforted about it and he's gonna be more open to explore it
01:27I
01:30Would speak to Julia like I'm afraid that if I get into serious relationship with her and get married
01:36She will take my business and my money. I didn't say anything like that
01:39That's nothing like I said talk about being in the frying pan
01:42We were in the heat of it and if I'm honestly speaking, it felt like they were never going to align
01:48Welcome back, baby. Are you ready? No
02:01Pretty much
02:05Nice and comfy. Yeah
02:07Alright ladies, this is the morning after Stacy's big fight with Darcy and Darcy and Rob are working out in the gym
02:14Let's do this
02:18Tighten that tush Oh whose butt is that?
02:21Darcy
02:23My ass hurts, yes seats are not comfortable. Oh my Nana hurts. I just had a vagina rejuvenation
02:30What is vagina evolution nation? I have no idea. This is vagina in evolution nation. So she said
02:38And why is he telling Rob what was your name again Rob, okay, so why weren't you at the dinner last night?
02:44I needed a minute yesterday. It was it was a rough day for me. I actually felt bad that Rob missed the dinner
02:49I actually bought him food to like let him know he's not alone and I still care about him
02:53And I don't know if you remember but you ended up coming in to his room with me
03:00And then then you just like laid on the bed
03:03While me and Rob was having a serious conversation
03:05And I remember we're talking about I remember we're talking about this like hey everything. Okay. I remember the crop
03:12We not doesn't like you we just hate you
03:17So I remember we just spoken but he's always like so upset he trying to play this
03:22Offended boy. So I mean we like trying to show support and fun time. What did I miss you missed a lot?
03:30Stacy was
03:31Really going at it. She said what do you want my husband? I
03:35Said what I said, I said kidding me. Are you crazy?
03:39Absolutely, not never in a million years. I'm allowed to have valid feelings and
03:43Voice my concerns because I have a voice and it will be heard. Yeah, I love Darcy, but she needs to understand
03:51He's your man. Yeah, and you do not share your man, right? There's no
03:56Sister twins. Amen. Amen. Thank you. What's up guys?
04:01How are you guys mind if I join get our spin on? Yeah. All right
04:06Sorry about last night, you know the drama was Stacy and I oh, no, that's fine. So trust me
04:12I've been doing a lot more than that. So it's okay
04:16What do you think she wants from you?
04:17She wants more of me and like she wants to be in my house. She wants to be with my kids
04:24It's always looking for a space
04:29She's unpredictable and I can't bring that into my home
04:33She is okay
04:36Wow, okay
04:48He looked like that moment he was hoping the bike had actual wheels you can't cycle away
04:58Natalie has a radar. She has an airtag on him because it's always he's like, you know, I needed this time away
05:04I've been so stressed not only the and then
05:08three minutes later
05:12Unexpectedly
05:16And you know how big that resort is is
05:20Huge literally the first day when I arrived with you know, we got lost
05:24That's how big the resort is and she always finds him no matter what it is
05:30Oh
05:35Turn the knob
05:37So I run around an hour and I didn't know Josh gonna be there
05:42So when I went out of my exercise, I saw Josh sitting
05:48On a bike and I was just standing looking I was not wanting to approach by the Josh face
05:55How he looked at me as if he's not happy to see me and he was talking about me and I was right
06:00Your intuition was kicking in. I think if he would care he would support me. He would say good stuff about me
06:06He goes and spread around some nasty stuff. I'm gonna let you guys enjoy your work
06:11I'm out of here
06:13He always says
06:25Is going on right now
06:29Well, that was the only gym in the whole area and like I had planned to be there for like an hour and a half
06:36and so
06:38They were blocking the entrance to the gym so I couldn't go back up. So I was like sitting on the stairs
06:43I was just overwhelmed. I was like, can I just get a moment? I want to go work out
06:47But I was stuck there for a good 30 minutes. Yeah, I was sitting there
06:53I was like, I wonder if they're just gonna be done with this and then they just kept talking. So
06:57Didn't get my workout in
07:06All right
07:07The next clip we're gonna watch is Ari and Vinny's therapy with James and Sarah and it includes some never-before-seen footage. Oh
07:15But now this is someone unseen to me and roll the clip, please
07:20At this point it feels like
07:22Still pretty uncomfortable to be around Vinny and then like I don't want to sit here and be like you did this you did that
07:28But like that was a big reason why I wanted to come here because I wanted
