Umabot daw sa puntong halos sumuko na si Bianca Umali dahil sa bigat ng kanyang pinagdaanan.
Pero sa gitna ng mga hamon sa buhay, ang kanyang BF na si Ruru Madrid ang kanyang naging katuwang at kaagapay.
Ang kanilang relationship goals, alamin sa video.
Pero sa gitna ng mga hamon sa buhay, ang kanyang BF na si Ruru Madrid ang kanyang naging katuwang at kaagapay.
Ang kanilang relationship goals, alamin sa video.
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00:00In the past two years especially, I have gone through so much and not everyone knows that, not everyone sees that.
00:16How do I put this? It was especially last year, it was the year that I would describe that it was all about mental and spiritual growth.
00:29I had to realize and accept a lot of things about myself, about the world and I was hurt so many times.
00:39There were a lot of struggles that were hard to put into detail. Nobody knew but Ruru and maybe three of them and Ruru is one of them.
00:55Family members, it wasn't easy but as the year ended last year, I mean going through all of that I always thought,
01:10I don't want this anymore, I don't want this anymore. I don't want my state to be like this, I don't want my feelings to be like this.
01:21I just want to move on and forget all of my feelings, all of my experiences, all of the sadness, anger, doubt, all of the questions.
01:32I don't want to be like this anymore, I'm tired. And moving forward when the new year came, that was my expectation.
01:41That it would be a relief that my struggles are over. But actually Kuya, what happened was, it was a revelation to me that my feeling, I became thankful.
01:56And it was the first time that I was actually thankful for my struggles in life. I was grateful that I let myself fail in so many situations and accept a lot of my shadows and actually be happy about it that I did that.
02:16I was thankful that I chose to be strong and I was guided and trusted God that there's a reason for all of this.
02:24I know that there's a change, something is being taught to me. He is preparing me for something bigger.
02:31There's something bigger that He will give me and if I don't go through all of this, I won't be worthy of what He will give me.
02:39And after the new year, my mindset was changed. I knew that He was with me. I knew I was closer to Him and I knew that this year is going to be great.
02:51This is your year.
02:54You know, I'm not exaggerating. When I sit there with Jose Ezequiel, I can't make him cry if you don't talk to him. He always cries.
03:10The depth is different. He can just mention your name and you know, I became very curious.
03:18And now, I understand the dynamics of the two of you. How you protect each other is unimaginable.
03:28I love that, the way you described us. We do protect each other through anything and everything.
03:36Even though we know that we are not always perfect, no one is perfect for each other.
03:45But we work hard to be perfect for each other and we protect each other.
03:50We always hold each other's hand regardless of how good or bad we are going through.
03:59And that is our strength. That is our dynamics. It is clear to the two of us, Ruru, what are the strengths and weaknesses of each other.
04:08We know where the other will go and when not. When he can do it alone or when he needs help.
04:18You are right. We do protect each other and we always choose to do that every day even if it's hard.
04:25You know, he told me something that really struck me. Even in my personal life, I applied.
04:31Ruru taught me a lot here. She said, we fight with Bianca but we also see that we don't fight each other.
04:42We fight the situation and we were never angry at each other.
04:48We have an understanding, Ruru, that yes, we are different people but we choose to be one.
04:58Our problems with each other are not against each other. The problem of one is the problem of both.
05:07And whatever the problem is, we will help each other even if we are the ones who fight.
05:13And that's how we handle it because we always choose to also always humble down for each other.
05:20We choose to again understand and adjust ourselves for the relationship.
05:26None of us will favor just because I am like this or he is like that.
05:31We work together and I guess that's how synced we are.
05:36We work hard to be one and it's not easy.
05:40Again, I am saying that we both understand and I understand what true love means.
05:48Love is not just a feeling. Love means many things.
05:56Love means family, friends, money, religion, and a lot else.
06:05So, if you know what true love means, whatever your fight is, you will choose each other.