Some of my friends; http://groups.livevideo.com/group/iOpeners
Some more friends; http://www.911revolution.magnify.net/
As for me; Learning is the easy part. Prudently applying your recent knowledge is a bigger challenge. Focus on the potential instead of the pitfalls.
You sit with folded hands. Let them show you a better way. Skeptics are good listeners. Swallow that harsh response and be constructive. Maintain healthy skepticism about motivations and responses. You know exactly where charm will get you. Accept whatever payment is offered.
Laws are so beautifully engineered that while porn is illegal, it can legally be shown everywhere so that people (some call them "Sheople" as in "sheep people") will look at porn rather than look at what any government does not want you to see.