07:31Him to be held accountable for the things that he's done that are not okay
07:38So if I'm hearing this right she just came here to like be like you're a mother I just want everybody else to know that
07:44Yes
07:46Exactly what she just said
07:48She only came here to basically villainize him. Mm-hmm
07:52Seems like he's the only one who has done maybe worse than anyone else here and he gets to just skate off
07:59Look at him smiling
08:01Wipe that smirk off your face Vinny
08:05He sits a joke for him, I'm curious real quick you're bringing up an important
08:11Topic or something that's following you and you're laughing. So what's going to your brains for me? It is not true
08:18I remember that I could see we all process in different ways and sometimes it could be, you know an uncomfortable laughter
08:25Sometimes it could be a nervous laughter for Vinny in those moments
08:29It was that he was checked out, you know this moment of I've heard this put a fork in it. I'm done. I'm checked out
08:37Emotionally, what else can I do? What else can I say? It's almost like this is a joke
08:42What are you guys thinking with all this? Let's just hear from you now.
08:46I think it's better for us maybe not to be together
08:50This is hard to watch
08:52like for me just
08:54Okay for me already just I'm done like an emotionally
08:57I'm saying just what was like especially like romance connection already just for a long time with stuff
09:03It's always sad when a relationship ends, but at some point, you know, you have to realize that it's over
09:08I didn't have any romantic feelings for Vinny for a long time because it's hard to feel romantically about someone who is
09:15Just act so awfully and I felt like he had wanted to end it, but he wouldn't say those words
09:21So it's kind of a relief for him to say it. It's still frustrating. You know, the whole experience was frustrating
09:27I'm hearing that this will not be moving forward in a romantic marriage relationship
09:33Yes, yeah
09:35That's how I feel
09:37It brought back like a lot of memories for me because I'd been there
09:41I've been through divorce with small children at the time. I feel like that's their blessing. God bless them
09:48You know to be married so they can have Avi and God blessed me with two amazing sons from my first marriage
09:54Although it ended in divorce
09:57You know, I wouldn't have changed it for the world because I have two amazing sons
10:01What are you doing?
10:04He loves to see us together. Yeah
10:11I
10:14My baby I
10:16Want to tell you no matter what we're always a family and you can always count on us to love you and be there for you
10:23Yes, we are family
10:26It's very hard for watching this clip
10:29I
10:34Wish you hold my hand like she's
10:37Maybe she wants shows for Avi like, you know, no still we are friends still we still work together
10:42You know, I don't have wish like a different thing likes like for saves this marriage
10:47But and the same time do I have a son?
10:49That's why just we need to be like friends and then we need to be involved both of them like for our son
10:55Maybe that's a step one like building for friendship strong
11:00Abby we live in okay
11:04Yeah, hi guys how to get yeah to get okay
11:11Bye
11:14At the end of the day, I didn't get the vibe that he was
11:18100%
11:19Really wanting to work on their relationship and that's why he was so happy and he was messaging me
11:24But he was messaging you. Well, yeah a few days after when you left retreat
11:29I got a message from him or like he ordered me to his friends and he put likes on my pictures and after he start
11:34Okay, something like this
11:35So it was definitely some other reasons and he was like checking the ground like maybe I'm single and I'm like, I don't know
11:43Welcome to my world
11:45I
11:50Have this some
11:53Weird connection with nature
11:56I'm gonna show you how actually I hug the tree when I was younger
12:00Okay, there are no trees, but you definitely have
12:03Something great here like this
12:07This is my tree I'm gonna hug it hey
12:16No, thank you for support
12:23Okay
12:27Good so I still exit
12:30Alright guys, this next clip is actually Stacy waking up the next morning after her fight with Darcy
12:44Florian looks hungover doesn't say she's don't look too good either. Oh
12:49Good my head ain't something to drink
12:54Medicine
13:00It's hilarious to be honest like you're waking up all in the dress, you know, you're all calm, you know, like
13:06Usually I sleep but naked. Oh, yeah, cuz I get but I get hot flashes. That's why
13:13Sexy just give me food. Just give me food. I need food. I need like hangover food. Like I've been I want empanadas
13:19Can you can you can you give me some pinatas?
13:23I
13:24Want a pinata so bad. I woke up craving like, you know, when you're hungover you want like greasy food
13:30I saw some really good empanadas and that was at the retreat. It's a little cafe and I was like, oh my god
13:35I was craving those so bad
13:37Hmm. I'm just like salivating think about them
13:39Oh
13:51When I hungover I'm all what I want is ramen and soda
13:55Isn't it like dry noodles? It's dry, but you put water hot water there and mixing in its best
14:02Yeah, I mean in England. I'd have a full English breakfast when I'm hungover. That's
14:07expensive
14:09It's like beans toast, but it's so good in America
14:16Probably
14:28Get a shower go get the show cool off
14:32I gotta take a dump
14:36You make a little mess in your bed like dirty a dump in a shower dump dump dump there in a shower
14:44God what you gonna do?
14:48That does not seem like Stacy to me I know that everybody like
14:53Everybody does it I'm gonna go take a dump a dump. I'd rather you say I'm gonna go take
14:58A
15:0317 year old boy like trucker
15:11Okay, we are now gonna watch Jasmine's therapy with Reba hmm Oh
15:18Have you been intimate at all during your stay here? No, he wouldn't I cannot see myself
15:29You know sexless marriage I
15:32Understand where Jasmine's coming from because she is screaming
15:37From like the tip of the earth of like somebody, please
15:43me
15:44and
15:46And you know, I loved you know to death
15:49He's my boy, but like I gotta say he's probably at fault for how this relationship is going. I
15:57Am a person who practices ethical non-monogamy and I am married what?
16:03Yes, my husband and I have been married for nine years. You look so calm so happy
16:10Do you know is
16:11Very analytical person. He's an engineer and that's the way he thinks so I was like, okay if I'm giving him like a strong
16:18Evidence that it had worked for someone and what better person that Reba our sex therapist, you know
16:25He is gonna feel comforted about it. So we give me hopes I fell at the moment so freaking hopeful
16:33Gina's gonna die
16:40The way that our like agreement started is not the way that it is now, right
16:45We've gone through many iterations of what it looks like for us to be ethically non-monogamous. I
16:52Had a lot of anxiety about sharing this with Jasmine especially because I'm putting myself out there
16:58But I think it was necessary
17:00and so ultimately
17:02me kind of coming out in this way was my attempt at
17:07Representing ethical non-monogamy and polyamory in a positive way
17:11It was not my intent for Jasmine and Gino to pursue polyamory
17:16What I wanted was for them to have these conversations about okay
17:20Well, if you won't have sex with her, you don't want to be alone. You guys don't want to end this
17:26What is the other option and that's how we begin to explore non-monogamy to begin with
17:31It's not all like sunshine and rainbows, right? It takes a lot of
17:37Conversations it takes really good conflict resolution skills
17:41And it does take a lot of self-awareness it could be Gino and me
17:47It could be I think Reba was being a bad influence
17:51That's terrible advice to tell Jasmine because Jasmine is not you and Gino is not your man
18:02There's people out there I mean I had to be I eventually was gonna know one of them, you know
18:07Yeah, it's a lot of those people out there that are doing that nowadays a sex therapist sure makes some of anybody I guess
18:15Makes sense. Yeah. Oh, yeah, it's not gonna be the librarian likely. Oh, don't you'd be surprised. Oh, hell yeah librarians
18:23You know
18:26Sure, yeah, yeah the preachers does uh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah the quiet ones
18:32I'm not gonna tell you to blow up your life or your marriage for
18:36Ethical non-monogamy to have a open marriage
18:39This is a conversation that you and Gino need to have before you guys decide to recommit
18:45what I was trying to convey to Jasmine is
18:48Polyamory ethical non-monogamy it works
18:51When there's a strong solid foundation of trust and communication and I think she didn't hear that part
18:59I think that completely went over her head and she was like, oh you're doing it so I can do it. Let's do it now and
19:05I think Jasmine was hearing
19:08Only what she wanted to hear and I think that's really dangerous for her and you know
19:19Never before scenes
19:28Oh boy, I
19:32Don't know if you want to
19:34so
19:35Why don't you just let Natalie know where you are? What's been going through your mind?
19:40My time here with you
19:43hasn't been great for me and I feel like I'm continuing to try to build a relationship and
19:50I'm constantly getting cut down. I'm constantly getting called names. It's just a constant battle for me
19:58You flip me off you spit at my feet. You've been calling me trash at my feet
20:05And I'm losing hope and faith that this can work
20:13Listen to me like how you started like oh you did this to me and it to me and did that to me and it
20:19didn't look once again, you know like
20:20That's how he's going to blame again
20:23And you you're going to blame in her you like back and forth back and forth
20:27You're going to figure out nothing basically, you might have bottled it up and that's not tell her what's bothering me
20:32See like a menu lately basically been fighting so much
20:37Like short and cute and you want me to be a little softer. Are you are you see you're the king of soft?
20:45Eastern European man strong feelings sharp with the tongue
20:53I
20:55Think we need to answer the question right now in this moment with all of the hurt all of the pain
21:01Where are you right now? What just did we came together happy?
21:10After he will speak to Julia like
21:12Natalie I used to have feelings for her but she is a person who takes from each man
21:18She's in the relationship something and I'm afraid that if I get into serious relationship with her and get married
21:25She will take my business and my money. I didn't say anything like that
21:28That's nothing like I said, and I know
21:31Exactly. I know exactly what I said. I'm not sure we're gonna even focus on tools
21:36We're all talking over one another and I'm gonna give you guys space
21:40So I think at this point, let's just take a break and we'll reconvene. I'd like to meet with each of you individually. I
21:47remember this
21:48Think that'd be bad. I think that's gonna be the most productive
21:51I can't anymore for me personally if I'm keeping it real in my brain. I was like, this is a show
21:57I mean, it was a lot talk about being in the frying pan
22:00We were in the heat of it
22:03What makes couples therapy difficult is when you're not aligned when you're both not on the same page
22:09So I think needing to back up and decide what are our goals here?
22:13You know, how are we moving forward together? And I think that was the piece for them that we really needed to solidify
22:19I mean if I'm honestly speaking, it felt like they were never going to align
22:24It's making it difficult for us to move forward
22:27Okay, guys, I'll talk to you soon, thank you James
22:41Oh my god
22:43I
22:52Want to see you figure out
22:55That is nice that is good game
22:58Do you have baby pictures? What you think? I'm bored like this. I don't know. I mean, this is gonna be easy for everybody
23:04but the white guys
23:07Looks so similar
23:12Maybe Julia, I think number two is Julia. Yeah
23:15Which one do you think is then? I think that's Sophie. Mine's so obvious because of the hair. Thank no one. Oh your eyes
23:22That's the number one is you. Yeah, you're right. Yeah, number one is me. That's cute little boy
23:28Look me and Rob look the same
23:30Look how cute our babies would be
23:33Okay, okay number six is Natalie I think number six Natalie look at you could see by her eyes
23:40She's like piercing through the screen already
23:42Which one is Jasmine?
23:45Wait, who's her big boobs?
23:49Benny is number eight and it's so easy because Benny doesn't like to button his shirts and look at him
23:57Yeah
23:59Benny always being like, you know, yeah center of attention
24:03Who's number five? I don't know who that is. I'm sorry
24:07That's Ari yeah
24:10Yeah
24:12Eleven is is you yeah
24:16Josh is nine. That is so Josh. That is the most Josh baby. I've ever seen in my life
24:22The who is that with the like seven
24:25Yes
24:28That says that she no
24:30Gino just put a bowl on his head and cut like this. This has bowl cut since he was a kid. He was wearing a hat
24:40Number three is a photo from the 1930s. It's look like a Florian shaped head
24:51They didn't have color photos in Albania
24:56Oh
24:57You lucky I get picture
24:59Wait, so where's Jasmine? What is Jasmine?
25:04I set my room on fire when I was 10 years old and my photo album was there and I destroyed all my pictures
25:11Oh, no. Yeah
25:13Who's number four with the cowboy hat?
25:20Hey girl, I have never seen before
25:22I
25:41Know you look like a little girl
25:45Mom want girls so bad
25:52Blonde blonde curly hair when he young my gosh, I thought that was a girl
25:58She won so bad. Oh my god
26:01Well, Brandon could have been a beautiful girl. Yeah
26:14Oh, no
26:16No, not that
26:18Last night was crazy. I mean, I appreciate you coming. I know we all need to work on our relationship
26:24I'm obviously here to work on my marriage. I want it to work out. That's why you're here because I feel like
26:30in a
26:31Weird way you're part of the issue, too
26:33I think it happens, you know the relationship so I can't be the one blamed thing. I never part of the issue
26:41We're not here to argue and fight. We need a squash right now. There's a lot of issues. This is exactly what we need to fix
26:48It's the same person
26:50It's the same person working working themselves into it, right?
26:53Have you ever seen like a movie where like the characters talking to themself and like?
26:58The angle still switches, but it's the same person talking and that's just what that reminds me of
27:03I wanted to come in here calm and cool and collected and that's what we're trying to do
27:07So let's just take a moment. Let's breathe. What happens we're fired up
27:10We just have a moment actually we did I did learn a lot of breathing exercises since I've been here
27:15So I've had therapy in the past. So I know exactly what let's just take a minute like 30 seconds. I
27:25Want to get back to our
27:28Our powerful twinness, you know, the relationship that floor and I have is totally
27:33Different than what you guys meet up. It's always to talk me
27:37so
27:42Let me talk sometimes because you don't let me talk
27:46This trip is about you and Florian, but I am here to do not take that away from me
27:51You will not push me away
27:52I think Darcy's wrong to show up to Stacy's couples therapy talking about this is about you and your husband doing therapy
27:59But I'm here now. Yeah, which is defeating the whole you're here to focus on you and your man
28:04Mm-hmm, and it actually reaffirms the fact that she is a distraction because why are you here?
28:10I guess I feel like they couldn't get to the root of the problem
28:12If they didn't bring her in there and talk to her to
28:42Stacy was I've never seen it like that. I have never seen
28:46Either I I was completely shocked how Stacy and Darcy were talking to each other and what they were saying to each other
28:53I've always seen them so kind to each other and
28:56laughing and being funny and
28:59I've never seen them going at their throats like that. That was so crazy. Yeah, that was a bit wild man
29:12At that moment it was like really scary for me and for her too because I feel like we didn't know
29:19Where to go from there now, we run a business together. We're twins. We're family we
29:24do everything together and I really thought that fight was gonna be like
29:30The fight that ends everything
29:32Bye
29:33Bye
29:36Wow
29:42Like Stacy or Darcy
29:44Yeah, I need things to like
29:46I know you have to do this you have to do this and then you have to be overly nice to like
29:51Oh, you know, I know Natalie just threw a softball at my eye and she broke my eye socket
29:58But she's really going through a rough time right now. Eyes on the prize. Got it in the bag
30:04That's Darcy, right? Yes
30:07Next up we are gonna watch Brandon and Julia's family therapy and it includes some never-before-seen footage. Oh
30:15Hi Betty, hi Ron mom and dad
30:18Hello
30:20Real parents look alike. Why do they look like they look like my parents? Yes like each other. No way look alike. Uh-huh
30:29Guess just tell me what what's it like with mom and dad in your life
30:33What's it like with mom and dad in your world
30:38Brandon always say how horrible I am how we have like arguments in the home and them only listen his side
30:45But they never listen my side. I'm never gonna have support like that
30:50because brand number one
30:54Ron trying to support me but Betty cut off every time when he trying to support me because when I call say hey
31:00Brandon spend time more with computer not with me Ron. I'm easily get aggressive facility. Let me talk with him
31:07What the hell he have wife but Betty shut this down and immediately walk away and tell him like shush shush shush
31:12everything stop so I
31:16Want my parents here, I won't have my support side and I think I have a great news today. I
31:23Apply documents for my parents without telling anybody
31:29I have a day for
31:32Interview for my parents to come here for visit
31:36What Wow?
31:37Enjoy you didn't share this with him guys. It's not about you. It's about your son. What about me?
31:43You didn't include me in this. I'd shine. This is it. This is another lie. It's another lie
31:48This is if she cheated on me, you know that what what are you talking in Russia?
31:54Yeah, I mean that is your son that is your son you always blame me for every single team
32:05She didn't tell you about her whole thing with her parents and she did cheat on you. So why is this? Oh my god
32:12I hate watching the double standard
32:16You having an issue with her lying and cheating and you getting up and walking away is this is your son
32:22He's always blaming me for stuff
32:25Do you think there's a reason that Julie never wants to talk about these things when it's like it's like a one-on-one or or
32:30Just you guys in the third. Yeah, like always other people around when she brings these this was a good particular topic
32:35Oh, my guess is I'm less likely to freak out on her
32:41Because she's not hey, I lied to you. Oh, okay, like I'm not supposed to be angry
32:46So that's my guess
32:48Did you ever even go back in to finish that session with your parents and Julie nope too angry I had to walk away
32:55Brandon can I talk to you for a sec?
32:58I'm
32:59Scared because it's okay. They're not the same as my family
33:03They're they're a nightmare and it becomes a nightmare for me because she gets mad because she plays the middleman in all their
33:09Like drama and and then she gets so pissed off and then she takes it out on me
33:15I don't want to deal with that. I get it
33:18I don't want to be
33:20The punching bag for her when she takes her frustration out on
33:29Some men deal with things differently, you know, I love him
33:43My god
33:44This is why we come here to this therapy and I say open I
33:49Open open for me. He just shut down every single time, but you don't hurt our son you die to him, please
33:56Shut up
33:58Please don't give up on this
34:02This problems between husband and wife should remain between husband and wife
34:07You know, some people can make that distinction and be like I'm gonna be neutral
34:12Yes, but that's not the case of Brandon's parents they are this is our baby you're hurting our baby
34:19Why are you doing you cause this bitch because no bitch is good enough for Brandon
34:26It's perfect. How you dare? I'm like, oh my god, you're lucky because Julie's so nice
34:32I would like you
34:35Okay, you created this you raise this it's your fault
34:42Respectfully I would say though
34:46Are these okay that's I'll take these isn't going to take me two seconds here
34:51first I fold it over I make with the squares and then
34:56Puts the middle of this in the middle of my mom
35:01So that I don't sweat on my shirt
35:04And that's what we call a man pond
35:07All right, ladies
35:09We're now gonna watch Ari and Benny leaving the retreat and it includes some never-before-seen footage
35:15Including Benny packing to leave. I never saw that. I mean, I'm sorry
35:37I
35:45Want hug
35:49To me this shows no no matter the outcome there's still growth in this moment. This was for the best
35:56I
36:07Felt like Ari put in the work and she was there to fight for this marriage and for her family almost to the
36:14detriment of herself
36:16So Ari taking herself out of this unhealthy loop
36:19She was doing herself a big favor actually not just for herself for her family as a whole for her son
36:26So I think we're seeing a good step forward for all of them
36:37For me, I'm alright, I'm happy for my decision, but I miss everybody
36:49Thank you
36:51Because she doesn't let it go now she have to let it go nice no more affection I
36:59Got when I saw that bar, okay
37:02His reaction was very careless
37:06Thinking about like, okay. I'll be sure I came to this world to be happy. I'm gonna be happy. Okay affection
37:15Yeah, you know, I don't have to do this anymore
37:17I'm also not sure he knows what the word affection means
37:20But it's a language thing or he's just a bitch or it's both suppose. I
37:25Feel so bad because I was supporting him
37:28And now I can clearly see where were you coming from and why you were so frustrated
37:34You wanted to bond with him
37:35You wanted to reconnect to him and he was focused on all the wrong things and I wanted to say I'm sorry
37:41No, that's okay. I mean, I don't take it personally. I know that the time will tell that's I will show
37:50You big time
37:58Me and Ari we finished the therapy
38:02Now we gonna divorce like that's we we would we gone it's done
38:08Like so it's done just yeah, you're going home. Yeah, it's better as I was just
38:14Every time if I think
38:17Thank you so much. I love you guys. Please contact me. I
38:20Love you guys, you know like the mic doesn't
38:23He just did a moonwalk. He seems really sad
38:27Okay
38:30Be super
38:33I wish you and Ari and your son the best. Yeah, bye guys
38:39I
38:42Wasn't there this is the first time watching it but
38:45It seems kind of disrespectful. I mean, he's just like hey guys, I'm leaving we're getting a divorce now
38:50I'm gonna moonwalk now
38:51I'm gonna do this little weird hat thing like, you know
38:53It just seemed like he could care less that he's about to get divorced and that is the mother of his kid
38:59like there was no
39:03Emotion there was just like he got his pastas. He's happy like bye guys
39:18For the years I fighting for my son is happiness
39:22But if you have the worst marriage, it is not good for my son to like me and her with a split. I
39:29Think it's the best thing for my son. I try my best for
39:35try fix it, but I
39:38Think now what I understand. I think it is better for
39:42Me. I mean, I want to be like happy
39:46That's why this is I decided
39:50It's painful
39:54Yes that
39:57I
39:58Do believe that when you marry someone you commit to them and even when it's hard
40:03You're not supposed to give up and I feel like I've failed
40:07And I have to forgive myself. I
40:12Do deserve happiness and that's only gonna come from inside myself
40:21And I'd say like I never had an image of like me and Vinny I'm growing old together
40:25And I always assumed that he would cheat on me
40:28Not because if anything I did wrong just because I saw that as a pattern for him in his past relationships
40:34And I don't I believe that unless you actively try to change something
40:38You're gonna just keep doing the same thing over and over again
40:40So in a way I did get my closure
40:42But it just wasn't the way that I wanted it to be I wanted to just be like yes
40:46I did these things these things are bad and I'm sorry and I would have been like, oh great
40:49But at the end of the day, you can't force anyone to give you the things that you need
40:53The main important thing now is obviously my son and my hope for the future was that
40:58Vinny and would now focus entirely on being the best father to Abhi and that's
41:05That's what I'm doing every day
41:09Next time on between the sheets
41:17What was going on in the backseat of the van it might look like a cross but it was kind of spell sink
41:23Oh
41:25She just found out you could be cheating on her and you're getting angry
41:28She has a right to be upset
41:30Maybe standing up for Stacy how I would have liked someone to stand up for me when Rob would talk to me like that
41:40I promise you Jesus Lord. I'm going to make her to walk out with it. Oh, oh trust me. Oh
41:48Little Sophie
41:51Just wash them so she doesn't think it tastes like well, she likes it dirty. I
41:58Love sucking his toes the dirtiest the better because they are the tastier when the toes are dirty
42:04They taste like chips. There was two hot blonde chicks
42:07Okay, that Darcy saw you leave the club with one of them saw Georgie tonight. You know what she told Georgie
42:13Tell Florian thank you for taking me home that night
42:17He's got a lot of numbers on his phone that I don't know who they are
42:20I even think he puts like guys numbers, but it's like really a girl's number
42:24Like I feel like he's learning the tricks of the trade stays
42:28days
42:29So all that work we did at the retreat at that point flushed it down the toilet